Help Me Stop Being Introverted?

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The forum is 90% males so you asking for a girl's opinion will fall on deaf ears.

Look you can't stop being introverted, but you can fake being extroverted and then revert back to your introverted ways. That means you have to take your lazy off 4chan and go outside leaving your lair of solitude. Smile, go shopping with your friends, if they want to hang out make sure to join them, do skype calls, go on facebook to chat with old associates, volunteer etc. Putting yourself out there will make you meet new people and that in turn could help you get a boyfriend. Everything snowballs into other things.

>>17468449
If a guy likes you he probly won't care that you're into video games or whatever else

>>17468459
I'm afraid if I do that I won't truly be happy, but right now I'm so lonely.

>>17468465

Well it is either being comfortable in your dungeon or being uncomfortable trying new things. Change begins by being uncomfortable anon, I know it is hard and you might not like it in the beginning but making an effort will go a long way. At least try this because it can make a difference no matter how small. You don't want to be and older woman regretting not taking action when you had the chance. Come on sweet heart, buckle up and do this.

>>17468461
It's not just games, it's all my other unladylike hobbies. I look at porn and other stuff too, my personality isn't gorgeous by any means. I would just get my heart broken I think.

>>17468449
Girl here.

You can't really stop being introverted. It's fine to take your time for yourself and laze on 4chan.

There is a difference between being introverted and being socially inept, tho.
Try to improve yourself, finding more hobbies and trying to find at least one outdoor and dynamic activity you enjoy. Read more, watch more videos, study.
Improve your social skills by putting yourself out there more. Meet new people through your hobbies, through team sports, through classes or go to meetup.com and such.

It's surely a bit odd, but nothing too weird or something you should concerned about.
Fix it, if it makes you unhappy.

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>>17468469
I guess I can try a little harder. I just wish I had more people like me to talk to about this, I don't usually post on /adv but I'm at a loss. Thank you.

Still here op?

>>17468569
Yep

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>>17469001

Show us your tits babe and let us rate you.

I mean why not right? You want to feel sexy and wanted correct?

>>17469051
I would, but I'm afraid I'm not up for exposing myself on /adv, especially to someone who watches Jojos. ;P

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>>17469071

Tits or gtfo you know the drill otherwise

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>>17469080
You're fun
Heheh

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Your bored and have nothing else to do, why not take a chance and do something crazy? Maybe showing your tits to anons will be the spark to change you from wizard status to a normie.

In fact this is advice. Post it. This might be the prescription to get you out of your funk and in the world.

>>17469099
Well, after being called a wizard, that makes me think maybe I shouldn't do that. Wizards are cool.

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>>17469110

Well ya if you look like this

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which I am assuming you do. You can prove me wrong and show us your floppers.

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>>17468470
You don't get it. Guys don't care near as much/at all if a girl is successful, has this hobby or that hobby, etc... all they really care about is whether or not they're attracted to her.
This isn't necessarily a bad thing, just saying looks are what matters to a guy.

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>>17469122
This good

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>>17469130

You look better than expected. Didn't think you would actually post it. Now what is cutie like you single?

>>17469133
I look at hentai as a career and never go outside, that's what.

Monitoring this thread.

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>>17469130

Saved and going to fap. Thanks for the material whore.

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>>17469142
tfw there's people as lonely and pathetic as me

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>>17469139

No but you look good. Nice tits, flat stomach, nice legs and probably lips that good sucking. From the wildabeasts that post on here you are a brazilian model.

We can rule out your looks being a problem but who cares about looks right lol.

>>17469130
>>>17469122
>This good

Why would you want to change yourself?

Like honestly, there's no reason to pretend you are something else. I'm the same way, and I realized my personality is something that isn't ever going to change.

Btw you are a good 8/10.

>>17469122
You know I was about to make fun of you for such a low effort attempt to get somebody to show their tits then >>17469130 happened. So uh congrats on giving us wanking material and I now I've been putting way to much effort into making women show me their tits.

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>>17469148
Totally right, anon. I never cared about my looks to begin with, however.

>>17469130

Your hot.. Stop acting like an attention whore who can't get anyone. Everyone on this section bang you. Jesus must girls do this?

>>17469162
I'm an adult, I do as I please, but I doubt other women that aren't anonymous would ever. Even then, your chances are low. I don't have friends or anything, why should I even care anymore?

>>17469167
Nice broken English, dickhead

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>>17469166

Joking aside (thanks for the nude pic btw) I think you should look into your local events and join a club that might suit your interest. Volunteer as well into something that can get you out of the house. You will meet people and make friends. Start blossoming a social life and in tell that will lead you to have a normal social life. A lot of the people on here are like you so don't feel bad. You have a cute body and a quirk personality. Just need to market it outside your room of solitude lol.

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>>17469130

Hey OP how does it feel to have all these anons lusting after your body like this?

