There's a party tonight, to which I wasn't invited. However, the rest of my flat was invited, and I'm okay with a lot of the people going there, including the host. We don't really talk, but we're at a lot of events today. Now, my flatmates have told me to just turn up, even though I wasn't invited.
I feel bad about it because I just feel rejected, and I'm not sure whether I'm actually wanted at this party or not, so I'm not sure whether or not to go. I don't want to seem like a scrape.
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you weren't invited - don't go
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>>17841273
That was my initial thought, but my flatmates told me that the host wont be mad if I'm there, and that she may have just forgotten about me. I still feel like an imposter
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>>17841264
I say fuck it
Get wasted
Your flat mates sound like they'll back you up
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Hellow humble anons!
Its that being cheated on op from few days ago. Yes its happening. Ive got it all sorted and confirmed. She is screwing her boss. One way or another she is doing this to achieve somethinv to fullfill her dream or just to get a sure job for future as some may say. She might even think that shes doing it for Us becouse there are moments she is actinv soo lovely and wifish. Taking me out for shopping or just hanginv out. Whatever it is, is it guilt or atempts to cover up. I dont care anymore. Nothing justify whats shes doing. Its just simply not right! Im done with her. As soon as i got enough resources neccesary to leave without a trace i do.
Now comes the question to you my dear anons!
Ive managed to get her bosses number!
Today ive got a bit drunk and wanted just call him and say "hi its jjus husband here touch my wife or i will find and killyou" ! But after second thought ive decided to seek your advice here!
What do you think is better ?
Do what ive almost did ?
Or i dont know call his wife and tell her about hers husband infidelity ?
Call him and play cool saying something like: hi mate dont het me wrong but if i would be in your skin i would screw all my willing employees but this one got too far soo end it up or it might not end up well for both of us ?
Any other way of talking to his conciousness soo he would consider ending any of it ?
Anything else ?
I truly rely on your advice here anons soo please halp. Thank you soo much for any input in advance.
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>>17841251
Leave her. She will cheat again with someone else. Though, feel free to stay in touch for the luls when her boss cheats on her.
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do not call him, or his wife
just leave
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>>17841251
DO NOT CALL
Don't make any moves till you talk to a lawyer. Future sober (ok maybe a bit tipsy) happier you will thank past drunk you
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Hey guys im Hamza, I get called Ana, So the 4Chan community can call me Ana or Hamza. Ana Proffered its just usually what i get called in school and shit.
So basically i was wondering if anyone knows why im always scared and nervous. I don't know why but i always feel scared any help?
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First I need to know abit about your life .. Bfs and so on
And how you are socially
As I see right now, you are scared of publicity and talk in quiet voice.
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>>17841233
Not knowing your own name can be a little scary.
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is this an anime reference or some shit?
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what do you talk about with friends and other people?
>tfw socially retarded
>have no friends
>go to workplace social event
>literally know 1 in 30 people
>just hang with people i know and listen to their conversations
>never know how to contribute
what should i even talk about? how do i contribute?
things people talked about at my last workplace social event:
>work and things that happened at work
>travel (which i know nothing about)
>their school if they went to a common school
>inside jokes about something they know
>sports
sometimes they tell stories, and someone responds with another story
help
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>>17841232
Watch the news in the morning. There you'll have a bit of common ground. And then just talk. There's no trick. Talk and listen, that's all.
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>>17841232
I just ask questions to figure out what they're excited about and then you just let them rant while actively listening
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>>17841243
people rarely discuss current events though
last time i've heard coworkers talk about any, were the US election results
>>17841254
i try to ask questions, but usually run out of things to ask.
especially with people i already know. i usually ask what their weekend is like, and that's about it. it really seems like the popular guys are the ones with stories of something they or "a buddy" did.
>actively listening
i listen and have a good memory, but i don't always verbalize things like saying "ok" periodically
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Think I just lost all my friends and gf 2016-12-10 01:33:13 Post No.17841228
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Think I just lost all my friends and gf
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Every time I'm with my close circle of friends, we flow nicely and talk about anything. Like friends do.
Whenever I bring my girlfriend with me, all my fucking shortcomings are layed out and discussed. I become the butt-end of every joke and they talk about me in third person while I'm right fucking there.
Now, my girl venting her frustrations about me to others is totally healthy and should be done. But its right in front of me, and no one asks me about my side of the story before assuming I'm a dick because "he did this and that in this way lol"... it's not just my girlfriend who starts it either.
