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Hey /adv/ it's another thread where a guy looks for advice involving a girl.
I've known this girl for 6 years. We dated when we were younger but we've started reconnecting and I went to see her, I just got back. Thursday to Sunday. When I got there I got out of the car seeing her standing there and we embraced, obviously. Then we went inside and she was nervous wreck for a few hours offering me things and just trying to make sure I was comfy as possible. The first two days her roommate/ex was still there, and since it was a small apartment we all slept in the same room, right next to each other. She held my hand that night, and we fell asleep together like that.
The second day we just laze around the house watching cartoons, but throughout the day I noticed little things like her angling her phone away from me, and her computer at times as well. Then that night we went out to pick up a couple her drunk friends to get them food, and one heavily implied that their romantically involved, and he showed off his home screen of the two of them. Later that night she assured me that the girl was drunk and they weren't together, it was just a misunderstanding. we then talked about our past relationship and towards the end I told her how I cared about her. She seemed receptive and she kissed me, and held me tight.
The next day, her roommate left, she was pretty emotional about him leaving and we spent the day watching cartoons, and she did the same thing with her phone she did the day before. However that night, we made out really heavily stripped down, and masturbated each other. Them suddenly she stops saying she felt like she had a pit in her stomach and didn't feel right. The rest of the night we spooned, and kissed and talked about life and such.
Then today, the day I left we cuddled all morning made out, she tried on a bunch of clothes in front of me, then we had a really emotional goodbye and I left.
The stuff that has happened has me really confused. Thoughts?
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Gonna drop a bump, know it's a lot of shit, just stressing me a little bit
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Gonna drop one more bump and hope. Plz
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What exactly are you confused about? She obviously likes you.
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Hey unattractive people, especially unattractive girls, how have you come to terms with being unattractive? I'd like to hate myself less, but still have a realistic perception. Any advice on how to accept the ugly and move on? I feel like I sometimes reach a point where I can forget about my horrendous looks, but then someone says something or I look in a mirror too long, and it drags me back to reality.
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>>17870601
It's probably not as bad as your mind is making it. That's how it is for me at least. Looking in the mirror makes me shudder but I have no problem talking with attractive females and I've even had relationships with a couple. When it's something you think about every day the seriousness of it becomes less intense and you can function somewhat normally
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>>17870601
Ive been rated as a 6/10 if that helps. Im male also. I have bad cavities on my front teeth, but i smile in a way that hides them so im not sure if people notice.
Just realize that youre a living breathing human and being alive is truly a gift. So what if you're ugly? That shouldn't stop you from enjoying life
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Are you a girl or a guy OP? And why do you think you unattractive?
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I already had a thread on this once before, yesterday, when it happened. This isn't something I should be so upset about, but I feel like I need to vent, so bear with me.
>Met fuckbuddy online, hung out, watched movies and had sex 2-3 times about one night a week for 8 months last year
>She developed feelings for me, I didn't feel the same way, but told her we can keep hanging out and/or sleeping together if she wants to, which she said yes to. Also told her she can leave if she finds someone else, I would understand
>We hang out for a month or two longer, then I start taking antidepressants that pretty much kill my libido, can get hard and have sex no problem but it doesn't really feel good, and can't cum. Just did it for her enjoyment for a while
>She finds a boyfriend, we stop seeing each other, I'm happy for her, no problem
>Boyfriend is kind of an asshole and keeps dumping her whenever she starts crying (not rare, she had some issues), I'm there when she needs someone to talk to, I don't mind
>After a few months the problems stop, they're still together to this day, seems to be okay now
>We talk on Facebook sporadically, just about random shit. Maybe once every 7-8 weeks or so.
>Last time before yesterday was in August
>Casually write "Hi, sup?" to her on Facebook yesterday. This conversation follows:
>Me: Hi, sup?
>Her: Fuck off
>Me: ...what?
>Her: I don't want to talk to you
>Me: Okay. And why would you be pissed at me?
>Her: I only talk to people who are worthy of my friendship, I'm blocking you now, bye.
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>She has told me earlier (in the beginning when he was kind of abusive) about her boyfriend reading and writing on her fb chat, text messages and so on, so I assume it's just him being an asshole.
>I call her to ask wtf is going on, I'm met by 5-10 seconds of silence, then I hear how she hands the phone over to her boyfriend and he says "Are you retarded? She doesn't want to talk to you, get the point, fuck off"
So, like...I'm currently involved with someone and have been with another girl before that this year, so it's not like I'm desperately writing to her to return to being fuckbuddies or anything, it was just a random casual chat, and I have no idea what reason she had to snap like that. We rarely chat anyway so it shouldn't matter to me, but I took it pretty hard. Didn't feel good to be treated like fucking shit like that.
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You're still upset by this?
