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What Do I Even Do With Her? 2016-12-20 07:00:32 Post No.17874259
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What Do I Even Do With Her?
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>Meet girl on traveling trip
>She falls hard for me, we have sex, cuddle, couple feels galore. Never had such a great experience with someone.
>We both head to our states, we talk for hours on the phone.
>Literally 4 hours a day.
>I straight up ask, "hey would you want to be my girlfriend? I mean we have the workings of a good romance."
>"Sorry I'm a lesbian."
>...Bull. Shit.
>We still chat for fun, she sends me a Christmas gifts in the mail.
>She tells me she got drunk and had sex with this one girl, I ask if they are dating. The girl she was with wanted a relationship too, my friend ditched this poor girl fast.
>Yet she keeps returning to me.
What gives? I mean if she's a lesbian I get it, but come on we had sex and connected. We have a lot of love for each other. Yet she did the same to this other girl too apparently. Is she playing games? Trying to make me jelly? I try to move on yet we both seem stuck on each other. But she doesn't want commitment.. Booo this whore.
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>>17874259
She hit you with the second oldest excuse in the book. You two had a fling, you will have more but not if you dont let go of your feels for this girl
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>>17874259
that's how 80% of the lesbian girls are.
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>>17874259
This is an advanced form of leading you on.
Drop her.
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How do you deal with difficult co workers? Especially those who are react emotionally to anything they find remotely conflicting as if it is personal?
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>>17874244
avoid them when possible, interact only when necessary, and disregard when unreasonable.
and please, don't respond saying 'BUT EVERYONE ALWAY SSIDES WITH THEM FOR ALL TIME AND ALWAYS FOR NO REASON AND THE WORLDS JUST OUT TO GET ME HERE'.
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>>17874244
Keep working and stay busy, problems like this occur when you have people dilly dallying at work
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>>17874244
do internet search for phrases like
how to deal with difficult people
coping with problem coworkers
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I've always been honest with people around me that I've thought about suicide.
Then I use the excuse that I couldn't do that to my family but I now realize that I'm too much of a coward.
Anytime I've been forced to counseling or therapy and I'm asked if I've made a plan, I say no.
But I do know exactly how I'd go through with it.
>go out to my shed
>find some rope in there, haven't seen any but I'm sure I could find something to use
>use the ladder that's in there and tie the noose to one of the ceiling joists
>either drop from the ladder to break spinal cord or hang there and suffocate, not sure which is more painless
This is something I can do right now and no matter how much I want to, I can't bring myself to do it. Hanging is really my only option. Don't have any medication that's easy to OD on. No tall buildings around to an hero.
If I'm gonna be too much of a beta pussy to actually kill myself, I'd rather try and feel better.
I'm taking 200mg of Zoloft but it's obviously not doing anything. Talking to someone, psychiatrist or otherwise, never helps.
I never understood why people tell you to open up to someone, talking about your problems doesn't fix any of them.
Am I just destined to live this way until I finally work up enough courage to off myself?
How do you depressed anons deal with it?
>inb4 things get better
>inb4 beta faggot
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>How do you depressed anons deal with it?
Copious amounts of gaming and internet bullshit to distract me from my pain.
Also St. John's Wort - twice the dose you're supposed to take - on the months I can't afford the good pills.
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What problems do you have Anon? You're not a pussy for sparing your parents from the sadness. Never tell the government or doctors that you have a plan to an hero or they will do things you probably won't like. Just don't. Just say that you've considered it like you're doing now. I wouldn't recommend offing yourself, but again, what problems do you have?
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Pretty much what I do already.
I'm in my first year of college and finals were able to distract me very well and while I don't really know if I was genuinely happy, I felt much better.
Do you think the St. John's Wort helps at all?
I've never heard of it but I'm willing to try anything.
>>17874232
Pretty generic problems. Loneliness is my biggest one which stems from many issues I have with myself.
Then there's shit that's fairly dumb and immature to be so distraught about but I still am.
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Why do my parents do this shit? psychology analysis? 2016-12-20 06:29:26 Post No.17874204
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Why do my parents do this shit? psychology analysis?
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Both my mother and father get rid of things and ideals that are dear to me. Inflicting emotional pain is my mother's favorite thing to do. Growing up she brain washed me to think that just by her stepping outside and my father going out, they were risking their lives in a very dangerous world. They'd come back and bitch about how evil and nasty everyone one (newsflash: i have serious trust issues with anyone now and I am borderline paranoid).
