Expensive sex dolls

Would you have the same reaction if it was inflatable?

Maybe he just wants to live out his fantasies while your away. Maybe he imagines its you.

>>17874053
I would definitely be less worried if it were a cheap inflatable, I have seen people get those as gag gifts. I would think having cheaper toys would be more common, too. Investing a lot in something like this seems odd for a frugal guy. I guess it's cool if he imagines it's me as long as this isn't some weird serial killer shit.

>>17874034
>>17874081
Why the fuck do women have to be so controlling? He isn't cheating with other girls. He isn't molesting children. He isn't even fucking hookers. It isn't particularly different from a sybian or a vibrator you hypocrite. For all you know, he may not have even used it for years. If it bothers you, say you found it and ask him about it. But honestly if he's a decent bf then just let him have his toys in peace. Everyone is different.

>>17874772
This desu

>>17874772
I'd probably break up with him if I found something like that in my boyfriends belongings. It's not about being jealous it's about not wanting to date someone with latent mental illness.

>>17875321
As a woman its literally impossible for you to understand there's never been a time in your life when you wanted to have sex but couldn't. As a woman getting laid can be as easy as walking onto your front porch and yelling who wants to fuck. The average man will have sex with 6 women I his entire life and half the population is less than average. Some men go through years without finding someone willing to have sex with them. This need to feel something other than ones own hand isn't something I'd expect a woman to grasp. You live life on easy mode you could go your entire life without getting a job and still be wealthy if you pick the right guy. Men don't have options like that so yeah some men use a doll to simulate sex when they can't get any. It really shouldn't bother you bc it has nothing to do with you.

It's definitely fucked up. You should ask him about it and see what he says though.

>>17875321

This. I wouldn't mind my bf having just a fleshlight or something, but a full size doll is 1500$+
Seems like too much to spend on something like that unless he has some sort of personal affection for it.
Did it look like you? Or possibly like an ex?
Maybe hes frugal because he over invested.

Ultimately, he's your partner so you should talk to him.

Maybe the distance is becoming an issue with him and this is his way of venting it safely? Men can be incredibly impulsive when it comes to their dicks.

Just be thankful its a doll and not a dead hooker.

>>17875404
It doesn't look much like me or his exes, just has that uncanny valley generic white face
>>17874772
Why are you so mad? I don't care if he uses things like this, I've just never known anyone to buy expensive dolls so it struck me as very odd. Especially compared to guys here who are too cheap to buy real onahole and instead try to make them from gelatin and stuff. Also, I'm not a hypocrite, I don't use sex toys. I don't have a problem with them, I just don't feel any need for them


Since a few people suggested it, I might ask him about it. I just don't want him to be a spaz like >>17874772 and think I'm trying to control him, I'd just like to know more about this issue.

>women can have DOZENS of dildos
>guy buys a sex toy
>"WTF is this? This is so creepy"

>>17874034
wouldnt you rather he be fucking an inanimate object than some other girl? especially if you are long distance?

>>17875671
Having dozens of dildos would be a huge red flag for a girl. That isn't normal at all. You guys have a seriously warped view of women

As a guy, I have considered buying one of those, but not because it is something to have sex with. I would do it because of the non-existence of companionship and affection from others in my life.

Perhaps there is a deeper rooted problem here than "my man is a freak." Maybe, he is a lonely person, and a long distance relationship with you is not completely filling the void he has in his heart and soul.

What is keeping you apart?

>>17875797
It's not abnormal either. It's just different. Nothing wrong with liking different kinds of dildos.

>>17875820
My job requires a lot of travel (sales) and I am based out of a city quite a ways away, we see each other about twice a month and both travel to each other's places. Boyfriend does not want to get married and doesn't make enough to support a family anyway. I thought our relationship was quite good and once we have paid off loans and can afford to be pickier with jobs, should be able to live together. That's the plan we've had the whole relationship. I would be really surprised and sad if he is lonely and wants a doll for companionship instead of just sex. We Skype and text daily and have tons of sex when we are together.

>>17874034
Unless the doll is a different race than you are, you shouldn't be worried about your boyfriend owning one. It seems to be an understandable purchase considering your circumstances.

Female here. Gonna chime in and say that if I had that kind of money and commitment, I would totally go for buying a crazy sex toy and I don't see anything inherently wrong with it personally. Dolls aren't my style, but for comparable weirdness factor, I've fantasized about a mechanical bull or similar sex machine with a dildo saddle for a while now.

>>17874081
Maybe this is the reason he's so frugal. Saving up for these kinds of things.

>>17874034
Are you dating the creator of Community and Rick & Morty?

It's a dead rubber girl he bought to keep in the closet and go necrofililiac on. Creepy as shit