>>17469172
Bitch I wasn't talking to you. I was complimenting anon on getting you to show your yams to us.

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>>17469175
Thanks, anon.

I will try, I am glad not everyone is just cursing and being /a. tfw I don't care because I was thinking about killing myself before I figured I can just dick around and try to get some action in.

>>17469130
fucking slut

>>17469183
>yams

A twelve year old saw tits today and got an ego, lord save us

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>>17469192

No worries hotshot. Look at the end of the day we are sentients, the most divine and miraculous things in the universe. You as a person are interesting, funny, quirky and your personality is cute just based off the small convos we had. I know I was being a dick but nothing about should feel worthless about. I want you to look yourself in the mirror and feel like the vastness of the world allows you for new possibilities. Get some fresh air and enjoy the beauty of life. You have a lot to be blessed about and I feel you can offer someone companionship and great friendship.

I come on here a lot helping mostly guys but I also help girls whenever I can. You are no exception, I think you are just in a rough small spot in your life but it will turn out better then you could imagine if you take the first step.

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>>17469213
That's beautiful anon
Thank you

Hey OP would you mind posting a clear shot of your tits? I mean went this far why not show us a bit more right?

>>17469238
No more, sorry anon

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>>17469213

Post any updates or bored ramblings on here, I might come by and give you my take on again Tomoko.

Btw since you are bored and got nothing else to do check out 91 days, pretty dope series. Anyway gonna bust a nut to your pic and head on to bed, see ya lol.

Don't worry about guys being bored with you, we don't care about personality or social success of girls we're attracted to all that much. If they like hanging out with you enough to ask you out it'll be OK

As for getting more social. Pretty much what the other anon said. I'll tell you as a weeb who theoretically got a bunch of hobbies but actually mostly enjoys dank memes: if you find somebody on the internet who enjoys the same thing, even one person, you can meet up with them, and they most likely have more friends (possibly also with some similarities), just be available for bigger meet ups. From one person you'll go to five, and from those five you may go to twenty. The mutual hobbies don't even matter at some point, you just go hang out, talk about everyday life, watch movies, play Pokemon GO, whatever.
I used to only go out like once or twice a month, nowadays I'm barely at home just because of one fucking weeb I met who turned out to have a bunch of other friends who also took liking to me.

>all these dickless lemming posts
I guess all the men that were once in this site got bored and left years ago.

No healthy woman should be allowed to come on here and complain about being lonely. For the simple fact that you have a vagina, the world is yours. You joke about "fear" when you know nothing of it. How about you actually go get rejected a thousand times, like the rest of us, instead of being a little bitch and worrying about the less than 1% chance that you won't be able to succeed.

Fucking sage.

>>17468449
I'm an introvert and I've only truly realized it with my current job. Let me tell you something…

No matter what society says, there is nothing wrong with being introverted. You might be able to turn it off temporarily, but you won't be able to fake it all the time. We just do better with minimal interaction. Sure, everyone craves a human connection, even introverts, but that doesn't make us extroverts.

You're 19,are you in college? What are your plans for the future. Also, your attitude towards relationships is not healthy. "Get a boyfriend?" Like you can just go to the store and buy one off the shelf. A lot of the posters on this board feel that way about women and relationships. A relationship won't solve your problems.

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Holy shit this thread took a turn. I was not expecting a nude pic but you do you.

I'm not sure why you think girls wouldn't like you because you exist therefore someone out there must have similar interests. The porn thing isn't that weird. A lot of girls watch porn (well more read it). My bestie dragged me to watch porn when she found out that I never saw any.

If you feel like you don't connect with the people around you, it's not cuz you've got s unique mind that no one will ever understand. It's cuz you haven't met enough people. I'm pretty shy so it's difficult for me to make friends but force yourself to meet people and weed out those you aren't compatible with. Are you in college, it's pretty easy making friends there. If not there's still other options. Good luck anon

>>17469904
Everyone can be lonely. But it takes someone with a truly shitty or boring personality to be ignored by everyone regardless of gender.

OP, stick with introverts, i dated extro and intros, and extros got me bored quickly because of how little we connected besides my dick connecting to their pussy.

I have more enjoyable moments in life with introverts, be with the type that you have common interests with.

>extros like me because of my arm filled with tattoos/weed smoking/fast car/hang in the ghetto

>intros like me because of me liking vidya/meme references/like all type of music besides scremo/know some anime/dorky jokes

It's a blessing and a curse.

>>17469183
dear 4chan diary,
today I found yams.

>>I could get a boyfriend, as some guys have expressed interest, but I'm afraid they don't want a girlfriend like me

It's not the introversion. You have low self esteem.

You think all these other people are so much more interesting than you and you're so dull.

The reality is that they really aren't as interesting as you think they are and you really aren't as dull to others as you think.