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Can I be sued by his wife for sleeping with her husband? 2017-05-17 09:53:50 Post No.18324576
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Can I be sued by his wife for sleeping with her husband?
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>acquire first job at non-chain restaurant waitressing
>boss always complimenting me and end up jokingly flirting back and forth for months
>turn 18 last week
>somehow accidentally being fucked by boss over kitchen sink after close
>proceed to have sex and various play with boss for next several days
>other night way after close boss has me naked on a leash having me crawl around on the floor etc
>bosses wife randomly shows up and sees this
>grab clothes and run out with her screaming her head off at me, hearing her still bitching at boss in distance
>boss changes my schedule to mornings 'cuz his wife doesn't want us working together or even talking anymore
>he's text-flirting me about our next hookup and I'm texting back flirting etc
>suddenly I get voice mail from his wife saying she can sue me if I don't stop responding to her husband's advances
Can I really get sued for being "the other woman?" Or can the husband and wife only sue each other and I'm basically immune since I'm not in any marriage contract myself?
Just worried since I'm 18 and an adult now. Infos appreciated, here's his wife's voicemail to me: http://vocaroo.com/i/s0CfPZyefvgE
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Depends on what state you live in
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I doubt it, but she really shouldn't be going after you. I don't think she could sue you for that specific thing as well, I think she should be going after her husband. She has issues if she isn't even going to consider divorcing him after that.
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>>18324576
I vaguely remember someone bringing a law suit against their spouse's mistress, but honestly I'm not sure the outcome, or where the suit was filed. It's been years since I've concerned myself with shit like that.
Regardless, stop fucking your boss.
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How do i approach a ladie in the tram. I dont know what to say. I really want to but i dont know what to do. I only see her in the tram on my way home and i get out befor her so i never get to see her outside off that. Only thing we do is keep eye contact and than she go's and sit down. Now she is sitting closer to me. Yesterday she sat right infrond of me. Wtf i want to approach. Also i think she much older than me im 23 and she looks 23 to but i think she like 3 years older. Any tips?
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>>18324495
>I dont know what to say.
If you have nothing to say, then you have to realize you have no "in" here.
Also, why is a girl riding the public transport your best shot at getting a date? This is a cry for help, you need a social life.
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>>18324507
Its a cry for help but its not my only option i just want to practice talking to girls
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>>18324557
It won't work as a learning experience. No one wants to be target practice, so she'll probably react badly, doesn't really matter what you say. You'll have to take a plunge when you actually mean it.
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>invested most of my lifetime, all of my energy and most of my money on my single interest ever: videogames
>in the last few years, started to get more and more disinterested in all of it
>barely play games anymore outside of weekends, but keep spending more and more money trying desperately to regain motivation and interest in playing again
>spent literally over $1000 on new parts and games just last week and already started to regret it
>don't earn enough at my shitty job to afford wasting all this money, but can't stop trying so hard to want to love games again
>have absolutely zero interests whatsoever, even less care to meet people in real life again, and get severe anxiety from not at least sitting by my pc all freetime because "i'm wasting chances to get back into gaming"
>on rare occasions, i can enjoy taking a walk and listen to music outside, and that's it
>complete fear of quitting gaming because there's no possibility of reliably selling all the things i've spent so much money on (computer, consoles, games, peripherals and tools for it all), yet it's what i ... desire?
help
help
help
help
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Don't quit gaming if you like it, but don't force yourself to play games. Try doing something else, you will get back to gaming when you feel like it.
I play lots of video games myself, I play daily. Once I had a time that I didn't play for 2 months because I didn't feel like it.
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>>18324247
Interests change over time, it's an inevitable part of maturing. Sometimes you'll just grow to be totally disinterested in something that once fascinated you. It's why you often seen accomplished people who have been handy different things over time (rock climber, business owner, oil rig worker, etc), it's often not out of necessity but out of changing interests.
I've found that at times things that stopped interesting me have started too again for a while.
It's just change, it's normal, and it's pretty normal to be afraid of it, like you are, but it's inevitable - it's the usual state of being. If you want to have a happy life, stop fearing the change and just see where it takes you. You don't have to throw away, sell or otherwise get rid of your games. Justbox them up, put them away and look for your next interest. There's always another thing to come, and as long as you aren't afraid to embrace it you'll find yourself engrossed in it.
