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Comp Sci majors:

How hard is this degree and is it worth it? What kind of jobs can I get with this degree? What is it like to do that job?

I'm not that great at math and I'm terrible at understanding theory stuff like discrete math. I've taken some courses for this degree (still in 200 level courses). I enjoy the programming part, but not the theory part. Also I have to take 2 chem courses and 2 physics courses all with a lab. I also have to take 5 writing intensive courses.

It's very stressful and I have no social life at all. It's also taking me long since I sometimes fuck up in a class and I have to retake it, but I have to wait a year or more before my college offers the course again. I'm already in my 4th year of college and I'm probably going to be here for 3 more years if I go at this rate. I'm quitting my job so I can take more courses a semester.

Honestly I'm not even sure what kind of job I want. I've thought of webdev since I interned at a company that does commercials, websites, and other kinds of advertisement. I know I don't need a degree for that. I really am interested in programming, but getting this degree is stressing me out. Honestly I think I put too much weight on this degree, but I don't know what else to do.
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>>17488581
>I've thought of webdev since I interned at a company that does commercials, websites, and other kinds of advertisement.


Bro, you're way off point. You need a marketing degree if that's the job you want.

Source: I work for an ad agency that does all the shit you just mentioned. I've been learning how to build websites from our graphic designer who builds all the digital products we sell.
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Compsci is a lot of theory. Try a more practical route maybe?
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>>17488581
Holy shit are you going to RU?

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Help me brainstorm, /adv/.

So gf and I have hit a bit of a rough patch. She absolutely loves me and wants to be in a relationship, but she's terrified of committing. She was in a relationship before where she ended up getting married to a guy she didn't even care for, all because her friends and family and he himself kept pushing her into it and making her feel bad for wanting out.

I want to come up with a solution that solves this problem. She wants to be with me, but doesn't want to feel trapped. She isn't the type to reach out for help, and her whole dilemma is that she doesn't want to hurt people by asserting she doesn't want to be with them, so she'd rather just avoid that situation entirely. I want her to be able to be in a relationship without that fear - any ideas on how I can go about making this a reality?

Pic related. Whole situation is nuts.
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What do you mean 'commit'?

There's nothing you can gain from marrying her.

If the relationship isn't currently monogamous it's not a relationship and you need to look elsewhere.

What else is there?
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>>17488563
Poor choice of words. Sorry. Been a long day, and I want to get this problem solved. Maybe got a bit too eager.

She's afraid of committing to a relationship in general. She feels like, once she's in one, she can't get back out without stomping all over the other person's emotions. It's monogamous, I'm the only one she's into, she's the only one I'm into.
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>>17488567
And what is it you want that she isn't already committed to?

Should I tell my gf my darkest secret?
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is it that bad? what is it
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>>17488501
Tell us, but DON'T tell her.

1. Leave a bit of mystery
2. Depends on what it is

What is your darkest secret?
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Is it that you're a nigger?

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So here's the deal, /adv/.

I'm late 20's. I have 3/4ths of a degree that I can't finish because I have no money. I work part time at $9 an hour, usually take home 300-600 dollars every 2 weeks, and pay about 500 a month in bills.

I attempted to join the military to have a background for better paying careers, but that's not an option because I had asthma when I was a kid and I've been rejected by all 4 branches.

I can't go back to college until I save up enough money to pay off student debt. I'm /nearly/ out of default on my loans, but I'm still a good 10,000 in the hole.

What ways are there to get a decent paying job in the meantime, without having a degree?

What kind of jobs should I look for to step up?
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Details: where do you live?

IBR
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>>17488511
Florida Panhandle. Panama city area.

Already on IBR. I'm more concerned with increasing my income so I can pay it off faster, or just not live in abject poverty, that would also be nice.
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this society is unfortunately closing in on having no options for people like you, other than the choice between abject poverty and political revolution.

In the meantime think in terms of unexpected solutions - I've taught myself some farming/gardening skills, for example, and it lowers the hell out of food bills. If nobody will give you work, make your own.

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Simple questions that dont need their own thread.
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I am an 18-year-old girl with a part-time job at the moment. I met a coworker who shares similar music tastes as me but she is 32. I can't help but notice the age difference and feel that she will not be interested in becoming friends with me because of the age difference. I also get the sense that it may always be me initiating to chat with her on Whatsapp. Should I try to befriend her?
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>>17488538
>>17488538
Well for someone that age 'friends' aren't really a thing anymore. Just people that crosses your life temporarily.
Do try to keep a good relationship with her and the rest of your coworkers, but don't expect things to go as smoothly as they were back in school.
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24 year old here

how do i pound fresh 18 year old poonaner at college?

