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My best friend's ex girlfriend died by a car wreck and I'm the only one that's happy about it. Some back story.

>high school sweethearts
>he is a softie and she is a hardie
>lives off welfare like the rest of her family
>emotionally abuses him during college
>cheated 3 times on him, has an active tinder
>gets him addicted to adderall
>4 months later after breakup
>she dates someone else and messes with my friend
>one night a tree falls on her car and kills her instantly
>was shocked at first but lost interest
>visit facebook a few months later, people are mourning for her left and right to this day
>talk to some friends about it
>they think i am crazy for thinking she deserved it
>now all my bestie does is smoke weed
>acts completely different, never wants to talk anymore and never laughs/jokes like he used to
>told him if anythig is wrong let me know several times
>nothing

I am pretty sure I lost all of my friend's trust in this. I haven't talked to my best friend about it. What do?
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This is obviously the sort of thing you should have kept your mouth shut about and just gone along with what everyone else is saying, but clearly you lack the social skills to know when tact is necessary.
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>>17820183
They kept talking about it so I spoke up.
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>>17820196
Clearly you need to learn when to keep your mouth shut then. You don't stay friends with people who disagree with you, especially when you're talking about someone who fucking died, I'd be surprised if they DID want to stay your friend after that.

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When/How often should I motorboat my wife's tits to satisfy her?
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>>17820111

S A G
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F A G
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Once a fortnight if u overplay it it loses the magic
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>>17820111
STRETCH MARKS
also see >>17820115

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I don't think /fit/ involves general "health" anymore, so I'm asking here.

A friend said my nails were weird looking about 3 months ago. Ive been self-conscious of them ever since. I'm in my mid twenties and never thought about my nails much before. I bite them, so I've always been a little self-conscious of them but never to any sort of extreme like I am now. Should I be concerned? Read a little online and I can't tell if my nails fall into a health concern or not to be honest.
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>>17820110

Look fine to me. A little too short. You probably have weak nails.

Anyway, don't bite your nails, you aren't 12.
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>>17820121
Very hard habit to break since I've been doing it since probably before I was 12.

I do have weak nails however. I've really tried forcing myself to not bite them for a good while, but tend to cave eventually. Though when they do get a bit of length on them, they bend and feel weak as hell. Any way to maybe change that?

Thanks for a little reassurance though mate.
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They're a million times better than my brother's or my friend's. Seriously though, stop biting them. Do what you can to stop

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I have a problem with irritability.

Normally I am not a very angry person. I'm fairly chill. I do not like getting angry with people. Often times when people talk to me I can get very irritable but I am very careful to keep this feeling to myself, because more often than not these people do nothing to make me feel this directionless sense of crankiness. This isn't just anyone either, it's close loved ones; my mom, my dad, my grandmother, a close friend, etc.

Recently I got into an argument with a friend of mine. I let slip that I find it annoying when my dad calls and stays on the phone for extended periods of time without saying anything ("hanging out" over the phone I guess), and my friend does this too.

I tried to make it sound better because she seemed to be taking it very personally, even though she said it didn't make her angry. But I can tell it did. She pretty much told me she feels like she can't trust me with her problems, which hurts, because I've been nothing but supportive and empathetic to her.

This doesn't happen all the time I speak with people, but it happens often. What can I do about this feeling of directionless anger I feel when people talk to me? Am I an autist doomed to be alone?

I have GAD and depression, and I've heard irritability with loved ones is a symptom of anxiety disorders, if that helps.
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This is just a symptom of your disorder
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>>17820076
So there's nothing that can be done?

I'm planning on talking to my friend about it. I made it clear that it wasn't her fault that I get annoyed, but she made it clear that she didn't trust me anymore because I suppress this emotion.

I guess I just have to cope?
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Anon. This is beyond the scope of what this website can help you with. You need a professional for this.

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I have a perfect girlfiend, ask me anything.
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It's because you don't have kids.
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>>17820080
OPs world is shattered
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>>17820080
REKT

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I'm 20 years old guy and I never felt true attraction to anyone

First thing I do when someone shows too much interest in me is to stop it. Whenever I kinda want to be with someone is mostly to feel how it is to be with someone, not because I truly want this person. When other people ask me who I like I always try to avoid answering that because I cant truly tell and I would feel obliged by whatever I say.

Does anyone else here is similiar to me in that regard? How do you live with that? I don't feel very lonely but maybe I'm missing out.
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You're probably just pic related
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>>17820068
Come on. Am I just edgelord for not feeling attraction to others?
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>>17820077
Yeah most likely

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So I random added a girl on facebook which I don't even have mutual friends with. To my surprise, she accepted. What can I say to not come off like a total creep? Is the fact that she accepted a sign that she at least have some interest? She is 19 and I 22
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why did you add her
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>>17820041
Some.ppl just add whoever and some people only add ppl they know or are interested in. Not really enough info to know for sure try commenting on she posts or pm her
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Depends
>Are you attractive?
Then whatever you say she'll probably take as a complement
>Are you not attractive?
Then whatever you say will most likely be taken as creepy.

