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I'm a "nice guy"
25 years old, managed to lose my virginity when I was 24 by faking positive feelings with a girl who was bipolar.
But those times are gone, now I find it hard to make friends and women are not interested in me at all. I've never had a real long term relationship and my childhood was me being heavily spoilt and devoid of any discipline so I am very solitary in my behavior and I don't think to reach out to others.
I am however told that I'm kind and polite but other people who know me think I'm rude and inconsiderate.
I break down and cry about once a month and I eavesdrop on people's conversations and decide that I hate them, lots of weird shit that a stable person wouldn't do.
I'm rambling because I drank tonight, I wish I was normal and I just want a woman that loves me and guide me when I fuck up but instead there are women who want to be pampered and I can't provide anything for them. I hate my life
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>>17842923
Women dont like nice guys. Why is that so hard to understand
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>>17842934
I know that, I'm not happy that I am.a nice guy by nature but I don't know what I'd have to do to stop it
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>>17842943
Stop going out of your way for women. Its really easy since it makes your life better as well.
My parents could have been having a so comfortable life if I don't exist. I just want them to be happy and live well. I feel like a weight. I really wish I didn't exist. Would suicide, but don't want to cause pain to them. I just wanted to take this from my chest.
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Anon, I thought the same way too, until my parents put it to me this way:
One day I remarked on how I felt awful because I had to make my mom cut it short with some of her friends so she could pick me up, how her life would be better without me, etc. But then she pointed to the back seat, where my lil spaniel named Bandit was sleeping, and she said,
>"You love him right?"
>yeah
> "Do you ever regret having to come home from a friend's house to let him out?"
>No, not at all.
>"Do you hold it against him, the extra things you have to do for him?
>No, not in the slightest, I'd do it ten times over if that's what he needs.
>"He's a dog. A DOG, anon. Imagine how much more strongly we feel about doing these things for you."
Needless to say, I didn't view myself as a burden after that.
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>>17842920
Talk to your parents , what is their deal. That you are burden for them , but you want to see them happy
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Join the military and try to get blown up by a landmine in Afghanistan or something. At least this way you die with "honor" and your loved ones are going to feel like "anon was a great patriot" with tears in they're eyes. By cowardly killing yourself, it's gonna be super hard on them "Did we drove him to do this? Oh I wish we could go back in time and made him happy! WE'RE SORRY ANON!!!"
Plus I think your family gets some kind of benefits.
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Struggling in university 2016-12-11 01:52:02 Post No.17842915
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Okay so a little background I was a stellar student in highschool and got into a Canadian university program with a 4% acceptance rate with a 98% average. However, in my first year of university I really struggled and had low marks. I attributed this to the fact that I basically found myself in two different relationships and two different break-ups along with drinking and partying for the first time in my life, and also just a general transition.
This year being my second year, I kept socializing to a minimum, wasn't involved with any girls, and didn't party, but my marks were still terribly low. This was concerning because my habits were good and I was studying around 7-9 hours a day. It was really discouraging studying an incredible amount for a midterm and only getting a 70%, the same mark they got by studying for just 2 days. The final straws for me were getting a 59% on an Anatomy midterm which I studied very hard for. When talking to friends, I studied for the midterm in a similar manner/on the same schedule as most of them. The other low mark I got was 50% on a Psych midterm which I also studied solidly for for about a week.
I am willing to accept that my study methods may not be perfect and need improving, but I am doing way below average, which I feel probably indicates some deeper issue -- my only problem is that I don't know the issue is. I don't think having imperfect time management and study skills leads to marks this bad because I spent the majority of time studying for school. I've been studying the same way since 10th grade and it used to work wonders (except for in first year, but like I said I rationalized it by being a transitional period/period where I was distracted), I don't feel anxious or stressed for exams, and I find the content of the material I study to be fairly easy and understandable. (cont)
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I went to a Psychiatrist to figure out what could be wrong (possibly recovering from being in romantic relationships for the first time and having them both fail might still be bothering me to the point of harming my grades) and they said I was depressed/had social anxiety and prescribed me citalopram. My question is, do any of you know if depression really effect marks this bad? Like I said before, maybe my study habits aren't perfect but I'd say they're decent/good and I don't know how I could go from getting 99% in highschool anatomy to 59% in university anatomy..