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So I've been having this pain today in the morning. Light pain on lower tummy (above pubes).
Then as I'm done peeing it starts to hurt more then goes away.
Then I sat down to poop and i felt this needle pain on the same area plus on my balls, perineum and ass, it went away when I "flexed" that muscle to stop peeing/pooping.
I finally tried again and pooped and I felt better.
Pooped with slight same pain at work a couple times.
Now I tried to poop and it hurt so much that I aborted and now don't feel like pooping (like it went back up or something)

Anyway, the pain is really weird. It's like needles, like gas is stuck or something, I can't tell. It hurts that I can't move, and it's not on a single place.
For example it's on my lower abs, pelvic area, balls, perineum and anus.

It's incredibly embarrassing to ask people IRL so here I am.

The logical part of me says it's just gas/inflammation, don't have appendicitis symptoms as far as I know.
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Sounds like epidermis go get ur balls checked. Antibiotics and your good, srs helps.
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I've had appendicitis, it feels like food poisoning/stomach upset x100, so unless you feel like you're going to turbo vomit your guys out, I don't think it's that.

Talk to your doctor, nothing is too embarrassing!
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>>17488500
>epidermis
I lol'd

>>17488504
I'm in 'merica, takes 3 days to see a doctor

Is there anything I can do to stop being such a nervous fucking wreck around women? Yesterday my roomie and I went out for dinner, and I got nervous and mildly sweaty as I walked past a table of girls. I have a handful of friends who are girls, but by and large in public, seeing girls in groups and interacting with them freaks me the fuck out, it feels like an assault or something and I usually just shut the hell up when confronted and leave at the soonest opportunity. Is there anything I can do or say to try and rectify this? I know it's not normal, it's subconscious and irrational and it's annoying the absolute hell out of me because it cripples me socially.
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The problem solved itself for me as I became older than them. Just talk to younger girls and be confident that you know more about life than them.
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>>17488470
Thanks, I'm only 20, so not a lot of wiggle room there, but I'm into the idea of girls a few years younger, so that gives me some hope.
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>>17488462
realize that they're dumb vacuous parasites with the mental and emotional capacity of children and your confidence around women will get much higher

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So my ex is a fucking thot and added back all the guys she deleted during our relationship cause they hit on her.

Where do I find thoughts at age 20?
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Thots*
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>>17488450
Go to your nearest community center in a degenerate part of town
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Your ex is a that ho over there. Fucking dumb ebonics

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Hey /adv/, I'll try to make it as short as possible. So I bought a chocolate with psilocybin shrooms in it (6g in it) for 25$ from my roomate/dealer yesterday. I ate it, waited for forever and I didn't
feel a thing. I confronted him and asked him if he could either give me money back or give me another piece of chocolate and he refused because he also lost money in the process, he also stated that the same thing happened to another of his client. 25$ is kind of a big deal for me, should i insist some more or get back at him in some way ? Has anyone here ever had a similar experience with their dealer ?
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>>17488445
that girl is fucking disgusting.

This is something you have to deal with, unless you can prove that there was no product in it don't bother him.

Side note: If $25 is a big deal to you don't fucking spend it on drugs you degenerate.
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>>17488452
>that girl is fucking disgusting
Opinion discarded, faggot.
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>>17488452
Im with this guy. Woman looks grosse.

Also who buys shrooms. Id never ever trust they knew what they had. Ubless i had seen their grow id assume thwy had been picked.

Either pick your own or grow your own.

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Is seeking any type of professional help for depression worth it?

I have recently talked to someone about how I feel and she told me that I sound severely, clinically depressed. I've kind of always been in the camp of, "well everyone's a little sad but only pussy libtards go to doctors about it." It hasn't gotten to bad, it's just now that I'm closer to going back to school I feel it a little more.

I'm not attractive, I'm disabled, and I'm lonely, I don't see how anyone can make me feel better about those things with wither drugs or therapy. Plus telling my parents will be a drag and my friends will think I'm weird, it just seems better to deal with it.

What do you guys thinks the best thing to do?
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Seeing how my husband and my two best female friends all went to get professional help because of depression, and all benefitted massively from it: Yes.

You need the right professional, and you will probably need to try a couple to find the right medication, but once you do, the difference will be astounding. It's worth a shot, right?

