Hey adv need a bit of advice. Recently I told this girl (pic related) that I was in love with her. she shockingly responded with "I feel the same way about you anon.". However afterwards she said she was in a relationship and said she didn't want me to completely fuck it up. however she said that if it did end I would definitely be hers. is this a good sign?
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Lol you actually believe her? If she wanted to be with you, she wouldn't be with the other guy.
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>>18341202
She has no reason to lie to me. we have known eatchother for a long time. plus she isn't the type of girl to lie about something this serious. she would have told me something along the lines of "I'm sorry anon be we should just stay friends"
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>>18341199
you my dude, are the backup man. The plan B.
But she's fucking adorable. Play it real low key minimal contact but always be super charming in your SHORT responses. the less you say with these broads pre-coitus, the better.
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Would you suck another man's dick to fuck an 8/10 high test girl? This chick wants me to suck this dudes dick in a mfm threesome and I'm straight so I'm disgusted by the thought but she's pretty hot. wat do?
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Man up dude and suck that dick.
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>>18341227
Would you? Would any self-respecting straight man? I really want to fuck her but the thought of sucking dick is just too much for me.
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>>18341236
pretend it's your own dick
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Why do people say sex is overrated especially in response to virgins talking about sex?
Like I don't understand those who over-value sex but I don't get people who are quick to say "oh sex isn't that big of a deal desu." more.
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Sex isn't overrated. It's good as literal fuck. It's the best rush you can have with your own body.
Sex is overthought by virgins. People think too hard about it, and end up forgetting to enjoy themselves fully. Those are the ones who say sex is overrated.
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>>18340911
I see you posted a Squidbillies gif. I will assume you know something about Squidbillies and remind you that success is a journey, not a destination. Tape three, dammit!
Sex is a big deal if you see it as an end. Same with love, romance, dating. You'll get there and not know what to do next.
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>>18340911
Sex is really good if it's done with someone you genuinely feel a bond with and are very sexually attracted to them. It's even better if you have the same fetishes. The sex that's over rated is casual vanilla sex, it feels very mechanical.
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How much of a fit is my roommate reasonably allowed to throw about our internet speeds? The guy pays a flat fee to the house and gets pissed off when I stream something and he gets lag in Overwatch/League/whatever the fuck he's playing.
I think he should go fuck himself and I should be able to use the web as much as I want, whenever I want, just like him. Should I shut it down so he can play his vidya?
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>>18340784
Get better internet you shitpipe. There's no excuse for not being able to support 8+ machines in heavy traffic in 2017.
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One thing to consider is that it may not be streaming that causes lag. Your Internet may just be not good for gaming. You should spend some time confirming that you streaming is actually interfering with his gaming use.
Obviously there is no such thing as 'as much as you want' because there is a limited amount to go around. Either shell out for more bandwidth or define a schedule where you each switch off.
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>>18340789
As far as I know, my house is stuck with some shitty service. I've had the people out here, and I've basically just learned to live with it. There isn't a better service I can buy, and no one is gonna fix it. I'd love it if there were some competition here, but it's Cox for broadband, and CenturyLink if I want to cheap out and get DSL.
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If we're both off after 5 and have to be in bed for work between 10-12, there's not much time for "switching off."
It's not fair to me to need to switch to DVDs or books because he wants to play games at maximum performance. We could both stream a movie at the same time, he's just mad his sniper shot missed.
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
Fuck off
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>>18340776
So why do woman.....oh fuck it.
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>>18340786
we would like to "fuck it" but we're too shy...
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>texting girl from dating site
>mention sex casually (not in a perverted way at all)
>she says "you must really like sex hahaha"
>I reply with an angel smiley and asking "and you don't?"
>she says "I've never had sex"
>MFW
I hope she is serious, because otherwise it would be some hardcore trolling.
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Girlfriend just broke up with me because I apparently don't attract her. She told me that I'm everything she wants in a husband, but the feeling of romance isn't there anymore.
We're best friends, I took a while to ask her out, I pursued her primarily while dating other girls, we dated for a while before becoming a thing and were together for about a year.
How can I/ should I take things back to how they were? By that I mean, how do I go back to being someone who dates her and tries to win her over again? We still talk and call like nothing changed, so it feels like I'm back to square one with her.
I respect what she's had to say, but I think she's making a foolish decision exacerbated by the fact that she's been 5000 miles away for months.
I think the best strategy would be to just forget about her for the time being and focus on improving myself, but should I even consider pursuing her in the long game?
