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Any advice on joining the Navy
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Bring lube.
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Don't be a corpsman, I'm stuck in a hospital right now doing a 1:1.
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Do it for the service not the incentives.

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I just dropped out of college, its a long story. But i need some idead for a decent/good paying job? Or even a career?
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>>17877907
be a dealer at a casino

make 70k flipping over cards
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>>17877907
>decent/good paying job?

Go into the trades. Start a business.
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>>17877907
Is a trade school out of the question?

Okay so my boyfriend and I are long distance. For right now I'm on holiday with my family and I have had him over a couple of times. My house is small and my family never leave, how do I fuck? I am frustrated here. If there was a way I could hide the fact we were fucking around I really want to know about it. Any advice?
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>>17877806
More deets needed
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Like?
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where there is a will, there's a way.
be inventive and find ideas that don't come to mind at first.
for example, offer to do the laundry together. make sure to wear a skirt and no underpants for easy acess and fast covering up. bring paper towels to prevent mess. be quick about it

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seeing all of these people in love during this season is putting me in agony, wat do
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that definitely has nothing to do with the season...

stop thinking they must be more worthy of love than you. they aren't. they are just lucky enough to have found someone to put up with their shit. they probably did that by being willing to put up with their shit in return.
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Have sex.
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>>17877797
Spend less time paying attention to other people and put it towards something you can be doing

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Hi /adv/, I'm currently an undergrad at a relatively average (I think) no-name college. I really want to go to grad school (PhD program) for synthetic biology/bioengineering, specifically Gene circuit design and genome design to build novel organisms. I'm currently at a 3.97 major gpa (biochem major) and by the time I graduate will have math up to diff eqs and linear algebra under my belt. I also work in a lab on campus and will have an estimated 450-500 hours in the lab by the time I graduate, and hopefully some authorship on a paper or something.
My trouble is, though, that I'm worried that a lot of the schools that have what I want (my tops are MIT, UC Berkeley, Rice, and UW Seattle) are all like super top of the line schools, that I know generally take from top tier undergrad feeder schools. Does anybody on here know about the PhD admissions process and know my chances on getting into any of these programs from my current school, or can give me advice on how to become more appetizing to these schools?

Thanks a lot in advance.
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Kick ass on the GRE.
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>>17877764
>by the time I graduate will have math up to diff eqs and linear algebra under my belt
lol these are really childish stuffs, but maybe your program doesn't use much mathematics.

>how to become more appetizing to these schools
you had 500 hours in the lab???? you better have glowing recommendation from your professor(s)!

3 things to focus on: letter of recommendation, grade, GRE subject test. I guess this is covered under LoR but it would be an advantage to have nailed down a research focus in your undergrad and produced some results. Sure in grad school you might change your direction, or even your field, but for now, since your school is not quite up there, this is what they will judge you on.
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As a person who moved from a school ranked in the 80s who moved to a school in the twenties:

I was in the 97 percentile for the GRE, 3.7 GPA, a year of research experience, an internship, and one of the people who wrote me a recommendation was friends with one of the people on the committee, which I'm sure helped.

They say your statement of purpose is also really important, but it's hard to give tips on that. Anyways, I'd say the research experience is probably most important, probably even before your recommendations, because Grad school is about learning how to research, so already having experience with that is a huge plus.

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Hey /adv/ I've posted on here before, same idea but different angle (tl;dr at bottom)

>male, 20 and in college
>pretty normal all around, friends, school etc. all normal
>sex life is pretty average, not slaying but can pick up girls if I try
Now my problem
>been following this girl on Instagram for maybe 1.5-2 years
>have become obsessed with her
>follow her on all social media, know way more about her than I should
>kind of in love with her, but she's 3,000 miles away and famous so I can never be with her (she's also 12)
>just want to stop thinking about her and pretending I could be with her
>I know if money weren't an issue I'd fly to her and try to win her heart

tl;dr how do I get over a girl I can never be with and just live normally

Can't just unfollow her on social media, I'm weak and I'd feel like I was losing a part of me
>pic related it's her
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It's like self amputation
Bite down and cut
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Just date petite highschoolers. Locally.
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>>17877765
That's one option that I considered last time I asked about this.
It's not so easy but I will probably try that. Not sure it will completely get me over her.
I still thought about her while I had a girlfriend a year ago.