So I basically I went and talked with the Assistant Dean of my program and we worked out an arrangement to withdraw me from my current classes without them showing on my transcript and also withdrawing me from my second semester classes so I could come back to school in either next semester or fall 2017. I had to tell my parents what had been happening which was hard but they were understanding and at first agreed that I should go back fall 2017 instead of winter but now said either one is my choice.
I need help deciding which to do, go back next semester and take whatever classes I can that didnt require my first semester classes as pre-reqs or take the next 8 months off? And if I do take the next 8 months off, what should I do to make sure my marks improve? I guess I kinda got in an argument with my dad last night, and he said go to college/technical school but I really am not interested in that. My goal was to get into Medical School and then if my marks weren't good enough for that I would seek out a career in academia/industry science by pursuing a PhD. I guess my whole life I always saw myself academically oriented and I thought my head was in the right place for that this year but I guess not
tl;dr
-did bad in first year but was distracted
-doing bad in second year with no tangible distractions
-if i take the next 8 months off, how can I get that 4.0 gpa?
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>>17842915
If you don't change anything: nothing will change. I would recommend a change of pace, like going abroad to Asia for a semester or working a physically hard job. These might change your mindset. Otherwise, just take the bare minimum for your pre-reqs and graduation requirements. If you can, throw in one easy class like something you already know or would love to know. For me, this was Japanese language classes and intro chemistry/math classes. Since you can only pull yourself so many ways, the easy class really helps.
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you probably dont actually need medication
you're still young
you probably need a break to refire yourself up for motivation
that or accept that you need to try harder
but its easier to try harder when you've had a break. it's not easy to maintain 98% averages, and in fact it's a lot of work. so take a break and do something interesting. if you have money you can travel. if you dont have money, pick up a sport or a hobby
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Do I send someone who scammed me to jail? If so advice. 2016-12-11 01:49:57 Post No.17842905
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Girl from highschool I hardly knew messages me through facebook, giving me a sob story asking for help. Lost her job, trying to keep custody of her kid, overwhelmed with bills. I offered to help her find a job, and gave her some money on the condition she pay it back later. I found her a 40K a year job she would guarantee get, where my brother is one of the managers, except she canceled her interview twice. She kept coming up with emergencies and I ended up bailing her out by a few thousand dollars. She suddenly stopped replying to my texts when I stopped helping her and blocked me on facebook. I eventually decided to check her in the court system, because she said her apartment complex was robbed she lost a bunch of stuff. She also kept talking about a custody battle for her daughter. I found that the day she was supposed to be in court was actually for shoplifting and she didnt show and the judge issued an arrest warrant.
Although I got scammed, I feel like I would be getting justice if I could get the police to her place. But I dont know if there is any legal way I can do that
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>>17842905
Just stop
Literally take what ever you lost like a man and keep it as a reminder in your head to not be so fucking stupid, especially with women.
Why on earth would you do all that to someone you don't even know? Like seriously. I swear to god if you thought you could get some pussy with that too that would be the fucking best.
It's the real world out there, don't get financially attached to anyone you can't trust.
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>>17842905
Did you sign a contract with her? If not, you have pretty much zero chance getting her for anything.
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>>17842905
Confrontation is a part of life. You're an adult now. As an adult you're supposed to be able to resolve conflicts without running to authority figures.
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there's a girl I've been checking out at work. she flirts with me but I think she's playing some mind games (I've dated a lot of women, I can tell when they're starting to play mind games).
we had a company holiday party the other night, and at first she said hi to me but then seemed to ignore me and act uninterested all of a sudden, which is different since she's always smiling at me at work. finally before the night was over I walked over to her and whispered "why do you dress like that?" and walked away. she dressed kind of slutty/strange for the party, but it was pretty rude on my part. I turned back before walking out and saw her staring at me kind of shocked.
I'm not sure if I should apologize on monday. part of me wants to because I think I hurt her feelings and I do feel bad about that, though I do think what she was wearing was kind of slutty.
any thoughts? I'm still interested in her, but she has been pissing me off lately because she seems to enjoy playing games more than genuinely wanting to get to know me, which led me to say that.
