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What's this girl's deal? Is she interested or not? I can't get a good read on her.
>cute and smart 7/10
>work together on uni project and we start to text
>me doing most of the texting, she responds fairly well, tons of emojis
>invites me to a volleyball game last sunday, I said she had to take me sometime, didn't think it would actually happen
>she's touchy and lays her hand on my knee/thigh, laughs at shitty jokes, teases, the whole deal
>over the week, progressively less and less replies to texts, but still full of emojis
>I ask her out for some coffee this Saturday
>"I'm unfortunately busy Saturday"
>I ask if she'll give me a headsup if she got time some other day
>"yep :)"
What's up with her? It seemed like a sure thing on sunday. Is she pumping the brakes and flaking? Or is she just unsure and trying to slow down?
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>girl cancels once
>what's wrong??
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>>17820519
>What's up with her?
I've got a crazy idea. How about instead of asking a bunch of strangers on the internet to read this girls' mind you ask the girl herself.
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Asking strangers on the internet requires less balls though...
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Turning into a different person
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I really hate the person I am and the life that I live.
Is it possible for me to become a completely different person or would I at most just be living a lie?
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Thats very edgy
I suggest you think about this and spend some time growing out of it so you come with your own conclusion.
Specially the first sentence.
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>>17820503
Please explain how this is edgy you retard.
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>>17820512
If you are OP I don't think you should be calling anybody retarded...
I'm a kissless virgin which isn't that ugly, but i used to have very low self esteem.
It sort of changes, and I actually feel kinda more confident. However I'm still a procrastinating piece of shit and I want to change it.
So, I have 2 main problems and I really need help to improve on them:
1-How do I stop procrastinate and actually motivate myself to do the thing I want (learn music, working on my drawing skill) and actually fucking clean my shithole house (I just can't motivate myself to clean but at the same time I hate how fucking shitty it is)
2-the second one is kinda related to the ultimate question: women.
I'm not asking how to have a girlfriend I just want to address my biggest issue:
I'm actually afraid of being in couple but I also want to be in a couple.
I'm afraid of it because I never have been in a relationship, I never kissed, I never did anything.
At the same time, I feel my procrastination and shitty behavior is uncoherent with having a girlfriend.
In short: I KNOW why I'm a shitty virgin, but I'm afraid of women and want to finally change my shitty NEET behavior.
Thanks for the help.
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1. Stop buying in your own bullshit/excuses. "I can't do this today because I...." you get the idea. Your brain WILL try to talk you out of doing important things, and it's your job to catch yourself out, then go DO it. Think about why you SHOULD do it.
2. The only way to get good at anything is to practice to begin with. You can start small by chatting with mutual friends. What you talk about to girls doesn't really matter actually, just say what's on your mind, what's been happening, practice using statements instead of questioning all the time and you'll be fine.
You're on your first step to making it anon. Good luck brother.
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>>17820561
Thank you anon.
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>>17820486
>I KNOW why I'm a shitty virgin, but I'm afraid of women and want to finally change my shitty NEET behavior.
That's you motivation for self improvement. Work on your hobbies/responsibilities until you stop seeing yourself as a "shitty" anything.
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My girlfriend just had to leave me.. after a year of us being together and talking every day about our dreams and such... How can i kill myself? just give me some ways.. i really need to pick a way and do it.. its not worth living anymore.
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>>17820477
>After a year of us being together
>How do I kill myself
Hahahahahahahaahahahahhahhahahahahahahahahahahahaahahaha
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>>17820505
>how dare this person say he suffered when I have suffered more than him!
>I better let him know that his suffering is meaningless because of this!
Nice meme.
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>tfw relationship ended after 3 weeks we even held hands once
no reason to live anymore
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Is my sister normal and I'm the problem? Or is it her? 2016-12-03 23:56:45 Post No.17820471
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Is my sister normal and I'm the problem? Or is it her?
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I'd have to say my sister is one of the worst human beings that have ever been in my life. This is not just a petty bullshit kid thing about how my sister rats on me or gets what she wants. This is the real deal. She is 18 and I am 23. When I was 17 I was put in a psychiatric ward and put on medication after I attempted suicide. Ever since then she has asserted the authority she somehow thinks she has over me and constantly belittles me by calling me sick in the head, nuts, a loser and a waste of space. Just today she said that she wants me to try to kill myself again and succeed so I won't ruin her life anymore. She also yells at me for everything and makes fun of my close friends meanwhile she has only artificial friends because she drives everyone around her away. She always rubs down my throat how she's better than me and more successful than me and that I'm never going to be successful. She also blames all the family problems on me and always sides with my dad who wants to throw me out. She and I still live with our parents. she goes to college and I graduated. Yet she constantly rubs in all the things she does like mock trial and student council even though I did all the same things in college. I want to think I am being petty and this is normal between siblings but I really can't take her anymore. I can truly say that I don't have a single ounce of love in my heart for her any longer after what she's said and done to me and shit on me and everything that had to do with me. Is it me or is it her?
