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>>18315449
Pretend that nothing happened.
Consider stop drinking alcohol if you are so bog bitch when intoxicated.

Get new gf.

>>18315464
I'm usually a very happy drunk and only gotten in a few arguments when intoxicated, but I really liked that girl and she just set me off for some reason

>Get a new gf.
Easier said than done brother

You fucked up OP. You can't pull that shit and expect no repercussions. Admit to yourself you made a mistake, learn from it, and don't do it again.

>>18315445
If they're frequent enough that you're wondering if it is a problem, it is probably a problem. Please talk to someone. Get help. I don't like to see anons hurt themselves.

When you start fantasizing about it. Imagining ways you'd do it. Writing notes. Picking out a rope or a gun or the pills. Things like that

I mean I tell myself everyday I want to kill myself, but I know I'll never go through with it.

>>18315453
Ah you too? For how long have you been thinking about it? Did you talk about it to anyone? Or are you too ashamed to do so?

Never, ever let them know your home address. That's really all you need to do. Give a fake name and workplace if you're confident enough in your memory/imagination to keep up the lies.

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No, anon, crazy people are just fine, there are never any bad consequences that result from interacting with them. No one ever gets abused, manipulated, robbed, etc.

Yeah, stay away from crazy women. First of all the sex thing isn't exactly gospel, there are many mental issues that hamper the sex drive as well as ones that fire it up. And if you want to argue it's more about having a fucked up attitude towards sex there's plenty of people, men and women alike, who have that without seeming crazy in other aspects of their life. There is no magical group of women, whether crazy, redheads, fatties, whatever, that are all amazing at sex.

Secondly, drama is addictive. This is the reason why it happens so often that people date a string of "crazy" in a row. The highs and lows of dating someone with strong flaring up issues are in a way very passionate, very intense, you have to be on your toes and watch the next development. If you eat this shit up then you bet after a few of them, a "normal" relationship with a stable girl feels monotone and lukewarm in comparison.

If you insist, go for it, crazy girls want love/sex too. But I would never advise to.

how can you be gay if you dont want a dick?

>A depressant fixes my depression
lol
Potheads are the most self-destructive people.

uh i dont have a use for a dick but am biologically male ??? logic m8

Be the asshole that smokes on the dl.

>>18315101
I only drink, I'm not the pothead loser type

>>18315242
With this attitude, yeah. You'll be the faggot no one wants to talk to. Just the fact that you place other people in a lower tier for consumption of marijuana means you already have a skewed view of your own importance, and your power trip won't help.

Rethink your life.

how can you be interested in getting into the porn industry without having looked at your own dick or porn that little? just what the fuck is wrong with you

>>18314692
post a picture and i'll tell you if you're big enough
also post pics of your butthole with 2 BBCs inside it.
t.male pornstar

>>18314661
Anon, you don't think cheating is okay. What you've described as cheating isn't.

>>18314661

When asking myself whether something is morally right or not, I think about the following:

Would I be honestly be okay with my partner doing the exact same thing?

If the answer is no, or if I ever have to think about it, the chances are it isn't acceptable. Keep in mind that your brain will try and convince you that you're okay with it, especially if it's an immediate option.

>>18314730
>Keep in mind that your brain will try and convince you that you're okay with it, especially if it's an immediate option.

If you don't care about the person.

What if they were cheated on by someone else in the past and are still traumatized? Would you want to be the second person to contribute to their suffering? Isn't the relationship in question just a means to an end if not?

>>18314585

Use their report as a guide for yours. Just submitting it is maybe the most retarded thing you could do.

>>18314594
Yeah, it would be suicidal, but I'm torn between taking whole segments out of places like their introduction, etc. to help, as it's the main thing I'm having trouble with.

>>18314601

I seriously recommend against it. If at any point, you've copy and pasted then you could get in shit.

You need to reword it.

Get her on BC and join the rest of us.

>>18314538
Dude who still uses condoms anymore

These are the sorts of porn-addicted virgin replies I would've expected from /b/.

Nope... and especially if you were technically never friends, and the relationship sort of spontaneously happened. Ex gf broke up with me years and years ago, we were super compatible, it crushed me for years, but we were technically never truly friends before we met, we just knew we'd be awesome for each other. So afterward, it was just as deliberate a separation, as was our union.

It would be best to stay away.. it will hurt like hell. But staying away starts the healing process. Just do stuff you enjoy. Go shopping for clothes at a thrift store or something(?)

>>18314470
we were best friends for a few months before we started dating, but i get what youre saying. thanks anon, ill work on getting over him

>>18314456
Try to don't talk to him for a while, learn to live whitout needding to talk to him every day.

After this you decide if you wanna to be his friend.

>>18314443
>"come children! Family suicide time!"
>Should I get her committed to a mental hospital?
Yes?

>My family members are all unaware of the things she's done. Should I tell about these things to them?
Yes

>>18314450

How can I prove she did this? Although I think she wouldn't lie about if I told someone about it. When I told her that's one of the greatest things that made me fucking anxious and depressed as shit but she answered "That's not the reason!" She's insane. The crime happened in 2005 so it's quite a long time ago. I should've addressed the problem when I was a kid... I was too scared, I guess.

>>18314313
Be yourself anon

But don't say that ^

I guess when I'm at that point I let her know I feel the same. They like validation that they're a score and a hot one

>Haha thanks guess I was just being myself

If he's willing to chip in for gas, I don't see what your problem is.

How much time does it cost you? If it's more than 10 minutes each day, id ask him to compensate you somehow. Gas money or snacks

>>18314179
Well, you are being a bit of a dick, but only a bit.

I can understand your not wanting to commit (Suppose you felt like going out after work and not coming straight home?).

But you want to choose your fights, and this seems a small point to risk a friendship over. How about laying down some ground rules, like you reserve the right not to carry him on any given day, but will give him a day's notice.

And of course he does have to pay you something, if only gas money, to demonstrate thagt he's not taking you for granted.

I'm unsure why picture posted sideways, sorry.

Go to soc faggot

ahh.. There is a board for this.. Thanks.

>>18314001
Probably go see a doctor. It sounds like something medical more than psychological.

>>18314037
Oh, really? She also never really masturbates, she occasionally has sexual thoughts but not often (primarily when needing to pee), she also gets afraid of sex as even with lots of foreplay and lube I cause her pain and need to be very gentle for a few minutes. Apparently she has been this way forever, labeled herself a sexual in highschool as she didn't understand what the matter was but thinks of herself as definitely straight since our relationship. It's not attraction either as she has before had the opportunity to sleep with someone who to her was 10/10 but just didn't want it at all. I have been her only sexual or romantic partner in her entire life.

Do you think it's medical?

>>18314056
Absolutely in that case. Especially since even with lube there's pain.