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>>18340702
Why pursue a woman who has no interest in you? If you aren't worthy of her time now, why should she be worthy of your time when you improve yourself (whatever that means)?
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>>18340706
Because I don't give up easily and am unwilling to accept what I think is a temporary feeling in her. I think that I can change her mind if I can just make myself more attractive physically and socially by working out for the next two years, taking up swing dancing, getting my degree and a fat paycheck.
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>>18340722
That's not how attraction works. You can't force someone to see you romantically.
They either have those feelings for you or they don't.
Your best friends. She already likes you as a person so why would more social activities changs the way she feels?
I want you to think of a female friend you have now or had in the past. Now imagine that same friend became marginally more physically fit and took up more social hobbies. Do you think you'd suddenly have feelings for her?
No you wouldn't and your ex won't either.
You made a go of it. You were together. You tried. And you guys didn't work. If you did, you'd be together now.
But it's only been a year and she's already lost interest. Even if you were to get bavk together, what do you think will happen after another year? After five? Ten?
You couldn't even make it through the first year. Which is the easiest year of the relationship.
She doesn't like you like that OP.
Time to move on.
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How do you stop overthinking things?
I finally grew some nuts and asked a girl on a date today.
I can't help but play what I remember in my head over and over again looking for signs I just made her nervous/uncomfortable.
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I do the exact same thing. I often replay awkward conversations I've had with chicks that happened 5 years ago.
I've been advised to practice meditation. It will help you be more of a laid back person who doesn't give a fuck.
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>>18340565
>signs
the only sign you need is her answer. if she said yes, i wouldnt worry about it. if she said no, probably to some degree.
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>>18340648
Not OP, but would if she says "sure" really awkwardly?
Why do I want to cheat? I have a great, attractive girlfriend. We're crazy about each other, hardly ever fight. And yet I want to fuck other girls. I don't want to want to cheat but I'm constantly creating online dating profiles, talking to girls for a few days, feeling guilty, then deleting the account. I feel guilty then I do it again a month later.
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Just break up faggot
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>>18340236
I don't want to though
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>hardly ever fight
Usually wanting to cheat implies you aren't getting something you want/need from your partner. It would be a better idea to figure that out and see if your current gf could provide it.
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How do I stop feeling like the worst teacher in the world? 2017-05-22 10:36:01 Post No.18340164
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How do I stop feeling like the worst teacher in the world?
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A few days ago, I ran into a former student of mine. I was actually happy to see her again, but eventually at some point in the conversation she told me I was the worst teacher she'd ever had because I had refused to stand up to her bully. I do remember that a student of mine was bullying her and how she came up to ask for my help, but I told her it was her own responsibility to stop the bullying or just get over it. I really didn't think I would have scarred her like this.
How do I cope with the guilt?
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That's pretty bad, what was wrong with you
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>>18340164
The girl sounds like a winny snowflake that didn't want to salve her own problems and now is propetuating her victim hood by blaming you. Was the girl being physically hurt by this other kid, unless it was really serious she should have tried to get over it herself
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try not getting hung up on the emotions of teenagers retard
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Dating someone that did hard drugs 2017-05-22 10:17:14 Post No.18340131
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Dating someone that did hard drugs
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Girl I've been seeing lately just told me there was a period of time about 1 year ago where she did
>pot
>lsd
>coke
>crack
>heroin
idgaf about pot or acid, but I had never before met someone that used hard drugs, I mean, fucking heroin.
I really like her, she's super smart and we've had great conversation. But we've gone on like 6 dates and still haven't had the opportunity to fuck (and probably won't for 2 weeks), and I'm worried that I'm being blinded by how much I like her to realize that this drug use is a pretty big fucking deal. She did say she wanted me to know who I was dealing with and that she didn't plan on doing it again.
Is it worth it to continue pursuing this relationship?
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>>18340131
Why not, she is open about it and seems to be over it by now.
It's her past and i bet you have a black sheep in the closet aswell.
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Was she an addict?
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>>18340141
1 year is very little time to really "get over it" isn't it?
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Sexual abuse double standard 2017-05-22 09:31:19 Post No.18340007
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Sexual abuse double standard
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Why do certain people not consider grown women having sex with boys isn't as bad or serious as a crime as grown men having sex with boys and girls or even grown women having sex with girls?
>fuck Reddit btw (pic related)
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>>18340007
because in case of when a guy rapes you, it hurts.
