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So I am a 21 yr old.in US citezen so im legally allowed to drink
My mother found my liquor cache and I know she doesn't.like it when I drink or anyone we knows does because her brother and a lot of her family were alchoholics. So naturally, she was pissed when she found it. What do? How should I proceed? She wants me to not drink ever again and throw away my liquor, but I'm not fucking doing that shit. I just don't know what go you guys think?
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Be like I understand why you don't want me too because of yo family and shit but I ain't like that at all yo
I won't drink around you mami but I am old enough to have this
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How much and how often do you drink?
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She's just worried. So please understand that
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How do you show your ex the life changes you've made?
She deleted me on all social media and didn't answer the one text I sent after the break up which was about a month ago.
I'm interested in trying to get back together but I want to show her I'm better than before.
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>>17778599
you dont. if she had any interests she would have at least responded.
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You shouldn't have texted first
Now u for sure fuked
It's fine exs getting back together is probably like the greatest human want but worse idea in practice
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>>17778614
It was poor timing when I did, almost immediately after the break up. Didn't give her the space she needed and I understand why she didn't respond.
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Is a physics degree a meme or is it actually good?
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No degree is a ticket to a job with a high salary. A degree is what you make of it.
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a good degree in a hard subject demonstrates commitment and intelligence, this is what employers look for. i work for a software company and we often hire physics phds with zero programming experience because they have shown they have the aptitude to teach themselves
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>>17778590
Just be an engineer. That's where most physics majors end up anyway.
Hello,
This is going to be a rant but you can also just read the quote in the pic and offer a solution.
I'm a 21 year old NEET
In the past 6 months I've decided that it's time for me to pursue something but I have been parylyzed by choice. I truly believe that whatever I set my mind to is accomplished and I set the bar extremely high for myself. I'm just not sure what I want the goal to be, but I know Im going to be massively successful in whatever I do. I've wanted to start a business, I've wanted to start streaming games, I've wanted to be a rapper, the list goes on. I'm afraid that once I choose one I'll never be able to go back since I obsess over whatever goal I set.
How do I know what to do Shoot for?
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>>17778573
>How do I know what to do Shoot for?
Your head
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>>17778577
That's my escape plan
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>>17778598
make sure you do your balls first so no one can harvest your seed after the fact
just in case
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Hey /adv/ I'm a 20 year old repeat college dropout druggie. Recently I placed an order for a lot of bud, and some pipes, but but then I remembered my poor parents. The faith they had in me, the expectations. Can someone walk me through this please. I've never felt this overwhelming feeling before.
I regret wasting what little money I had on pot, can't cancel the order.
I'm seriously considering not smoking it even though I feel like shit 99 percent of the time. I don't even smoke heavy.
Help.
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Sell it for more when you get it
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>>17778542
there is nothing wrong with consuming cannabis. there is something wrong with blaming your problems on anything but yourself.
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>>17778583
What do I do walk up to some strangers and say hey inject this plant?
>>17778583
Maybe that's what's been wrong with me.
Even If someone is mentally ill they are still responsible, and will be held accountable for their actions. Even if I'm bipolar or whatever the diagnosis ends up being again I have to find what works for me in education.
I'm still wondering why I feel this way. Maybe it's because I don't have the desire to do my current work. Or rather a deep distaste exists for it.
Ignore the pic needed something to cheer me up.
This girl is playing hard to get, and frankly it's kind of turnig me off, what do? I'll approach a table she's sitting at with friends amd she'll pretend I'm not there until I speak directly to her. She'll even shoot glances and such, and she does this just about everywhere. She never tells me what she's up to or invites me places, but she'll usually accept if I invite her to do something. She'll act flirtatious and physical some days, and she'll act cold and busy other days. She also seems low key depressed and drinks sometimes; I don't drink but I can get pretty depressed myself like rn. We're also lazy fucks and it's how we bonded. Should I even bother with this, my brain is attracted and she's fun to talk with, but holy fuck if it isn't a gigantic effort to figure her out. I can't stop thinking about her.
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>>17778501
Are you even sure she likes you? Shouldn't be so hard man, something between you two isn't working.
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>>17778522
I'm not 100% but she wanted me to grab onto her in the pool, she looks at me WAY more than a human being should be, she laughs at just about everything I say, we tease eachother constantly, she compares herself to me all the time, but she just seems super fucking awkward around me and it's like she's ignoring me. I don't understand it
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>>17778602
flirt with her when she's drunk
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Why do people like to gossip and talk about someone else's business with other people? I have a friend who does this and it's resulting on me talking less to her.
