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She is 17, I am 22
Can you guys help me figure out whether or not I should ask her out?
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>>17819513
That's not enough to go off of
You'll make the better choice than anyone here
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Here is the deal, for one and a half years now I have kept myself from asking out a colleague of mine. I did this because of the age difference between her and I. Lately, my feelings are growing stronger and stronger. Much is due to me realising how she is constantly flowing me and making poses, accentuating her ass and so forth.
Should I go for it adv? Or should I compose myself and/or distance myself.
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>>17819530
Ask her out
Life's too short to worry about that shit
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I'm going to ecstacy for the first time in a few hours. I have pills containing about 240mg, a lot. Do I take half a pill or a quarter? I don't want to have a lame first time but I don't want to kill myself either.
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>>17819493
Don't be daft, start with half
how much do you weigh
If it's above 140 do half
You'll trip balls without dying but the come up might be a bit intense
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intelligent people microdose. that means taking a really tiny bit to see if you are averse to it or not. then up the dose gradually and stop at the desired effect and don't go further.
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>>17819493
oh and I don't know about the comedown of ecstasy, sorry. that is something to look out for if you're sensitive. can you take a smaller dose in the middle of the comedown to make it lighter?
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Hey guys! Alright so here's my situation. I asked this girl out and she said that we'd be better off as just friends. And that's cool I totally get it. But I going to this party today and I know for a fact that she's going to be there. I don't want to make things awkward for anybody...thoughts? Advice?
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Go there snd pretend she doesn't exist
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>>17819482
It's only awkward if you make it awkward
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>>17819485
OP here, that could work...but what if she calls me out on it??
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Alright medfags, I need to know what you think is going on.
I had to take my gf to the hospital last night.
Symptoms:
> severe headache
> severe stomach pain
Here's some background information that might be important
> this has apparently been a reoccurring problem for the last month or two
> she's on her period now
> she has history with anorexia
> she has a history of depression and she has had 3 suicide attempts
> she probably has a history of anxiety attacks and she said this might be a REALLY bad one or something
Opinions?
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this issue is probably transient and triggered by the anxiety
not a medfag just saying
if it isn't just some transient stress thing, it's probably not cancer. go to a fucking physician if you want diagnosis and treatment.
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>>17819480
I brought her to emergency care so they're trying to figure out what it is right now. They sent her to a room immediately (which she said it probably means it's something bad, but idk if that's reliable info)
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>>17819488
they probably sent her to a room because of her level of suffering, not because her condition is fatal or something. she probably needs a psychiatrist, although many of those suck.
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Militaryfag here, I need advice for a situation between my girlfriend and me. I'm a Marine in Japan and she's a freshman in college. We've been together for over 3 years and she's changed so much in college that at one point in time I thought she no longer wanted to be with me, so I ended it. We got back together within a week, neither of us had any doubts about it, but there was this guy who was her "friend" who was there for the rebound, and has had the biggest crush on her since she got there, and they kissed within a day after we broke up. They're still best friends, but she panics and has anxiety attacks when I get upset that they hang out. Literally all of her friends and family hate me b/c I'm the douchbag who dumped her and they all want her to get together with this other guy. She says she only wants me but she won't stop defending him or stop hanging out with him. It's tearing us apart. What do?
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She wants to have her cake and eat it too.
Leave her, for good this time.
This is a low quality woman and you can do better.
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>>17819441
That guy is valuable to her, in one way or another, whether you like it or not. You need to trust her not to cheat on you, or break up.
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>>17819441
Is she Japanese?
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Hello. This was posted before in a thread, but i'm making my own in hopes of better/more advices.
I got back with my ex. The only revelevant girl i've had. The only one i've loved, and cried for, and was loved by, for some time. However, she had lots of red flags, lots of flaws, and at the end of the relationship, she completely and utterly treated me like shit. I lost everything in an accident one week after. I called her because she was literally the last person alive that i've loved, from the house of a relative, in search of comfort. She just said ''Sorry for what happened, but it's not my problem.'' and hung up.
2 years after i've risen from the mud, beginning to rebuild myself, she comes back apologiing, promising changes, and wants to get back. Why did i accept? Don't know for sure. Maybe i wanted to feel like loving someone/something again. I've rejected many girls because i've been unable to connect with them. So i got back to my ex. I know, i feel ridiculous, pathetic and worth of any insults by just reading what i'm typing, but that's how it is. She still lives with her parents that hate me, she's yet to tell them, and i'm making this thread because maybe i can prevent further suffering for myself.
I don't love her at the moment. I don't feel anything, while she absolutely adores me, and is extremely happy by just being by my side. I was thinking that maybe i could re-develop love within time, that maybe i could turn this mistake into something good. But i don't know.
