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>>17489099
I'm literally in the same position, except I didn't buy the books.

I feel so shitty, but I think we can make it through this. It's just another year for now and you've got people to support you. I don't know if you're undecided on your occupation, but if you have something in mind you'll get to it as long as you keep passionate about it.

Best of luck to you, man.

Explain the circumstances to the educational institution. You might have to start a little later, but if you're serious about it you could catch up.

>>17489112
One of my goals is to get my own place
Maybe I should start working towards that
Also we both have many options we could work, make a trip around the world, whatever
Thank you for the new look and best of luck to you to
>>17489127
If I sign in after first of may I have to go through a studytest to see if im qualified for the education.
Also do I have to show that my last education kicked me after first of may (this is no problem for me)
However there is a meeting followed up by the studytest and the city I want to study at the moment they choose for that has already passed
So I send a letter to the sign up information desk
I just hope they can help me out

This board is fuckin useless i swear

>>17489143

This might shock you, but we aren't fucking mindreaders and can't tell you what's going on. Ask her.

>>17489083
We're not mindreaders

You have to connect it with the micro usb cable to the PS4.

Wat

Plug the cable in to the back of the PSTV and into the controller and press the PS button on the controller. That'll sync it.

>>17489087
Not to the PSTV, I want to re-sync it to my PS4.

>>17489086
I have it connected with a usb cable. That didn't do anything.

Find out what it is about you that drives people away. If that means having to ask one of you old friends, then do it. You have nothing to lose by asking them. If it's something you can change, work on becoming a more likable person.

>>17489091
What this anon suggested is actually a great idea if you're so determined that there's something is actually wrong with you. Finding out how to make yourself a better person's always good. But understand that not all people are compatible though especially to depressing shit, and that's not your fault or your old friends' faults either.

Whatever you do, don't give up heart. There are so many people out there and when you finally find people who like you for who you really are it's worth it.

I think most people have dysfunctional families, they will understand if you tell them your parents are crazy and easily upset and hate guests.

I would go with what the other anons said. And try not to focus on yourself because there's a good chance nobody is thinking that hard about your flaws. Just compliment other genuinely and they will like you, always look for opportunities to warm up to people. It's easier if you have the same interests though, but most people can get along if you AVOID CRITICISM and negativity... only see the good in them, so be like a dog - always show your friendly side even if you're sad / upset.

work backwards.

what would you like people to say about you at your funeral?
Then set long, medium and short term goals to get there.
if maths is the thing that is a short term problem to stop you from becoming a trader / scientist / whatever then you have a focus.

>>17489051
i am literally you

bump

>>17489042
They're all pretty ugly, to be honest.

>>17489047
what would do u wear?

>>17489050
I am a girl, but... coats. Mostly.

But, I don't know, they look pretty trashy.

>>17489027
Some of these people have psychological issues that prevent them from either engaging in social interaction (eg social anxiety) or gaining the normal benefits from it (eg antisocial conditions).

They are basically socially handicapped, and things that are easy for most people are hard for them.

People come here for advice. When they are frustrated with things and their emotions. It's a place to go when you feel you have no one to talk to.
As for loneliness, yes. You can go talk to someone randomly, sure. But the kind of loneliness people here feel is crippling for different reasons.
People never truly connect anymore. It's a race to become perfect and there is no room for anyone other than the ones that meet your standards.
People aren't lonely in general, I think it's more like they can't find anyone to connect to that fits their standards or desires.
So they suffer alone in their journey to become the person they want to be because the people that they want to be around, don't want to be around them as they are.

It's fucked but it's almost a self inflicted solitary confinement.

I feel like lonely people just need someone that takes that pain away. I personally love being alone as often as possible (which isn't often enough because I will sometimes only get to spend one day a week not constantly surrounded by people) and I use my alone time to practice guitar and write.

Asti gets girls pretty drunk. My gf swears by white russians, which is just a mix of vodka, khalua and milk, its very sweet as well.