But this one particular habit boggles my mind. I got a cat once, my mother told my maid to throw it out. I looked for a week and did not find it, then eventually I overheard her laughing about it to a friend years later.
I like a girl? she calls her up and tells her I am crazy, never to see me again. If I buy something, she instantly picks on it. If I am happy, she brings up the fact how my father is out working in the snow and it's so late and dangerous (knowing such feelings hurt me - they used to but now I don't give a shit about their well being).
This one takes the cake though. Told my mother I had my class notes in a plastic bag in our closet in the lounge - not to throw it out (two days ago). She keeps asking me if she should throw it out because it's taking up space, I said no.
This morning I woke up and the bag was gone. I go to bathroom and my fuckface father in a monotone voice tells me he threw the bag out and the bag was heavy and not to worry about throwing it out myself.
What the fuck? I wanted to break everything in the house. I rushed at my mother wanting to punch her fucking face in. But I just kept it in and came back to my room, here I am studying for my final without my notes.
These people did this shit to me my entire life, I just don't understand why. They refuse to let me have a moment of peace or sense of trust in my surrounding.
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>>17874204
Why didn't you put your notes in your room? Especially since you know how she is
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>>17874210
Google Eric Berne for the real answer
>>17874204
Just move out and cut contact. They're sadists and enjoy your suffering. It sucks to accept that, but no heartfelt plea will ever change them. They get enjoyment out of this. Also are you guys Jewish? I get that vibe for some reason.
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>>17874225
Yes my mother is a hisaidic jew.
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So my girlfriend and I have been together for 8 years. We're 23 now, different state university degrees etc, we're not sheltered, it just worked out. My point is that when we have sex, it's obviously great for both of us. She sometimes gets the happy tears, very loud, etc., where in I'm just thrilled to be with a sexy woman I love. But for the last year or two, she's initiated sex 2 or 3 times where she used to a lot more, when I try to initiate foreplay, e.g. eating her out etc she refuses but if I persist for a really long time she lets me go and she loves it and then we have great sex. But it's getting worse and worse. If I can get foreplay going we're good but it's getting harder and harder to do. What's going on here? Pic related.
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>>17874134
Rarely does a relationship ever maintain the initial sex level that's just how it goes
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>>17874134
>Pic related.
Wow, how dare you
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I'll leave this post alone but I should add that she's been more sexual than ever, like that pic came out of no where while I was at work and she's always so touchy lately but I literally can't act on it if I tried.
How do I stop feeling so bad at myself? I have an asymmetric ugly face, light autism, and I'm a manlet on top of it all at 5'9
I lift and don't look terrible, but I feel that it's all in vain because it won't really ever pay off. No matter how much I try, I feel like I'm just mediocre at best
How do I get rid of this feeling?
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Are you sure you look that bad? In my experience men tend to think they're worse looking than they are. If you dress well, have nice hair and are in shape you shouldn't be too bad. Low self-esteem is a repellent though. Also your height doesn't matter as much as you think. Wait, I just reread and you're 5'9, ffs. I'm a 5'8 tall girl and my ex is 5'2. I know that's not normal but still, wtf.
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>>17874084
Ignore the feeling, I don't know? Maybe perhaps not view the world like it is some "Karate Kid" film in any aspect. Also perhaps quit feeling like the entire world is a lie. Ignore the other kids that are patronizing you, because they only want to reveal you as a loser, so that they get a girlfriend or something like that?
I mean, you can just be the best you can be for yourself. Don't act depressed and all suicidal, but most people are talkative and laugh a lot because they are bored with life. Anything dealing with learning is like dealing with more paperwork.
More paperwork, the more people do not want to be around you. The less paperwork, the more people do want to be around you.
If I handed you a 500 page book and told you to read it in 10 seconds like I did, would you do it?
No, you wouldn't. To add to that, other people like accomplishments, and enjoy them. Your accomplishments even though others laugh with, is fine. It could be that instead of having a reaction that agrees with you... Look, you just got to quit expecting a formal reaction 24/7. No one is going to give you the reactions you want like a McDonalds order. That is not how the world works. No one thinks the same like you, no one also wants to be the same like you. Your life even though it is valuable to you, is the same as the next person whom views it as valuable.
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>>17874196
When it all stacks up, you end up with a reaction that feels like it originated from a support group, but it does not matter.
I dislike support group reactions too, but here again. No one is literally feeling sorry for you. I can tell you perhaps are looking for people to relate to you, as in empathize with you, giving empathetic reactions that say you are mentally competent enough as the best working person on the team, and you are invited to my party with the coolest people in the world. You can have my girlfriend, and we are not going to fight you, but have every one of your interests and desires, but it is not going to happen.
