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>tfw I'm expected to go to college and get a real job
>tfw I'll become a wagecuck
>tfw even small time drug dealers will always make more money than me with less effort
>tfw society tells you the drug dealers are the bad guys
>tfw society tells you it's cool and okay to smoke marihuana

How am I supposed to stay motivated given these facts?
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by having some self decency, and investing your money instead of buying shit
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>>17828086
By self decency you mean not becoming a drug dealer?
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>>17828066
Generally speaking, wagecucks tend not to get murdered by rival wagecucks or spend sizeable portions of their lives in prison being Bubba's special little friend

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My debt is making me depressed and anxious all the time. Lost my job as i got made redundant and had to move back home and take a shitty waiter job. Get $400 roughly a week but after expenses only have about 250 left. I have about 6k owing on credit cards. I feel like im drowning. Should i try and get a loan to pay them off. This shit is stressing me out to no end
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Get a better waiter job
I used to make 300 in one night
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>>17828005

thats not bad at all man, stop whining. even if you kept this job indefinitely, it would only take 2 years (plus a few months for interest) to pay it off.

>should i get a loan to pay off my debt

then you'd just have debt in the form of a loan. that being said, YES, if you can get a better interest rate, but loans tend to have rougher payback options. credit cards are ahppy to collect 36 bucks a month if you dont have anything else. loans not so much
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>>17828465
Why isn't their a personal finance class in high schools that's mandatory
It's just as important as health class

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I need to find my place in the world or it will kill me

I'm 20-something, and every around me is slotting away into normal lives, but I just can't do it

I never did well in school, never got into college
never had relationships with girls, these days I'm barely interested in them at all
I'm working menial jobs I hate, alongside people who just switch their brains off for hours
some people had passions they could turn into careers, but not me
I traveled, but never found anything out there that grabbed me
brushed with drugs and crime, they got some of my friends but I stayed out of it

people say I'm an army kind of guy, but between the poor culture/low pay/minimum service period it's just not worth

I know it's a broad question to ask strangers, but even if you dont have an answer some indication of how to work it out for myself would be great
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>>17827978
sokanu.com

It's not a definite thing but a jumping off point

The best thing that worked for me is just trusting my gut and doing what I like

Life is a little bit like Tetris, you can only see the next block and stack one by one
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>>17828029
I took some career tests back in school

one scored anomalously, one said I should be in a leadership position, one said I should be an accountant

I'l give it a try, thanks anon
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>>17827978
Not everyone is meant for college - no, that sounds too judgmental, let me rephrase it.

College can't offer everyone what they need.

Maybe you will be a happy, fulfilled person in some field that isn't academic. The world will always need expert plumbers. And electricians, bus drivers, barbers, cops, mailmen, truck drivers, construction workers, shopkeepers, firemen, etc - all respectable and well-paying professions.

Hi,

Feelings dumbed down since about more than 5 years. Anyone knows how you can open up your feelings or emotions again?
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I'm pretty surprised about the time period since it's the same one as mine.
Anyway, I'm following because I'm interested in any answer you get.
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>>17827925
Fly a drone into a friends window. It won't break the window........................ maybe.
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>>17827959
Well it's longer, I 'm 24 now, since 16/17 feelings are dumbed down.

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I want to upload a video to YouTube. The idea is I have two mp3s, one is a song, one is moreover a sound effect in mp3 format. I want to add the sound effect to the song at certain points and upload it to youtube, but I have no idea where to start.

Can anyone help?
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>>17827921
pirate sony vegas pro off of thepiratebay, then layer them on top of each other in the editor

i swear to god you post 9/11 kids are so lazy
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>>17827926
Thank you.

You know... Millenials, although slow, and dangerous behind the wheel, can serve a purpose!

Don’t you go dyin' on me now!
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>>17827921
Windows movie maker

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Don't know if this is the place to talk about this but i'm getting so annoyed by "redpill" stuff

"redpilled" people think they discovered the unspeakable TRUTH about how everything works

>MUH MODERN SOCIETY IS AWFUL
>MUH ALL WOMEN ARE WHORES

They see themselves as illuminated people, while they're mostly easily influenced bitter robots who basically gave up on everything, and found out about these "FACTS" about society, which reassures them on their positions
>oh i'm only a failure because society is this way

It's pretty funny to see people that spend their days on the internet trying to teach you how life works. I might be projecting, but in reality, you will never see a successful person, financially, with women, and all, with a redpilled mentality

