Would it be wise to become a semi hermit? I don't like most people. I don't hate them but they're just very tiring and annoying or they make me feel uncomfortable. I want to live in peace and quiet, only meeting family every now and then.
>>17873506
Depends on what you want out of life and what is most important to you. Relationships with people are tiring and frustrating, but most of us endure them because we get more pros than cons. That said, if you can live off the land and don't need companionship then go for it.
>>17873506
this kind of decision is purely personal, its hard to say that anything like that is 'wise'. it can be wise for yourself, but it depends.
most people who say what you say don't actually mean what you say. I'm not saying you're secretly some extroverted party animal, but for most people there's a balance.
go be a hermit if you want just don't be afraid to come back if you're bored and sad.
>>17873506
>would it be wise to head for the mountains?
No because you will deny yourself food and compnay in pursuit of something you'll probably never reach.
If you do reach it though it'll all be worth it.
>>17873520
>most of us endure them because we get more pros than cons
yeah keep telling yourself that
>>17873576
Well, I do at least. That said, I have never been afraid to cut people out of my life who aren't making it better.
At my job I get paid a ton to interact with people for brief periods of time. At home, I get companionship, someone to fuck, and someone to share life's challenges with. Yeah, sometimes it's a pain in the ass and I'd love to go live in the woods somewhere, but I'd be giving up a lot to do it.
>>17873506
>Would it be wise to become a semi hermit?
generally no it is not
you may think it is now & feel it is ok now but mostly likely you will totally regret this decision after 5-10-15 years and wake up and say - holy fuck where did all the time go ?
so go out there and socialize somehow, if you dont like people big woop find some hobby then you can focus on the hobby instead of the personalities
>>17874076
Listen to this guy, I've kinda went down this road, and being alone all the time messes with your head. Its healthier to maintain relationships, even though it may seem like too much work