Archived threads in /adv/ - Advice - 4196. page

>>17467448
yeah but do you like her, like her?

>>17467454
I havent been able to sleep for 2 weeks because I keep thinking about her!

Now I am torn between using the safe-switch or actually telling her, I don't know even though we always talk and actually get along very well I suspect that she likes me. I just don't wanna make things awkward.

She probably feels like a slut and thinks you think she is easy. Girls get in the heat of the moment and do slutty things they aren't proud of later.

Talk to her and say that you had a great time that a person who is as cool as her would do that. Constantly let her know that she is a grown women had a little fun and that she shouldn't have nothing to be ashamed about.

Girl speaking here, honestly if I act cold and distant to someone who I fucked, it means I'm not interested in them or keeping any type of communication with them. Guys do this too, not just girls. There's that "hit it and quit it" saying.

But then again, I'm just one girl. Maybe she is ashamed of herself like >>17467679 mentioned, but I don't know. You would have to ask her yourself if you want to know what goes on in her head because none of us can possibly know.

>>17467679
>She probably feels like a slut and thinks you think she is easy.
she is a slut
and she must easy, OP didn't even have to try

>>17467373
if she's uninterested in being with you then you can't make her be with you.

the best way to get over her mouth and pussy is to stick your dick in another mouth and pussy.

>>17467373
>drinking bear

you guys wanna hear the story about how I raped someone on tinder?

Both.

Dating if you are average to below average and hooking up if you are above average to good looking.

>>17467384
k.

>>17467367
it's meant to hook ups/casual encounters.

if you're above average looking and can fake a fun personality over text and a few hours of face-to-face interaction then you'll do okay.

get ready for some herpes though.

>>17467338
>shialabeouf.jpg

no need to veil your motivations with the flowery language and loose associations towards self-improvement. if your relationship is stagnating and you're getting sick of her shit then just say so.

as for the whole "i'm a bitch" part: being a pussy doesn't stop you from doing the right thing, it just makes it difficult. anything worth doing will be difficult. reach for the stars. impossible is nothing. bUrself

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>>17467338
why would you want to be terrified?

>>17467338
If you're only with her because you're afraid of being alone, your relationship must be unhealthy. But is this really such a binary problem? Can't you just tell your girlfriend that she's stifling you and you need more time apart? If that idea freaks her out, then yeah, dump her, but at least explain how you feel first.

This adv not a therapy session. We don't fix broken like your faggot ass.

>>17467274
/thread

>>17467267
Let's all love Lain.

>>17467243
khan academy is a lot more comprehensive and interactive. do ka

>>17467243
video you linked makes good sense to me... But I already learned chemistry basics on a university prep school.

Its not the easiest topic. I'd reccomend going "as slow as necessary". If there's something you dont understand, try taking it slower. You gotta understand the basic principles before you stand a chance at the advanced ones.

Try khan and see if it makes better sense to you

shit. he looks like a guy i went on a date with in that pic. those paranoid eyes

>>17467207
>the shoes of the girl on the right
How to ruin a boner.jpg

>>17467207
Did you mean Japanese AND bondage, or is Japanese bondage a thing?

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>>17467223
its called shibari

>>17467179

get a lawyer. today.

>>17467179
Anon, did you ever stop and think that maybe it's her imagination? A lot of people in memory support units have episodes of people stealing their shit, especially at night, and project physical violence from other residents onto staff.

That's not to say abuse and theft may not be going on, but it's not absurd to believe that this family member isn't demented.

>people in mental hospitals always tell the truth and never lie about anything. Not for attention or to even just get taken back home. They all enjoy being there and never lie.

>>17467163

there is no universal scale of confidence. like you cant just say 'oh you need to be about 80% confident to score that chick. i imagine you need pecs and some semblance of a navel, but ew dont know her or who she dates.

as a general rule, if oyu want to get hot chicks, just work out and dont act like a spazz. cuz thats what 90% of 'spazzes' do. they ACT. they play up their awkwardness more than it actually is. dont do that.

even if you dont end up scoring girls of that caliber, you will be happy to improve yourself cuz you'll still be getting hotter chicks than you get now

She looks like a dude.

She looks like a bitch.

You're suffering from being edgy.

Watch out for those corners OP, they'll getcha.

>>17467157
You deal with retarded parents by showing them that you are a mature, independent adult.

This cannot be done if you are still living off of them.

>>17467178
I understand, but I don't think I'm overreacting. I just realized how bad it is too late.

>>17467188
Right. No way out of this until then, I guess.

When you do those things you "think" or are conscious of what you are doing.

in 4chan and the like everything is easy as fuck because it requires no effort, unless you're on a niche board like /ic/. Shitposting is easy as fuck. making a long nonsensical paragraph which looks like it took effort is easy too.

I myself hate doing anything mentally straining, but you should try to expose yourself to easy stuff to get better.

Like maybe noncomplicated books, maybe learn the harmonica. Then go up from there.

>>17467150

they must not be that fun if you'd rather be here. granted there is the whole 'instant gratification' argument, but as a general rule i believe that free time should be spent however you want. if your duties are taken care of and you took a few steps to secure your 'next step' in life, than whats wrong with relaxing on 4chan?

>>17467150
Well,Iam advising you to cut off both because I already did that with tv and when my contract expires with mobile company(fuckin jews) I will do that with the internet too,maybe get myself some simple but durable phone...Anyway,get yourself a book and start reading,go more outside for a walk and maybe add up another hobby!

>>17467120
If guy: go out and talk to random girls at cafes.

>>17467120
>:D
there's your problem

>>17467135
When the fuck has this ever worked

I want documented and verified proof

>>17467112
I'm assuming this is just with some hookup. If it were with someone you had a genuine emotional connection with it would be better.
Some people seem to be perfectly fine having hookup type sex and actually enjoy it, although maybe they're just bullshitingbut for people like me, and you apparently, it's empty and a total waste of time.
Try to find someone you actually feel connected to next time and you'll enjoy it a whole lot more.

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>>17467112
>stop watching porn
>ease up on jacking off (once a week)
>exercise more
>eat healthier

And what >>17467126 said, you will most likely have a better time with someone you actually lust for and are attracted to physically and emotionally, rather than some easy fucktoy you meet.

>>17467126
This nigga is absolutely correct.

>inb4 "you're just a virgin who can't get laid and that's why you don't enjoy hook ups olololol"

Another thing, OP, do you watch a lot of porn? Try going NoPorn for a while, I guarantee you'll be more aroused.

What makes you suspect she's into fucking dogs bro

>>17467110
how much peanut butter do you go through a week?

how about you leave the crazy stuff for later and just get your dick wet for a starter?