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Don't feed the magpies.

NEVER give any cash. Youre probably just supporting a drug or alchohol addiction.

Give food or clothing

>>18327376
Firstly, you dont give them money.
Food and essentials at most i.e. some tick and flea spray is what i like to give them. Especially if they have a dog. A role mat can cost like 2 pound for a cheap one. Good if you are in a town with shops nearby to buy one from.
Secondly 20p is a bit cheap compared to non homeless, but they arent going to complain. Giving them anything is more than 99% of what people do.

Finally, fuck me dude. Its £1 and £0.5 or just 50p. The symbol is before the degit

Are you a fat, disgusting slob with high blood pressure and diabetes? You sound like one. Loose some weight, fatty. Exercise and you will live longer.

>>18327213
Not really. I go the the gym 3 times a week and play basketball for my college. One of my friends died at a young age from sudden cardiac arrest and its just recently started to haunt me. I will miss out on loads of experiences in life and I don't wanna die ever

>>18327211
it sounds like it might be hypochondria. if youre healthy and in your 20s theres not much to worry about. go to the doctor if it worries you that much. I know this very well since I've lived (and continue to live) it. Those symptoms you experience are very easy to induce I believe, since i've had both of them. tingling in your feet is an anxiety symptom as well. my chest hurts pretty often, but nothing has happened 2 years after having those chest pains, and they "coincidentally" get worse when im anxious. it'll be fine, most likely. friends' deaths can trigger those mental illnesses. mine happened randomly, though.

I'm 32 and I've never been laid. Welcome to my world.

>>18327159
I dont know, die alone?

http://www.improveyoursocialskills.com/conversation
>>18293702
>practice makes perfect

>social dynamic of women
No such a thing. Girls are completely illogical entities. Even chads have no idea what they want or think. All you have to do is to be attractive for them and they will come :-D

Dont' self-diagnose yourself mate. The term gets hurled around so much nowadays that if you're not some carbon-copy average joe then you must have some 'condition'.

Social clues can be learned through practice, just go out and have a few beers and get comfortable talking to people, even if you have to imitate them at first.

>>18327117
its a terrible decision
get yourself in a better place
or use that money to move somewhere with better job opportunities
dont waste it on a trip that will only make her happy for a little while

>>18327117
Apply for job in different location and then use the money to move there and rent flat with your gf.

Thank me later.

>>18327162
Don't know where to go. I'm payin 70 a night for a motel right now. Living in San Diego, california. only positive is family lives here + gf has an ok job.

No, man. I recognize your post from the ask the opposite sex thread. Try to relax a little.

Human sexuality isn't either pristine and natural or fucked up. Tons of people have had their sexuality shaped by (not necessarily positive) experiences growing up. That's completely normal.

>>18327102

No, you're a manlet and she makes you feel normal. If she does like you, don't fuck it up.

You're a closet pedophile.

>>18326970
The age gap isn't much.
More importantly how are you allowed to teach kids

Dont fuck her, she is infatuated not in love. She looks up to you and your position of power. Its probably illegal and definatly morally wrong. Be nice and shut down any romantic shit.

I need a little info in order to give you advice. Why don't you tell me your name and what school you work at?

>>18326946
also, normal white boy dick, just about 7" when erect, normal girth.

Go to a drug store and buy the trojans.

>>18326960
isn't that super expensive? I always feel like things I buy at CVS or 711 are extremely overpriced due to their convenience.

>>18326852
No. As soon as she says no to dating you, move on.

>>18326852
as soon as possible. I'd say a few hours later.

>>18326854
Based cuck is right. But he is cuck so

>>18326852
Just ask her again. You have nothing to lose by doing so. In the worst case she will let you down again. So ask her now and see for yourself.

Just pretend you're already his friend? Or like he's a brother or cousin. That may help with the anxiety. Or you can try telling yourself it's an irrational fear, and taking a few deep breaths before finally talking to him. If you spill spaghetti, don't worry it happens. But just try it till you feel okay? You may end up as friends at least, who knows.

Ah, I hope you are interested in me... Does your guy name start with an "M"?