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doing work experience at safeway cuse i dont got alot. should i quit dont really like it
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>>17877707
took a computer fixing course in collage and it went no where. did poorly
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I'm the guy that grilled you the last time you posted here.

..do you even have a high school diploma?
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>>17877714
c and ds

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I'm just a ruined mind.
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>>17877686
we all
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>>17877697
Does it ever change?
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Join the club

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>back in my hometown for the holidays after moving away 1.5 years ago
>one of my close friends who happens to be dating one of my ex's close friends is hosting a party at his apartment for NYE
>my ex and her current bf will be there
>said friend tells me tonight that ex spoke to him and his gf about not wanting me there
>says he is going to talk to her about it but basically implies it'd be better if i not go

So yeah, what the fuck. Ex broke up with me like 2.5 years ago, I'm over it, I don't even live in the same fucking city anymore. After hearing this I've pretty much made my mind up to not go and encouraged my friend not to advocate on my behalf any more than he may have already. Frankly it probably would be pretty awkward since we haven't kept in touch at all and she's dating somebody.

Am I in any kind of wrong here if I did fight to attend, or is my friend just being a fucking cuck for his gf? I certainly feel like I've been rather blindsided, pretty much all my other friends in town will be going. Just curious to anybody's thoughts.
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fuck that ex, go and crash the party, who the fuck dictates like that?
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>>17877671
You're friend is definitely being a cuck for a gf but, y'kmow, reluctantly.

Id say just go, see your friends. Who cares about ruining a bitch or twos evening, just go have fun and catch up. You're gonna be gone soon, and both you and them might regret it after
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>>17877671
You talk about him advocating on your behalf, it's not your ex's fucking choice.
It's his apartment, and it's his choice who he invites.
He is being a cuck for saying "he's my friend and I'm inviting him" and leaving it at that.

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Ive spent 5 months in the ICU for a lung injury. After i was discharged i almost immediately had nightmares, flashback, panic attacks and all that stuff. It's gotten so bad I can't even concentrate on anything. So after a few months of horrible fears and uncontrollable flashbacks I decided I need to get help. Soon I was diagnosed with PTSD ,severe anxiety, and depression. I told my mom my situation and told her I was interested on taking medical marijuana instead of all the pills they prescribed. She got really angry and started to say things like "you're not doing that in this and that goes for the pills too." She said there's nothing wrong with me just a devil in me and she'll fix that. I told her I need this. And she said if you do this I'll kick you out of the house and tell your friends and family your just want to do weed.
I'm only 18 and still in high school. What do I do? I really need this, but I don't want to be homeless or battling these problems no more.
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>>17877653
OP here
To clarify she doesn't want me to seek medical help. Instead do religious cleansing.
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>>17877653
Drugs will fuck you up quicker than PTSD. This is a job for a trauma psyciatrist, not weed. Weed and a lung injury is a fucking bad combination.
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Get a job, move in with cool uncle randy for a month, find your own place, smoke the weed. Sorry to hear about that accident that sucks

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guys, i've kind of cheated on my bf. we're dealing with the aftermath now. so far i have appologized and acknowledged that i've made a huge mistake and that i'm afraid of losing him.
i guess we'll pull trough. but i think i have to change my way of handling this or i might push him away.
i feel like being sorry all the time and afraid of losing him will achieve exactly that. he has some sub tendencies and i think he needs me to be sure of his devotion. i'm tempted to go back to "i know you will never leave me, because i know you need me.". i feel like he needs me to be confident in being able to keep him, even if i wronged him. any toughts?
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>>17877607
Nothing says "you're the only man for me" like vigorously tossing his salad. Then, if you do cheat on him or leave him, you'll always know you were tongue-deep in his shit-chute.

