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Relying on one single person for all your social interaction is usually bad anyway.
Go to parties if you want to. I he gets jealous, tell him he can come with you.

Play games with him, duh. Surely you knew he was a videogame junkie BEFORE you moved across the country to be with him? If you didn't then you're retarded if you're not okay with it because chaning people is hard. Anyway, seems like you're social and he's not so social. You'll have to reach a compromise here. Tell him to stop being a jealous bitch when you want to hang out with your girlfriends, and you won't complain about the fact that he stays inside all day playing video games like some neck beard.

>>17876367
I knew he liked video games. I like them too and I wanna play with him. BUT THE GUYS ARE CALLING HIM ON TS which just means they're better company.

I know I'm trying to find new friends but I'm very shy, also not very social. More social online.

He won't go to parties with me.

In person. Be blunt. Don't juggle your words. Be honest. Avoid talking to her at all costs

AND most importantly, don't be her emotional crutch.

>>17876322
Meet up, but beforehand say something vague but stern like "we have to talk".

Public place is not ideal, do it at her place so she can cry and you can comfort her.

Don't say things like "it's not you it's me" or offer justifications as to why, she will just rebut and provide you with excuses like "I will change" etc.

A good one is "I don't love/like you anymore" and when they ask why, just say you've been struggling to return their affections for a while and it's not fair on either of you to pretend everything is ok.

It is hard just bandaid it, and make sure you've got a friend to meet at the bar afterwards. Few beers and a mate to coach you through mitigates, but it doesn't remove the pain.

I've always waited till they piss me off. I can't be an asshole till someone makes me mad.

>>17876220
You are perfectly right.
First, you don't want to be your girlfriend's boss. She'd have to obey to you for 8 hours and then you should have an equal relationship the rest o the day. It's complicated to treat a person in two completely different ways in two moments of the day.
Second, you bring work problems home and home problems to work. I don't think a person can just compartmentalise their emotions like that - if she's mad at you for not throwing out the trash, she'll still be mad at you while you're working.
Third, it's unfair. You'd hire her just because she's your girlfriend, and that'd create jealousies and issues with your other employees.

My family owns a business and they always made a point of never hiring wives/husbands to work for them for this exact reason, and their spouse cannot even inherit the quota when they die.

Help her find a job, for sure, but not at your company.

You are 100% in the right

>>17876237
this anon is truth

If you didn't think she was good enough, wouldn't you have broken up with her?

I love when people tell you what you're thinking.

>>17876217
I've never been through this OP. Best thing I can do is telling you your dad needs to be strong and spend lots of time with him. Best of luck for you and your family OP. May God be with you.

>having a relationship with your parents
lmao cuck

from working in the med field, the best i can tell you is just be there for them. call them frequently, check up on them. make it a priority to see them.

nobody really knows if chemo is gonna be successful or not. just pray for him and i hope for the best for you. if he's 70 he's already lived a generous lifetime

>>17876199
Best place for subbed hentai??

>>17876199
Commence something that gives you structure - study or work. Doesn't matter how menial it is, you need a reason to get out of bed, shower and interact with people every day.

Write down your routine. Monday-Friday and then what you do on your weekends. Routine should include things like:
- Waking up at a certain time
- Hygiene habits
- Groceries / meal plan
- Assortment of hobbies (listen to an album a week, watch a new movie instead of sitting on the internet for 6 hours straight)

Set goals, but make them realistic, specific and achievable. Don't say things like "lose weight in 6 months" say "eat healthily for 1 month and review progress".

We are creatures of habit OP, and we are pack animals. Get the basics sorted and you can start looking at branching out. It takes time so you have to be disciplined but at least you are in a position to alter yourself. It's never too late to start but asking for advice online is not affirmative action. Get your arse into gear and get your shit together you lazy fucking NEET. It's not hard, everyone else is doing it.

OP...I uh, I sort of ended up in the same situation.

Fell in love with a girl 3 years ago at 18 and broke out of the friendzone after she rejected me. Thought she was cheating on me so I became a paranoid dickwad and began to sever people from my life until only she was left and then she told me she couldnt see me destroy myself anymore and left me, that was a year and a half ago and ive gained 100 lbs since and i have trouble getting out of bed most days and I won't even go outside for weeks at a time...I forgot when the last time I even physically spoke words to someone was.