All i feel is hate towards how dumb i was and am. Clueless. Why the fuck did i disregard everything she's ever done and just accepted her? I keep asking myself that. I fear nothing, people see me as an example, a last bastion of ''Good Man'', in a world of ''boys'', and yet i've made this ridiculous mistake. Tell me what to do, /adv/. Or at least, put in words what i already know what to do.
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Fuck her in the ass with no lube then leave and block her from your life
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>>17819543
I told you what to do fgt. You know what to do, the right thing to do. You just want affirmation. Cut the trash out of your life and stop feeling sorry for yourself. And trust me this is coming from a guy who went through the same shit for 3 years, I was sick of it. Do what you gotta do.
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>>17819555
Should i give her some days? It's literally been a week, i don't know.
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How do I save marriage?
After 4 years my wife wants divorce because of some bullshit. There are some problems obviously (on both sides) but those are fixable - and I always thought that in marriage we should resolve problems and end up stronger.
I tried everything, even therapist and she is still "no I don't want to repair it". As last resort she moved to parents and mostly ceased any communication so we could think it thru.
It is not about money (she could fuck me over but didn't) and she do not have anyone else. It is just women bullshit and running away from problems in my opinion.
So is there anything I could do? Should I try to keep some conversation or maybe on other hand I should fully ignore her? Any ideas?
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how old are you both? what are the problems, specifically?
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>>17819423
31 and 32
We descended into "daily routine" life.
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You can't fix it on your own, it takes effort on both sides. She clearly doesn't want to fix it either. I'm sorry man, but it's bleak.
Bros
I'm going on a date with a girl who's into Fitness. She Dewey's to LA Fitness, and she works at a health store (GNC).
I just shitpost on 4chan and play video games, what are some questions I can ask her, or topics to bring up at cetera?
Please bros, I'll owe you guys one.
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>>17819401
*she goes to LA Fitness
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If you're a fat or even an unfit dude, she'll dump you for a buff guy from the gym anyway, don't bother.
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Just b urself
Seriously, the most important thing when talking is to listen and care about the subject at hand. Even if you know little about it, it would be an opportunity for you to learn.
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Hello /adv/,
I've been dealing with some itchy scalp for some time, mild dandruff.
After trying a few different things I think the core problem is that my scalp is dried out. The rest of my skin tends to dry as well, especially during the winter, and now that my hair has started to thin somewhat I think that my scalp is getting more and more exposed to the cold air.
Does anyone know a good scalp moisturizing cream? Ideally it would also have its own hold so I can moisturize my skin and style my hair in one step. I also plan on adding tea tree oil, using the cream to dilute it.
I want to avoid a morning beauty routine, hence my effort in combining things together. If anyone has any good suggestions or different ideas I'm all ears; I haven't been able to find any kind of moisturizing hair pomade or style gel thus far. Everything supposedly moisturizes the HAIR, but I want something for the skin, specifically.
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bump
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>>17819398
I started to use shampoo without parabin. If you can, ask your local hairdresser for advice.
I also started to use grapevine oil for my face to reduce flaking and itching.
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Coconut oil m8.
Before you shampoo, massage it into your scalp in the shower. Start with your forehead and move back, focusing on the itchy areas.
After that, use a gentle shampoo like Crew daily or something. Not anything harsh like old spice or dove for men. Chemicals in shampoo can irritate the scalp.
After you shampoo, use a moisturizing conditioner, again not one with damaging ingredients.
Try to keep shampooing down to once every 2-3 days. Too much shampooing removes your hairs natural oils.
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Does having small breasts mean you'll always be less of a woman? I've always been jealous of girls with bigger cup sizes because of how good they can look and how much attention they attract even if they put on weight. How do you get over something like that? I know my boyfriend likes women with large breasts and there's nothing I can do about it. It's not even a thing like small penises where they just stay hidden.
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I would say dick size being hidden vs breast size being known can be good or bad. If You have small tits, unless you're wearing some super stuffed magic bra then guys know what they're in for from the start.
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>>17819335
More than a handful is wasted.
Men notice big busts because they're literally sticking out and calling attention to themselves, but actually there are a lot of guys out here who very much prefer a perky 34B to a brushing-your-kneecaps larger pair.
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>>17819335
i personally think small breasts are very attractive so if he has a problem with how you look hes a dick
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I need to go back guys.
The two years I was stationed there were the best part of my life thus far, and I need to go back. life in America is killing me, it's drains my soul and decay my physical well-being.
Now I have two very specific requests of you /adv/.
I applied to Temple University Japan last semester, but due to my carelessness in high school they denied me, saying I need a better GPA, and can apply again only after I have taken 15 college credits.