Move on already holy shit you're a baby
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>>17870571
Dont say that to easy
Sure its not his problem but when her bf has so much influence is not good
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trying to convinced myself that im not an asshole but i probably am an asshole 2016-12-19 05:42:16 Post No.17870545
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trying to convinced myself that im not an asshole but i probably am an asshole
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ive been seeing this guy for quite a while and he's super into me. before i met him ive been fucking around, trying to meet the ~right~ one, and also spending a lot of time complaining about my situation and my why-dont-i-have-a-bf-im-hot-n-funny situation.
now that it finally clicked with a guy, and that ive truely met someone who is fond of me, i cant help but wonder if he's the best i can get. i suck im totally a Dick for thinking that way but i always kinda keep chasing in case i can get someone better..... am i an ass for still wanting to flirt and keeping my eye open for ~opportunities~ ?
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>>17870545
if you have ever said "I love you" to him it's at a point where you either dump him and chase or keep him and stay. After you say that to someone you can't keep chasing.
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>>17870545
if you haven't talked about exclusivity then I suppose you're good
At least give this guy a chance if you like him that much
If you're still not feeling it after a few weeks dump him and keep looking
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>>17870563
We haven't, but we're pretty close. I mean I know that even if we haven't talked about it, it would hurt him if i went around.
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What has changed in me? 2016-12-19 05:37:43 Post No.17870537
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Just 5 years ago in high school and throughout most of college, I would attract almost zero girls, I would only hook up only with the ugliest ones
Now I am hook up continuously, have girls approach me in clubs and even have waitresses give their number unsolicited.
I can't really put together the pieces on what caused this drastic change.
Is it because I started working out harder? Is it because I gained confidence? Is this just something that happens to most guys in by the time they hit their mid 20s?
Anyone else had a similar experience?
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Young (i.e. 18-20 yo) have no valute
20+ men start to appreciate monetary value
Women realize, like hyenas to a carcass, that you're about to be rich
Women, I'm not being sexist here, are all about value
Monetary value is one sort of thing they want.
And an about to graduate man is full of potential value
Fuck 'em and dump 'em, unless you find one that thinks like you do.
Never give up a woman who has the same moral compass as you do. Who you can talk to and know they understand
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>>17870557
>women only interested in you for your monetary value
Doesn't explain one night stands
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>>17870595
They have sexual needs like anyone
But the long term goals are being supported and elevated
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Chicago weather is asscheeks 2016-12-19 05:24:25 Post No.17870503
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Chicago weather is asscheeks
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Me and my gf have been dating for a couple months now, but the shit weather has made it so now whenever we hangout it's just us sitting at home watching movies. We're both pretty open with eachother about how it's getting boring and it sucks, but I can't really think of a ton of fun/interesting things we would wanna do in this weather.
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>>17870503
I feel you on that one
We've just been drinking and dancing
Sometimes we play fight with socker boppers
We made dinner the other night, well she made dinner and I toasted bread but I COULD HAVE DONE IT SOLO
We played trivia pursuit but she's stupid so I fucked her to pay for her loss
Idk man marathon a good tv series
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ice skating... snow ball fight... thrift stores... .....avoiding snow....forcing yourselves to accept your fate....
cell phone video games...
hobbies.. making things... indoor animals..
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smoke the dankest weed after posting a couple DANK memes*tm
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I feel trapped. I don't know why. Everything is falling down. I shouldn't feel like this. Nobody understands. Why was I born into a poor family? Why am I not as smart as my peers? Why can't I better myself as a person? I just keep letting everyone down, including myself. I can't keep doing this, I can't. I don't know how to get out. I want out.
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For some people, every single waking day of their lives, is exactly like that.
It gets better, just don't stress forever. Life will tighten it's grip, but it wont strangle you. There is opportunity up ahead.
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if you keep letting yourself down just lower you expectations
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What the fuck do you want advice on? This board isn't just to whine and bitch. Saying "omg my life is so so hard guys omg :(((" will get you nowhere; everyone has tough shit to deal with. Take advantage of what these anons have to say and tell us what you need help on, you autist.
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Hey guys, I was in a relationship three months ago with a girl that lasted for 6 months. We broke up because she said I wasn't mature enough in terms of being responsible and stuff like that. I never did anything bad to her like cheating. The way the break up went is what has fucked up our relationship, we would speak (not often) and then argue over something stupid - like her not getting her stuff. Someone tried to mug me a while back and I rang her to come to the hospital with me, but she ended up blocking me and we haven't spoke since. I drunk rang her yesterday and left a voicemail asking how she was and I hoped she was okay, but she hasn't got back to me. I would like to have her involved in my life in some form, but I don't think she has any intention of being in mine at all. I don't know what to do about it, as I am quite capable of being without her and have done for the past 3 months but I do miss her. Should I abandon asking her back into my life?
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>>17870462
Yes. If you are being what she thinks is creepy or obsessive- right or wrong- there is no chance whatsoever. Sorry anon, you will have to move on.
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Jesus Christ, move on. You weren't even with her this time last year.
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I don't think I'm being creepy, we didn't speak at all for ages. I think you guys are misunderstanding. I don't want to get back with her, I've dealt with the fact we broke up and I'm okay with it, I've been working on what she said for myself, because what she said was true and it needs to change. I would like to have her involved in my life though, as a friend.