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>>17842903
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>>17842903
smiling and acting nice is a defense mechanism women use to protect themselves from threats
A lot of people (here on /adv/ too) say that you should not fap to porn. Why, exactly? Should i fap to my imagination only? Will it change anything?
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>>17842888
It's pretty dumb. Fap to whatever the fuck you want. The only danger of porn is misunderstanding a movie with reality but this can happen with any other media too.
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>>17842888
Because it's desensitizing, addictive and it fucks with the reward process of your brain.
But hey >>17842891
Who gives a fuck about anything whatsoever right?
Just do whatever with no reason and tought behind.
You wanna try and figure out this shit? lol what a loser YOLO.
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>>17842925
>desensitizing, addictive and it fucks with the reward process of your brain.
That shit only applies if you already have some issues with it.
Most people fap to porn and do just fine after all.
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So this might sound strange but there is an app on phones called LINE and its basically an chat room kinda thing you text your friends with. They have a service that people can make their own stickers and submit them to possibly be put on the store. Pic related is the kinda stickers the site uses. Basically I want to learn how to draw and make graphic art to submit to the website and just get better in general.
>What is a good drawing tablet to get that is small and portable and affordable
>What program would be good to use to start making those stickers
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The best art tablet to get for starting is the Wacom Bamboo. It works well and it's cheap, a great beginner's tablet.
A good digital art program to start with is FireAlpacA, since it's pretty functional and free. You generally want a program that has layers. Clip Studio Paint is a more professional one. You have to pay for it but it goes on sale quite often. If you wait for a sale you can nab it for $20.
And then just draw. You don't even need the stuff mentioned above to practice. Doodle in notebooks, draw faces. Observe real people and watch their expressions. Don't just copy from cartoons. Look at real things and figure out how to distill them into simplified and exaggerated versions. Try different things, see what works. And just draw.
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>>17843097
Correction, Wacom's Bamboo Fun in particular is the small and cheap one.
Bigger is generally better when it comes to tablets, but if you're starting out and not sure if you're going to stick with it, just get a small one for the price factor. You can upgrade later if you realize you're enjoying yourself and want to stick with it.
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How do you win over someone who is insisting on "seeing where things go?"
She likes me but obviously I'm just kinda off on the side while shes focusing on school and whatnot.
She's been jealous when I had a gf before now this. What do?
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Just forget about her. She's probably looking at some other guy and you're her second choice.
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I have never heard of this problem but I'll bump you so maybe some one else can help more with girls theyve always either liked me or not never pushed off but still around like you're describing
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>>17842790
you can't force someone to love you, well not legally anyways
normal people see where things go, it's just a part of life
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Hanging out alone with a girl 2016-12-11 01:07:13 Post No.17842787
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Hanging out alone with a girl
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What does it mean when a girl asks if you're hanging out alone or with other other people. Like does she want other people there or just one on one? For example
>Me: let's hang
>Her: would it just be us or would there be other people too?
>Me: uhhhh??????
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That can really go either way. How did she respond when you told her it was just u?
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She said "we'll see". I Have a good feelingthis grill likes me but that's only half the battle ya feel
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>>17842805
"Well see" is the polite way of saying "ew" in my experience but maybe you're better with women than I am I'm 25 I've only had sex with 7 girls
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How do you get over feelings for a friend? I can tell myself all i want all day that i'm over her, but when i see her again, it's like seeing her for the first time. I know that there will never be anything between us so i just really want to get over her. pls help
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>>17842771
just realized i put the title in the name field shit
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>>17842771
you need closure to get over her
confront her with your feelings
her rejection will allow you to move on
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>>17842777
i did tell her actually, hoping to get a straight forward rejection, but what i got instead was pretty much an open ended response to a previous statement that i said, "I hope things won't be awkward or anything between us" "it's alright, i promise things won't be awkward." i already infer that as rejection, but fuck i need it harder.
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I did a shitty thing. I plagiarized on one of my last term papers. For an English class, no less. I was using my own plagiarism checker and was sure I had input my own opinions and changed whatever was not cited enough to slide by.
However, I woke up to an email from my professor saying 47% was plagiarized. He's failing me and reporting it to the dean. It's the end of the semester and I'm off campus. For a first offense, it is reported to the dean and then I'm not sure what else. At the very least I'm thankful I'm not suspensed from classes next year. My gpa is currently 3.5 so I'm braced from the hit it will take.
