so fucking confused

>>17810601

You missed your chance and are retarded.

Yeah, what the fuck is going on?

>>17810611
What is going on is that you know you missed your chance and are retarded.

Dummeh.

>>17810607
>>17810615

Yeah I fucking know that

But why do I keep having this feeling of "I shouldn't have a girlfriend" when girls show interest in me. But then feel weird later on??

>>17810626
Do you feel you're not "boyfriend material", but at the same time lose opportunities to have one?

In other words, do you think a girl who gets into a relationship with you would eventually regret it due to certain things about you? Like, say, you have no job, or maybe no car, maybe still live with parents, anything of that nature that may be embarrassing but she'd eventually come to know about?

>>17810633

>Do you feel you're not "boyfriend material", but at the same time lose opportunities to have one?

YES

>do you think a girl who gets into a relationship with you would eventually regret it due to certain things about you?

YES


>Like, say, you have no job, or maybe no car, maybe still live with parents, anything of that nature that may be embarrassing but she'd eventually come to know about?

well life wise I'm decently successful, I have a good paying job, I've traveled around the world, and I'm pursuing my dream career at the moment.

But I just think a girl wouldn't like me for habits. and I just feel like I'm one of those people not meant for Love or relationship. Other people deserve that before me

>>17810646
Okay, what kind of habits do you have that you feel are detrimental to a relationship?

Also, you shouldn't say that about yourself. Everybody deserves somebody.

>>17810652

>Okay, what kind of habits do you have that you feel are detrimental to a relationship?

1. I don't celebrate or participate in holidays.
2. I don't like cuddling
3. Sometimes I get in a sort of "zoned out" mindset and just like, reflect on both good and bad experiences from the past and learn from them. But I'm very quiet when I get in this mood and I'm not talkative at all
4. I'm a pretty skinny guy, so I'm not very attractive. The only thing I have going for me is girls always compliment my Blue Eyes. But that's it, otherwise I'm not very good.

There is a lot more reasons Tbh

>everybody deserves somebody

I truly don't believe that. I saw a anon post this video on another thread. Even tho he's a comedian, it makes so much sense.

https://youtu.be/iqITqRWhpxg

>>17810683

Oh, no, I'm aware not everyone "gets" a girlfriend or whatever. But "deserve" and "get" are two different things. Just that I think everyone should have someone else that makes them happy.

As for the habits...
1.That's less of a big deal than you think.
2.Better get used to it, unless you can convince her you just have really bad personal space problems because that's the first thing people think.
3. Everyone has days like that, maybe not for the same reasons, but, they do. It's called a being moody.
4. Why's that matter if she was all over you? Clearly she found you attractive. Also, I know girls who have said verbatim they like skinny guys. That's a "type" people look for.

>>17810706

I still don't feel comfortable with the idea of having a girlfriend. something about it doesn't feel right. and I don't mean that girl specifically, I mean overall.

But what's weird is since I pushed her away, I just feel weird and spaced. It's a conflicting feeling