Curious, want to collect some opinions
Am I reading into this a little much, or is she simultaneously fucking with me, yet wants the D?
I broke up with her a couple of months ago due to differences in priorities basically; I'm 24, she 31, she wants to get married, have kids, blah blah.
We had been seeing each other for about 4 months, so it didn't get too deep. We've remained good friends.
I'm currently overseas, we basically broke up just before I left (presumably to avoid guilt while apart, in a sense).
Going back in a week; I plan to play it cool and just generally be a bit of a prick, so there's not even a hint of feels.
>inb4 minx
It's an old joke between us.
>>17487376
>you're a good time
>have a nice day
Well...
>>17487405
To be quite frank, I couldn't give a fuck what ends up happening, but I am asking for advice because this shit went one way then immediately seemed to about face.
She was a fucking weird one though, she'd try to manipulate me, it'd work for a bit, then I'd clue on and call her out on her bullshit, and she'd go right back to being all nice and shit; which is why I think this is 50% mind game, but also 50% she wants a dick because she's had nobody since me.
>>17487376
Bro are you blind?
Its so clear.
1. She def did not talk about fuckbuddies wothout a reason. She planted the idea, and wants you to win her over.
2. She brings up the complicatedness, because she is insecure about it. Either because she isnt over it, or thinks you dont.
How to fix:
1. Feed her the attention, chase her and make her feel good being chased. She wants you anyway.
Or make it interesting, and try to be a real man, and show interest but find ways to let her chase you. So its a more exitening game with more sexual buildup.
2.assure her its going to be all right. You are stable and things are not emotionally complicated for you. Besides this also make her feel that if she still has doubts you will be there for her and give her all the space she needs.
Do this and you fuck her. But beware, older women usually are huge emotional drainers, so you mighy not want to succeed with her.
Got a pair of scars on my palm from climbing over a fence when I was drunk, they have been like this for 3/4 weeks now and the topmost layer of skin doesn't seem to be healing over, giving me the impression they might last as permanent scars.
Is there anything I could do to encourage new skin growth? I've considered bio-oil but I don't want they less visible so much as wanting the top layer of skin to heal over and for the wound to heal. I've thought maybe silicone gel sheets for a few months might help to that effect?
Pic related it's the scars
>>17487364
You could try snoo.
>>17487364
Look like regular ass cuts to me. Most scars fade away after a year or two anyways, and as long as they aren't on your face, who cares
>>17487445
Dad????????????
Here's the deal:
I started chatting with a girl in normiebook. We had a short discussion about our holidays, and after a short chat, I asked her if she wanted to go out and buy her a drink. She agreed. We then had a short chat, and then the discussion ended with her telling me that she is returning on the 22nd (today). I am still on holiday, and I am returning this Thursday. That means that the earliest we can go out in on Friday.
And there's my problem: What should I say now? When should I message her, what should I include in my message?
Ask for any complementary info you may need.
Please help.
>>17487344
self bump.
>>17487344
please respond.
I'm not sure I really get what your problem is, but just give her a relaxed answer. Something like:
Girl: Hey, I will return on the 22nd.
You: Cool! Seems like I will get to enjoy holidays a little more. I'll be back on the 25th. Btw, we are going for our drink on Friday so we can chat about our time in X.
Who has it harder in life--men or women?
>>17487315
Depends on the objectives, if your dream is a career in the army or any physical labour is not the same as it being to thrive in social wankery games
>>17487315
Having a period would suck, dude. I don't envy women in that regard whatsoever. But overall I'd say women have it waaaaaaaay easier in some places and harder in others but not enough to balance it out. Women have it easier.
>>17487315
Attractive people have it better. Halo effect makes us perceive attractive people as more competent and more valuable as less attractive folks.
Couple this with how society sees women, especially in the west. They are put on a pedestal. Their needs are the burden of society. Folks fight to make sure women are not discriminated against in dating or other areas, regardless of their weight or skin color or anything else. But men are supposed to just deal with it on their own because they're men. Don't even get me started on divorce and child custody and how women always walk away with more.