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>>18326735
>but I have a really hard time talking to guys

wrong guys
>extroverted girl
haha

>>18326651
You seem tough. You might need a hospital. Get your self a piece of metal, take the safety of the top of your stove and turn it on, heat the metal up and cauterize your wound.

>>18326651
Sacrifice animals to the great god Nurgle until your wound festers with plague and use this to take over your planet.

Or just go see a doctor you fucking moron.

go to a motherfucking DOCTOR, dipshit. We're not medical professionals. That definitely sounds like a deep wound though, likely hit the bone if the knocking sound wasn't your imagination. If the bleeding isn't stopped, it means you may have nicked an artery. go to a DOCTOR. go to the HOSPITAL. right now. Especially with lost sensitivity, you may have torn muscle, hit a nerve, any number of things.

If you don't go to a FUCKING HOSPITAL you may lose sensitivity permanently.

>>18326582
If you tell her all of this she loses hope and lets herself go probably, so i think you did right and part of her will accept this outcome by declaring you a jerk.

>>18326582
WTF? 28 yo is not a girl and she is not with either father, you sir are asking for trouble. Hope you are taking precautions or she'll have three baby daddies.

>>18326582
You didn't come here for advice, you came for validation, and that annoys the shit out of me. But yeah you did fine, you fucker.

>>18326421
I expect that behavior from women. They just have a different opinion on how you should live your life. Not sure if that's enough to terminate a friendship. If it's enough reason for you then I guess you should. I wouldn't mind it unless it became an issue that hurt others parts of the friendship.

because you are a walking STD dispenser or will become one anyway

>>18326421
It would help if you kept your mouth shut about how many people you fuck. Start there.

>>18326315
It is called preference.

Just find some 30 years old dude and marry him. Make sure he sees you as equal and not just as personal fuck toy / trophy wife.

You have no problem. Maybe try to study first before you marry so you dont become 100% dependent on your husband in case he turns crazy and divorce will be the only way how to escape.

Tried to dress dude your age to clothes fitting older guy and dye his hair to grey? Worth a try. May work.

>>18326349
I don't know anyone who'd willingly dye his hair gray. It's also kinda badly viewed to date someone so much older.

30 is very young for my standards. 35 is the very least.

because you revel in your speshul taste
it doesnt make you any better sunshine

Force yourself to interact with people, really helps with getting a job.

>>18326233

Identified whether its social anxiety or atmospheres.

I had a huge divde between my behaviour around close friends, and my behaviour in professional settings and meeting new people in more formal pretenses (also really good. Got praised often for personability).

And clubs and bars (instant social retard.. Yet fine again in the smoke pit).

Eventually learned im socially fine. I just need to.avoid loud places with too many people and no tangible ice breakers. I dont know what to do with myself in these situations and i cut them out and my confidence went up.

Other than that its practice.

Find your spaces and just learn that people are generally pretty nice and not judging you, and if they are it doesnt matter anyway.

>>18326233
>Got really successful, cured it for a little bit
>was on top, had tons of friends etc. wasn't an awkward fuck or afraid to talk to people, was just myself.
>stopped being successful, fell behind, got fat, stopped working
>it came back in a second
>working towards not being socially autistic again
My social anxiety was because of my insecurities, as soon as they were gone i became myself, and as soon as they came back i lost myself.
Try improving yourself.

>>18326047
>inb4 gold digger
Didn't mention my income at any time and I don't spend my money on fancy cars, I only drive 90s shitboxes and own a small apartment, all I did was pay for the meal and drink once in a while

>>18326047
Girls are just girls op.

Some are dumb, some are whores and some are qties who will stick around and try to transform you into their husband and provider to whom they will in return provide unconditional love, support and offspring.

Buy condoms and keep looking for such qtie until you find one. In the mean time, dont over investemnt yourself emotionaly too much into them.
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>>18326052
It's not that the girl leaving is the problem
It's that my motivation is gone as well, before I could brush aside friends with girlfriends telling me I'm going to stay alone and all my money and shit doesn't matter
Now I get upset when I see couples in public, call it jealousy but I want to go back to my original mindset
Like I said, relationships used to be last on my priorities, now it's all I think about and can't focus on work and long drives in the canyon just don't work for clearing my mind anymore