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How do I get around Xfinity's monthly limit on free access passes?

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Can anybody help me out with some tips with skin care? I have a wedding I'm going to in about two weeks, and I would like to look decently presentable. All of my family will be there and I haven't seen them in about eight years.

I have oily skin, blackheads and the occasional pimples on my face. Thankfully no pimples at the moment.

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I am obligated to give several presentations this semester about several subjects.

If I have always been awkward, shy, too self conscious about me being ugly and overall pretty shit and giving presentations, will getting a little bit drunk cure my fear of doing it that day?

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How do you get laid in college /adv/? I am literally going to die if I don't have sex soon. Sick of being a perma-virgin

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Starting my freshman year after a year long hiatus.

My issue is from the women I've dated, I haven't had to put any effort into pursuing them. I've dated about 4 in my high school years. They all either approached me, or had one of their friends approach me. I knew they liked me beforehand. I have no issue talking to women, the issue is the etiquette I suppose on flirting with them. I'm just really shitty with flirting/making it apparent I'm interested.

Now that I started my first day of college, I've been thinking about how to approach women in a college environment? I don't live in the dorms, so that's out of the question sadly. I rent a place with friends instead.

Anyways I noticed a few long repeated gazes from women, a few smiles, etc. I wouldn't consider myself a 10/10 chad by any means. But according to others I'm good enough, so I guess it'd be safe to call myself a 7. Not bad, but not superb either. I made a joke about "Hey, look at all those cute girls I won't talk to." and a friend replied with "Dude, I don't think you give yourself enough credit. You could probably get quite a few girls here if you tried."

So I wondered, when it comes to the lecture halls to walking around campus, to the events they have all year long, what's the right way to approach a woman without coming across as a total "chad" personality?

>Note that I'm wanting to have fun in college. I'm desiring a relationship eventually but I'm not above the casual things.

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what does "you're embarrassing me now" mean in english usually?
is it a good or bad expression? is the person embarrassed for good or bad motives?

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Old(er) fag here, I'm 29. What should be the deadline for a guy having children/adopting/look into surrogacy?

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Aujourd'hui je suis un peu au bout de ma vie. Mon ex petite amie (à qui j'ai donné ma première fois) ma annoncé il y a 1 semaine qu'elle m'avait trompé 2 fois avec 2 hommes différents lors de notre relation qui a duré 6 mois. Elle m'a dit qu'après avoir couché avec eux elle est venu me voir et qu'elle m'avait trompé plusieurs fois.

On a rompu il y a 2 mois et c'est le jour de mon anniversaire que cette tepu decide de me reparler. Elle voulait me récupérer et voulait être sincère avec moi. Sauf que ... j'ai insulter cette pute de tous les noms. Mon estime de moi est au plus bas. Elle ma dit qu'elle ma trompé parce qu'un gars lui a dit que je mentais sur qui j'étais (mon taf etc) alors qu'elle est venu à mon bureau sur lequel on a même fait l'amour. Le gars lui a monté la tête ocntre moi et elle a ken avec lui.

Aujourd'hui elle est repartie avec son ex (qu'elle avait quitté pour moi normalement). Je réalise que j'étais juste un bouche trou. J'étais tellement amoureux d'elle que je lui ai donné ma première fois et je suis catho donc ça compte énormement pour moi car c'est un péché.

Je suis au plus bas de ma vie, j'ai plus du tout confiance en moi, je deviens parano à l'idée qu'elle ai pu coucher avec un autre. Je sais plus quoi faire de ma vie, je lui avait tout donné... j'avais tout fait pour elle et elle faisait jamais d'efforts pour moi en retour. Je suis perdu, n'importe quel conseils m'aiderait.

PS : J'écris ce message sous influence de l'alcool et de plusieurs joins et je suis entrain de foutre ma vie en l'air depuis quelques semaines.

Merci.

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How do I learn how to express how I feel? I was always raised that men don't show emotions, they act like a rock. I literally don't know how to articulate how I feel. My girlfriend just broke up with me because I'm emotionally distant. I'm under so much stress between my job and my parents and now this I feel like this heavy weight holding me down.