I don't want to die regardless of how miserable I am but nothing seems to work. I want to be happy again but I can't get her out of my head man I feel like such a spineless wreck of a man for getting so distraught over a girl.

>>17876193
Yes, it is very much possible. The vast majority of women feels physical pleasure during sex and can reach orgasm, both through vaginal and clitoral stimulation.
You should see a doctor if you cannot orgasm in any way. It is really not normal.

>enjoyed sex in an intellectual way
What kind of sex have you been having, and will you teach me?

> it apart from in an intellectual way,
WTF

>>17876130
>break the law
>OMG COPS SUCK

play stupid games, win stupid prizes, kid

You must be black.

Try and get accelerated rehabilitation (AR)

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Dildos help and fuckton of lube.

Not necessary but if your really want that shit clean get a small bulb douche and fill it with warm water.

>>17876046
Don't clean your ass
Put his dick in there without lube
Shit on his dick and bleed a little from your butt

most people is just too retarded to think about something they haven't experienced personally

>>17876026

Because you're a minority at your age probably. I am too.

it sounds like its a choice you made to be a kissless virgin........

why so? sex or kiss doesnt equal in attachment. it can be only for pleasure, and trust me it is fun. why not try it? why is there so many of you on here complaining about your status ?

kissing is easy. you drink?

Acting like what? Telling jokes? Wow, power must've really gotten to their heads.

>>17875998
see this is exactly my point.

>Trip on
>Anonymous image board
>Sarcastic attitude

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>>17876008
truly horrific.

Im being sarcastic because it sounds like you don't have an actual problem. So you either have sand in your panties and are making a big deal out of a non-issue or you're not telling the full story which is pretty stupid, considering you're asking for advice about it.

pls respond

There's no standard for conversation but she is a bit odd with the texting

Try calling instead of texting

Can't help you read her, you gotta do that 1

idk really, you just try to match their enthusiasm level when texting. like if they use a couple emotes try adding one in your messages. something like that

>>17875961
Wtf did you do lol

>>17875961

>so I can put him on blast on a Yelp review

Not only is this laughably lame for "revenge," but Yelp deletes personal attacks about employees so you're shit out of luck here.

This story is funny though.

>>17876004
I complained about the chicken being cold and dry

>>17875945

You are still underage. Contact child services and say you fear for your life and they'll sort your situation out quickly

Have you tried speaking to Mind? They're a pretty good organisation who work with people who have mental health issues.

I'm also extremely surprised that she doesn't have any support in place from her GP. Schizophrenia generally isn't the kind of illness which is diagnosed and then not treated (although relying on those who have it actually taking medication is another thing).

When your mum tried to hurt you, did social services get involved? As you're in full-time education, you may still fall under them and could speak to them for further advice and support.

It sounds like you're in a rotten situation anon, but you need to think about your own wellbeing. Let me know if you need any further contacts regarding the support side for your mum.

I've spoken to Social Services, they came round 4 (maybe 5? I've lost track of time?) weeks ago on a Thursday, they came in and told me that I'd get support. They haven't returned, all that happened was she exploded at me for talking to people in the outside world. Labelling me as a devil child and an attention seeker.

I haven't spoken to Mind, I may give it a go. And she did recieve help. She was sectioned for 3 days where I was moved to live with my Grandparents. She was given a bunch of meds she had to take but as of late she hasn't been taking them. I remember one type was "Mirtzapine"? or something similar.

Thanks for the advice as of current guys. I'm glad for the alternate perspectives.

>>17875934

I read senior like " senior citizen". I wish I hadn't realized otherwise. IMO probably not, but who knows. You two will have to be able to see each at every break basically. Pure LD relationships don't work - but just not seeing your partner for months at a time while still communicating is possible. But during your time apart you will probably fall for another guy or get horny and end up sleeping with someone - it is tough when they aren't around.

>>17875952
I meant it as last-year student.
> fall for another guy or get horny and end up sleeping with someone

Don't imply that every girl is this shallow. I'm not into sex outside of relationships.

>>17875963
That's why I said "probably" , most "all x are y" statements are wrong, I get that. I'm just telling you what I've seen happen with these situations time and time again.

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Light spray

they smell

>>17875930
It's god tier when it's subtle