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I want to learn a new language; an asian one. However, I'm not sure which one. A bit torn between viet/korean/mandarin - but I'm open to suggestions. Give me your pros and cons.
I'm not a weeb, and I would consider moving to said country at some point (for a few years, I'm adventures). While living there, my focus would be on exploring beautiful nature/wildlife, and women.
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>>17468190
for pretty women id go to korea
and chinese is the easiest out of the three, then korean, then japanese, then vietnamese.
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>>17468289
Personally I'd learn mandarin in case China decides to war over and take over the US one day. They'd spare my life if I were a translator
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>>17468360
>thinking the chinks can out gun America
top kek
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Evening /adv/, not sure who to talk to about a breakup, naturally thought of you lot. Will add whatever info I think is relevant.
So I've been seeing a girl like a year and a half now. We've used the L word frequently, was all gucci really. Over the last few months (I say last few - probably starting January and escalating since) there have been problems arising in my mind. I know it's the honeymoon period ending or whatever but... yeah. So the problem is, in a nutshell, I'm just too immature. We're both in college, but she's ready to settle down as soon as we finish, pop out a few kids, the whole nine. To be honest, I want to study at postgraduate level, travel, live with my friends, and smoke a shit ton of reefer (something she's dead against). I love this girl - I did, at least, and I think I still do - but I'm always riddled with self doubt and the feeling I'll regret settling this early, which stokes the whole 'need to get out' feeling, and the cycle continues.
I've had relationships before but the longest was about 2 months, and I've never been the one to actually initiate a breakup. I have no fucking idea what to say, frankly. It's made worse by the fact that most of our conversations revolve around her saying how much she loves me and can't wait to have my kids (another problem - the conversation just doesn't really do anything to stimulate me anymore). There's no good time to blurt out "I think we should break up", and she's an emotional person, always saying how much she needs me etc. Any advice would be deeply appreciated. Pic unrelated.
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breaking up is always hard if you aren't an asshole.
I say rehearse what you'll say and whatever you do, DON'T BACKPEDAL.
get ready for the tears and try not to get too emotional, lest you say something you'd regret
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>>17468198
Thanks for the reply bud - I was thinking I may have to more or less script the whole thing, haha. Would the ol' cliche "we need to talk" text be appropriate beforehand, d'you think?
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>>17468184
What the fuck is the "L word"?
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how the FUCK am i supposed to get my life together
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>live in trailer park with mom who doesnt work grandma pays our rent. moms boyfriend is a lazy pill addict cunt and acts like a robot
>be 21, only work experience i have is i held 2 retail jobs for like 3 months because even though i try i end up being too autistic
>want to escape this lifestyle of white trash, poverty, and degeneracy and be upper middle class someday.
>im not good at... anything. and im not just saying that i have no talent at anything and im literal garbage.
>want to go to college to be able to make good money but i cant because i dont know what i want to do at all even, i mean i kind of do but all of those majors would be useless. and i have like a 4th grade math level and i forgot everything i learned in high school. and you will be flipping burgers in debt unless you study stem which has a lot of math.
>mentally ill probably. have times where my emotion and self hatred is so overpowering that ill just look at myself in the mirror and i will break down. or hurt myself. or get overpowering thoughts of hopeless and helplessness.
>not sure if im paranoid or not. but if someone doesnt talk to me i think that they hate me and its my fault because im an annoying whiny beta
will continue
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I want to have a life beyond the people in the trailer park saying 10 bucks an hour is good money. i want to live beyond food stamps, and being in this shitty life... i want to be normal. but i dont know what i want to do... the clock is ticking and it is going to be too late for me.... i have it inbedded in my mind that im never going to be anyone and in social situations i hate myself so much that i want to die...and i know that all people are like sharks and only care about you if you are a happy go lucky successful yes man.
i feel like by fate and genetics im bread to be a loser forever.
how do i overcome this thinking, how do i get out there to feel worthy enough to go to school or show my face in public without wanting to cry.
i wont lie, i dwell on negativity a lot because its all ive ever known how do i stop doing that t
but i would like to at least try
but i have no direction
no talent
weak will power
bad social skills
everything feels so hopeless all the time...its overpowering
how do i improve my life before im 28 and in the same spot. how do i overcome my self confidence issue. like i have to stop being a piece of shit to like myself.
what do
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Start rapping against black people
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>>17468183
i cant rap though
im not eminem
and even if i did have talent of rapping your chances of making it into the music industry are slim to none
How do you figure out if someone wants you to just fuck off?