>>17488984
Am I retarded for not knowing what asti is?

>>17488993
Its sparkeling wine thats very sweet. Gets girls drunk fast. A popular brand is martini. You should have too much of it though, its is known to give men a way worse hangover than women.

People never get over their feelings. I know i dont.

>>17488987
Guy or girl?

>>17489006
Guy.

Anytime someone says
>i used to really like you
They actually want to say
>i still really like you

>>17488947
Are you sure it's just about you attracting them, and not at all about them attracting you?

Maybe because feckless/suicidal/unstable describes you to

People feel the weaklings, as lion feels who is the weakest gazelle. They are broken, so is you, and they simply don't have any other choice.

>>17488924
There's a huge market for this kind of thing on reddit apparently, the have a load of boards dedicated to it and everything.

>>17488926
I'm not very familiar with reddit at all but I will try to check it out.

I'm kinda concerned about the safety since some girls have written about stalkers. Thinking about maybe getting a PO Box or putting a friend's address.

>>17488933
I've only been there once myself tbqh, otherwise I'd help you out.

A PO box is definatley a good idea. Not so much a relative's address though, unless you're prepared to explain to them what you're doing at the very least, or compensate them in some way if a stalker shows up there - it's unlikley, but not impossible.

Obviously you're going to want a seperate email for this. Not sure if it's possible to make a burner paypal, I think they're quite tight on account creation because of money laundering and that kind of thing, but it's worth looking in to.

One other important thing is to be careful when taking photos. It's not just your face that'll get you doxxed - remember to think about scars, marks and tattoos as well. Also be mindful of backgrounds. For instance, if you regularly take selfies with your webcam and put them on FB, don't use the same setup to take the panty photos, regardless of how much of you it shows. It won't take long for someone to spot that the PO box is in the same place as this random FB profile, and that the room they're taken in looks the same or whatever. Stuff like that happens a lot.

You know that you arent trying your hardest so any advice is really just wasted effort, but here it is anyways.

People with horrifying birth defects still manage to find love, so get over yourself. Put forth some effort in making yourself look as good as you can and stop basing your opinion of yourself on what other assmasters have to say about you.

Fix your attitude, because "woe is me" is a massive turnoff to anyone and everyone.

Stop treating everything as if "this is my only chance!"

People and relationships are a dime a dozen, dont waste time moping around, move on to bigger and better things.

Rinse and repeat.

>>17488917
I did tried my best. I managed to go down 30kgs.
I don't reveal any of my "true feeling" in public. Just being a silent guy.
I don't treat anything as a chance. I'm just don't know what i did even do wrong.

You didn't do anything wrong. You can go a step further and do the right thing by posting that pic

>>17488900
Op here , I get it tho , she's seeking attention. My problem is , she seems to be lying or exaggerating things , just to guilt tripping me into doing things for her.... Wtf.

Omg. Just don't do that shit. Or go psycho on her, manipulate her into the guilt trip.

She doesn't have cancer. Gaslight her for keks

No.

You would experience the same side effects from smoking marijuana everyone else does, the progress would just be slower

>>17488885
Long-term side effects are proven to arise when you start consuming it for more than twice a week, if you get stoned let's say once every 20 days you should be fine. That until we get proper studies when marijuana gets legal in the most relevant places

>>17488885
Yeah dude definitely do a break month. You'll find that it'll clear your head a little, and it'll be good to prove to yourself that you CAN stop smoking weed when you want to.

Once every two weeks seems to be the magic moderation number for me. Any more and I notice I start gettin. depressed and slow between highs.

>>17488884
By never giving up, keep going!!!

>>17488884
Work your way up the ladder like everyone else.
If your education didnt amount to jack shit then put it to use.
Dont get complacent with your current dead end job, keep applying and keep looking for something better.

there is no easy way out. Youll never get those years back or be able to make up for them. Just make he best of what you got.

tfw didn't go to college, tfw doing what I want getting good money, ayy lmao baby.