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Why would a younger girl be obsessed with an older man? 2016-12-19 05:05:11 Post No.17870457
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Why would a younger girl be obsessed with an older man?
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This actually happened to someone I know.
>girl, 20
>38 year old man
>met and went on one date, hooked up but he didn't call her back
>she harasses him and his friends/family
>age was a factor
>crazy/obsessed months after one date
>he eventually gets restraining order
Why? I can understand being heartbroken after months/years of dating but just once? And the age? Mental illness or bitter?
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He stuck his dick in crazy.
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>>17870457
She crazy
What's the question?
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>>17870457
There's so many possibilities and coming from a 3rd party's perspective whose to say
Daddy issues is usually paired in these types of situations
Often a naive young girl with romanticized visions of what love "is" do to a lot of twilight and 50 shades reading
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I'm 18 and suddenly started having pre mature ejaculation problems. What the fuck man, I used to be pretty good, lasting raw for like 15-25 minutes now i last 1 minute raw max, and 4 minutes with a condom. What do I do
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>>17870456
You're a young fag
You need to realize that your cum speed is proportional to how much you find the target attractive
It's not about being premature
It's about being attracted to your target
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>>17870468
I've fucked the same girl before and after this issue, which is my ex and my attraction for her has only gone up so is over excitement a legitimate factor?
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>>17870456
YOu need to work out when you will bang this slut, and jerk off about 6 hours before hand.
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Why is it wrong to lift for women ? 2016-12-19 04:51:43 Post No.17870431
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Why is it wrong to lift for women ?
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We all know that women want strong men.
So, why is it considered wrong/weak to lift and become physically fit just to attract women ?
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It's not. Anyone who says otherwise is a faggot. Just because they lack the dedication and motivation to do it they decide to shit all over it. Even if lifting doesn't get you pussy it will take you to a better place in your life. Then maybe when you're at that better place you can start getting pussy.
Lifting =/= getting girls but being a better you = getting girls. Someone who is in good shape takes care of themselves and that takes time and work. People who aren't faggots will respect you for that.
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There's nothing terrible about it but doing anything for the purpose of getting women cheapens the activity
Imagine if Phelps was just doing it for Olympic pussy
Body builders see lifting as more than just a means to get women
They do it for the feelings they get after a good set. That's what keeps you going to the gym, not some ho
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>>17870431
Who told you this?
Lifting is good in itself
Any other objectives are secondary
What's your diddly max?
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/neet/ & /degenerate/ lifeboat 2016-12-19 04:44:21 Post No.17870409
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/neet/ & /degenerate/ lifeboat
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>Just got out of jail
>23
>HS diploma
>No college education
>No felony
>Suspended license
>No car
>Lack of transportation
>Zero money
I have a computer at my disposal, I am applying for wage slave jobs near by to have some income.
Please, save me. I am willing to put the effort and work into changing my life around. I'm good looking, I don't like memes, I don't browse r9k. I do not use drugs. I got that going for me.
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>>Just got out of jail
what did you do?
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>>17870417
This
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>>17870409
>>Just got out of jail
explain
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Alright guys I need a little help. I was recently told a Freind of mine really likes me and I'm not sure how to ask her on a date, we like to talk to each other and stuff I'm just not very good at this sort of thing, any tips?
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>>17870381
Build her a cabinet
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>>17870386
His ability to nail will put her to his feet.
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>>17870386
That's a good fucking idea
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So there's a good possibility I won't be attending college for my spring semester since my grades were shit, I'm considering the following for alternative careers: 1. Join the Navy 2. Work in an oilfield in North Dakota or elsewhere is the US or 3. Get a welding license and become a boilermaker or pipe-welder. What is the best option and why?
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Already in college or graduating high school
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>>17870362
All aren't bad options. Just keep in mind that the oilfield stuff is extremely volatile and if you are shit with money unsustainable. As you should know recently oil hit shit levels and lay offs out the ass.
Go work in the oilfield, make some good money and rat-hole it. Take the time to decide what you want to do. I worked as a contractor for a year for a refinery. Realized what I wanted to do in college. Made good money, saved a bunch. Paid for most of the rest of my college.
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>>17870362
>Get a welding license and become a boilermaker or pipe-welder
I think a carpenter license is your best call.
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all my male frinds are gay 2016-12-19 04:25:41 Post No.17870356
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all my male frinds are gay
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I don't know what it is, but I just can't seem to keep straight male friends
yesterday another one of my friends came out to me
it was the third or fourth mate in a row
one of them even said he had a crush on me, what the fuck.
I don't like gays; fuck I hate them
why do they tell me, they KNOW I hate faggots; everyone knows I hate faggots
we're they gay all along?
is it just really bad luck?
do they crave judgement?
I just want some normal male friends who I can shoot the shit with
>inb4 anon is gay, anon is a bad person for hating gays etc
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It's one big joke and they're all in on it.
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>>17870356
Not going to call you a bad person, but I am interested to know why you hate them?
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>>17870356
i think ur homo in negation
& secretly you want a dick down your throat
someone tu cum hot burning inside you and feel the sticky sweet cum slide from your tongue to your throat
no homo