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She probably doesnt hsve a hobby so she talks shit instesd
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People like stories. Some people like boring stories like other peoples lives. If you don't like there shit stories don't listen to them.
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>>17778586
she does and she's actually pretty intelligent.
>>17778604
dude but that's one thing and talking about people's things is a different one. I will be specific, I mentioned to this girl that the other day I went on a date and I found out that many people from the environment ended up knowing that too.
at which point of your day do you think that saying such a thing to others can be a good idea?
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How do i stop acting "white" ?
>introverted
>slob
>poor grooming
>unmasculine
>lone wolf
>weak
>uncool
>lacks charm
>prefers to stay at home instead of going outside like a beta bitch
>immature
I know how to,
>cook (i'm mixed so i learned from my mom)
>tell jokes (i dont think before i say so whatever joke i make builds up on what i was saying before, like blocks)
>tell stories interestingly
>have hobbies besides vidya
How do i stop? is it genetics why i'm acting like this? I honestly dont want to act like this because its hurting my self esteem realizing that this behavior is what causes minorities to mock us.
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>>17778464
None of those things are 'white', they're 'loser-ish'. To give an example, Trump is white and he isnt any of those things.
>is it genetics why i'm acting like this?
Ofcourse not, it's your attitude. Get a hobby, groom some more, maybe get /fit/ etc..
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>>17778474
I know, i dont want to be a loser tho.
What makes somebody a loser?
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>>17778464
you're a fucking self-hating racist
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Was I ever a sociopath? And what happened to me?
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This is long but hopefully interesting enough to read
>16
>get bullied alot, one kid drills a hole through my hoodie into my chest in workshop class
>a negress throws a calculator at my eye in math class, it looks like I'm crying blood, have to go to the hospital
>start feeling sympathy for serial killers
>dad dies months later when I'm 17, I see his dead body up close and have to handle it on par with the instruction with the 911 operator
>think this is turning point
>start developing obsession with serial killers and psychopaths
>homicidal thoughts out the ass for about a year and a half
>think about wearing a black guy mask and doing drive bys
>be filled with rage and hate for a year, other than that pretty emotionless
>18
>rob someone
>rape a girl
>abuse pet cat
>have general baseline hatred for everyone, but fairly emotionless still
>come March
>have psychotic breakdown
>get arrested and sent to jail, later mental hospital
>the jail psychologist says I'm a schizophrenic sociopath, I say I'm proud
>the police have my finger print
>the people at the police station and mental hospital know of my homicidal urges, the mental hospital knows that I want to kill the guy who molested me as a kid
>I now know what incarceration feels like
>still filled with hatred and anger
>try to break out of mental hospital once, choke guard out once
>only diagnosed with schizophrenia instead of that AND sociopathy in the mental hospital, in contrast to the jails diagnosis
>cry over raping girl in hospital
>hatred subsides
>murderous impulses gone
>out of hospital now
>feel barely anything at all, no hatred no anger no desire to engage in antisocial behavior
>so still emotionless mostly and fairly disconnected from humanity in my eyes but the murderous hatred shit is pretty much gone
What happened to me? Was I emotionally stunted by being in a mental hospital? And how does antisocial personality just subside like that?
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>>17778463
Looks like you really were just going through a phase because of the world around you rather than your brain. At least I hope it's like that.
I guess you simply sated your anger enough to get rid of it.
Either that or something equally extreme happened to snap you out of your hate.
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>>17778476
Being strapped in the chair for 3 hours and drugged certainly was not fun maybe that did it
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I'm not gonna diagnose you but a long spew of crying based on bottled up emotions can be cathartic
When I was smoking weed in my car at 17 I remembered when I was molested and confronted it in my psyche. I started bawling for about an hour and the next day felt much much better
Maybe when you cried that night you changed a bit and accepted the past
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How long after a break up is it expected to start loving again? My girlfriend broke up with me over a month ago and I just don't feel like I could ever love someone again or even feel like having sex.
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>>17778419
I'm at 7 months, I've had 3 one night stands and had sex with her once.
The one night stands were very unsatisfying. I still can't bring myself to date. I can't seduce women like I did.
Good luck, OP.
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>>17778428
Oh God, if I'm heading towards half a year of this shit, I have no idea how I'll make it through
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>>17778441
For me, starting to work out did me wonders. I work out 6 days a week now.