That's just how the world works, sorry.

How do you get out of hoping for the fantasy world where your ex contacts you and says "Omg I'm so sorry, I love you, I need you, please take me back, I'm desperate for you" ?
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forget 3D entirely and turn to superior 2D waifus
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>>17819993
Don't be a faggot and just move on.

If she dumped your ass it means she can do it again, and also desperation is never a positive or endearing thing
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>>17820003
Every time I contact her she gets back with me for a few weeks. But she never contacts me first, she says she's "scared I'll reject her" when that's literally never happened

I feel like she legitimately just doesn't want me anymore and she gets back with me for pathetic pity reasons rather than really really wanting me back, that's why she never contacts me first

But she says otherwise. It's disorienting psychologically.

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It's Sunday morning where I live and I have nothing to do all day but lay in bed and browse 4chan. What are some less miserable things I could do to pass the time, which don't require any money or friends?
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>>17819919

Age? Goal in life?

>no money
>no friends
>wut do

The answers is always "Work on getting some money and friends."
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Torrent a program

Like photoshop
Or fruity loops

Read a book
Write something
Workout
Learn to cook
Go for a walk
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>>17819941
/thread

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i've been eating nothing but porridge, polenta, and noodles for the past week and i'm feeling mentally out of sorts with no energy
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that's a pretty shitty diet
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Yes it can. Your diet is crap, so it makes sense your don't feel good.
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Most definitely.

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Hello.

I have recently been thinking about the effects of frequent masturbation. I usually go for 3 times a week, or if I'm excessively horny I do once a day but that's rare.

Are there any bad sides to masturbation?

I think I have a pretty good schedule. Not feeling any sort of bad side effect. But just to be sure I should ask someone else.

Pic is not me, and unrelated.
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3 times is decent
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there are no downsides, fap happy!
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i think once a day its ok.
if dont disturb your life, its ok

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I bought a punching bag and a speed bag combo last week and it comes in by next week the latest. What are some good workouts for someone who has never boxed before but wants to just learn the basics and get in shape? I also have a jump rope. Also what are some good meals to eat for energy to box, I heard it takes alot of stamina to follow a good workout for boxing.
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>>17819843
I was actually considering boxing as a way to get some additional exercise beside the regular workout routine.
The thing is i'm a student in a dorm so i'll have to stick with shadowboxing..
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You build up stamina and endurance through conditioning. If you don't know what that means. It means that it takes time to build up a tolerance basically, and to be able to train longer. To get their though you need the proper nutrition to build on.

Energy comes from carbs. You want to eat slow digesting carbs about 30-60 minutes before a workout. About 20-40 grams. If you want a little extra pep then drink a cup of coffee too. Personally I like a cup of black coffee before a workout as opposed to a pre-workout drink.

As far as exercises go. I have no idea. I don't into cardio.
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hopefully you bought a 100lb bag. The 60lb bags are for grade school kids. You'll need hand wraps. Buy the 16oz gloves to train with.
Basically just work on your form and combinations. Eventually the combinations become second nature. Form is important because that's where you get power. Get a time clock and do 3 minute rounds with the bag and one minute off. your goal should be 12 rounds.
by this time your seeing they make it look real easy on tv.

Desperation here. I don't know what to do. IN the past 5 years I have survived a significant natural disaster- been part of the first responders- been overseas with the army and seen combat-my mother died of dementia-i do not like my wife anymore (she simply can't deal with the issues from the war which is fair enough I suppose) - my best friend is dying of cancer in front of my eyes- and just last night i had to shoot a much loved family pet that was injured. It seems like I have just run out of energy. I don't like anything anymore. Please help.
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Do you have someone to talk to? consider therapy.
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>>17819839

Can't- I have a job that requires high resilience and its a career ender. And, I am really not sure if going over " that time we saw the IED aftermath" is something i could deal with.
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>>17819846
Sounds like a shitty career
Consider quitting

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I'm in my senior year and I'm really confused.

In one side I have /pol/ telling me that I should go to trade school, in the other side I have my teachers that tell me to go college and get a degree (which I cannot pay of course).

Which side is right?
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Don't fall for the college meme, you will spend 30 years trying to pay off your debt. Just go to a trade school.
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Trade school is safer than college atm
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>>17819836
>>17819838

I really like fixing computers and other electronics since I was a child.

Should I go with that?

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I am going to buy a gaming PC and I noticed this used one only for $270. But then I noticed that this same person is all over the place with used techs at only $270. It seems to good to be true, but my friend says that it is a company.

What should I do?
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it's probably filled with garbage low quality parts that will explode if you look at your computer funny.
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What are the specs
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>>17819806

Scam. A passable computer is $700+ refurbished

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