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Confidence is a meme.

You either have money or you're struggling. Anyone who's confident without money is retarded.

Oh yeah, I feel defeated because I got beat up and sent back to my parent's house. It's kind of humiliating

>>17489502
Money is a meme

>>17489484
Yes. She deserves to know
If she leaves you she wasn't a good gf anyway

i would say to tell her if you know each other enough time (don't say something like that in the first few weeks of relationship) and more importantly say it if you are willing to work on your issues, because if she will try to help you (as she should) so if you are stubborn and uncoperative it might anger/distance her away more than actual issue.

There must be reason you are suicidal anon. Maybe repressed forgotten reason or trauma you don't even identify as a trauma. You want to talk about it?

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>>17489486
she's going through a tough time, it might be too much for her. it wouldn't make her a bad person if she left, i'd hate to see her break herself trying to "fix" me. fair point(s), tho.
>>17489493
we've been going out for 6 months. it's been a shotgun relationship, very intense, she's gonna be one i'm w/ for the long haul, or at least one i'm going to remember for a while. i'm worried about the distancing part.

i've squared most of my shit away (anxiety, etc.), but i'm just feeling empty about the future even though it looks "bright" according to society.

enough therapists have heard about my "trauma", i don't want to dirty your ears (or should i say eyes) with the details. in essence i feel like i just don't quite fit in with the world. it's not an outsider thing, it's like i'm not meant to be here in some capacity, i suppose.

thanks, tho.

>>17489465
Grow up

>>17489465
Don't let them. They're laughing at you talking? Just tell them "please be quite, you're disturbing the rest of the class".

Take up MMA and work out. Next time they pull some shit beat them the fuck up, just don't go overboard and shoot up the school.

OP here, by modest I mean: can't see the shape or become aroused by my lower body. ty

khaki tan

>>17489456
isn't black better because it hides lines? I still get turned on by hot people wearing that style.

Fall into depression, literally do nothing for a few years, avoid drugs, alcohol and self inflicted pain, spend most of your day inside your head trying to make sense of things, reach satori, live life as it is, let go of earthly desires, become Diogenes.

Or the standard answer, it's not that bad, try a little harder, get some professional help.

>>17489437
You're 19, just turn things around. I was the same as you when I was your age, now I'm 23 and own my own house, have an adult job that I'm satisfied with for the time being, have a fiancée and I still smoke weed and play games ask the time. You just have to put some effort in whatever you do and always be improving your time management.

>>17489433
2-3 yrs ago sure
nowadays everbody has sc
its the most popular social media ap rn statistically

>>17489438
>Nowadays everybody is a pseudo whore
So, yes.

But Rebecca Black has a snapchat, and she's NOT a whore.

Refuted.

>>17489430
>using tinder in 2016

>strategies
the owners of tinder have got you over a barrel and are just going to town on that ass

>>17489435
It's a free app. The only thing they're benefitting from is having one more person to show their ads to - ads for products that aren't even geared toward me. When their advertisers figure out that they need to stop rewarding apps for advertising to people outside of their target audience we'll be in trouble, but it'll probably be a few years before they change their model.

I personally think you're gorgeous OP.

My last girlfriend was from Trinidad and we were together for around 8 years. We met completely by chance by hanging out with a group of friends I almost never hang out with.

If you keep meeting low quality individuals then I would expand your social network to include the type of people you would want to surround yourself with. Hold yourself to a higher level and it will eventually happen.

Of course I'm a white male in his thirties so obviously our experience is different so take from it as you will.

Why can't you find a guy who isn't slutty, ghetto or does drugs?

>>17489427
That's a great idea thanks I never thought of that.

>>17489411
Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks

>>17489429

Sincerest advice would be to ignore all of what you've written.

>Alot of us are either fat or skellys. I don't even think I'm eating properly (6'2, 156)
You're probably eating fine, read up on it / ask around if you want to improve.

>When someone asks "how are you?" i respond with "good thanks, yourself?". Is this childish?
The most childish thing to do is ask if your response is correct. Answer with whatever you want.

>How to walk confidently and with correct posture.
Ask people if you walk slouched or not. Think of a sign that whenever you see will remind you to check your posture.

>How long should i be holding eye contact and which eye do i look in?
Don't take yourself too seriously, just spend time socially. Decide if you want to be friendly or not, etc.

>Girls are told all about men from a young age but i was never taught some of the harsh truths about women. What are they?
The harsh truth is they're all individual people with their own thoughts and feelings.