This female I've been friends with for a couple years has suddenly been slow to reply (even though she's always active) and been less willing to start up conversations. She's starting college soon and is working most of the time, but for some reason it feels like that's not the reason she's just been so cold to me.
I keep trying to set up a day we can meet (we have no mutual friends so alone) but she appears to be busy every day. How do I figure out if she's actually busy or just wants me to fuck off?
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Def wants you to fuck off.
If she liked you, she would drop all her pre-existing plans to be with you.
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tell her you feel she's been distant lately. ask her what's up. it may have nothing to do with you. just try be there for her.
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Dog if she wanted to hang out with she'd hang out with you.
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>Things get bumpy with my girl
>Stop talking as much for a few weeks
>We still talk but rarely, nothing like we used to
>Two weeks of torture pass by, I think I've lost her
>Finally manage to come to terms with us not being together anymore, even though neither of us officially have the balls to tell each other
>Two days ago
>I decide that I'm going to message her, enough is enough, I need to know why she's been acting the way she's been
>She messages me first
>We talk for a few hours, we iron out our problems, and the next day everything is stable
>I'm happy again, no longer feel depressed
>Come home
>Find out shes blocked me with no message left behind
>I can feel depression literally seeping back in me
>Take a shower for an hour and a half
>Feel like shit
We've been together for a year and a half.
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sounds like it's been over for a while. she's just too much of a coward to confront you about it - and vice versa.
gather your balls when you find em and tell her you don't want to date anymore.
not because you don't enjoy her company, but because the emotional distress she's putting you through is no longer worth the investment.
then sever all contact.
it's gonna hurt but you have to be strong.
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>>17468173
sounds like she likes you but blocks you because youre abusive and is trying to get over you.
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She probably fell out of the relationship a long while ago but doesn't want to deal with the drama that would occur if she broke up with you. Take it as a sign she is checked out and you should move on.
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I'm kinda addicted to jerking-off as a method to get to sleep
Basically I jerk-off once a day at night, and pretty much have to, in order to sleep
There's just nothing that beats that feeling of drifting off post-orgasm. Is this really a problem? I ve been doing it for years, anyone else do it?
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>Is this really a problem?
Only if you're jacking off to porn, in which case it'll cause many long-term problems for you. Otherwise, there's no problem.
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*Not OP here*. Bumping 'cause I'm in the same boat. If I don't get off (I use porn), I stay up way too long, and play videogames and movies till early morning.
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I got the same prob OP, all i can tell you is meditation and exercise.
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How do you deal making suffer people who doesn't deserve it?
I got s long distance relationships with this girl, I liked her but she had a lot of problems. End in end, I shouldn't have. I broke up with her now that she came for summer Holidays but I really feel like shit. Faking a relationship wouldn't have been better but shit, she is the sweetest girl and doesn't deserve this.
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you should learn english before posting here
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Say sorry
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>>17468144
Define "problems".
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How much does a billboard cost? Not the structure itself or the advertising fee, but the paper that's printed on it. A billboard here was recently torn down and it hasn't been replaced in days, possibly due to budget reasons, I'm thinking about donating to get a new billboard and a security camera if it's not too expensive.
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what was the billboard for?
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>>17468161
It said
"TRUMP
MAKE AMERICA GREAT AGAIN!"
There have been car windows smashed because of stickers in the town as well
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>How much does a billboard cost?
depends on the location. can be low hundreds to thousands a month
How do you make a good first impression?
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you dont
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>>17468157
Thanks your right! Have a great day!
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Good hygiene, well dressed, good manners, speaks clearly, isn't an edgelord, etc.
How the fuck do you not know this?
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I'm having issues with heavily oversleeping and needing stupid amounts of sleep. Can I get some help with diagnosis?
I'm on a 2 day split, I lift 6 days a week.
I've been on a cut, but I plan on beginning to up my intake and go back into a bulk when I get back to school in about a week.
I'm a little paranoid about it being overtraining or something, so I took yesterday and I'm taking today off, both of which would have been lifting days.
I recently switched to this 2 day split from a 3 day split, increasing my volume, but I don't think it has much to do with the split because it doesn't feel too much harder, and I think I've had these issues with sleep more or less all summer. Actually probably even somewhere towards the end of the previous semester as well.
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we can't diagnose sleep issues here. sometimes we can look at a pic and give a decent guess as to whether it's a zit or cancer.
there are lots of causes and lots of treatments for sleep problems. you need to see a doctor. sorry OP.