I still think of her, but at least I feel a lot better. I am not crippled by depression, nor do I have horrible thoughts of her and her rebound.
Well make it together, OP.
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Does anybody have advice for learning college Physics? Comp Sci major who has to take it for pre-requisites, with adequate math skills, but actually understanding every formula is hard for me. Following the professor's advice of "read the book" or viewing physics videos doesn't help, as I learn best by doing (and there's no answers to practice problems in the book)
My professor is absolute garbage in terms of teaching, and I need to ace the final and all homework to even pass. Since he's ass, most of my classmates are clueless too and it doesn't help going to them for help. Like, I can grasp things conceptually, but can never actually figure out how to set up problems.
Anybody else been in a similar boat? What study habits, resources, or things should I do to help understand this subject?
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You get a tutor...
I'm an electrical engineer and I had to get a tutor for chemistry because I fucking sucked at it. Just gotta grin and bare it because once youre in industry, you won't be using taht shit anyways.
Also, some things just require a lot of time and dedication to figure out. Just becuase you don't get it right away doesn't mean you can't. It just means you need to spend way more time thinking about it before it clicks.
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>>17778395
That's fair, my schedule doesn't normally line-up with the tutoring center's hours, but I'll try to force some time I suppose.
Like, I'll spend 3-5 hours at a time 2-3 days a week trying to study this stuff, and it'll click in some ways but not enough to actually do problems, it's frustrating.
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>>17778390
What physics subjects in particular are you taking?
If setting up problems is an issue for you then you could probably find video tutorials on youtube
I can link you some good content if you tell me what subjects you need to learn. I know you said videos don't help you but you could just be looking at some bad tutorials
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What are some jobs that don't require a college degree that are in high demand in the US?
Asking because I wanna immigrate to America in the future and don't know which trade I wanna learn.
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what can you do that an american can't?
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>>17778916
I wish I could move to USA as well, but my differential would be cooking typical stuff from my country, which wouldn't help me I guess. Not sure if I could get rich selling tapioca and brigadeiro.
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>>17778916
How do you prove you're a genius?
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Alright guys, I need some advice. What's the likelihood of getting HIV through oral? I fucked this chick 3 months ago and we used a condom during sex but not when she went down on me. I'm only worried now because I got a cyst under my ear.
Thanks in advance.
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>>17778314
Shameless bump. Help a nigga out.
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Dude... you don't have HIV.
Calm the fuck down. Unless you were having bareback sex you didn't catch it.
Don't fucking stress yourself out over nothing.
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>>17778347
God dammit thank you. That's some shit I needed. Would it just be completely obvious then?
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Every fucking time, I hate it. Why should I lose a guy-friend just because he decided to discover feelings for me. After that he is not my friend anymore. I like to hang out and do fun stuff together and I never make a hint or give hope or something. I found someone who I really like and he likes me back and gives me all I need. Now this guy friend won't talk to me because I 'friendzoned' him, great. We were friends from the beginning, what the deal with that 'friendzone' stuff!
Just because you guys want everything that breathes a girl should lose a friend. Do I have to be friends only with guys who have a gf or a wife? Why is it something complicated to make a true friendship with a person with vagina?
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I dunno OP, men are thirsty af. That being said, you should set boundaries early on. The kind of guys who are only in it for the puss are not worth being your friend in the first place.
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>Became friends with a guy and we clicked so well it was as if we were best friends from day 1, loved chatting with him
>Amount of time passes
>"I gotta be honest with you, I developed feelings for you even though I know everything would be impossible as you're in a relationship. I don't think we can be friends anymore"
This fucking sucks. Outside of my boyfriend I have a single friend so I was really happy to have met someone like him ;_;
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Honestly my gf has this problem too
I'm pretty sure it's every single guy that talks to her wants to fuck her
She really struggles with it and I want her to have friends when I can't hang out
Solution so far has been to only be friends with girls and gays
How old are you
And the problem with telling guys that you just want to be friends from the beginning is that they'll take it as a challenge lol
Everyday of my life I think about killing myself.
Every single day.
Over and over and over.
Every day.
I'm miserable every day.
I am miserable enough to want to die every day.
How long left until I actually do it
Not long now
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prolly never gonna do it. i've felt it for 5 years and never did it. move on from the thought
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>>17778226
Go to a shrink.
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>>17778239
I don't want others to know
>>17778235
The feeling becomes overwhelmingly worse every day. I'm performing badly at work cause I am struggling to care.