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If this is how you feel about her you should try to talk to an impartial judge and try and get her to speak to them as well.
Only someone who hears both sides can help the two of you.
No one on /adv/ is a reliable narrator and this issue is to complex for any advice that isn't "Seek proper advice."
You never know what damage your suffering may have done to her, I believe it is worth at least doing what I said above so the two of you can move on in a cordial manner as opposed to this deeply toxic loathing that appears to be rife.
Good luck.
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She' s what is called, clinically, a BITCH. Can't believe you have to ask anybody. Shitty human being. Ignore and pay her no attention because she gets off on it. She is mentally ill for sure and must be miserable or she wouldn't try to make everybody else miserable. I bet she's fat and ugly. You could always just call her fat and that usually drives them nuts.
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>>17820471
>types all of the things she does
>makes no mention of what he could be doing
>is it me or is it her?
well good thing I got a totally unbiased window into your life OP
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>too muscular for the artsy kids ("dude you're shoulders are huge bro" -in a mocking way)
>too artsy for the athlete Chads ("what weird hipster music is this lol faggot gtfo")
>too edgy for the straight edge kids ("woah no one is trying to get wasted here anon")
>too straight edge for the le-edgy kids ("why aren't you popping benzos with us you pussy")
who am I and why do I have an identity crisis
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You are a person who places a huge weight on what others believe.
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>can't take bantz
>develop inferiority complex
>complain on /adv/
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>>17820450
>what weird hipster music
Consuming media doesn't make you artsy, faggot.
>who am I
It depends on your actions, and slightly on the motivation. What do you do? Why do you do it?
>why do I have an identity crisis
Because you're a teen or underdeveloped adult.
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>meet a perfect girl
>shes hot, funny, and just very cute overall
>we're barely friends but i have her number and we talk from time to time on social media etc.
How is the best way to proceed from this situation? I think it's a little too early to just start hitting on her, but I also know that I need to get my shit straight if I really want to go for her. I'm quite a sperg and all of my romantic/sexual encounters have started from the girls initiative every time, so I'm quite clueless when it comes to this.
The problem is that we have fun together but I have no idea how to make a move on her. We can joke around, laugh and so on but I never get to that next step.
We've been friends for a VERY short period of time, and I want to make a move before its too late.
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How long exactly have you been friends? Just tell her you like her bruh. Before it's too late.
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>>17820734
Less than 2 weeks.
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>>17820434
>>17820781
Stop building her up in your head. She is not perfect, you don't even know her.
Now, once your expectations are in order, you can start flirting. You can try by text, but it would be better in person. Hang out with her and flirt dude.
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what are some examples of dressing so badly that people will notice?
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Unclean clothes
Unflattering clothes
Clothes that are too big or too small
Clothes that are clearly too old and worn out
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>>17820426
Not OP but I'm guilty of all but the first.
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I've gotten to the point that I just didn't give a shit about clothes. I'll wear the same 2 hoodies and pajama pants, to go to the store or quik chek or whatever. So when I wear something remotely nice, people give me compliments.
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How do you cope with being ugly and undesirable?
I resent how unattractive and unwanted I am. I don't resent women for it, I mostly near myself up because I can't give women what they want and I can never keep them interested. As a man I am expected to always initiate, lead and maintain relationships, and I feel like a failure because I can't. What should I do?
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>>17820386
>near myself up
Should be *beat myself up
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>>17820386
post pic and i will tell
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>>17820391
I can't because I'm on the phone. Can we just assume for the sake of the thread that I am?
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Hey, I need of some advice/perspective here.
I've been in a relationship for about 2 and a half years now (I'm 23, she's 20), we're young, very close, we talk openly about anything and everything, and we've always had a high sex drive.
I'll try to keep it short: We're into bdsm and she's into being submissive, I buy her toys, etc... Which I think is healthy for our relationship.
She had just turned 18 when we started dating, from a really small town, outback, and I couldn't keep away this thought that maybe we started dating too soon, and that I robbed her of experiencing being single, as in getting to fuck other guys.
We're very happy, affective, she can't sleep unless we're cuddling, we are very emotionally dependent on each other and I don't have any plans to leave her. As much as we enjoy playing sub/dom, I've never restricted her of anything that would impact her social or personal life, as it should be.
About 3 months ago, I started to notice she was talking a lot about/to a guy she met.