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Maybe it's something to do with your nutrition intake. If you're on a strict diet you may not be getting the energy you need so that's what could be making you more tired.
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>>17468111
I had the same problem, as well as night sweats. It turned out to be Lymphoma. Just go to a doctor, there's a fuck load of things that may cause your sleeping issues.
it's most likely not Lymphoma, if I suddenly make you feel paranoid. My sleep issue was caused by liquid from the swollen lymph node leaking into the lungs so I had a shortage of breath that could've ended up lethal if I hadn't coughed it up and gone to the doctor after 2 weeks of medicine not doing anything.
Every dream I have, I end up crying in it. I wake up crying and sad for the rest of the day, not because of the dream... I just feel melancholy.
How do I stop this? I normally don't cry very often, as I have already gotten over my depression. But lately, it feels like I'm falling back into it.
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>>17468060
A dream is a dream and today is today.
Stop confusing the two.
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>>17468069
The dream itself never makes me sad, because it's usually something silly.
But lately everything seems grayer. I'm scared that these dreams are fueling the fire.
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>>17468073
sounds like your depression is coming back and your dreams are just an unconscious expression of it. I would recommend that you start doing whatever it was you did that got you over the depression last time.
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So my friends circle pretty much whithered away. I don't hang out with anyone nor have anyone to talk to.
I don think that I'm a complete social retard, but I'm still shy and I don't open up to people right away so I'm not charming and spontaneous enough to just approach people at a bar or some shit by myself.
Without any luck, Ive been trying to think of ways to put myself into a "natural" social environment, something that would force me to get to know and talk to people my age-ish. I was thinking....I could get a new job with people my age. That's not a bad idea is it?
My indecision lies with the fact that my job I have now pays enough for me to live off of, full time, with benefits as a janitor.
But theres basically no way to be social at work when you work a job alone 90% of the day, plus my co workers are just grouchy old people. Im pretty ashamed of telling people I'm a janitor aswell. Its a job where people go when they aren't ambitious and gave up on trying basically. Thats how all my co-workers are anyway.
So is it worth leaving this for something that might pay less, but would fulfill me more? I feel like its a tough gamble so I'm here for advice.
Advice on how else to make friends would be appreciated.
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Also unrelated but is wearing all black with white shoes a meme?
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>>17468039
get drunk and go to partys.
i am over 30 and i get drunk and fuck teen even though i am married at college/university parties.
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>>17468049
>just go to parties
Im starting from scratch here dude. I don't know anyone that would even invite me to a party. I don't know where they are happening and you cant just show up without having a mutual friend.
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I feel very self conscious watching or at least attempting to watch. How can i over come my fear over watching anime. I even have nendroid and a chen fumo plush.
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>>17468036
stop being such a bitch.
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>>17468036
Let's all love Lain.
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>>17468041
Well this sounds like the best option. im more concerned about my parents and my judgmental brother but i do "need to stop being a bitch"
>>17468046
Yes
I'm like
>You are beautiful, amazing body etc etc
>Talk about hobbies
I can't think of more, can you guys give me some shit, ideas of what can I say, something entertaining to say and discuss with a girl.
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>>17467983
I let my gun do the talking
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Current events, new movies, commentary about surrounding like 'Have you ever been here before? I like this place since it remind me of...'
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>>17467983
you can pretend to have a problem example
>hi my name is Nigger!
> nice yo meet you too!
> I have a problem.. sadly my cock need to be sucked every 10 minutes and I have only one minute left or I will die and its gonna be your fault
ok after you do this we have 3 scenarios
1. she will be laughing and now you can start to joke with her 34% of the time
2. she will think that you are a perv and then leave 33% of the time
3, she will be sucking your cock in less that one minute 33% of the time
your welcome sir!
My girlfriend and I broke up because she admitted she couldn't be committed and immediately guys and girls come out the woodwork for her. I'm not in that same position. If I could, I was planning on just sleeping around, though I haven't had much success with that, and I fear it'll mess me up psychologically to a degree if I do that too much.
I'm asking for two things:
1. What's an easy way to sleep around? I've got Timder but have only one match.
2. What is a "healthier" way to "get back" at her with minimal damage to me?
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>>17467958
>having sex damages you
>this is what Christians actually believe
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>>17467958
She lied. It's not she doesn't want to be committed. It's that she doesn't want you. You lost her interest.
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>>17467962
I thought maybe just looking for sex and having it that much desensitized you, I'm not Christian in the slightest.