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Should I ever be friends with the guy and chick she had the threesome with again? Is a drunken escapade forgiveable, given my girl wasnt in a relationship anymore?

Even tho they seemed to really regret it I feel so fucked over. They even went to promise me semi jokingly that they will keep an eye on her in the club and that only she will touch him (shes bisexual and the friend and I have allowed them to expiriment). End of the story described above...

>>17782165
This is fucked up anon. No real friend will fuck your girl. In a fucking threesome like wtf he has no excuses he is just a retard who thought "wow more pussy for me" and didn't think about you. So no anon don't fucking remain friend with this guy he is a cunt and he will remain this way.

>>17782165
Beat the shit out of him, or wreck something of his. He had an impulse to fuck meat, so your impulse is to smash skulls(figuratively)

If u dont then go to the fucking gym u pussy bitch, ur fake friend literalky bent YOU over and FUCKED YOU HARD!

If u dont do something u deserve to be in a dumpster

>>17782105
You ain't seen what he's seen!

>>17782105
He'll be fine after a while. We have chickens and the rooster wasn't very friendly to us. One day a raccoon or possum got in the yard and butchered one of his hens. Very next day the rooster was at the backdoor seeking our protection. Let us pet him and everything. He was like that for a week and a half before he got back into the normal swing of things.

>>17782115
Jk
But, poor PTSD kitty. Yeah well imagine if a giant snake was hunting you for half a night? It must have seemed like an eternity for the poor thing. I'd suggest you take her to some other kitties and have kitty play time. It's gonna be tough, and you probably have a long road ahead of you, but maybe he'll get better.

tell her bf that his gf is a whore

>>17782058
Shoul i bang her first tho? If she got good ass and wants my D how am i in the wrong?

>>17782074

You would be partially in the wrong. Depends on the reason for cheating. Depending on the guy, he could be an absolute psycho and try to harm you physically or mentally if he found out.

*bump*

it's only 900 words anon..

you're going to have much bigger issues in life if you have to resort to cocaine for a 900 word assignment.

do yourself a favour and don't. you don't even need an all-nighter for 900 words? that might take a couple hours, but that's it?

>>17782038
>starting a new drug when you have a deadline to worry about
>doing coke for 900 words in one night
Like, come on.

Take a cool shower and/or a walk and do it.

Coffee.

>>17782044
good way to develop an addiction/dependence

you're trying to treat the symptom, instead of the actual problem.

get more sleep OP.

>>17782071
You're right of course, but on the day what can I do? Coffee is one obvious option... I don't drink myself though.

Lol bad things will come to you in your future for being so shitty.

I hope your guilt eats at you one day and you kill yourself.

>>17782006

But I haven't done anything shitty, yet.

>>17782009

Stop being a cheating scumbag.

Apologise to your ex and cut off all contact for her benefit.

If you want to remain a degenerate then start going out with the FWB girl while fucking miss tinder on the side, go on you know you want to.

One day, when you ascend degenerate tier and become a real man, you can raise your sights a bit higher. But only a bit.

>>17781965
That's how every man on earth feels.

>>17781974
Not true. It depends on the girl. That's the litmus test if you see the girl as a real friend you genuinely like hangin with or if you just like her fleshy goodness

>>17781974
>virgin detected

if thats how you feel OP, you just dont love them. maybe youre incapable of love.

oh. okay.

good to know

>>17781962
Fight the machine

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Guys

Would you choose a cute/innocent girl or a hot/sexy chick?

>>17781919
i would choose the one that had the better personality honestly, with a lean towards the hot/sexy one

not because of being hot/sexy, but because it's NOT cute/innocent. cute/innocent is cute and nice and all but it gets annoying when you have to teach them everything

>>17781925
Pretty much exactly this.

>>17781895
is this someone youve known for awhile? youve gotta give more info.

>>17781902
yes. the girl is someone i have known for 6 months but never really knew about my situation

>>17781895
Self-esteem has taken a hit because unfaithful lover.
But I'm hopeful still and trying to brush that negativity aside.
Let's not get too into this tonight.
I'm primarily focused on having a nice time getting to know you.

>Guess we'll agree to disagree.
Something everyone says or thinks several times in their life.

>>17781894
Depends more on overall values that lead them to their views.

>>17781894
Depends what you mean by relationship.

If you mean simply being friends, then it's a non-issue because you see the said friend only from time to time and you can refrain from talking politics or subjects related to it.

If it's dating etc. then it's a completely different situation. To truly achieve a good relationship you need to share basically everything with your S.O.

And politics isn't just politics. Might be so on the surface, but people who have fundamentally different views on politics also have fundamentally different views about human nature and society as a whole. It can't work for long and eventually you will find yourself under a massive load of disagreements with your S.O on multiple issues. Especially nowadays when politics are so polarized, a great example would be the US election where both sides hate eachothers guts. There's no way around your problem

>>17781850
You won't get it after 3 days. /for your first sale they'll hold the money for at least 2 weeks, possibly more.

>>17782250
Fuuuck my worst fear.

Bebe moot?

>>17781799
Get in fight.
You need a scar with a good story.
Maybe fall from on something.
A curb.
Smash your face into a curb.
Tell them libshits you were at a protest.
Tell Trumpsluts you were jumped by Mexicans.

>>17781799
Grow a beard, get a taper fade haircut, use some gel.

>>17781795
Get naked.
See what happens.
Blame drugs if gets weird.
And no, I didn't bother reading your novella.

I love psychedelics, but the shrooms are irrelevant in this situation, you know that. The facts are:

>she has a bf
>it's not an open relationship
>it's unethical to fuck her

Now, based on what I know about the situation, she should probably break up with this unstable LDR dude, but that's also irrelevant. Don't fuck her.

Also, it's not like psychedelics make you uncontrollably horny, it's not MDMA we're talking about here. You should be able to trip with her and not fuck her. If you're really that worried about it, invite another buddy to trip with you guys too and cockblock you lol.

>>17781846
Thanks for the input.

I tend to keep out of her bf business as
>It would be a 'conflict of interest'
>I have told her that breaking up / talking a break would be the most rational option.
Since i met her a few month ago, I have been betting on them breaking up. But the relationship has persisted so far.
>The 'ethical' aspect do not play into my decision.
I know what I'd like. Whether she complies/react to it, is not on me.

In that scenario, it was more about the feeling of 'unity', wanting to cuddle / have sex. The shrooms also emphasise the (usually subtle) feeling attraction. I felt it was less about being horny, more about 'feeling the love'.

>>17781768
Pleasant.
How often does that need to happen?

>>17781768
Loyal.
Get a dog.

>>17781777
Most of the time. I'm quite a reserved guy so that just means not being a bitch. For me, someone pleasant to be around is someone you can chill with even when not having a lot of things to discuss.