What you need OP, is you need to understand what it means to be human and have humility about it. You can have born-again Christian believes, I do too, I am not agnostic or atheist, but neither am I going to force believes on other people. In some ways OP, I believe you may also feel like you are the unorthodox one in the situation constantly, but that again is a mistake.
Realize again where you are stepping into, you enter a door, you are not going to be showered with respect. You enter a door, and you know most of the people there, maybe, but that still does not impend on you.
More to that, people like to group up with each other who happen to have the same amount of believes and traits, or perhaps desirable believes and traits.
I also get that it feels like doing the right thing, is giving the worst results, but again it is not, because if you gave the worst kind of results much worse could have happened to you.
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Any place a schizoid can find love, or a suitable 'partner' or the equivalent of it? Besides the psych ward
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apparently not.
I've tried and failed.
and now I trust literally no one.
I'm ok with that though. It's not like anyone has ever been nice to me in the first place. They are all abusive. People are like that.
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>>17874083
Learn that everybody has flaws and give people a little bit of trust before you open yourself to them
t. schizoid
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>>17874083
What happened though? Did you get cheated on?
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is it weird to go to the orthodontist as an 18 year old
i look like im 22 and every time i go in it feels strange because there are mostly 12-15 year olds
serious question
how weird is it
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Would you rather feel weird or have uneven teeth?
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meh who cares i used to go when i was 14 and routinely saw 40 year olds going. its not that uncommon
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>>17874048
>orthodontist
wtf ?
the only thing worse than going to the dentist is not going to the dentist
go !!
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I think I almost inappropriately touched someone 2016-12-20 05:26:26 Post No.17874041
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I think I almost inappropriately touched someone
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While at work, packaging boxes, a lady on a raised platform handed me a box. As I grabbed it, I noticed my hands were at level with her crotch. (Mind you during this whole ordeal I felt no arousal)
Then a thought in my mind came in the quick time frame as I was grabbing the box "hey lemme grab under the box and touch the crotch at the same time", but then I thought, "WTF AM I DOING"!!!" And turned and froze. The lady was confused but carried on. I Spent The rest of this night Guilty, Even though I wasnt aroused. My girlfriend was sexually harassed before and I had to stop the perpetrators, but now I feel no different from them. I hate perverts. I don't wanna be like trump. I'm currently considering suicide. I let my anxious thoughts run wild and it's time to put a stop to it. Please don't consider me a monster or asshole
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Holy shit chill out...
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>>17874041
WELP WATCH THOSE HANDS BUSTER !!!
this is a common problem at mixed work environments - be careful where you stand how you move etc if you're close to femmes
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>>17874062
Thank you anon. I thought I was being overly paranoid but I guess not. I always make sure to stay 3 feet away from a woman on the train to manhattan, even if it means bending the fuck outta myself. I ain't risking accidental touches
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Sorry it's just that the thought in my head scared me
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So I'm in a long distance relationship and sometimes get packages sent to my boyfriend's house since he works from home. Recently I came over and was looking for a large item I ordered and saw a box that was about the right size in the hall closet (yes it was opened already, I thought maybe he opened it thinking it was his). Well inside was a large sex doll, not the cheap inflatable kind but a huge silicone mannequin looking thing.
Should I be alarmed or is this normal? My boyfriend makes okay money but is really frugal, which is why this is kind of surprising. I would have thought just fapping would be good enough for him, especially with how cheap he is normally. An onahole would be one thing, but this looked very expensive and I'm definitely creeped out by it. Should I not worry about it? I don't care if he watches porn and uses sex toys, it's the doll part that I find creepy and weird
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Would you have the same reaction if it was inflatable?
Maybe he just wants to live out his fantasies while your away. Maybe he imagines its you.
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>>17874053
I would definitely be less worried if it were a cheap inflatable, I have seen people get those as gag gifts. I would think having cheaper toys would be more common, too. Investing a lot in something like this seems odd for a frugal guy. I guess it's cool if he imagines it's me as long as this isn't some weird serial killer shit.
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>>17874081
Why the fuck do women have to be so controlling? He isn't cheating with other girls. He isn't molesting children. He isn't even fucking hookers. It isn't particularly different from a sybian or a vibrator you hypocrite. For all you know, he may not have even used it for years. If it bothers you, say you found it and ask him about it. But honestly if he's a decent bf then just let him have his toys in peace. Everyone is different.
