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Strategies for surviving society as a genetically repulsive male? 2017-05-20 01:02:13 Post No.18331340
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Strategies for surviving society as a genetically repulsive male?
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What are some ways you can stay as isolated from people and social situations as possible while still being able to support yourself instead of leaching off your parents and eventually killing yourself?
I'm 21 and I've been working my first job at retail for almost two years now. I have a car and 10k in the bank. Currently the best path I see to being able to support myself and live relatively isolated is to get a computer science bachelors and from there a job as a software developer. However I have some concerns about whether or not this is actually possible for me as a truly genetically unfortunate male. I already have some programming skills with Java/C++ making little game engines with OpenGL so I know I'm not too stupid for the coding itself, but I don't know if I could communicate effectively enough, plan tasks, keep things organized, not get overwhelmed with anxiety and have the high cortisol impair my ability to work, because of my shitty genes. I never see the true genetic affronts of society having a well-paying job, ever. They are always locked away in their parents basement, and the ones that aren't eventually succumb to the psychological torture imposed on them by humanity and lash out against society violently. Unattractive, ugly in the lacking any sex appeal sense, sure. But truly repulsive, no. Is it even possible to succeed in an academic environment looking like this when you have the reverse halo effect working against you? Is it even possible to get hired for a high paying STEM job?
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>genetically repulsive male
You seem to think that actually matters in the real world. I guarantee you that there are people out there far uglier than you but are very successful.
Hell this guy looks like a baked potato and he is a movie star. Do you think he let his looks hold him back?
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Lift and lose weight if your fat. Ugly but bulky dudes get on just fine in society. I dated a guy that would have been 100% undatable if he'd been skinny. Not a looker and my girlfriends were open about finding him ugly. He was muscular and did boxing, wrestling, and MMA. You don't have to go that far, but start lifting weights and maybe join a fighting gym at a low level. They have great brotherhood there and will support you. A lot of the people I knew through that guy began fighting, because they were antisocial skinny rejects. If he hadn't made that change it would have crippled him socially, professionally, and romantically forever.
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>>18331340
Have you ever seen someone at an IT/STEM job? Most people there are pretty ugly. Though with your pathetic attitude you're not getting anywhere in the first place.
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>20 years old
>Can't see a reason to stay in this world
>Feel like everyone's trying to pretend that life is worth living as an adult
What's the point in this?
I see people crafting garbage to help them through life everywhere.
They know it's not real, but they pretend that it is.
I think I'll just get out in a couple of years, or I may just live until my parents are gone.
Early childhood was good, teenage years were ok, but adult life doesn't seem to be worth bothering with.
If I had the brain of a normal person, I would probably be ok in this world, but I am who I am.
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Sex and GOT
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What made life worth living as a child that is suddenly different?
Other than you just don't want any responsibilities and want everything handed to you of course.
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Everything was new to me.
I had total freedom in this world. Now that I'm working 8 hour days, it's a stretch to say there's free time outside of the weekend. I'm always tired. I don't see how I can do it for years.
I don't care about sex, and escapism can't justify staying in this world.
> hook up with girl
>go to hers
>make out, get undressed yada yada
> start to make my way down to vag, kissing and licking
> get close, can smell stank from vag.
> I'm in too deep can't stop or else she will think something is up
> will myself to do it anyway. regret it, can taste the bacteria in my mouth
> stomach it for about a minute before I can't anymore.
> mount her and fuck her instead
what do you do in this situation? I soldiered on because I wanted pussy that time, but God damn it was brutal.
I drowned my mouth with Listerine after
what do in this situation?
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Just say you suddenly remembered you had some kind of std. Chlamydia usually works wonders!
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>>18331277
holy fucking kek
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>>18331277
i basically did what you did in that situation, except i didn't last even 4 seconds down there. it made me wretch.
if you don't mind not getting laid and hurting her feelings then you can say something. otherwise you just fuck her with a rubber.