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Because men are supposed to be obedient and enjoy any attention like dogs but this is untrue and can hurt. I've also heard old boomers say things like "lucky" and "wish that were me".
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>>18340027
My female teacher in middle school sodomized me with a deodorant bottle. It really hurt.
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whats a good job for an 18 year old guy with no experience
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>good job
>no experience
pick one
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Gay porn
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>>18339892
I don't mean like a ceo or something just a job that isn't shitty that doesn't require previous working experience
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for the past 7 months ive been dating this girl who is probably one of the hottest girls ive ever dated, things went well for the first 5 months but recently shes been acting really high maintenance, and by this I mean shes doing annoying things like being bitchy randomly, causeing arguments when there is no problems even happening, asking me to pay for most of her shit including her half her car insurance and car payments when I already pay for all our dates and any food when she stays over for weeks on end. If I object to any or say I don't have money that month to spend cause of my own bills she gets dramatic and starts acting like its the end of the world saying stuff like " how am I going to pay for my insurance im fucked now, where we gonna get money for food?" She has a job but its shit basically below minimum.
Dont get me wrong things were great for awhile, sex was off the wall and I enjoyed being with her but its getting emotionally draining constantly having to put up with her mood swings and figuring out what to do to make her happy all the time, but I don't want to break up with her because I dunno if I will find a chick this good again, its just starting to get emotionally and financially taxing.
tldr : dating hot chick, really high maintenance pay for most of her shit including her car bills and food while she lives off me, shes very high maintenance constantly causing issues, is this normal for hot chicks?
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>>18339597
>but I don't want to break up with her because I dunno if I will find a chick this good again
But that's the thing: she's not good, just hot.
And as you're discovering, that shit doesn't sustain a relationship. Dump her. There will be others. Ass isn't worth your sanity and peace of mind.
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>>18339603
im starting to feel that way, no matter how much I want to stay with her it feels like im walking on egg shells everyday, despite how much effort im putting into this it just doesn't feel like its enough
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>>18339615
Yeah man, it ain't fun, but it will definitely be for the best. You got to have fun with her while it was good, now it's gone sour. Enjoy that it was cool for a while and accept that now it's not worth your time anymore.
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Girlfriend pressuring me to get married. 2017-05-22 06:44:21 Post No.18339516
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Girlfriend pressuring me to get married.
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I've been withmy girlfriend for 6 years and she has been pressuring me to get married. I told her at the start of our relationship that marriage will never be on the table and I've never given any illusion that I was open to it. At the start of our relationship she was very much on my team but over time she's started to change her mind and now she just wants to do it. Every time she's brought it up I haven't budged even an inch and it has been causing some problems.
Last year in our relationship it reached a breaking point and I broke up with her because it was clear we wanted different things so I chose to go our separate ways. We eventually got back together because she promised me she wouldn't bring it up anymore and that held true for about half a year before she's gone back at it.
I talked to her and I just laid it out there once again that I'm never going to get married to her or anyone else, it's not going to happen and I'm saying it right now, if you don't like that then you're better off leaving and finding someone else because I will never change my mind. She said she understood but she still didn't want to break up with me.
She still pesters me about it, sometimes in openly forward ways but most of the time in subtle ways. I don't really know what to do. She doesn't want to break it up even though this is clearly important to her so I don't understand what she wants from me. Maybe she's seriously banking on me changing my mind and thinks if she whittles me down long enough I'll do it. It's getting frustrating for me though. What should I do?
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Well... Why don't you want to get married?
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>>18339516
You've made it clear to her, she has to accept it or move on. If she brings it up again, continue to be upfront and tell her you don't believe in marriage.
When me and my partner met, we were both against marriage. Over time we fell in love and even though I wouldn't want a big wedding, I would like to be his wife. I told him this and he said he would be perfectly happy to marry me and I think it's just because I genuinely don't want it for any reason other than to make us a family. No big wedding, no expensive gestures, just me and him in a room.
What are your reservations about getting married, if you don't mind me asking?
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>>18339516
What a selfish twat. You don't love her, tell her you don't love her and just brake up already. You sound stupid
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What do women generally think of engineers and engineering students?
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I've been friends with a couple of engineering majors and they were some of the nicest, down to earth people that I've met.
The only ones that I've clashed with are a few guys that were the whole "oh sweetie :)" thing.
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>>18339490
desu most aren't very cute, but if i meet a cute guy and he is an engineering student, it's a plus
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>>18339490
wallet with legs