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>>17873536
Post your hairline? I'm 18 as well, have been getting worried that I might already be balding at this age. Turns out it's just my hairline maturing, feel kinda relieved but still not 100% sure.

>>17873536
Stop it.

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>>17873589
my hairline is not that bad butt the top of my head looks like this

Calm down. Probably she still is in vacation with her family, if she cannot contact you or you can't contact that could also means she is spending her holidays in a place without internet and other basic stuff. Just relax for a while. And sorry for my grammar.

She definitely left you.

>>17873552
We have still at least texted a bit while she was with her family. Thanks for your words but my heart is still racing

>>17873506
Depends on what you want out of life and what is most important to you. Relationships with people are tiring and frustrating, but most of us endure them because we get more pros than cons. That said, if you can live off the land and don't need companionship then go for it.

>>17873506

this kind of decision is purely personal, its hard to say that anything like that is 'wise'. it can be wise for yourself, but it depends.

most people who say what you say don't actually mean what you say. I'm not saying you're secretly some extroverted party animal, but for most people there's a balance.

go be a hermit if you want just don't be afraid to come back if you're bored and sad.

>>17873506
>would it be wise to head for the mountains?

No because you will deny yourself food and compnay in pursuit of something you'll probably never reach.

If you do reach it though it'll all be worth it.

>I start college in about 6 months and I want to study Computer Science, but I want to get a bit started on programming.
I already know some sql, html, css and just a tiny bit of js, what should i get into now?

>>17873498

>>17873498

i wouldn't worry. do any recommended reading that comes with the course, but if you got 6 months why not enjoy it before becoming a slave to class

>>17873478
I would like to know this also but I am a 22 male, idk how weird i'd be to go to a bar to flirt with girls when i've never done it before.

Just go. Take a book with you. You will be having conversations.

I'm a guy, and I go out drinking alone all the time. I usually bring drawing equiptment with me, and just doodle and write down stuff I want to work on. More often than not, I'll end up talking to people.

>>17873492
How old are you?
I dont want to come off as weird..... im so scared I will.......

Date her till shes 18:'(

You can go to jail for talking to someone now? wtf

>>17873470
nah but i dont want to be friends w this girl

the thing that sucks is that i havent had a girlfriend in years and i actually like this girl. All the girls i meet now are super jaded and bitchy. This girl is actually mature for her age but innocent

It's going to be shitty for a while and you can't stop that, but i think the worst thing you can do at the moment is to try and force yourself to feel better.

Let yourself heal first and learn to be alone before jumping into something else.

>>17873455
Kys obviously

>>17873494
Fuck you man let him move on if he wants to.

>>17873455
Hey OP, I am you 3 days ago.
My relationship of nearly a decade (8 years together, total 9.6 years known) has ended. We might not be friends.
It, Fucking, Sucks. I know, I've been there I've done that.
I've done the stay high smoke weed three times a day everyday for years. It doesn't work and it won't work. Replace your smoking habit with working out and bettering yourself in anyway you see fit, do this for you.

Follow the above advice and the following will happen if you try; look online for girls, not to fuck, not to date, but to befriend. This is important, remember this. Befriend as many as possible, hangout with girls that are younger and only slightly older than you.

Once you have a few friends, you'll most likely be introduced to their circle of friends if they think you're just a friend. If they don't they most likely want to be more than a friend. and boom your problems are solved be happy.

It won't take too long, but it will take time.

>>17873427
>beating his girlfriend who probably deserved it
That's not how any of this works. No matter how crazy she is, he choose to stay with her.

Spending some time might help him to rethink the mess that his life is now and who knows, he might learn something and start doing things differently afterwards.

Best you can do is keep in touch, visiting him and writing letters as frequently as possible.

>>17873439
>That's not how any of this works. No matter how crazy she is, he choose to stay with her.
oh god i know. they're horrible for each other. they feed each other's addictions and beat the shit out of each other all the time. he's not even supposed to be within a block of her after the first arrest but it hasn't stopped him at all. and the second arrest happened AT her place with her there. which looks so bad for him.

i'm really scared of losing him. i've lost so much and i don't think i can handle it if i lose him. it's scary to think about what he's probably going through. and he never was in great mental health. i'm afraid he'll kill himself if he feels he can't handle this. but he doesn't even want me around.

idk

>>17873427
>but he is a good person inside
no, he is not. addicts cannot be saved. they can save themselves, but there is nothing others can do but shun them.
>his girlfriend who probably deserved it. she's a crazy fucking bitch and stabbed him
she is also an addict and cannot be helped by anyone other than herself.
> i've been acting like a bitch to my brother
>my approach has been one of tough love.
this is not productive. the only effective method is to disregard him until he gets his shit together. difficult, given the biological relation, but it is what must be done.
> i wish there were something i could do to help but i don't think there is.
short of sending (see:paying to send) him to a good rehabilitation facility, you are correct. and rehab only works if he wants it to.
source(s):multiple counts of personal experience resulting in disdain for addicts


>i feel guilty for not being a good sister,
im going to let this one be for now out of respect for your situation.

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Please guys don't let me down :(

Just think of it as this way, there are many many many women out there. If she doesn't like you or won't give you a chance then just move on with the thought that she's literally not the only woman out there.
Chin up, move on, work on building yourself career wise, physically and mentally. Good luck.

>>17873733
i know she's not the only one, but she's the ONE i want in my life

bump for interest

I've heard a lot of these drugs are seriously carcinogenic
but then I've also heard that it' just fear-mongering for pollitical reasons

Another interested anon bumping

Benzodiazepine

as someone who just lost,

dont fucking peak at porn, ever

>>17873400
Couldn't agree more it fucking overcomes you and you can't stop jerking off

Why do you people stop fapping? It's a natural urge to find sex and start fapping instead.

:'(

>>17873395

What do you use to masturbate?

Name everything. Lubricants? Do you shove anything in your dickhole? In your ass?

>>17874325
just my hand. i don't masturbate too rough. i don't shove aything in my asshole or inside my dick.
i forgot to sat that i do suffer from depression.

Shameless bump.

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>Oh, I really love how Lovecraft builds this tension and fear of the unknown in "The shadow over Insmouth", you know?

Female here. I like horror books too. My sister loves the fuck out of Lovecraft. So do many females.

>>17873411

Where do I find girls like you?

>>17873348

> 90% of the women I meet share NOTHING in common with me and the 10% left aren't physically atractive.

I meant to say that MOST of the 10% left are not physically atractive to me or are taken.

I should mention:
It's so grueling that every day I get home I'm so physically and mentally exhausted that I can barely stand, let alone think. I wind up just falling asleep for a few hours straight.

this is a problem as I'm starting College in a few weeks' time.

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I'd been serving for several years until just recently. I found the work to be great, at time stressful, but often very rewarding, when I was working in an establishment with good management and a good customer base. I also briefly worked in a shitty chinese food establishment that had a very rocky customer base where I was treated like shit and made peanuts. So, it varies.

One of the downsides of waiting is that if you want to make money or your place of work needs you to fill the shift, then you can kiss your weekends goodbye. If you don't have much of a social life then it's not as much of a problem, but some people can be surprised with how much a server's schedule can fuck up their opportunities for downtime.

Also you may get more feedback from /ck/, since they have industry workers hanging out there sometimes.

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Men have always had to court the woman. Just because we gave them the right to vote doesn't mean this has changed.

>>17873266
Why do men still have to initiate a conversation first with a chick if they've been going out with each other for a long time? I always text my gf first cause if i don't she won't even say anything for basically the whole day.

>>17873266
>Men have always had to court the woman
Why