Also, an extra note: make sure you ask someone else to monitor you when you try a new medication. The brain likes to believe that the way it feels in the present moment is the way that it always feels. This happens with depression and it also happens with medication. You may not realize how much of a difference it makes. Having an external party who can monitor you and tell you about any differences they see can help give you perspective you may lack.
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I have seasonal affective disorder and have had on and off bouts of clinical depression which started when I was a teenager. I've been on a few antidepressants and have gone to therapy over the years.

I've been medication free for a few years now and therapy free for a few months.

Honestly, it's a very personal thing that is situational and depends on the person. If your day to day life is being affected by depression you need to seek help. I went to my doctor and he referred me to a therapist and wrote a prescription for me. I stopped seeing my therapist because our sessions turned into small talk and I knew all of my problems had been sorted out.

I still get episodes where I'll feel like I did when I needed medication to function, but it passes.

Hope you feel better soon :)
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It really depends. It seems half of the professionals don't give a crap and want money but you do meet the few who do care and want to help. I would suggest you research into one you want to look into and see what others say from there.

However for some people it helps, others it doesn't.

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I just moved into a new apartment with a washer/dryer unit, but the dryer's vent is just up against the wall and shoots vapor and lint allover.

Is this enough to break the lease?
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>>17488442
Nope..

There are many more steps to take before ending the lease.

1) contact your landlord about a necessary repaid in writing.

2) if after 30 days it is not repaired then you may repair it yourself whilst deducting the costs from your rent that month (all of which you have a legal right to do so)


Otherwise move the fuck out, give notice and stop bitching.
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>>17488449

well thats gay as fuck, but I made sure I could leave by paying a months rent before signing so I'm only kinda fucked.

also are you dense? you can't repair not having a vent without buying a completely new unit.
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>>17488518
Are autistic people even allowed to sign contracts?

I'm sure your mom could get you out of it by informing them you're too stupid to know what you were doing.

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Everytime im remided im a loser virgin and that women hate me and im gonna die alone and that im a monster that cant into relationships of any sort i cut myself and get super fucking angry, i even avoid making friends with guys who have girlfriends. Everytimd i see a man and his wife i get mad


Butttt i hate women with a fucking passion and actively avoid talking to them. And the few that have shown interest over the years i told them to fuck off because i hate their desire for me. A girl once straight up asked me if she could blow me and i told her to get the fuck away from me.

How the fuck do I stop caring about other people? Its hard for me to get through college because i keep fantasizing about suicide every other day. Why the fuck can't i just be normal?
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>>17488440
Come out of the closet already..
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>>17488441
I wish I was gay, things would be so much easier
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>>17488440
Just hire a prostitute bro. Its okay. It's been here for thousands of years and isn't going anywhere

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When I was a teenager, my parents and I came to America from Poland. I never really adjusted though, and I always felt alienated.

I'm 23 now and working a shit factory job and recently I got in contact with this Indian guy I was really good friends with in high school (who had the same immigration situation) and he went back to India after he finished college and was telling me how much he liked it over there.

Though this exchange, I started thinking maybe I should go back to Poland. But if I do and I happen not to like it, I'll be screwed. What do you think. Is this a bad idea? Am I just a pussy?
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Pls respond
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>>17488434
do what you feel is the right choice, and what makes you happy, if you don't feel happy or right in America, and you do in Poland, go, however, if there are educational opportunities you can defiantly get, get them first, they will make life in Poland 2x better.

hope this helps!

black raptor out!
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>>17488434
Do you have any family in Poland? Somebody to stay with until you get your life together? Or friends who could share a flat with you? Or maybe your parents will support you by sending you dolans?
Either way if you move back, make plenty of bucks beforehand, they'll be useful around here. I think people will think it's cool you lived in 'murrica and it's your homeland so maybe you'll feel more comfy, but really you should still have some kind of a support (members of family or friends)

Powodzenia anon jak będziesz w okolicach Warszawy to możemy iść na piwo

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I kind of have a crush on my step sister. We're both very timid and shy around each other, but I think she's attractive and her personality is appealing. Her boyfriend is a douche, and she doesn't talk the greatest about him when he's not around. She's 18 and I turned 24 today, should I just let it be? Or try and make something of it?
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Just don't.
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>>17488374
Dont
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>>17488374
not worth it bruh

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Hello /adv/ I recently had the greatest orgasms I've probably ever had because of this handsoap, just wanted to share that with anyone that's depressed
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>>17488371
>inb4 stop being insensitive
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>>17488371
shove bottle up your vag and post pic pls
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>>17489021
Hold on, let me get a sexchange real quick

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