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>>18324259
it's the only thing I have left
anxiety and over a decade of severe depression has finally caused me to go through with nearly complete social suicide, i.e. i only have one person left aside from people I'm forced to work with to talk to at all anymore - well, and strangers on the internet
all that because I'm a waste of human life, I'm not just a horrible person but I'm literally such trash that it took me so many years to finally snap for the better and protect everyone else by complete isolation
it does make me feel lonelier than ever though, I don't know what the fuck to do, I sometimes just want to walk away into a forest or something, sit there and chill with a beer and some mp3s and shit - but then the anxiety hits me and I automatically walk to my deathly depressing home just to sit at my computer all day again before I get tired enough to sleep for a few hours before work and repeat
every night before I can sleep I contemplate suicide, but I somehow always convince myself that it's best if it comes naturally - yet I can't stop habitually thinking that I want to just drop dead, I even occasionally wish with my whole heart and soul to be overrun on my way to work just to stop being a burden to everybody
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Okay I need some advice here. Guess which idiot decided to write"Hale Hortler" on the board at school with the corresponding botched swastika... Yeah this guy. The class is now under investigation. Fuck me right? What do I do? Do I tell them it was me? I'll be damned if I don't graduate because of a fuckin meme.
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Fucking retard lmao
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>>18324257
thanks
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>>18324236
Well it was pretty dumb of you. Anyhow I'd say don't say shit. If they find out it's you they'll throw you out even for a tarded sarcastic Hitler joke.
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How to escalate physically 2017-05-17 11:30:43 Post No.18323911
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How to escalate physically
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2017-05-17 11:30:43
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>21 years old
>6'1
>/fit/
>above average looking
>no trouble talking to girls and holding conversations
>extroverted personality
Most girls I meet are interested in me and show clear signs that they are. However I don't really know how to escalate physically. I never know when to go for the kiss or when or where to touch them. This is a big weakpoint and I want to take my relationships to the next level. Does anyone have good advice that can help me?
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>>18323911
What kind of setting are we talking about? It's fine to go for a kiss at the club, it's not to try it right away in a coffee date.
We kinda need more info mate.
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>>18323911
>>above average looking
>>no trouble talking to girls and holding conversations
>>extroverted personality
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>Most girls I meet are interested in me and show clear signs that they are. However I don't really know how to escalate physically
Well, if these are all true just wait for the girls to escalate physically first, then reciprocate, don't be too pushy. From personal experience most girls make it very very easy for you to court them if they like you, they would actually do stuffs like asking you to come closer, leaning on your shoulder, touching your chest, arm, kissing your neck etc.
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>>18323911
>go on date (doesn't matter 1st or 2nd)
>gauge if you like them they like you
>go to a quite and scenic place
>don't say anything for a while and allow there to be a comfortable silence
>say something honest like 'hey I really like you, I think you're cool etc etc'
>gauge their response
>if it's good look at them for a while
>if you're unsure say something like 'would it be forward of me to kiss you?'
>if they say yes then say 'sorry, i didn't mean to make you feel uncomfortable' this shit happens all the time
>if they say no kiss them
basically be honest nigga
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How to start dating with zero experience 2017-05-17 09:05:45 Post No.18323713
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How to start dating with zero experience
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28 year old guy here, Ive put off finding or getting into any relationships and dating my entire life, never had a single connection with the opposite sex. Always been focused on personal goals and achieving them, e.g college and career. Ive reached a good lifestyle and make great money but have spent the last 5-6 years working non stop going up the corporate ladder with little work life balance as a result. Apart from catching up with good friends and going out on the weekends. Ive had a semi realization that Ive achieved what i set out to but I'm feeling like I'm missing something since seeing a really good friend get married. Never dated before or ever tried to ask out girls, I don't have problems chatting to women. Just not sure what to do now. Pretty much a kissless Virgin, I never use to have the urge to or had the feeling of loneliness but about a month ago it set in. Just curious what people think i should do because it feels like i would definitely be judged because Ive never dated and how i would broach the subject and if it should be something i mention straight away. I feel like women my age would want to steer away perhaps. Especially in the age of Tinder and online dating. where it seems like people have way to many options.
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>it feels like i would definitely be judged because Ive never dated and how i would broach the subject and if it should be something i mention straight away.
