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>>17874550
obvious bait. Next.

>>17874560
t. undesirable white whore

Haven't you got some black cock to ride, fatty?

>>17874562
I'm not a woman. I just think you're bait.

Or you could just get some fucking self control, dog.

>>17874546
Yes, just some freaking self-control. Want to know something OP, I've seen and heard way too much freaking terrifying sarcastic white-trash on this site. I don't know which way it should be for you, but I suggest for one damn thing, don't be an athlete for these dumbfucks here. Rather be an athlete for someone important, and not adjust your tastes to all the losers here.

Trust me these guys tastes in art is really bad. On Fit, you don't see people getting advice, you see people showing off. On /fa/ you see dumbshits flashing retarded pieces of clothing that you can't afford. Lastly, on /b/ you get a large amount of shit talking it is ridiculous.

Want to know something OP, play fucking Fallout, but get rid of your damn pleasing the asshole white-trash 4chan addiction.

What these fuckers would do to anyone on the net is profoundly amazing. It is so anti-religion and pro-communist here, it is ridiculous. To factor that in, people like to save their asses and turn fake. Skillful at lying and manipulating too.

Seeing weapons terrified the shit out of me, seeing that some of them had enough weapons to hand out to gang-members.

OP, remember before 2006, before 4chan what online users did. You know, they did not use 4chan or social sites, so they in fact played the video games without social sites. A good amount of video game players who were adults looked great to their families until the shit storm of delusionals showed up.

OP, I'll add on to that, saying that I feel terrified, and I feel like this experience on this site has done absolutely nothing to benefit me, other than show how much of a complete asswipe a website can actually become. Before this site, people were actually going to movie theaters and having fun with their friends, people were actually going outside, taking the long walk to the movie theater, and then going back home to buy DVDs and Blu-Ray discs.

>>17874540
Why the hell stay with him?

>>17874561
I love him a lot

>>17874568
Does he do other stuff like this?

How long has your "gf" been on HRT?

>>17874488
Knee-high socks.

>>17874488
thigh-highs

>>17874462
alternate, my son. in this, you must trust me.

>>17874462
If you seriously fucking have to masturbate, then
>>17874469
this.

>>17874462
Use your regular hand but invert your grip. Thank me later

She has called mum 3 times in the last week crying that the partner is abusing her.
We have dropped everything to drive directly to her only to have her rant and rave that he isnt abusive that its her.
She is seeing mental health at the hospital and apparently they have said she is a fit mother to take the child home.
The mental health person has asked my mother to talk about my aunt, my mother said 2 things : Do not believe 90% of what comes out of their mouths, and if they dont sort their shit out she will make sure that baby doesnt go home to them. The mental health person told my aunt that and she has lost her shit saying we're going to get the child taken away from her.
Damn fucking straight thats what I'm hoping to do, my mother didnt mean it that way but it was the way it was taken so I think we should fucking do it.


The partners other son who is 9 has killed animals, most recently killed a dog and has 'done something' to the little girl down the road.
Nothing was done, it was forgotten.
The baby will be under the roof with that little cunt.

My aunt has blamed everything on everyone else, refuses to take fucking responsibility for her actions that have pushed every person away. My family are done. My mother was done as soon as my aunt brought out my grandmothers bag.

My aunt has blocked my mother on facebook, unblocked her to demand she says sorry to her and her partner, then blocked her. She did it again to abuse her then blocked her before my mother could respond. .


Enough is fucking enough. How do I go about actually getting these fucking children taken off these low-life scum? The help is taken for granted, this cycle will never be broken unless something drastic changes.

If you got the baby away, where would it go?

What are your plans for the baby?

>>17874479
We would raise it or have it go to someone who wants it and will actually fucking raise it.

>>17874440
Damn, also forgot to mention I'm volunteering 3 times a week at a local elderly home (good for resume and conscience)

>>17874440
Damn, you're too wholesome for 4chan. Although, if you want actual advice, pick up an instrument or drawing or photography or something? Seems like you have a good balance of everything but an artistic endeavour.