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about rent and roomates 2017-05-19 11:34:53 Post No.18331178
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So I live with my so and 2 roomates (the house has 3 bedrooms and my partner and i share one).rent is split into three equal parts; each one of them pays 1/3 of the rent, and while i dont pay any rent, I pay for the utilities of the whole house(electricity, phone, internet, gas and water bill) which every month ammounted to about half of what each of them paid for rent. That changed recently, when on of our rooomates began growing weed in his room. The electricity bill went up significanlty, but its still not as much as what they spend individually on rent.
The thing is, my partner belives i should ask our roomate to pay for the excess in the electric bill, and i feel uncomfortable with it because I pay less to live there than they do , so i feel like it would be kinda greedy from me to to ask him for money....
Do you think its greedy, or should i listen to my so?
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>>18331178
Listen to your gf. She is greedy and that is a good sign. Obey her or there will be no sex.
Also i bet weed is illegal and you could just make him to stop.
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Why the fuck don't you all just pay rent and them split the bill?
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>>18331211
Op is obviously female.
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Im a college freshman, never been to a party in my life. I was loser in High school but in college I made friends with a couple of jocks and they invited me to a party. I have no idea how to behave at a party without being awkward, help.
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It's gonna suck you'll go home regretting every minute. Don't go and save yourself the trouble.
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>I have no idea how to behave at a party without being awkward, help.
You want to know a secret?
No one knows how to behave at a party without being awkward. That's why young kids drink. They're all insecure, hormonal messes and they use alcohol and being drunk as an excuse to act out their deep seated need for validation.
That's why kids get too drunk and randomly fuck each other and fight and smash shit and jump through windows; because being drunk is the only time their heads aren't filled with the fear and anxiety of getting older and finding out who they are. Drunk words are sober thoughts so, following that logic, it makes sense why everyone invites their crushes and does crazy over the top shit at parties because its the only place where they have an excuse to say and do the things they want to do but just don't have the courage to do otherwise.
I'm not saying parties aren't fun, I'm just saying don't step into a room and assume you're the only person there who lacks confidence or social awareness. It is literally 100% of the room.
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>>18331177
Normal people are socialized by age 5. They drink because it's fun to be disinhibited. You and I and the OP are all social retards and there's nothing to do about it.
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Can my manager make comments on my prescription medication?
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Give context ffs
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>>18330790
I take 30mg of adderall at 2:00PM every day to help with my attention and all that shit and my manager saw me taking it but she decided to say I didn't need it and basically shamed me over time to lie to her about not taking it anymore. I still take it and I'm worried that she's going to find out that I do and give me shit for it.
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>>18330796
No she can't. If she starts tell her to fuck off its a prescription you need. If she continues call HER boss.
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How do I move out? (am 21)
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2017-05-19 08:18:38
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>no car
>no money
>my parents will kick me out of their house if I don't work for them and I have nowhere to go
>they hardly pay me anything (maybe $100/week)
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Join the military
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>>18330681
and a room and meals not too bad
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...your parents pay you?
If I didn't do anything/contribute, I'd be out in a heartbeat.
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I need help, faggots.
I have a friend that thinks he's too fucking intelligent, he's arrogant to all of us. Or simply, asshole.
This one is specific, and I don't know how to deal with him. He's my one of best friends. (that's now maybe weird, but he was my best friend before he started with assholery.)
We're in high school, and when it's rest time we hike around the school and we talk about random things, then there is the moment when he asks me something , and when I say I don't know or when I make mistake he says:
"Go kill yourself." , "You are retarded." , "You're stupid." , ''Your IQ number is my shoe number.''
And for his fun, when I don't know something, on purpose he asks me things he knows I couldn't answer, just to "laugh" his ass of. He's being idiot more when someone else is around.
Call me a bitch or whatever you want, but those words that he says hurt me, because I know he thinks that seriously.
I don't know where to find help except here. I'm on 4chan for a long time and I know there are some smart people here who can tell me how to deal with this guy. At least some comebacks or anything. He can destroy your whole day in the second.
Help me, please.
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>>18330526
I dont know also, well try beating him up?