Just don't bring it up.
> I feel like women my age would want to steer away perhaps.
What is your basis for assuming this? Would you avoid a woman who hasn't slept with 50 guys? Its only an issue if you make it an issue.
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>>18323713
Rather than trying to dive right into the dating pool, try increasing your group activities and circle of friends. If you and a mixed-gender gang tend to hang out ad do things together, it is likely that you and one sympatico woman will gravitate toward each other. And, since you already know each other, pairing off for a date will be more natural.
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Don't mention virginity or anything like that please anon, a girl will obviously know by the way you act and decide whether to go with it or not. This girl who right now is imaginary is someone who you want to be around a lot so focus on getting to know her instead of thinking about yourself and what you're doing wrong, maybe even work on your insecurities like being comfortable with your virginity first? Best of luck anon
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How do I move to a big city from a small town? I just want to go as soon as possible and I don't care if I live like shit.
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>Be Me
>Have Friend Who Wants To Have Sex With Me
>Can't go to either house (families are always their)
>Too Poor for Motel
Where is an alternative place to have quiet sex?
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>>18323674
I know this was an accident but I'm also curious. Car tent boat? Something? Just do it outdoors. Hiking trail? a friends house? Wait till everyone's gone?
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>>18323674
Mcdonals toilet. Buy condoms, have fun and dont forget to buy meal after :-D
>>18323660
Get there a job first. Then find a cheap flat there. Maybe look on internet for even cheaper rent while having / finding roommates. Dont forget to figure out logistics like public transport / car.
Ask your parents to give you boost for first N rents. Good luck!
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My psychiatrist just sent a friend invite to me on facebook.
She's a nice person but I don't want people to see I'm going to the psychiatrist.
Would it be okay to decline and talk with her about next time we meet or will she see it as a bad sign?
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>>18323490
Yes- in fact I'm surprised she even sent you a request. Normally due to confidentiality stuff, mental health specialists arnt supposed to approach you in a public place unless you approach them first.
That is wierd that she would send you a friend request.
I would just ignore it for now and, during your next session, say that you think she is great but don't want people to know that you are seeing a psychologist
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Unprofessional for her to send. Decline. Ignore in further conversations.
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>>18323490
Yes, decline and talk about it in person.
Some people...
How in the fuck do people expect to survive without the constant convenience of modern life?
Nobody is going to fucking read this anyway. But I still have to put this out somewhere.
What the fuck do any of you know about taking care of yourself? Can you build a fire? Can you trap an animal? Do you know what the fuck berry will cause you to throw up for four days and then die of dysentery?
Good fucking God we have it too easy.
But I'm just a crazy suicidal person who belongs nowhere in this society. What the hell do I know?
Disregard
sage thread
fuck you
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>>18323489
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Division_of_labour
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>>18323489
Most people wouldn't survive.
Those that would, will have banded together for some greater purpose.
If you've knowledge to give, than spread the word.
If you wouldn't they die, save them.
If you've care for them, be careful WITH them.
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I've played rust.
Make a bow as it's gg.
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Hello!
I'm 28 years old and I truly hate my life.
It's 3 years since my graduation date. I finished civil engineering and it's my job since then. At first I liked it, but as time passess by I hated it more and more. I hate working for 12-14 hours a day and getting paid little money for only 8 (its pretty common in construction industry in my country). For over 2 years my life was like this: work - sleep - work - sleep. On weekends instead of hanging out with friends I had dentists, laundry and other stuff I had no time coz of my work hours.
I had problems getting asleep, which eventually made me hooked to weed. I smoke too much, but it's the only thing that releases stress and makes me sleep easy.
Recently I met a girl, but when we meet I go to sleep after 1 hour, coz Im too tired. Every time I go to work I hope that I will break my leg so I can rest and have any time for myself.
My problem is that I think it's too late for me to find new industry I can work for. Everywhere I'll go I'd be totally new, not knowing shit. All I think about is finding new job, but how and where? I got no otger education than this... I feel miserable as fuck. Im not suicidal, but I got no motivation, no will, no happiness in my life.
I always try to look happy. I think people dont need to know bout my problems, not even my closest friends. I try to look happy and cheerful, but every day I'm more lonely, more sad. What should I do?