>>17874440
I agree with the anon above. The artistic side is lacking. Drawing is affordable and you can pretty much do it everywhere but, as time passes, you'll get discourage because your capacity to see mistakes will surpass your hand skill and you'll soon find yourself unmotivated.

An instrument is the best bet. A cheap guitar or a keyboard is the best choice sinche are the "easiest" to learn. You can find cheap guitars for 100 bucks and there are plenty of tutorials on yt

Would you consider a spider-man fan boy to have Spider-man as a religion?

>>17874393

Well, consider this, Christians believe in God. a man spoke of in a book. No one ever seen him, and no one ever seen any REAL proof, but spider-man, hell, no one can even prove if Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles exist.

>>17874388
You sound like this pseudo-intellectual girl that I vaguely knew in high school that's still going through her scene phase.
Do what you want

To play csgo and rek some noobs

>>17874382
Need something without a central processing unit

>>17874381
your neet furtune is

wank in a different part of the house or dorm than usual today. your surprise will be rewarding climax.

>>17874379
Sieg Heil?

>>17874412
Nein, meine freund.

I recently told a good female who had rejected me (we hooked up for a bit and she had feelings, but chose "priorities" over me whatever that means) that we can't talk anymore. I sent her a little paragraph and told her that for me to move on from how I feel about her we can't talk, and to not answer so it's easier. I got many mixed signals, and she texted me first a few times I was trying to ignore her like she never even knew I said anything. I may have just splintered my friend group as well, since she probably won't be talking to half the friend group (my guy friends) now.

Did I fuck up monumentally by telling her not to answer and let it go? It was a snap decision but I have feelings for her and don't want to be friendzoned.

>>17874378

Hey, here's the truth.

no one does. and I along with every man in my family has had at least one NDE or coma on both mother and father's side.

No one fucking knows. and it doesn't fucking matter. You are dead, thats a blessing. Because death is an ellusive and shifty whore who seems to grace her loving full body tantric orgasms to everyone you know and love or hate, and you are perpetually last on her list.

Do you get anxious over what happened to you before you were alive?
If not, then why not?
It is a bit of a non-starter when you consider that even if something of who you are were to continue existing after your brain stops functioning, you have no way of analyzing it in any meaningful frame f reference while still alive.

>>17874386
I know that. My mind just keeps lingering on it though. I never had this problem before and I was always ok with death. I'm not sure why it's this way now. I guess I just am looking for ways to not let it bother me so I can keep living my life healthily.

>>17874333
Hey desu if you have a shot and already seem to like it and have the senpai connection.

Be humble, it's a good career and sustains you for life. My family has worked in the freight and international privatized transportation industries for four generations. I am partially blind so obviously I can't work those jobs.

You make your own commitments. And yeah aging is pretty painful on the body even if you just sit on your ass till the day you die.

Traveling between states, working with a team, starting young and staying humble knowing what your senpai has earned and provided to you with their lifes work as a sobering backdrop to how you respect the job is a blessing.

You can also always just try, end up failing hard at it, and just going back to your communications focus, or have learned enough from this opportunity to contribute to your future.

Everything is experience, but sometimes you get lucky and land a decent job that makes sense and keeps you fed while meaning something too.

I'm 25 years old. I sound like an old ass man, but I'm not lucky or able bodied/minded enough to hold a working career. But god even I would love to be considered okay enough to have a simple realistic job that could last and make me feel human. More human that my online certificates and 4chan...

>>17874333
I would recommend doing it, but keep in mind you would probably be throwing out your chances of getting a white collar job later on, but from the sound of it you aren't cut out from one of those anyways.

Do you have a job right now? What kinds of jobs are you looking for?

>>17874424
What do you mean I don't sound like I'm cut out for a white collar job? I mean, I could probably do something in the white collar field. What's the point of having a college degree then? Figured if you had a college degree you had a better shot of getting a white collared job. I didn't think you could get a white-collared job without one, also I really don't know what kind of jobs I'm looking for.