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>>18330526
Talk to him about it earnestly and privately about how it makes you feel. If that doesn't work, cut or reduce your contact with him. Remember, people can change overtime, don't let legacy trap you in a toxic friendship.
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>>18330526
Remind him that he might know more than you in certain things, you two are both in high school, so the only way to actually prove that he is much smarter than you is by intellectual achievements at the scale of USAMO, or inventing something, or writing a decent book, not just some simplistic kid puzzles or knowledge of the trivia. Did he achieved any of those things? if he said he is smart but not motivated (the go to excuse of average people), you said you can claim the same thing. So, at best he is slightly smarter than you, and if you are a retard, that still makes him a retard or borderline. More importantly, use this as a motivation to do better than him in school. Get into better college.
Honestly I have never been in your situation, but I can imagine it is pretty scary if Gauss or John von Neumann act like your friend at your age. As a kid, they would effortlessly demonstrate their vast superiority over a normal kid. However, I don't believe it is possible for any genius to act like your friend. Here is a (plausible) proof:
Edward Teller is the physicist who created Hydrogen bomb.
Edward Teller admitted that he "never could keep up with him". (refer to Von Neumann)
Teller also said "von Neumann would carry on a conversation with my 3-year-old son, and the two of them would talk as equals, and I sometimes wondered if he used the same principle when he talked to the rest of us."
That is how genius sees normal people, they would spend every effort to talk as equals to normal people, so that the content of the conversation is understood, because that is the only thing they care about, because for them, it is utterly pointless to establish any kind of superiority over normal people. Would you call a 5 year old a retard because he can't answer something? no, unless you are another 5 year old. See, the point is, what your friend has demonstrated is that the gap in you two's intelligence is minuscule.
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My dad is forcing me to get a job. The problem is I have severe social anxiety and he chooses to ignore it. I have been going to a psychiatrist but it hasn't helped. I went to a psychologist last summer but it only made things worse. I am thinking about living in my car but I have no idea how I will survive the summer heat. What the fuck do I do?
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Go for a low-key job that doesn't require much social interaction like a nightwatch or something.
Also, you on any meds?
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>>18330400
You don't get over social anxiety by hiding in a basement, so either kill yourself or get over yourself. Get a job.
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Is he giving you a job or just telling you to find one? Living out of your car won't help much, you won't be able to shower often so the entire thing will smell like BO after about a month in the heat. I don't think therapists generally do much to help people in these situations, they basically tell you the very basic things you need to hear to just barely function in the adult world. They are terrible at addressing the actual issues behind your anxiety.
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I want to train free running but I'm ashamed. Should I just do it anyway and not care what people think? I'm 23
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>>18330319
Do it. Start small at the park or something.Those videos on youtube are practiced for weeks or montgs before they're filmed so set realistic goals.
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Get a fucking job.
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>>18330357
What does a job have to do with what I wrote?
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Love Triangle - It's just like one of my Japanese Animes! 2017-05-19 04:05:14 Post No.18330094
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Love Triangle - It's just like one of my Japanese Animes!
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I was in a long distance relationship for a lonnnnnnng time. We've known each other online for almost 10 years and have spent almost all of our time hanging out on skype. He lives on the other side of the continent in a different country but beyond that he's pretty much perfect for me in every way. Last year we talked about having me come live with him at the end of this year, and we talked about eloping. This was all his idea but I was into it. In January he changed his mind and it broke my heart. Since then we've been more like long distance FWB, but we still talk about ~someday~. Someday we might get married, someday we might live together, etc, but he's too scared to get it rolling.
Shortly after he changed his mind I hooked up with a guy, a rebound kind of thing. He recently asked if I'd like to be his girlfriend. I'm still quite hung up on guy A and I told guy B this, but he said that's ok, even though I don't think that's entirely fair to him if I enter a relationship while I still have strong feelings for guy A. I told him I would think about it.
Do I stick with guy A continually chasing after ~someday~ and hoping that he finally gets the ball rolling?
Or do I go with guy B, someone who I don't have as strong feelings for right now but is local?
