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So I need some advice on what I should do.
I was recently snooping on my computer and found in my wife's google history that she has searched for lesbian porn about 6 times in the past half year. This comes as a shock to me because she has always been kind of prudish and I never would have expected her to be masturbating to porn at all, let alone lesbian porn.
She has been going through a complicated pregnancy that has prevented us from having sex, it is not safe for us to do that. She has also been in pain and has not been up to really doing anything for me like blowjobs or handjobs and she doesn't want anything from me because she gets extremely triggered by getting eaten out from her being molested as a child.
I wonder why she would keep this secret from me? I feel like she should have some private things like this she can enjoy for herself but in the complete lack of a sex life for the better part of a year I wonder if my wife, the mother of my children, is secretly a lesbian? I wonder if her past prudishness in bed is actually her being a closet lesbian and not admitting it to me or her?
Help me /adv/ I need some guidance right now.
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>>17753110
Bump...
I am having a panic attack...
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or she bi
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>>17753110
A lot of girls watch lesbian porn without being lesbian.
I always preferred lesbian porn and I can't imagine myself having sex with a girl and have never been attracted to them.
I like the fact that it is more sensual, less "I'll hammer your pussy and make you suck my dick for 15 minutes", and in general it's less trashy.
Don't overthink it and let her masturbate to whatever she prefers.
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>>17753133
I don't have any presumptions that I can control what she will masturbate to. My dillemma is if I approach her about this or keep it to myself. I think I have to because I am feeling insecure from not having a sex life for over 6 months.
Should I be non-judgmental and open about it? All I want from her is the truth even if it is painful.
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>>17753110
Just come clean. Save yourself some torment.
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>>17753145
Why would you approach this? It's just a preference, and if she's prudish she'd probably be shy about it. A lot of people masturbate to things they'd never want in real life.
>I am feeling insecure from not having a sex life for over 6 months
It isn't because she doesn't want you or viceversa, it is just because of the difficult pregnancy and the sickness. Do not make a big deal out of it.
Ask her about it if you want, but you'd come off as insecure and a bit exaggerated.
Also, no one wants their partner to snoop in their google history and then comment about what porn they watch.
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>>17753151
I am trying to craft a way that makes it look like an accident.
I dont know. I fucked up didnt I?
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Op I watch gay porn and ejaculate to it but I'm not gay.
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>>17753151
The other part of this is that I am sexually enticed by the thought of her masturbating to lesbian porn. If I were open and non judgemental about it, I can maybe offer it as something we can try watching together to bring us closer together.
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