I have talked to them about this and expressed my feelings towards them taking her side every time, but they play it off as if I'm too sensitive and paranoid.
So yesterday we had a few drinks, the above stated happened (of course) and I flipped shit calling them all out on it.
Today I'm viewed as totally insane, paranoid and childish by all parties involved because I clearly over reacted and "you banter too, y'know".
If everyone is against me, it must be that they're right and I am over sensitive pic related. But I still feel that I am right and they are dicks when my gf is brought to the scene.
What do you think?
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>>17841228
You sound insecure about your shortcomings
When that happens in certain groups, especially males is that they prod at each other's insecurities in a way of saying "why do you care so much if you have a lisp, we love you, stop being such a downer about it, you're accepted, we're gonna fucking force this shit out of you if we have to, be at our level"
The key is to accept whatever they make fun of you about because there's some truth to it. Once you do that it makes it easy to not care and be able to joke back at them.
It's not the healthiest group dynamic probably but it's definitely one of the most common
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>>17841245
I am insecure about my shortcomings, yeah. Aren't you? I deeply appreciate someone sitting me down and telling me about them, whatever they may be but this is done in really poor fashion.
There is always some truth, if not all of it but it just goes on and on and on...I banter them too in the same way, only I do it to their face without teaming up with the others on it.
I guess I'm too sensitive and they're right then.
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>>17841268
My friend group pretty much shits on each other all the time too, and they make fun of me because I have feminine mannerisms, have braces at 20, date 17 year olds and other shit. I make fun of my friends for being fat, chewbbaca hairy, and for being a nigger. The point is everyone has things that makes us a bit embarrassed, being able to be open about it without being hurt forms strong bonds between friends. society tells men to not be open about their feelings so making fun of each other is our sorta work around it. Its really all love
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I need help /adv/
>go on tinder
>get a match with hot girl
>we cam together
>hot a fuck
>she asks me to show her my cock before we meet IRL
>show her my hard on
>turns out the "girl" is actually a Russian hacker guy
>he has my fb so he will send videos of my dick to my whole familly and friends unless I pay him 500$
what do ? i'm fucked forever
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>>17841214
Send your family and friends a picture of your dick beating your blackmailer to the punch
BONEUS - you could make it appear more flattering that a webcam snap
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>>17841214
Everyone masturbates. Report it to the cyber police, most likely he will release the video anyway.
Worst case scenario people get a video of you jacking off.
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i'm assuimg this is b8 but if not do not pay
no one cares about your dick
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I asked /b/, but this seems more like the right place.
I'm 27 and so far I've had sex with just 3 women, one of which is my current gf. I kinda missed out on my teenage years because I used to be an edgy af goth kid. Does this desire to fuck as many women as possible disappear one day? Does it disappear after you fuck enough chicks? Do I have to live with it for the rest of my life?
I'm kinda scared that I might end up alone one day because I really have the need to still screw around and don't see myself settling down the next 5-10 years.
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>>17841189
If you feel this way now then it won't go away in all likeliness
After a bunch of one night stands it gets kinda boring
You're only 27 so you still got some time
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>>17841189
Have you considered a vacation to Thailand? If you spend a year there, it's likely you could do more to sate your urge than decades back at home.
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>>17841198
I'm actually going to Thailand with my gf next year :-D
but yeah that's probably not what you mean.
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>trying to cut down on eating because 130kg fatty
>starting to get mad food cravings for shitty foods
>getting hungry even after eating more than enough for the day
>don't want to give in like the other times
How do I actually deal with this and ignore the feeling? I really don't want to eat anything since I've already had three meals today.
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Eat the rights foods
Protein fills you up
Its not about the meals but the right number of calories, so keep track of that and make sure youre not just eating lettuce
When I get hungry but dont want to eat junk, I munch on ice. Its distracting and I get in some extra hydration.
Also, you might want to try eating smaller meals and snacking in between
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>>17841183
It's AIDS
Ask fit, they'll prob tell you to lift but
Someone will tell you
Something about eating filling foods
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OP, buy a food weight scale and download the app MyFitnessPal. Makes it really easier.
Also make sure to never skip breakfast, when you crave sweets just eat fruit (especially dates), drink 2 liters of water a day and look for filling foods that are relatively low in calories (salad, coffee, yogurt and such)
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Is delaying a breakup a bad plan? I have been doing it for half a year now. The suitable time never seems to come.