I'm not making excuses. It really was a poor decision, but it's happened and all I can do is learn from it.
The professor was my English advisor and I'm supposed to be in one of his classes again next semester, but I'm just full of self-loathing and embarrassment. I am consdering not taking the class, but it seems I need to. I want to hold out to see if it would be offered by someone else. I'm not sure what to do.
I guess my question is - should I take his class next semester? I'm not sure how to respond to his email or if I should at all. I really hated his class and I made no effort on his assignments (clearly). Again, I think I may need the class. I just feel it would be incredibly rude of me to show up in his class again. I would constantly feel like shit in his class and around him.
I have not been able to stop thinking about it since this morning and every few minutes I just feel an incredible amount of dread and fear at how this will proceed. I'm still reeling. How do I stop feeling like a piece of shit, despite deserving it?
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You're lucky you haven't been expelled you're a piece of shit and should feel bad.
T. High school teacher
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>>17842762
Congratulations on repeating exactly what I said.
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>>17842762
>You're lucky you haven't been expelled
Yet.
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I found a 10/10 girl, cute as fuck personality, caring kind funny. We talk for few days hours on end. We have so much in common and have great dynamic.
She tells how she likes to be able to buils on each other and serious relationship, exclusiveness and that she can be a bit jealous. All sounds great im the same looking for a serious girl to be together and complete each other.
Talk about wanting to settle, have kids, never divorce etc
Then suddenly she tells she does photoshoots (pic related) lingery stuff. But also nude stuff...
Like wtf, how does she say exclusive and a serious relationship while she goes nude for a gay ass
photographer
Im going to have to let this 10/10 personality and physically wise slide just for this bullshit.
Would u guys be ok with your serious exculsive longterm gf go nude?
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>>17842737
Are we talking art or playboy modeling. Nude art is really a thing and though I dont like it, Id probably accept it. If we are talking playboy fuck no.
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>>17842737
>Im going to have to let this 10/10 personality and physically wise slide just for this bullshit.
Lol no you're not. The resentment and jealous is going to grow and grow until you sabotage your own relationship.
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Some women are meant to be fucked others you make love to this one you should fuck
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What are the requirements for finding a woman who looks like this. Besides obviously paying shitloads of money for them.
Current spec
>6'
>175lbs
>fit
>80k salary
>25 years old
>8x6 penis
>thinning hair ;_;
help
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>>17842699
Is looks seriously all you want? Think about it, at this day and age you can find pretty people to look at any time you want. If you're choosing a partner choose someone whose bullshit you can put up with or else you're doomed for failure when their looks begin to fade
Anyway
Find a nice girl who's disciplined then offer to use your money to pay for her training, diet, steroids and plastic surgeries
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Her body proportions are really awkward imo.
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>>17842714
looking good requires dedication. You can't give that to someone.
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practice leads nowhere 2016-12-11 12:31:24 Post No.17842690
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Why does it take ages to see any progress on practice? I'm trying to improve in so many things as fast as possible and it seems like things are going nowhere. Hell it's gotten to the point where my girlfriend is better than me at vidya. Do I need focus? Am i retarded or something?
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>>17842690
>I'm trying to improve in so many things as fast as possible and it seems like things are going nowhere.
You seem impatient and also taking on more than you can actually manage. Chill and work slowly. Progress takes a while.
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>>17842701
Maybe you're right. I'm very disorganized and I do want fast progress, because I want to catch up with the pros. Would a journal help?
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>>17842690
>Why does it take ages to see any progress on practice?
Because obtaining, processing and memorizing information all need time?
Also yes, sounds like you lack focus and stress out too much. Don't forget to get enough sleep and the likes too. Improvement is simple repetition for most things.
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How can you disgusting normalcuck see sex as nothing more than "hurr i put my peepee in vagina and it feel good"?
Hedonistic monkeys, I swear to god
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>>17842657
>seeing sex as something more than benis in bagina
what are you a cum-swapping cuck or something?
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>>17842657
Lmfao I bet you have a great time fucking a piece of Japanese rubber in your mom's house
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>>17842657
>Butthurt heartbroken female
Here have this shitty nazi frog reaction image as a reward for your autism