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I kissed a guy at club then gave him my number. Am I desperate? I just feel like the kiss was good and went with the flow. I left later after the kiss.

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Suicide.
If I were to take 10-15 Atarax, down them with some alcoholic beverage and then go into the bathtub, would I fall asleep and drown?

I'm not really desperate but mostly curious. I could get a gun, if that's what it comes down to, but I'd rather not.

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**TL;DR;** Have sex with me or divorce, get a vasectomy or no sex

we have 3 kids

3 yo

1.5 yo

.5 yo

We always planned on having 4-- now after our latest child she wants to stop having children.

During her pregnancy she raged and screamed and cried the entire time. She threatened divorce because my credit score prevents her from getting a loan and because i was going to vote Trump


We are post pregnancy now and we're are in another divorce threatening scenario

She says we need to improve our marriage or she wants a divorce. To improve our marriage we need to start having sex again. (We haven't had sex since the baby was born)

She says she won't have sex again until I have a vasectomy.

She won't use condoms and all forms of birth control are not tolerable.

I say I won't have a vasectomy because I don't feel like I'm going to be married to her for the rest of my life. She's threatened divorce at least every two weeks for the past year.

I don't want a divorce--
My kids are so young and so close in age. I feel they are going to be neglected if we are split up.

Also I still love her. I think she's facing serious stress from having 3 kids back to back and her meltdowns and abuse towards me are a symptom of her extreme situation.

I'm not asking her to undergo any sort of birth control. I'm fine being celibate for a while.

Also I can be okay with only having 3 kids! But I'm not ready to be sterilized yet. I'm not even 30.

However she's now bringing up sterilization and coercing me every day.

I refuse to get a vasectomy because I think it's a very real possibility that if I got one we would be divorced soon after either way.

She would then fight for full custody (she says she will). And I'll be alone and sterile.

We have an appointment with a counselor from the women's crisis center in a few weeks.

She insisted on the women's crisis center and then later revealed this was because she was sure she would side with her.

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Is it better to have a tattoo or a bleached white spot where the tattoo used to be? I was thinking of getting laser tattoo removal and am not quite sure what I should do.

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Does anyone have any suggestions to continue my bucket list?

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I've been on loads of dates with girls who would be "good catches" on paper, even had sex with some of them...

But I never actually "liked" them and being in their company felt like a huge chore.

The only girls I genuinely enjoyed being around dumped me on my ass or were some brand of crazy (one girl I really really liked as a person turned out to be a pill popping cutter)
What's wrong with me?

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i'm going into 3rd year, here are my plans to get laid. say psychiatrist this year while I was neet on and off, he thinks it'll go pretty well. any additional suggestions?

1) not say no to every invitation like I did. if I do this 50% of the time, it'll help me a lot
2) i'm going to join an intermural sport, hopefully soccer because I'm pretty good (for a normal person) at it. if not ultimate frisby or quidditch or something
3) i will go outside even when I don't have to a couple times a week
4) i've only been to one university party, I also happened to be high. If I go to two parties between December and summer I'll be happy with myself.

I'll probably won't get laid between now and summer, but next fall I think it'll happen.

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Girlfriend and I don't talk as much.

Recently, my girlfriend and I haven't been talking as much as we usually do. We usually talk about relatively deep subjects, politics, opinions, and all sorts of things, but recently it's kind of stopped and our conversations seem relatively bland.

I still love her, and I'm confident that she loves me as well, and nothing is leading me to believe otherwise.

This started around a month ago. Any suggestions or ideas as to what may be going on and how to fix it?

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How do I break away from my 'smart, but lazy' ways?

People constantly tell me that I'm intelligent and it kills me because I'm spending so much time on the computer. I don't even play video games or watch anime. I could be doing so much with my life and I come up with excuse after excuse to not do much of anything with it. I usually go on the computer because it lowers my anxiety, but my usage messes me up in so many ways. It feels like I need some sort of constant motivation or someone to support me and be on my side. There's more to add, but I'm too tired (shock). Advice?

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Basically stumbled into two female co-workers from my old job. Exchanged numbers with the more playful one but later that night the more introverted one texted me so I had her number. Basically chatted it up a bunch trying to get her out of her shell, she always stated she would call when she was free. Just when I made some progress she cut contact and is not answering me at all. I kind of want to get back at her for fucking with me but I know that's not right. This is the first time I have had this happen to me...wut do? Please no just get over it ...I know I need to do that but how can I cope in the meantime.

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I just want to make something clear: I would never touch a child sexually, because i've seen the effects of that (one of my best friends and my mum have been molested) but...

>constantly look at shota porn
>lust over boys around 10-16
i don't want this, shota porn is okay since its not real but i don't want to have these fucking thoughts it disgusts and scares me, please, what do?

note: this is not an invitation to make a thinly veiled cp thread, i'm serious

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Hey, so there's this girl in my drawing class in uni, and I think she's pretty cute. She caught me staring at her on the first day, and for the next 2 classes she decided to sit next to me. I am too awkward, so I barely said a word to her. Now, she doesn't sit next to me at all but last week I caught her staring at me. She only has 1 other friend in that class that I know of and it's a girl whos pretty chill.

So now here's the question. I found her Facebook profile and I feel like I'm gonna regret it in the future if i don't try to start a friendship with her. Would it be weird if I randomly add her and started talking to her on Facebook, looking above our past encounters with each other?

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So, a girl I'm rather certain is interested in me hugged her friend who was visiting goodbye, she then looked at me, said "fuck you anon" amd then walkwd away with a huge smile. It's not uncommon for her to do things like that, but does the fact she didn't hug me play in my favor or no? It was all very weird. She also used to be very playful around me, like a good buddy, but now she's been all awkward and avoidant the past couple weeks. Why is that?

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I know this girl in my theatre elective class and we are pretty cool. We usually work together on group projects so we have pretty good chemistry. Only problem is we are both introverted. I want to tell her i like her but i don't want to make her uncomfortable especially since at the moment we are working together. I have her number so i could text her but i was told expressing feelings through text is a bad idea. Part of me feels like if she liked me she would text me but then again i like her i'm just to much of a pussy to tell her. Help me please.

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I've been considering killing myself every day for the last few months. I've kept from going ahead with it so far because of two concerns.

1. My dog ends up with my family or in a shelter, either gets abused by the folks or put down in the shelter.

2. I end up surviving the attempt somehow and live as some kind of retarded vegetable.

So I have to ask, /adv/. Because I've started considering options to make sure my dog is well taken care of, what's a guaranteed way to kill myself with no chance of survival and minimal possibility to fuck up?