I'm trying my best to just suck it up and deal with it but I'm barely holding it together at this point. I just don't know how to explain how or why I feel this way. I've never had anyone I could talk to. My parents think i should be a man but I barely know how. I've never talked to anyone about how I feel

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I got out of a relationship with this guy about 3 months ago. I had no friends really, but these two guys let me in their group. I've been totally in love with one of them since the moment I saw him, but I didn't think I was good enough. His friend came onto, the other guy, 3 months ago and I got with him. I just wasnt strong enough to say no. Well, every day I think about the guy who im still in love with. I see him all the time and I just feel like it was meant to be and I kind of feel like he feels the same way. From the start all I wanted was to be with him and thats half the reason I dated his friend, to be closer to him. But they are best friends, and I dont want to ruin that. I feel like my boyfriend knows deep down though, but wont say anything.

What am I supposed to do?

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What does it mean if you ask out a girl, and she has to smile and turn her head away to say that she doesn't want to date this school year? Even though she's dated in past and had date to every dance? (She's never been in a real relationship because she keeps getting asked out by fuck boys). It was my first time asking a girl out. Is it acceptable to ask her to a dance or something down the road, or was her rejection a cover-excuse for a no? I know for a fact that I'm a busier person than her (but not by much). I know this isn't as drastic as other threads, but I don't really have anyone to go to, thanks.

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Hey guys. I need some advice, or reassurance or whatever.

I am a 22 year old male who is just now transferring into his junior year at uni- I know I hate it too- because I felt like I didnt want to waste any more time in my life today I moved to NY from San Francisco to start college and doing stand up. But today was just the fucking worst.

I dropped off my shit and instantly I hopped onto a subway to midtown new york. I was completely overwhelmed. The sounds the sights the new cultures- it was all just so much and it put this seed of doubt into my mind that has started to give me a massive anxiety attack over weather or not I made the right decision. I already miss home, I already loathe the idea of living in a dorm with a room mate and shared floor bathrooms, but this is it. I cant go back. Maybe im freaking out because this is sort of the start of my adult life and is a sink or swim moment but its just caused me to go into panic mode.

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Did I fuck up by emailing this girl I just met on day one of uni? I asked if she could show me her book since mine has yet to be shipped and I need it by Wed, but she hasn't responded. I thought we got along pretty well in class. Am I just retarded?

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So for the past 6 months I've known a girl that started to talk to me, as we knew each other better we realised we would be a great couple, problem was, she knew another guy and she liked him before she met me.
She always complained about him, and told me she would be better with me rather than him, which I responded encouraging her to finally get away for him, after 3 months she finally got into a big fight and dumped him, and she came with me.
And for the last 3 months, even though we weren't a couple I could realise she still talked about him a lot, to which I later asked to her. She confessed she still had feelings for him, so I let her go with him, without doubting or anything else.
But now, that she finally returned with him, I still have the feeling of disappointment towards her, as she practically went back with him only to complain again and again.
A few weeks ago I told her I liked her; to which she responded being very confused, and not knowing how to respond, I lied to her telling that was a joke to try to resolve the problem.
But even though I know I will never be with her, I still have the feeling of wanting to fight for her, even if she's in love with the other guy.
And in order to block this desire I figured out the only way to eliminate it is to get away from her, to stop talking, cause if I still talk to her I will never get over her.
Don't know what to do right now; to conserve the relationship or to let it go.
adv/?

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My ex completely broke up with me yesterday and I sobbed pretty hard. The same night I had talks with three other girls. Two wanted to fuck me and one wanted to go out with me.

It made me feel better so I started talking to the 18 year old who had a crush on me since high school. She wants to go out and asked that I won't break her heart.

It all sounds good and we're texting now but I'm still unhappy and unsure. She's different then my ex. I'd have her show her a fun time and I don't really open up much so we haven't texted much. Just feels awkward. The entire day I've been trying not to think about my ex, it's working. But I miss the way shed put her head on me, meow at me and snug her head in my shoulder, look at me with her eyes and kiss me. She wasn't even attractive like hot, she was sort of beautiful in a way but she had a lot of physical aspects that weren't pleasing. Idk we just turned them into something cute like she was a kitty. This new girl, I haven't hung out with her yet but I just don't even think I could find her attractive. I feel so out. I see how my ex left me because with the girl I'm talking to now, I'm just making her fall in love with me every single text but I feel absolutely nothing. The girls who want to fuck me, I just say a couple things to connect but feel fucking nothing.

Will I be able to find everything I loved about my ex? Will it go away or change? Just What do.

Pic related looks EXACTLY like her.