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what does your heart say?
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>>18330094
Have you ever even met the first guy in person?
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>>18330126
My heart wants both. I would date both if I could but neither of them would be into that.
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We've met a few times.
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>tfw not had sex in 3 and a half years
I distinctly remember lying in bed and watching my ex put her bra back on and knowing it could well be ages before I ever had sex again. I knew she was leaving the following day and that was our last time. But I never thought it would be this long, with no opportunities or hope for getting laid on the horizon.
inb4 escorts. I can't afford them and I really don't want sex with prostitutes anyway if I can help it. But I honestly feel like a part of my masculinity and soul dies every single day that I am not getting laid.
Is fucking brutal. I need help.
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>>18329920
you have one hell of a fucking fragile masculinity.
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>tfw haven't had sex in 20 years
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>never had sex
Get on my level brah.
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I met a girl two months ago, she´s cute and charming, but I´m 24 and she´s 16, she also looks very innocent and I use to spend all nights drunked with beer and I´m not actually a referent of anything, she´s interested in me, but I don´t want people to say bullshit of her for being with me or even make her feel upset for my problems, what should I do?
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16? Ahh man
I somewhat did the same in the past
I was 21 and she was 17
It felt soooo fucking weird when i was dating her
I ended up taking her virginity and I regret it.....
Man i don't know..
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>>18329697
That´s the point, I don´t know if she´s is virgin or not, but whatever, I would fell bad If i had sex with her.
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>>18329702
Be honest and ask her
I asked mine if she really wanna do it
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Greetings.
I came here for some psychological help. I do have a bunch of issues affecting my life in many ways, but I think I found a rotten part of the chain.
I figured out that I'm too dependent on the support of others. If I am evaluated by others, I get a boost of confidence and an incentive for future improvement. I can trace its roots to my childhood, when I was getting little to no attention from my parent.
Earlier, I figured out I really need to have someone to talk to, so I, usually afraid of people, began to communicate with robots from 4chan. It always went well, but sooner or later, these people left me - someone just went offline, someone stopped responding, and one of them even betrayed me, even with me being polite, nice and caring, although very clingy.
The thing is, I began to wonder. What if I do not need people in the first place? Maybe I'm destined to have this strange retractory aura of mine for the rest of my life, and my need to be inspired by others is abnormal, so it should be removed?
Then again, I feel like I can do something if people tell me either I can do it or I have the potential.
I don't know what to do next. I do have signs of clinical depression, but I'm afraid to go to the clinic, since medics in my country cannot care less about my health.
In short sentence, I don't know how to be friends with someone, and as it both critical for me and impossible for me, I want to get rid of my need of having friends.
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>>18329596
get off r9k, it's a cesspit of morons that will make your life worse in every measurable way.
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>>18329601
I think I can understand what you're talking about.
I can relate to them with my psychological profile, so we appear more or less connected despite that the crowd is too varied sometimes.
But I guess it's not the correct cultural sphere for me.
So you're saying I should try to get friends from other boards?
I can't possibly go IRL because I get too tired from simply looking at people's faces.
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Bump.
Sapere aude.
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Don't want to do anything 2017-05-19 11:34:35 Post No.18329570
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Don't want to do anything
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Hello dear /adv/isors,
I don't really want to do anything. I don't feel bad, I just don't especially want to do anything. I have to work later, I don't mind that, I don't want to but I don't not want to either so I just go with it. That's basically how my life is.
Maybe it sounds ok in comparison to a lot of the bad things that affect people, and I guess it is, but I really just find myself lost as to what to do. If I were totally left to my own devices I would probably just sleep a lot as it is physically comfortable. I restrain myself from doing that because then I would be sleepy while working and people would notice and eventually it would become a source of stress. Often thoughts float through my head like "Well, today I could xyz... nah, I'll just chill."
I mean my life is never going to fucking go anywhere like this it's beginning to irritate me. I would welcome any advice / validation / pointless shitposting.
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So what do you actually do when you're awake and not working, and not asking what you should be doing?