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>>17910028
Are you retarted? The correct answer is either yes or no.

>>17910041
It sounds defensive and like I'm trying to hide something if I just say "no"

And I'm not gay so I wouldn't say yes

>>17910053
Just fucking be honest. Why over think such a basic question.

>>17909983

You do realize that you can control your emotions and that they are not dependent upon others right?

Is she your girlfriend?

>>17910023
Ex. and she is my oneitis now. I can't seem to get over her, and every other girl I've dated or fucked just isn't the same.

>>17910026

You have to understand you chose her to be your one-itis, and you can choose her to no longer be one.

You have built her up in your mind as this person who is perfect for you, and ignore the fact that she is just a person. She destroys the toilet bowl on Taco Tuesdays just like the rest of us.

Finally, she is an adult and you are a adult. You are not a hopeless romantic pining over a loved one. You won't win her back be being John Cusack standing outside her room playing a boombox.

If you do want her back as a person, when you look at it from a objective mindset, you have to realize that you have to become better to attract her to you. Whether you have to be richer, more muscular, smarter, more social status, etc. But once you do so you'll realize that you improved yourself so much you'll deserve better.

>>17909928
IntelegenceMeet.com

>>17909928
4chan.org
I'm too intelligent, but I'm older and probably far away from you.

>>17909955

I actually prefer older people. I've been with some 30+ guys before. Where are you?

B > A >>> CDEF
But my tastes are probably a bit weird so get a second opinion.

I'd say A is the best (top left)

B

>>17909872

1. Don't show up naked
2. Have a car and license
3. Make sure you exist

>>17909880
what if they ask me about myself?
im an anti-social NEET with MDD. I sleep 12 hours a day for fucks sake and barely eat anything.
lying makes me really nervous

>>17909880
pretty much.

i dropped a resume off with no prior job experience but had a license, decent car, and showe up on time. you're a delivery driver if you cant hide your power level for the 30 seconds it takes to take payment and say hi you have a lot more problems going on and this is coming from someone who was/is depressed for the past 10 years. having a focus like going to work actually helps with depression. it's shit work but it gets you out and about. you gotta at least communicate with a handful of coworkers, if they suck who cares, you get to drive around listening to tunes most of the time

>>17909862

No. If there was no male-on-male touching, I might, but I've been offered that before and have declined. The dude was wildly ugly though, so that's something.

Sounds like bait. She's gonna say she wants to watch you two start to get her in the mood and when y'all are getting full on gay, she'll go to the bathroom or say she doesn't feel like it, but you two can continue.

Are you bi/curious?
If not, don't. I have actively avoided sharing girls with bros in parties and don't regret it the least. What's the point of taking turns in a pussy, or licking your friends drool on her tits?

i doubt it
doesn't sound like she respects you

She's probably weird too and hasn't or won't come to grips with it

>>17909827
Depends on how she said it.

>>17909814
dumb girl

>>17909814
I think it's bait, but...

Finish degree first, then think about leaving.

>>17909814
Get married and don't invite them to your wedding.

>>17909811
Don't feel like an idiot for asking this type of things: we all want to have true relationships with people that we can grow fond with.

When one is a child it's easier to make connexions because you could like the same tv show and inmidiatly become friends, but when you get older you are more picky in choosing the peolpe you want to be around for different reasons: if you like or not their political views, their thoughts on abortion, education, taste in games, etc.

I recommend you the book "how to win friends and influence people". It can help you to better your communication with others. Another concept that helps this topic is the being more vulnerable with people so you can deepen your connexions with them. Check out Mark Manson article about this topic: https://markmanson.net/vulnerability

Hope you the best

>>17909898
thank you, I've been meaning to read that book but wasn't sure if it was as good as i'd heard. Your advice is extremely helpful, thanks for being so understanding.

>>17909901
No problem, Anon. I wish you the best

Should always be agreed on beforehand to avoid awkwardness when the bill comes

>>17909791
This. Especially if you know someone doesn't really drink much.

"hey you know I don't drink much but I'll pitch in a little anyway" emphasis on the little. or "hey I know you don't drink much so..."

>>17909791
>>17909794
Let's say there wasn't really an agreement beforehand but assumed everyone would be splitting, but after taking one shot, the 2 felt really sick and whatever their share of drink would have been was taken by everyone else. Do the others have the right to demand the same amount of payment from them?

>>17909700
Any indication at all that this was coming? Did you have any girls on the side?

>>17909700
What was her reason?

>>17909708
>>17909709
Absolutely no indication at all. We're long distance but still see eachother for at least 1-2 weeks out of every month. Strongest relationship ive ever seen. She spent christmas with me and my family and everything was fine. Then suddenly after a day of acting weird she says that she needs headspace and is so sorry etc etc

>>17909690
>I'm too much of a pussy to call her sober

How are you gonna go out with her, then? Drunk again?

>>17909701
I could easily ask he rout in person, I just turn into a fuck on the phone for some reason. I want to do this now because I don't feel like waiting a week to ask her out.

>>17909706
Month*, not week

set an alarm fucktard

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>>17909686
YOu need to look at your diet OP.

>>17909692
The problem isn't getting out of bed. The problem is staying awake. It doesn't matter how much I sleep, I always need more, to the extent I'm sleeping 12+ hours a day.

Bump?

>>17909796
Bump.

No offense but if you're 21+ and never had a gf, you are so far behind it's not even worth worrying about anymore. It's not going to happen. Even if it did, which it won't, you would be so inexperienced she would drop you in 1 day. You have to understand girls are hooking up and having relationships from the age 13 onwards. You're a fully grown man and you haven't even held hands. You cannot recover from that.

Unless she had some sort of family emergency or a work-related emergency then yes you should break up with her right now...

You shouldn't even have to ask this question. Have some self respect.

>>17909646

she doesn't love you, you tell me?

>>17909646
we need mroe back story senpai
if she doesnt want to meet on new yrs she doesnt like u or shes fuckigm someone else