How do I stop falling in love with every woman I have a decent

Try talk to more girls and realize we're not all that special

>>17810737
Stop visualizing a future with them. Realize they were just being nice and they don't love you back.

>>17810737
I think I have the same problem as you except that I wouldn't call it "falling in love", it's more like I feel I should flirt with any good looking girl I have a decent conversation with.

>>17810745
Not OP but I did a mistake by imagining a future with her(because she was the 2nd female friend I ever made contact with) and now I regret it by a lot. A year of friendship later, I see her more as a sisterly figure that helps me a lot in college stuff but even if I planned to make a move, my life would've been a total distaster as she had a lot of other things going and she's elder to me by 3 years(she's in the same college as me tho.) I'm sorry Rinda.

Pretend they already have a significant other while you're chatting with them

>>17810737
Before I answer I'm going to ask:
How successful are you with girls?

>>17810737
>>17810750

Meet more girls. When you know like, two girls, you perception of friendship and mre than friendship is skewed. The more you talk with different girls, the less you'll obsess with them.

>>17810737
They don't love you and are trying to be nice.

I have this problem too. I just have to remember they might have someone else to love or would be a real shitty husband for me.