To me it's the complete opposite of self-development, and it's really toxic.
On the other hand i absolutely love reading redpill stuff saying that i shouldn't bother with what i currently do because i'll inevitably fail, since i take enormous pleasure in doing what people tell me i can't do

So please, if you're here looking for advice, be really careful with redpill stuff, most of it is bullshit. Obviously some of it might be accurate advice but for me it's always a red flag if something is labeled "redpill" (not even gonna talk about political redpill but it's the same)

I'd much rather take the blue pill and live my life with dreams, hope, and hard work in order to achieve those

Discuss.
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>>17827907
this is /adv/, not /r9k/, though

also, ugly people are forced to take the red pill because they're being treated like shit

and attractive people can stay deluded because of the aura effect
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>>17827907
I agree, it is really toxic. But you have to let them be angry, they'll all probably eventually calm down. Even as a femanon, I can kind of sympathise with some aspects of it, however I find a lot of the overt misogyny extremely uncomfortable.
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>>17827919
>this is /adv/, not /r9k/, though
I know, i posted here because i like this board and i see redpill stuff being posted here from time to time
I tried to lurk on /r9k/ once or twice and it's honestly the saddest place i've ever seen on the internet
To put a little context i wanted to write this because i recently came across a huge redpill article about relationships, that stated stuff like "there is no THE ONE", "no girl is irreplaceable" etc
I've been in a relationship for quite some time now with the same girl, and i honestly think she is "THE ONE". Fuck, i wanna spend my life with this gal if i can. And it pisses me off that some randoms on the internet want to make me think all of this is an illusion and all. Of course "THE ONE" is a very abstract concept and everyone is replaceable. Of course there's probably a girl out there somewhere with whom i'd get along even better than my gf.
But what i feel for her (something people like that will probably never know) is something i can't explain and i want to put as much effort as possible into being the best guy for her, instead of giving up because "it's all false anyway".
God that mentality pisses me off.

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>Look sort of feminine but still a boy
>Have fantasies of being a cuteboy like the ones anons post
>Scared to death of getting older than 25 and becoming uglier and more masculine and hitting the cut off for being a cutie boy
>Constantly paranoid of losing any hair because that would ruin my chances of being cute even though I'm only 19
>Realize I am the result of an attempt by the jews to weaken and feminize our society
>Even though I realize this I still can't bring myself to like the idea of being a masculine man and I still wish I looked like a qt/trap/femboy and it makes me angry

How do I reconcile this within myself? I feel a lot of cognitive dissonance all the time and it stresses me out
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>>17827904

Act masculine in public, since that's what society expects of you.

Act feminine in private, since that's what your degenerate brain (and the evul jews) craves :3
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>>17827904
Just tie a strap around your junk until the extreme blood loss causes your 'dick n balls' to rot off so you can have your sick fantasy wish slut boy.
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>>17827927
I'm not a degenerate it's not my fault, and the fact that they want it makes me mad

>>17827944
but I like my penis, I just wanna be a cute boy but I hate that I want it

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Anyone else not know where they're going I life?

>Be me
>18
>Just finished first semester at CC
>Already registered for next semester classes, currently heading towards an "Associate of Arts" degree
>Still have no clue what the fuck I want to be in life, if anything. Too depressed to really focus on a set goal or career for that matter
>Trying to get a job, applied everywhere with no results

I'm basically just floating around anons. I have about a month or so until school starts back up again. What can I do?
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>>17827883
Try yoga man. Really helped me a lot.
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>>17827883
https://actualized.org/
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>>17827883
1) realize that your economy is fucked because of shitty politicians selling out for corporate bribe money
2) buy that gun
3) change the world instead of wasting away as another slave to the jews

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How do you make sex work out when a girl won't get wet?
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>>17827853
There's a pose that women enter when being hit that is the best position to make sex work. If you beat a woman she'll adopt this pose and her vagina opens up that will allow you to insert your penis and fuck her while doing the least damage to her.
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Lube
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>>17827853
If you don't like lube, go down on her.

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Was at a dinner party at my gf house last weekend. She invited all her friends from her old sorority.

At the end of the dinner they all got really drunk and started reminiscing about their sorority days. They all talked this guy who they thought was a huge jerk but for some reason they giggled about how huge his cock was.

I couldn't believe it, I've never felt more awkward.
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>>17827850
yeah yeah that totally happened. This same old thread

Move along now nothing to see here.
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>>17827850
await getting cucked!
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I've been starting to work with this female coworker from a different department on a project. I've known about her for a few months now; she is single and, in short, wife material, and I don't want her to be the one that got away.