Generally, at a societal level, I'd say women have it "easier". Or, to be more accurate, women have it easier because society tries so hard to make it easier for them.
Going to doctor tomorrow, what should I do to guarantee I get prescribed adhd meds (adderall/vyvanse/ritalin). Im 99% sure I have add but my grades are so bad compared to my predictions and every teacher tells me I would be the top of my class if I focused and stopped getting distracted. My exams are coming up so it is extremely important that I get a prescription. Symptoms are: cant concentrate easily distracted low attention span easily lose focus underperforming trouble with organization bad short term memory
>>17487313
say all of that, to a high severity, and then ask "will I need a prescription" and he'll give you it, that's how I got prescribed a crapton for my psychosis and paranoid schizophrenia. even though I was hoping that I didn't have to take pills.
be honest
>>17487339
everything i say will be true but i need to get prescribed meds
Advice on dealing with shyness?
Constant Exposure therapy
>>17487310
A .50 caliber bullet fired into your head
>>17487310
Force yourself into uncomfortable situations. Start small. Ask a stranger the time or chat with someone you already know. Slowly build up confidence. Don't expect overnight miracles. You probably will remain somewhat shy all your life, but you can get yourself to the point of being able to function in society.
>have feelings for best friend
>reveal it to her a year ago
>mentions she is flattered but she doesn't feel the same way
>she did a couple months prior, but I was getting over a bad break up from a 4 year relationship
>stay best friends
>she ended up liking someone and I felt like shit
>got over that too and that didn't work out for her
>a couple months ago, she randomly says "i love you" here and there in our messaging
>too scared to acknowledge it
>doesn't happen anymore
>realize I still like her and I hate it
>I want to ask her one more time, but she doesn't seem interested.
>she invited me to a party with her close friends I never met this weekend and her birthday is a couple days after
>afraid I'll ruin those things if I ask and make some deal of it
For some reason, I can get over so much shit and disregard whatever, but this is the one time where I just can't. I don't get it. I haven't done this with other girls. What do I do? Should I bring it up out of nowhere? Should I wait? Should I even go to the party? I'm confused as hell
>>17487298
Pam and Jim.
Go for it bro, just start treating her really nice and smile a lot. If the mood strikes and you see that Twinkle in her eye then hit her with the feels. You owe it to yourself to get this girl for you.
>>17487298
She doesn't love you, she loves keeping you on reserve. If she says yes, she may have had actual feelings for you. If she passes she's just using you for your attention and you should walk away.
>>17487309
>>17487331
Thanks for the answers. Pretty different, but I'm leaning more on the latter one, mainly because I know there are people that pull shit like this.
I guess this question can apply to both though. Should I confront her about it before her party/birthday or should I just wait (and go to the party)?
Even if it is a "keeping me on reserve" scenario, I still want to say something and confront her on all this weird shit
Hey /adv/,
I'm trying to settle my situation before I finally bite the bullet.
The thing I'm having trouble with is how to reduce the impact to my family (my mother has stated that if I ended up killing myself, she'd do the same). Whether or not she does it is of no consequence to me, but I'd prefer to leave peacefully if possible.
Any advice would be appreciated.
First of all don't do it. Google books that have similar stories to what has led you to want to kill yourself and read one that will help you feel connected and like there is hope because there is. There always is
>>17487295
You'll be dead, nigger. Why the fuck do you care what happens? You'll be incapable of caring due to the whole being dead part. Either kill yourself for yourself or just don't and fuck off. Nobody gives a shit.
>>17487314
I have a preference for not being a variable in people's lives. If I could not affect them, I'd work (within my limits) to accomplish that. Otherwise you're right, I'll be a dead nigger.
One question, why are you on this board if you don't care about helping strangers?
What does this look like to you? Is it serious?
I've never had one before.
why do people who don't brush think it's okay to post pictures of their mouth on 4chan
>>17487291
Look up someting called Afte.