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>>17841125
Sounds like you already know the answer and want to be reassured. Yes just pull the bandaid off, there will never be a perfect time. If it's doomed to end then you're wasting both of your time when you could be with people that see a future with you.
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>>17841125
There is no good time to break someone's heart.
If you think being a massive cunt to the person, or distancing yourself from them is going to make them leave, or ease the pain when you do...
Fuck yourself. All that's going to do is make the person double down on their dedication to you. They will know something is wrong and when they ask you... what the fuck do you say? "Oh nothing. Just... not feelin good."
Making them try even harder to show how much they love you. They care for you, they love you. They don't want you to feel alone, to feel depressed.
The longer you do shit like that, the longer you wait... the worse it's going to be.
Don't make excuses, don't try to put the blame on them. Don't make shit up. Sit down, tell the truth, only the truth.
ANNNNDDDD
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>>17841153
This. I worked myself up over a day, and broke up at night. I had fallen in love with someone else, and was waiting for the right time.
The right time is when you get the balls to do it. Don't delay.
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Im going to school this tuesday for a general consulting that can only be done in person because..idk why
I was under the impression that since room selection happened that same day, it meant I could move in that day lol
Now I have my ticket to go, my bags are ready and no place to stay until classes start next month, plus Im pretty fucking short on cash I cant afford to drop so much cash on a fucking cheap ass motel, it's too much
What do?
Can the uni help me out or what?
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>>17841088
This is so funny
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>>17841108
Im glad you find humour in my misfortune
Im fucking stressing out here
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>>17841158
Im sorry man I really am
It's just like some movie shit, I'm grinning typing this
Is there any way you can just go back ?
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I am seriously lost for words. I can't get what I want out of life :( I'm wasting my years and missing out on life :(
It has been nothing but disappointment for me. Let down after let down.
Is there a lesson?? Is the universe trying to tell me life is a joke?
I. Cannot. Take. It. Anymore
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I know that feel.
Or at least it seems like I do.
An hero or get stagnant with delusion and distraction.
Your call OP.
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>>17841042
Nietzsche and Camus offer solutions to this issue
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>>17841046
>Camus
He has some interesting thoughts on suicide and absurdism but I didn't find his work influential or life changing at all
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Can we have an online dating thread?
https://www.okcupid.com/profile/MalevolentMeows
halp
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>>17840945
You have one of the cringiest self-summaries I've ever read. You'd honestly have better luck just leaving that whole section blank.
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>>17840949
o-oh
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>>17840945
This is very...'I hate myself but I'm going to try and hide it behind poor humour'
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This is almost on a nightly basis. I'll fall asleep and somewhere along the line my teeth will just start falling out of my mouth. Not just one or two either. It's like all my teeth are pouring from my mouth with buckets of blood following suit.
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>>17840912
This is a fairly common nightmare and it's believed to be related to stress and feeling a lack of control irl.
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Here op I have a lot of fun with this site every morning.
Never had the teeth one, but it's something I'd expect from /r9k/ desu senpai
http://m.dreammoods.com/site/dreammoods/default?url=http%3A%2F%2Fdreammoods.com%2Fcgibin%2Fteethdreams.pl%3Fmethod%3Dexact%26header%3Ddreamid%26search%3Dteethintro#2698
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>>17840916
Not him but i have reoccurring dreams where my nose is slowly being broken, any ideas?
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I want to get married and have as many children as possible. Like 10 is ideal. I have the means to support them and am very realistic and organized at planning.
Is there a woman alive today age 25 or younger who also has this goal?
How do I raise this issue early on without being weird but also not wasting 6 months with someone who never wants kids ever?
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>>17840892
I am a woman age 25 with this goal
>tfw already too late
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>>17840930
Wrong.
Do you want a full table at Thanksgiving or not?
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>>17840892
Religious girls.
Male, mid twenties been in a relationship for 4 years, best person I have ever met, beautiful and extroverted (opposite of me). Problem is that I'm bored, I will never find someone who is so nice and treats me so well again.
Why can't I be happy and appreciate what I have?
What would you do?
Basically what can I do to make everything work without feeling bored?
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if I were you OP, I'd really take a step back and look at how good you have it
you are literally the 1 %
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Sounds like what my relationship was. Then I cheated, she cheated, she left. I still cry myself to sleep.
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>>17840893
This OP you got it as good as it gets stop imagining some grass is greener on the other side nonsense appreciate this woman