That's the issue, I don't have a lot of motivation and don't know what I want to do. I'm not even entirely sure what I can do with my degree besides sales, and even then I'm not really interested in sales. I'm currently working part-time at an antique shop making like $8/hour, I looked up where most of the jobs at Amtrak pay at least $14/hour if not higher. A lot of them pay close to $20/hour even so I could be making at least double what I'm making now and working 40 hours a week while earning benefits.

I don't think that's bad money at all, I'd making probably at least $40,000 a year and that's a lot of money to me considering I don't have kids and I'd only have to support myself.

>>17874273

people have a weird habit of only understanding the emotion they are feeling in that moment. for instance, when you are in love, you assume that love will last forever and thats why you should get married. then a few years after your break up you often look back and think 'i dont tihnk i ever liked that person'.

a funny smaller scale version of that is just most 'depressed' people. they go out, have a great time, live a normal life with friends. then they go home. suddenly they feel sad cuz they are alone, and that becomes lonely. they can only understand emotions they feel in that moment so they go online and post about how they are 100% always lonely and sad every waking moment of the day, and how they only pretend to be happy so their friends don't worry. They get to have their happy normal lives, then play the victim, and be a noble hero all at once.

then the next day they're with friends again and feel like they're best buddies and its destiny magic friendship and they mean the world to each other... until they're home alone again.


romance is the longer term version of that, generally. despite this, humans are also conflicted, so after a break up you're going to have nostalgic moments and meh moments. more often than not the sad feelings are brought up because of a specific memory. remembering sex, or cuddling, or watching a movie, or a joke, or something specific. the 'meh' feeling is just thinking about them or the bad parts.

>>17874316

as for me, its hard to say. when i look back there are so many relationships i can hardly call real relationships. they were shallow and didnt get far. there were some that seemed to get far, but i barely remember because they were insignificant for one reason or another. im convinced others only seem more important because i kept minor contact with those ex's on facebook so its brought up in my mind a lot.

there are very few relationships i look back on and hate. many im just indifferent about and struggle to remember. some im more nosalgic on and remember them fondly but not much more than just 'fond'.

there are two that i look back on and still feel some burning feelings both good and bad.

>>17874316

This makes a lot of sense thanks, we are slaves to our emotions. Just 2 months ago I thought I would never stop loving them, either my memory is terrible or I've fallen out of love pretty quickly.

>>17874268

nope. some acceptance might help.

im a switch. i like being submissive sometimes, and dominant other times. im never really in the middle anymore. always extremes.

they say that the subs are actually the dominant ones, cuz they are the ones setting the rules for what doms are allowed to do to them. its an itneresting idea.

all that being said, its sex. sex doesn't define the rest of your life. people act like were supposed to be the flat personalities you see in TV but were so much more complex than that. ESPECIALLY gays in my experience. we had an extra layer of trying to figure out how to fit in, and as such i think we developed more personas than straight men.

we can go from dominant successful business man, to carefree child like youth in an hour. at least i can.

we can text a guy demanding he meet us for dinner and a fuck, at this precise time, and then the next day block a guy cuz he wasn't man enough to do THAT to you.

we'd eed to know more about you and your iamge and whatnot to help

>>17874278

never envisioned my life like this.

feel pretty guilty after being fucked like a girl too.

>>17874385
Why the guilt, anon?

Exercise at a gym, it stimulates dopamine (aka sense of joy) and overall boosts self confidence. What do you work as

>>17874267

depends on the definition of 'better'. if you mean more enjoyable, then a jog or trip to library or a sit up won't mean shit if you dont like exercise. yes dopamine is nice but you can get to work feeling too exhausted already.

like cartoons? watch a cartoon. like video games? play a video game. like to read? read. shower? shower.

what ever you like is whats going to make you happy

>>17874276
I work in a bakery underground. I get no sunlight or joy.

I went to college for this.