Do you have similar marks on your gum or throat, do the "wounds" have white coating on them ?
dude go to the dentist. You don't brush or brush well at all. I bet you have gum disease.
Pic related. She's visiting me for the week. She lives where I previously worked. I now have a better higher paying but high stress job. I'd rather be lazy and not have to worry about domestic duties. So best ways to train a girl into being my maid and sex slave.
>>17487288
First things first, does she enjoy cleaning after and getting fucked when you say so.
>>17487299
I fucked her last night and she cleaned my kitchen while I've been at work
Is she into wearing wearing maid outfits? Are you into her wearing slutty outfits?
How do I stop comparing myself to other people?
>>17487286
By accepting that most people are better than you and becoming completely subservient to them.
By specializing in one particular thing and become incredible at it, and realize there will always be people better than you at something.
>>17487286
Don't stop doing it, just change how you do it.
For example, if you see a guy who's jacked and feel bad about yourself because you're shitty and out of shape and use that as motivation to get yourself into shape, you're doing it right.
On the other hand, if you see a guy who's jacked and feel bad about yourself because you're shitty and out of shape and do nothing, you're doing it wrong.
So, I'm going to be purchasing some cannabis and other items off a deep web market place. What is the best way to have it shipped? Directly to my home or nah? Also, I'm going through the Green Road, it seems pretty legit. Any of you other /adv/enturers have experience with this?
Set up a PO box in the name of a small business. Is the deep web back up again? Are people still using tor?
>>17487245
Yea, its still being used
>>17487245
Thanks for the advice. Do they require an ID to set up a PO Box?
My friend's girlfriend has gone away to Spain with her male best friend. Is it normal? I suspect something is going on but I am very paranoid.
No, it's not normal. She's either a regular whore or attention whore. Either way, I doubt she'll ever have a lasting, fulfilling, longterm relationship with anyone, because she doesn't respect boundaries, and will likely blame him if he brings it up.
Yeah I didn't feel like it was normal but to be honest I'm probably somewhat insecure so I thought maybe it was skewing my opinion.
It's weird though, where do you draw the line? It's perfectly fine for her to hang out with her male best friend right, so why does being abroad change that?
If she went with a female friend no one would have batted an eyelid right? Same thing that if there were more people going with them I probably wouldn't question it.
If I was in his position I'd be pissy and probably tell her not to go, but wouldn't that be controlling? Glad I'm single to be honest. Fuck that hassle.
>>17487305
>>17487227
Are they there alone or with other people ?
Is her best male friend homosexual ?
Should't you be her best male friend, isn't the BF supposed to be that ?
(Otherwise BF is just somebody the girl fucks and spend some time with)
A girl that I've been friends with for a while now told me that she used to like me a lot but had to get over her feelings for me since I didn't like her back. I've recently gotten very attracted to her, but she said that she got over her feelings and that 'our timing is never right'. What do?
>>17487199
If she was interested once, there's a chance that she might be interested again. Just spend time with her and flirt and it just might happen. If she isn't with anyone else, you just might get lucky.
>>17487199
Lol she ain't over them. That's like a chick's "in case of emergency break glass" response to desperation.
>>17487219
So you're telling me there's a chance she is still attracted
How did you learn to cook?
Ever since ma and pa quit cooking meals and I moved out I've just been eating too much fast food.
What's worse is a Mcchicken is $1, a Chick-fil-a sandwhich is $3, and a taco from Moe's is $3, so I can eat off like $5 a day, so i feel like i'm ahead money-wise.
But god it does not taste good and you start to feel like shit after a while.
Can you learn to cook in your spare time?
>>17487188
You can prolly find youtube videos about it these days.
Of course you can. Youtube and google are your best friends with this, there are plenty of good, easy recepies and clear instructions to follow. Once you get started with it and get the hang of the basics it's pretty easy to improve.
>>17487188
I've been told that I'm good at cooking but all I do is follow recipes.
Just google diahes you like and ket it take you away.