My interactions with her have been limited so far, but she's been friendly with me in conversations and skype messaging, which doesn't say much, I know. I've given her longing gazes to indicate interest, and she's returned eye contact, but I don't know if she gets it and if I'm coming across as creepy.

She comes by my office once in a while but because of security, she has to be escorted in, and I'm going to give her my number so she can text me when she's outside. I'm planning to also to add in "or if you need anything else" as a hint.

Is this a bad idea? I don't want to be too aggressive so soon, but am I also playing it too safe?
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>>17827835
>wife material
Stop with this shit, women are women.
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>>17827835
Bretty gud idea with the message. Proceed
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>>17827845
Not trying to be a wk, but it doesn't seem like she's been on the cc.

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Dear anons,
I am a social introvert, an awkward sort of person who wants to die. I don't want to die for my families sake, but I don't see the point in continuing life otherwise. I don't have the energy or emotional capacity to seek fulfilling relationships. I have no clue how to reforge my passion for my own dreams and creativity.
I have job, hate job, only covers maybe half my life budget but good benefits. Was going to go to school but fuck student loans.

Wut do?
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>>17827832
Find a less draining job maybe?
idk. It's a terrible place to be in, and you have my sympathy.
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>>17827865
OP here.
I am seeking one as we speak. Other than this I have no idea what to. I want to re-kindle the spark of passion I've had before in my life but it seems I'm literally forcing it. I don't want to hurt the people who love me but I need something else to hold on to. Something that let's me bond with other peoples, kek.
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>>17827898
What were you passionate about beforehand?

Hey , /adv/ !
Some weeks ago I've posted a similar question but I'll give it another go .
So , background info I'm 22 , uni student . Average looks , quite likeable personality ( based on peers opinion , they say it often ).
I'm not a kissless virgin , but I have problems with relationships . Thing is , I didn't have any girlfriends.
I've tried to find a solution and the problem boils down to I'm not really motivated to build relationships with women . I can hold conversations ( both online and IRL ) , but it feels like a chore. I've tried to find girls with similar interest , but not really helped much .
As I've said , I've lost my v card , so woman aren't uninterested in me , but I just can't find one I'm interested in.
Any ideas ? Anyone had similar problems ?
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>>17827791
sorry i dont understand.

you dont want a girlfriend right? you dont like talking to women and have no motivation to date one.
also you do not have a gf.

whats the problem?
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>>17827791
Your prefrontal cortex isn't functioning properly. It's okay. I know that lack of feel. You'll be fine.
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>>17827803
I know , it's complicated.
I do want a girlfirend , I feel that void of love in my life .
It's just a chore to talk to them and after I while I just move on to talk to another girl . It's really strange I have no problems talking to even the most boring of my acquaintances .
>>17827804
I've contemplated that I'm autistic and I just can feel romantic love, but the said void exists . Any ideas how to become asexual tho' ?

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I lost my virginity to my long term boyfriend and I'm feeling a little insecure. His ex had many sexual partners before him and she was very experienced whereas I had no experience...I was a kiss less virgin. Our first kiss was awkward because I didn't know what to do. I feel like I have got the hang of things but sometimes my bf will tell me to do other things or to stop doing things a certain way and it makes me wonder if his ex would do everything right. Once he said 'I like getting my back scratched during sex' then I tried it only to have him tell me I'm doing it wrong. Another time he told me he really enjoyed making out wih this one girl who would bite really hard, i tried it...yet again, told me I did it wrong. I feel hopeless....I just want to make him feel good and I can't.
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I guess the question is how do I improve? Or is he being harsh?
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>>17827788
>>17827805
>he told me he really enjoyed making out wih this one girl who would bite really hard, i tried it...yet again, told me I did it wrong

lmao this fucking guy

>how do I improve
by getting a new bf
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he's not being harsh, he's telling you what he likes, thats necessary for a healthy relationship. The only way to improve is like in anything in life, by failing. Just keep trying your best, thats all you can do, don't overthink it. The way your doing things is surely awkward and forced, because you've never done them before, thats to be expected though, everyone is there at one point, just keep trying, experiment with these things until you eventually do it in a way that feels right and natural

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I just ate an entire bag of these with sauce

help me /adv/ my stomach hurts really bad, i tried to take a dump but nothing comes out.
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>Torula Yeast

Do NOT drink any water unless you want to go into toxic shock when your stomach ruptures.
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>>17827756
Shit i already drank a fuck ton of water because it was so spicy
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What you need to do is drink some milk, and go for a jog.

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