Either an awesome apology or a constant reminder of what a lying, cheating cunt you were.
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You're Bullshit relationship will hopefully fail and he will move on. Cheating is cheating and you don't deserve the happiness of a relationship at the moment. Don't try and right something that is wrong, you had feelings that showed you that your "love" was Bullshit. Meet someone you can stand in bed or don't get in a relationship to hurt someone. Have a good night...
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>>17877607
>kind of cheated

explain

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dealing with guilt when breaking up with someone? any advice? man I feel like the worst piece of shit in the fucking world, I'm already starting to miss her and honestly I can't stop thinking about how badly I messed everything up

will I ever learn about my mistakes? why do I hurt so many people around me? why can't I just fuck off
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>>17877598

tell us what you did to mess it up. well go from there.
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>>17877598
Time is the universal healer, but it can take weeks, months or years depending on the relationship
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>>17877602
well I had this sort of weird relationship with a girl, we weren't exactly a couple but we had sex and liked each other a lot
thing is, I didn't love her and I told her so many times, and we agreed that we both should be able to see other people (I told her pretty much that I didn't even want to be aware of it)

this is all fine but I'm really jealous, and she's jealous too and this made things bad. I hated her telling me even the sightliest thing about this other guy and I constantly threw shit at him, we also didn't even use this sort of agreement we had as if we didn't need to see other people and we only wanted to make each other jealous

two days ago, I got pretty drunk and I honestly wanted to give another girl I met at a party a kiss. she could feel something was odd and I ended up telling her the story and all that

she got mad and we had a big fight (this is not the first time we sort of break up, I did this before although I didn't kiss anybody those times), and I decided we shouldn't see each other anymore, I was only hurting her more

I'm leaving my job, I gave my employers 6 weeks notice as a gesture of good faith and they still want me to stay on as an assistant in a different department. They've already offered me a relatively significant raise, but they tried to use some "wage jump" bullshit to try and get me down from my original request. I called my boss' bluff and he seemed surprised - probably because last time I let him negotiate me down. He got somewhat desperate and was talking about how nice the position would be. How likely do you guys think it is that he'll fold and offer me what I want? He has four days until I leave.
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>>17877588
We don't know this nigga. Just be strong on your demands and never pussy out on your words
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>>17877588
Recently went through the same thing. Got a huge raise, but regret staying. Your call, but most people say it's a bad idea to change your mind when you've already given notice.
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>>17877619
>Your call, but most people say it's a bad idea to change your mind when you've already given notice.

Why's that?

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My best friend has started to abuse drugs like crazy. Constant adderall abuse, LSD use, and things like that. He says he doesn't care if he lives or dies anymore, and he only care about "accomplishing goals". He just started doing this and I feel like its not too late to save him.

Help. What do I do?
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>>17877558
Any recent occurences to make him do this? Gf break up with him? Parents split?
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If he's doing fine in life and accomplishing goals you should fuck off and let him be.
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>>17877579
Anon thinks these "goals" aren't doing harder/more drugs...

>Me 25
>Got into an argument a couple of weeks ago
>Fiancé, mother of my 2 kids, wants to break up
>Been in the relationship for 7 years
>I Work 10 hours, 5-6 days a week
>Still living with each other
>She is making herself available to other men
>Kids are still too young to understand

I'm not going to be a pussy here and cry like a little bitch. Yes I'm upset about it. But I also need to take care of myself. I love my kids and I don't want to lose a good partner/friend. I need some advice on how to get myself over this and get myself back out there and talking to women again.
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god damnit dude. why haven't you gotten married in the first place?
for fucks sale, you are a family! grab her and drag her to counseling. you two can't just give up on this like that. fucking put some work in. show some dedication. make this work
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>>17877539
>making herself available to other men when you're still together
>good friend/partner
What
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>>17877542
That's the tragic part. She has depression, and constantly isn't motivated in doing anything unless I push her. Sometimes to her limits and she becomes hostile or just shuts down and gives up. I can't say I'm perfect either because I get angry when I've made plans. I've been the only one who was planning our dates, calling people to watch our girls, making sure we are not disturbed to just have private time. I put effort into doing what she wants and interact in conversations. I've tried but a relationship can't be one sided.

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