I knew from the start this wasn't a typical "new friend" situation, she was talking to him a LOT, like waking up in the middle of the night to reply to his texts.
I know it was shitty of me doing this, but after a few days, jealousy got the best of me, but not only jealousy, the main impulse was curiosity.
I got her phone while she slept and found out she was sexting with this guy, and already had plans of meeting him.
She woke up, we talked about it for hours, she "was going to tell me but didn't know how"... She apologized a lot, cried a lot, and I know her well enough to know it was sincere regret.
They hadn't done anything yet, but I still felt betrayed. Not because of the sexting, but because she did it behind my back.
Once we talked it through, already in the morning, she got her phone to delete his number and, unfuckingbelievaly, I stop her.
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I still don't how to feel about this decision, but it was a selfless one, I wasn't getting anything out of this, just giving her the chance to enjoy herself.
The first time they fuck, I basically guided her on what to do (via instant msg) because she literally didn't know what to say, and the dude is also very shy.
She gets home the next day and tells me everything that happened, we fuck for the rest of the day.
She went out with him one more time after that. They still talk.
The problem is now that it happened, I don't know how to feel about it, and I don't know where I stand in our relationship now.
I feel good that she gets enjoyment out of it. And I feel like a delusional cunt trying to convince myself that I'm not a cuck.
I have nobody to talk about this, I've written too much already, and it feels like I could use the help of anonymous strangers.
TL;DR
I let my girlfriend fuck another guy and realized non-monogamy is fucking hard.
What do I do to not feel like I've ruined our relationship?
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>>17820377
I didn't know there was a character limit (or that I had written so much). Had to split it in two.
I'll be here to answer questions, etc.
Also, bump.
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>>17820377
You feel like you ruined it because you did.
You can either talk to her to get her to stop seeing that guy or anybody else again but obviously the damage has been done to you.
Id say break up, but you know your relationship more than me.
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realizing she isnt the one for me.
is it fucked up to break up with a girl that is heads over heels for you,
or is it more fucked up to keep it going
bonus: how do i break up with her?
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>>17820355
Just tell her straight up. Let her know exactly and when things changed. The worst thing is being led on or given false feelings.
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She would not think a second about you had her chemistry worn out.
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>>17820382
even if we have a date tonight? i really dont want to go
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What does /adv/ think about long distance relationships?
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>>17820330
>They are for sad faggots who cant get a proper relationship irl
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>>17820330
autism
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They are for sad faggots who cant get a proper relationship irl with another person so they retreat to the lonely lives in front of their computers to try to score with internet ladies who are equally sad as them (if not more, considering how easy it would be for them to get a partner if they are not disgusting land whales)
There you go kid. My 2 cents. enjoy.
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It's starting to bother me more and more that i will proably never have children. I guess, personally it's not that important. However, my buddy and my cousin recently had children and my dad keeps telling me things like "it's abnormal to not want to have children", because he wants grandchildren. Lets just say im starting to feel the peer pressure.
On the other hand, it's kind of outside of my control, because it all comes down to finding a girl i like who will accept me, and i have never done that. Im 29 and i've never had a girlfriend, so yeah.. it's probably something with me.
Why do i have to go through so much bullshit just because i happen to be who i am? Girl don't like me, im sex starved, im lonely, i've gotten self esteem issues and depression and now this children thing, for fucks sake..
I just want to live my life, but life forces me to become a normalfag, or try to be like one even when im severly disadvantaged at that game. I don't even want to play.
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>>17820285
>Why do i have to go through so much bullshit just because i happen to be who i am?
No one's entitled to have other people attracted to them, you fuckwit. You can't be unattractive and complain that people aren't attracted to you, it comes with the territory. It's like being fat and complaining that size XS doesn't fit you.
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>>17820297
But when you're fat you can atleast do something about it.
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>>17820297
I mean, honnestly, i don't think there is much i can really do. I think i've tried most things.
It would be a relief to know exactly what i should do to not be unattractive.
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Met a girl on tinder.
Got her phone number
startted texting, she isnt texting anymore but viewed my messages....
I dont see anything that I could've done to upset her...
it is bad, isnt it?
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>>17820271
Chad is texting her on the other line
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>>17820271
very bad
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I got some spoiled drunk asshole kids credit card detail along with his ID. What should I do with this? and how do I do it wisely so it doesn't get tracked back to me?
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You don't do anything because it's fraud and he's just going to be able to have the credit card provider reverse the charges anyway.
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>>17820193
he's not losing any money, I'm not losing any money if I can get away with it, right?
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>>17820197
The chances of you getting away with it are next to none. Credit cards are traceable as fuck.