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Chafing thigh remedies 2016-12-20 05:16:41 Post No.17874012
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Hey /adv/ does anyone know what I can do for my burning chafing thighs? I have baseball practice tomorrow and I think I might be fucked. I'm not fat, I'm actually pretty skinny. Thanks
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>>17874012
shower before/after, check if you have a condition/vd with a dr.
wear runners/bike shorts under your uniform.
maybe it's just dry skin bro
stop wanking for a couple days
thats all I got take care
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powder your balls
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You can also put baby powder or corn starch on the area
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This fat fuck weeaboo doing the same degree as me at uni shared a very racist post about nuking my background country, knowing i would see it.
I want to confront him about it, maybe knock him out if he acts smart, but i dont want to get expelled from university or get a criminal record.
Ive already unfriended him on facebook, how should i go about reacting to him taunting me without annoying consequences?
Any advice is appreciated.
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Tell your teacher/dean that he makes you uncomfortable with what he says and posts
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>>17873964
He will just get a warning and that will be the end of it, also ill look like a massive bitch.
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>ill look like a massive bitch
surprise shithead
you already are a massive bitch
whining about some fat fuck on 4chan ?
GTFO
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Rogaine / Minoxidil and Weed 2016-12-20 04:48:53 Post No.17873930
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Rogaine / Minoxidil and Weed
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Hey /adv/, I'm a baby-faces guy that can barely grow any facial hair. I'm planning on using Minoxidil to get facial hair. But I heard minoxidil can cause your heart to race and give you heart palpitations. Would it be safe for me to smoke weed or eat pot edibles if I'm on minoxidil? Of course, I'm asking since weed can make your heart race as well.
I'll be using 5% topical minoxidil (Kirkland generic brand).
Pic somewhat related, is like to have a beard like him
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Guaranteed panic attacks.
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Not worth it health concerns outweigh the benifits, heart damage acne and patchy beard doesnt make up for permanent damage that being said. If you really want to go forth and do this go for it side effects are different for everyone, it might help or worsen your situation. Failure in this method is rare but those cases are all too real.
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>>17873972
>heart damage
How does it damage the heart? I've never heard of this as a side effect before. (Not disputing it, just genuinely curious)
>this method
What other methods are there? Biotin?
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I want to write a love/admiration letter to a girl I've talked to for a total of ~4-5 hours over 3 days, the longest time we talked was Wednesday for 2 & 1/2 hours and I have so much to say still but we won't meet in person until the 9th.
Should I write my thoughts and send it to her or will that scare her away?
If so, what's a good outlet for this passion I have until I can talk to her again?
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>we won't meet again in person until the 9th.*
Before there's confusion, all these meet ups were IRL.
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Nope. The answer is nope.
Just keep her interest by sending a short text saying it was cool getting to know her, and wishing her a merry christmas, and then another after new years 'hoping her new years was fun, and you'll see eachother when she's back'
...since what you're asking WILL scare her away
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>>17873924
That'll definitely scare her.
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I get nightmares every night
I've tried sleeping pills, but the side effects arn't great
knocking myself out with hard liquor has mixed results
I walk around during the day like a zombie because I don't sleep right, and I'm often napping trying to make up for it
I'm sure everyone will be like "fix the problem causing the nightmares", but that's opening a real can of worms and there isn't a single cause
I just need to stop the bad dreams, any ideas guys
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>any ideas guys
maybe try some professional counseling ? there is some "sleep disorder" center near me maybe they treat this kind of stuff
definitely stop the booze, don't try marijuana
otherwise yes you really need to address what is causing these nitemares maybe they are based and your brain is trying to get you to take care of something.....
BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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>>17873885
Caffeine i hear pushes your dreams towards nightmareland. Also check to see that nothing raises your blood circulation before bed. Skullcap and mugwort tea is a nice herbal attempt. Taking notes when you wake up about what you dream about kinda helps you pick up on nightmare consistencies and you might be able to get that "oh okay i been here" feeling which is kind of a step towards lucid dreaming.
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>>17874069
>don't smoke pot
I am captain bad trip, last time I smoked weed I literally dug a hole in my back yard because I thought the government was going to bomb me
everyone else thought it was fucking hilarious
so yea, I learned that one
>>17874125
I have bad reactions to caffine, it just wacks me out in general
I had four the other week and felt like a astronaut walking around
I don't consume caffine, or any sugar to speak of
I'd rather not write notes about my dreams, I'd be worried someone would find them
sometimes I get recurring nightmares, or recurring themes but normally it seems random
sometimes I get kind of lucid, especially if I wake up in the night and go back to sleep
it really fuck with me during the day if I've been lucid at night