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Look for a new job
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>>18323573
What kind of job with no qualifications?
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I don't feel any better I'm just going to masterbate and fall asleep
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A week ago i was getting off the train at my station at night and saw a refugee trying to touch a girl, her boyfriend pushed him against a wall and told him to back off. This girl pulled out her phone and casually walked on, while the guy kept following her, he probably was drunk too as he was walking around with a beer bottle. In the next moment he smashed the lower part of the bottle and held it in his hand as a weapon and was ready to attack her boyfriend but she just casually strolls on and tells the police that on the phone. While this happened i walked away from this as there were plenty of other witnesses but before i was away i saw how he held the bottle against the guy and they were not holding back.
The next day i read the news and the story is completely twisted and not even true, it said something like.
The 'guy' (without mentioning the origin like they usually do) pulled out his belt and wanted to attack with it but his trousers fell down and he tried to escape when the police came.
I live in germany by the way, the country that recently boasts how fake news are a crime and yet they seem to hide any incident with a refugee involved unless it can't be hidden.
What would you do in my situation, not even sure if anyone would believe me?
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I believe you but who are the refugees
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>>18323427
What do you mean exactly?
The guy who tried touching the girl and attacked her boyfriend with a broken bottle was the refugee, he even had another refugee watching them. The couple was just 18 or something and from here
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>>18323412
Not taking your chance to beat up a rapefugee shitskin, weak
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So. I had been clean for almost two years. During spring break, I took one hit of a blunt. Next night I took one hit. Then around beginning of April I took one hit. Then the beginning on this month I took one hit. I found out I have a 9 panel hair follicle test coming up. Am I fucked?
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>>18323398
not if you shave your head
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>>18323404
Shaving is not an option.
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Lol yeah lmfao
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Confused on what I should be feeling 2017-05-17 05:25:37 Post No.18323355
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Confused on what I should be feeling
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Im in a relationship thats been going on for a couple years now and about to have a child with her. Thing about all this is that I never really felt attached or anything really more than friends. Of course, i care about how shes doing and if she is alright, but there just seems to be something missing. There is no magic, happy feeling like I use to feel. Is this healthy or am I setting up for ab unstable family? Pic unrelated
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Giving her a child doesn't seem sustainable when you don't love her.
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Considering all this, at what point did it seem sensible to make a baby?
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>>18323373
It was an accidental pregnancy, we've been using protection she still got pregnant. She said She was so happy that we were starting a family together and shes in a very good mood since the test showed positive.
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Its never going to get better. No matter what you do, it never will. Everyone will tell you that it's going to be ok, it's going to be alright but they are just lying to you.
They will tell you they will never hurt you, they would never do that to you but they will. They will do it knowing it's going to hurt you and nothing will stop them.
It never get's better.
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>>18323323
It'd get better if you didn't put that apostrophe in "gets".
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>>18323323
I guess you're technically giving advice instead of asking for it, so...
I'm not saying it gets perfect, but it gets better. If you work at it some.
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Shut up bitch
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Dealing with being ugly 2017-05-17 05:02:03 Post No.18323292
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How do I deal with being ugly?
I always just thought I was decent looking, not handsome, but not repulsive either. I have good hygiene and dress decently, but have some acne scars on my cheek.
After battling hair loss, I recently shaved my head and feel so fucking disgusting. I purposely avoid reflections and take my glasses off when I go to the restroom so the mirror looks blurry. I am also really scrawny. My confidence is in the toilet and its all I ever think about.
I feel like no girl will ever want to be with me, so i dont even try.
I also avoid crowded places in my college, I dont like people looking at me.
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what are you basing your assessment of your ugliness on?
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>>18323292
Fuck ugly chicks.
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>>18323292
The scrawny part is far and away the dealbreaker in the situation, not your baldness. Unless you're Rocky Dennis, your face is good enough to get a girlfriend. Dudes who look like English bulldogs can land poon. Your face is fine.
The scrawny part is what sucks. Chicks don't want a rail-thin, noodle guy. You don't need to be beefcake, but you should at least have some meat on your bones. Start lifting. Eat right. And by right, I mean enough. Enough of the right foods, for optimum nutrition and protein intake to coincide with your workouts. Your other problems will sort themselves out when you get some self confidence. Taking care of your body will help build that.