>texting oneitis
>had sex with her for the first time last week
>we aren't dating
>She is moving near where I live for college
>text her "Hey wanna hang out this week?"
>She says "Haha Maybe sure"
>Followed with ":)"
The "maybe" caught me off guard. I kinda took it as a "I'm not really interested, but I'll think about it. Hope you're not mad".
How does this sound to you?
I think I woulda replaced the smile with like..
Great, I'll see you then :p
>>17487924
Sounds like time will tell.
Usually when I ask her to hang out, she says yes or no. Or sometimes she just asks me to hang out.
Should I text her later on in the week to see? Or just let her text me?
Is there a website where you can exchange nudes for free?
4chan.org/soc
>>17487913
If you don't know, then you're not suppose to know.
>topsecret.
http://qvchmzewlf4efhcw.onion/
I can't cry. It's physically impossible for me. How can I get the cathartic release?
>>17487894
I had a teacher that had to operate her eyes so she would cry. Maybe is that condition? Are you talking about the pink part of the eye where tears come from? If you don't have a tiny hole there then you can't cry. Some people are born like that but you can go to a doctor to figure that shit out
Don't worry anon
Beat a woman
I suppose im being a bit hyperbolic here. I can cry it's just extremely difficult. Are there any other releases that are as good?
>be me, my gf together for few months
>been mostly great, I'm her first kiss
>some really down moments for her where she pushes me away, I always reassured her she's my girl and I love her
>happens again
>then again, except this time I didn't even speak to her at all for a few days
>gave her short replies when she finally spoke too me
>she really felt like she was losing me and I didn't even wanna be with her
>she kept saying sorry, she realises she's messed up, and she loves me, 'please' etc
>how she's scared sometimes because she's never been in a relationship
>sometimes she just wants to be alone when she's feeling down
>tells me she has dyslexia which causes her to not think straight sometimes
>tells me she just wants to be with me and loves me over and over
>swears she won't hurt me again, she just needs me by her side
I just told her straight up she needs to stop pushing me away and stop overthinking things, and I just want her back too but you can't keep doing this, and you know kiss me tell me you love me and send me a cute feet pic now and then (just to lighten the mood a little, she hasn't sent one yet) and she was like I know I just don't know what to do sometimes I'm sorry and I will hehe.
Is this a normal relationship?
>>17487876
Idk. You sound like an ugly, weird faggot with a foot fetish so probably not.
>>17487881
If that was true she wouldn't of gotten scared that she might of lost me after the 3rd time with her shit and basically begged for me back, I think I'm an okay guy.
>>17487886
If you were, she wouldn't be pushing you away. Take it as a sign that something is wrong and stop forcing your weird perversions on her.
/adv/ my relationship was going down hill for a month before my now-ex boyfriend decided to end things. Maybe like 2 days after, I met a guy who I've been talking to, who has no idea that I just got out of a 2+ year relationship, he just knows that I'm single. He recently asked me out, and I said "not now." He was thankfully cool with that, but I'm I'm wondering when I will/should be cool with dating again? I've never had a breakup from such a serious relationship, but it also feels like nothing to get worked up about because things were going so poorly for so long at the end.
Go talk to your ex and really clear things up.
>>17487897
About what? It's over
There is no correct amount of time to wait, just whenever you feel comfortable. Could be tomorrow, could be a month or two from now.
Hey everyone! I'm applying for graduate school for Mathematics and I have about a 3.3 GPA. I still have two years left of schooling. My GPA for Mathematics is currently 3.7.
Is there anyone here who got into graduate school with an undergraduate GPA of 3.0-3.3? Am I being unrealistic applying to schools like Stanford, MIT or UChicago? Just wondering if you know anyone or if you are someone that has been accepted to graduate with a low GPA or even low GRE score? Just for us people out there that are applying in similar situations.
You won't get into the top tier schools of your choice. Go to community college, fix your GPA and then transfer. If you can't get good grades you will never get into these schools unless you're black, and even then you would have a hard time adjusting to a school above your IQ level.
>>17487816
Professor (not in math) writing here
Though I'm not in math, things aren't all that different between departments. I can say that your math GPA will count more than your overall average, because we assume most people will have some required courses they didn't do all that well in, and discount them. Your math GPA looks high enough for you to be considered by top schools, but the real decider will be your references. Get letters from professors who can say more than "He was in my class and got an A". You want something more like "He worked on this special project and showed a real talent for original thinking in the area of non-Euclidian framistalsis"
Hey there math undergrad here. graduated with exactly a 3.00. Fucked my grades up lne semester when my parents told me they were divorcing during finals week. Why didn't they wait to tell me for a couple days? Don't know.
My advice is become a nihilist because life crushes you when you invest yourself into things.
I'm drunk
Is it always daddy issues when a girl feels attracted to older men? Can it be something else?
>>17487774
Yes, Gerontophilia.
Yeah, money.
Stability, if she comes from an unstable home.
My friend says she can hook me up with some acid. I've been considering of taking it, I hear it's really helpful in dealing with depression. I have low self esteem issues in terms of self worth.
Anyone got stories and advice? Things I should look out for?
>>17487760
It can help solve depression, but it can easily cause a bad trip if you are already depressed as well
>>17487851
this
it really depends on your mood
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Set_and_setting
if you're actively depressed as fuck try mdma instead
>>17487851
>>17487857
So I guess I should have a trip sitter I'm close with?