>Arguments,,talking to bosses, talking to coworkers, talking to roommates and girlfriends.
Over time you'll understand what battles to fight and what battles you can't win. You don't stand your ground if you can't win.

>On the street,in the pub or at partys how do i stand my ground when there are people watching?
Again, don't stand your ground if you can't win. Also I can't believe you put in "when there are people watching"

>How to fight
Should i hit first and how will i know if Im brave enough?
If you want to know, take up boxing.

>Other man secrets
>Like i said before i didn't even have the internet until i was 17 and sheltered as fuck.

There are no man secrets and a lot of us lived most our lives without the internet. And I don't get your obsession with men secrets, it's like you want to know some sort of gay code or something. Strong father figure or not, it doesn't affect you, your masculinity, or anything.

>>17489387
It's normal.
I think that, when you find a bitch you click with, a little bon fire gets LIT inside of you and you start wanting to date again.
I understand how you feel, but you can keep doing this forever.
Give these girls a shit, Senpai.

>>17489392
A CHANCE*

>>17489387
This is actually a healthy response anon. Its good to not hop from relationship to relationship. Take your time, its no rush.

Any advice can be sound, depending on the situation. You can take it, just dont apply it to every aspect of life and you'll be fine.

>>17489300
>I think a lot of the stuff makes sense
like what

>>17489322
Just like the shit tests, and basically 90% of the stuff. I've known about it for a long time but only just looked it up. That's why im asking if im choosing the wrong path and if redpill is just a meme.

u can do gym like a complemnet for other sport that u like to do, for example, I love boxing, but i cant do only gym, its so boring

>>17489296
>How do people find time for the gym? Is it really just a matter of giving up on doing much of anything else during the weekdays?
Uh, yes.

Go on /fit/. Lurk around and work out what those guys' routines are. Do they go to parties? Do they hang out with people ever? No. They're NEETs, that's why they have time to become jacked NEETs. And I mean, they're not even wrong to do it, it's sure as fuck more rewarding than endless rounds of Smash or whatever the fuck MOBAs are most popular right now.

It takes one hour a day, three days a week.

Are you telling me you can't pull yourself from your computer chair 3 hours a week?

Use your loaf

Yes you can catch lots of diseases from bodily fluids. You should find a less revolting habit.

Lol. Yes, you can get STDs from eating semen.

Also, they're not jerking off and kissing in there, you know.

Check out chegg, they rent books

>>17489270
Sources for used books at discount prices:

Your college bookstore
Amazon
Ebay
Abebooks.com

>>17489270
You should probably BUY a Calc book. Assuming your major is comp Sci or engineering, it would be a good idea to have a physical reference that you can use for all 4/5 years of schooling. Plus most Calc classes use the same book. Calc 1 only covers a quarter of a text book per semester, Calc 2 another quarter or so, and so on and so forth for all the higher level math stuff.

>>17489248
i forgot...

i feel him being tired is an excuse because he has time and energy to do things like go out with friends and his entire day is mostly sleeping and watching tv. i try to sex all throughout the day, can there really not be a single time he's not tired? we don't even have school yet, i feel like it'll be so much worse when we do.

Well, it is an excuse. Being tired is an excuse that's seldom actually real. Hell, you can be tired as shit and still fuck.

First thing is first, we're in the classic situation of one partner chasing another. What I mean is, the more you ask and try to get sex, the more he'll say no and try to run. You see the problem, the more you try (to get it) the more he tries (to avoid it). This is a game that we all play.

There are two things you should think about;

>Is this issue a sign of a bigger issue?

I'm not saying that you're going to find out that everything is a lie and that he doesn't have real hands etc, but this could be any number of things. He might not feel so secure, might feel a bit unable to pleasure you, basically, it helps to do a spring clean. Sex is really important and when your dynamic is, well, not dynamic, then it can be, but is not always, a sign that you ain't feeling so close. Hence why I'd cut the chasing antics (either you or he), as it's just going to make it worse.

>What can I do?

Actually, I don't know. You could back off for a while, and see if the lack of pressure makes a difference. Or just have a good old sit down and talk about it (actually set aside time for this so that you can both like chill and be ready, you shouldn't do it near/around sex because it's just going to make it worse). This is sensitive and personal to you both so tread lightly.

Hope you get fucked soon.

>>17489248
>im an above average looking person
that doesn't count for shit. My wife ain't exactly the prettiest but her smell is intoxicating and her tits and chubby belly simply fantastic. I fuck her up to 8 times a day if our schedule and mood allow it.