So the first question is, what is the cheapest, easiest, online college that I can knock out 15 credits?(has to be online because my job now has me traveling up and down the west coast)
And the second, I picked up a bit of japanese living there, and even more when I took a class while I was in Japan, but since I came back, I havent been able to advance. I don't have the kind of focus to study things without a structured guideline/lessons to follow.
Rosetta is far too expensive and covers barely more than the basics from what I've heard.
I am willling to drop a sum of money on online lessons or software, no more than $200, but where should I look?
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I don't understand what you really want to do in Japan? Do you even want to study there? Or do you want to just have an extended vacation? Because there are easier way to get a visa.
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>>17819345
The long term goal is to live there. Temple is a way to get in, making the transition easier.
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>>17819361
>falling for the "living in japan" meme
what is this? 2006?? LMAO
Good luck, I can't help you with that. Try the Japan general thread on /trv/.
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How much of what /r9k/ says is true?
Do you really got to be a Chad to get a gf?
If you're not and get a gf, can you be cucked by Chad at any time?
Is there really no point in trying?
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r9k is the board for the mentally ill to be relegated to
then they formed a unique subculture and became sort of interesting
they're still all mentally ill, though. the validation they got from having a unique subculture only made them agree with each other and spout bullshit more loudly.
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>>17819315
Consider the source.
/r9k/ is populated by guys who select that channel of their own free will because they see themselves as losers. It is simple and natural psychology that they will hate women, just because they can't get one. And so absolutely EVERYTHING they say about women or Chads or sex or romance is wrong, because it is coming from such a twisted and angry source.
/r9k/ does serve a valuable purpose, by giving these boys a place to vent their bitterness and have others support and reinforce it. But it has nothing of value to say to anyone else.
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>>17819366
But it is populated by guys who can't get gf's...just like me. So by that logic, aren't they right?
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I just started taking Prozac. I don't feel anxious about anything anymore. My mother literally just came into the room to tell me how disgusting and disgrace I am for living at home at twenty and it didn't bother me like it used to.
Anywho, how does this shit affect grades/studying?
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> Prozac
> actualy working
Yea it works....If the problem is psychiatric. The thing is for me I had no mental illness. Just being an ugly male with terrible parents and a shitty school along with conservative therapists.
So no. It doesn't work for grades. Those are stimulants.
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>>17819302
>disgusting and disgrace I am for living at home at twenty
Explain to your mother that it's not 1960 anymore.
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It might increase your grades minutely. A content person is more likely to focus and study.
I'm glad the shit worked for you. Watch out for the decrease in sex drive, though.
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Girl advice.
I'm m, 27.
Never had a gf.
I started approaching girls a few weeks ago. I'm pretty nervous.
It's sort of working out. But I'm literally autistic.
Some suave way I got 2 phone numbers. But I honestly don't know what to say to a girl when I'm talking to them. Sometimes I just zone out, and I start thinking about something else.
Awkward periods of silence....thinking of saying something where we can generate a connection.
I'm not anxious anymore to be like "Hi" But I can do that, and then I got nothing else.
any help?
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>>17819258
>any help?
No, sorry, but here's another picture of a cat
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>>17819270
Thank you Anon.
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>I have a disease that makes it difficult to learn social skills. Should I spend any effort developing them when everyone else is?
>Nah I think I'll jack off to cartoons for another 15 years before realizing that this is a lonely, boring existence.
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Do women really have large amounts of dudes trying to crawl yo their ass all the time? Figuratively speaking of course. I am just one dude but I can't pursue women because I am overwhelmed by the fact that they have so many dudes after them. Surely one of those dudes are superior to me.
Women, do you really have like folders full of dudes chasing you that you could accept at any moment. Or beta orbiters in your phone that you can accept at any moment.
How the FUCK can I compete. My views may be skewed because of OkCupid. I went to message a nice average woman, funny, not fat, smart. I go to message and her inbox is full... WHAT?! Same thing happened again with other women's accounts.
Like how can I compete? This shit is soul crushing when you think about the shear volume of dudes chasing these women.
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>>17819221
Listen anon we do have a ton of guys after us at all times, I'm not gonna lie to you. But we know most of them are players so my advice to you is be honest, be caring, be strong in mind and character and finally, have self-respect. You will find a woman. Trust me on this. Good luck.
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>>17819221
I know you're expecting a woman's answer but are you seriously only finding that out now?
That's a huge part of why men and women act so differently.
They've got very different lives with different stuggles and advantages.
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>>17819221
>My views may be skewed because of OkCupid
they are because this is open to so many people in the real world its not dozens. I've always had men hit on me and that makes me weary but real guys, no more than 4 or 5 at a time I seriously consider