Well I would like to tell you something that just blew my mind today
My mum (Call her S) told me that my father (Call him T) wasn't my biological father my biological father was actually the dude (call him D) that married my mum's mother (And call her B).
So D raped my mum and she had a child, my dad can't make kids because of something that affected his genitals when he was a young kid.
After that T thought by some miraculous luck he can make kids again till D (fucking psycho) called him and told him what happened.
Instead of T leaving me he actually took care of me.
And everyone In my family knows about this and they never told me.
When I heard this I smiled not letting my mother know how i truly felt and know I have this like abyss in my heart and it hurts man.
Any suggestions on what to do?
>>17487748
>STD
I would seriously never talk to them again.
Thank T for staying with you and bringing you up as his own for all these years. Commend homily will make him happy and your mother happy.
>>17487910
*"Commend him this"
So I work at a grocery store and we have alot of beautiful girls come in a shop around. Would it be weird if I were to say something to one like wow your really cute or something along those lines.
>>17487747
The only problem is you have no fucking clue what theyre actually like.
Say, for example, the girl you try to chat up is actually some whack job who thinks you being interested in her is sexual assault; she will bring that shit straight to management and get your ass fired. Id say if someone expresses sexual interest in you then go for it, otherwise act professionally.
Remember they have nothing to lose, but you might lose your job.
>>17487777
thats a good point, but just from like a short seeing her somewhere on the floor when im working cant be that bad though right? Im not looking for a fuck or anything just confidence boosting social skills work
>>17487777
Only make a move if they do.
Depending on how pretty or young they are, they could do a lot better than some cashier or a customer service guy.
All you'll do is boost they're ego before walking away forever.
Remember it's August and people are coming and going for all you know they are getting goods to party and fuck some other dudes later that night.
Hey,I need some advice.
>pic not related
My girlfriend broke up with me a week ago. She wanted to stay friends. I have started to getting used to not being with her. Now she is sending me text she misses me and such.
I don't know how to respond to that
Sounds like she misses being in a relationship more than she misses being with you.
>She wanted to stay friends.
Hell no.
>>17487690
If you're use to not talking to her then let it stay that way
>>17487690
Different for every girl, if you think she is playing a game either play it or back out to make her more jealous or have fun and play her game.
But other than that people can make stupid decisions and when they realize that they lost something precious they will try to get it back
So there is this girl i like, we have a lot in common (friend told me what she likes) but I don't know how to msg her without looking like a creep
>>17487682
Is that her in the pic?
>>17487682
Say hi and go from there
>>17487682
You're already too attached. Step one, detach yourself emotionally right now.
Once you do that, step 2 is to message her, or even better talk to her in person. You'll know in under 30 seconds/5 messages if she's interested in talking to you or not. If she's not, I have good news....there are 3.5 billion other girls
I've been seeing this girl I met recently and we started having sex without a condom..she told me she was on a bc implant that was good for 3 years, asked me if I wanted to touch it I was like nah
now I'm home alone and I'm freaking out and think I def should have at least tried to touch and it see if it was real or if I got rused
I tried calling and texting her and she isn't picking up
what do I do im fucking freaking the fuck out
>>17487660
Congrats anon, you're gonna be a daddy!
If this isn't bait, my friend, you are truly a dumbass.
I'll be straight with you, anon. If she has a kid, you're fucked. You didn't specify if you finished inside her, but from your apparent panicking, I'm going to assume you did.
If by some miracle she doesn't show any signs of pregnancy in the next two weeks, you'd better start believing in a god because someone's looking out for you.
>>17487693
She claims BC implant and he just met her. Jesus christ.
I bought my mom a shiba inu because of the meme, and he left five dead squirrels in her house. She want he gone.
Wtf do I do?
Wow.
Did she keep him in the yard or something?
She sounds real understanding. Glad you got her a dog. Animals bring you prey as a sign of affection and loyalty. Wanting to get rid of him because of a mistake like that is a red flag that she shouldn't even own a dog.
There are definite ways to train the animal not to retrieve any kills. I don't mean to sound preachy, but I think the problem you should first address is whether you truly believe your mom has the patience to care for an animal.
I'm new to being an adult, in all honesty. I have to know, how do people handle insurance, finances, and work/school without wishing they were dead? Handling all of It (life stuff) seems impossible.
>>17487620
Being an adult is like exercise. It never stops hurting.
>>17487620
Step one..realize that adult things like tax,insurancre, money and the likes dont actually exist. They are fabricated systems to to ensure the fruits of common labors are disperst amongst tge rulers
Second. Procreation as it is advatised and accepted today is so that those of a strong gene pool dont have the genetic advantage they used yo and tge gene pool is flooded with weaker genes making them more maluable as a race
And lastly you musy realise that the only difference between you now and you as a child is experience. Dont let experience cloud yout dreams.
Ideally you should be taught the basics in a calm, understanding and helpful matter by your parents, but since you weren't it's gonna be hard. Also since you weren't I conclude that your parents were lacking in many other departmens and left you as ungrowed or maybe even damaged emotionally and psychologically individual hence your first coping mechanism is to with for death (very unhealthy).
You should not be so hard on yourself, it's normal to fuck sometimes and you aren't supposed to know everything spescially for your parents didn't teach you.
Just try to move one step at a time and soon you will have sure footing.