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>>17913261
What the fuck is the stuff on the bottom paragraph?

Trump can't build this wall quick enough

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Stop rating women with numbers. It puts them on a pedestal.

>>17913256
>he is very insecure and always afraid of losing me
This can be a huge red flag to be honest

Do you have a career? Does he have an opinion about that? If he's not ok with you working and earning your own money, that might back up your suspicion.

Children are a mistake for the uncommitted

>>17913256
>"possess" me and have me "all for himself".

What do you mean by this exactly? Isn't this just normal and mutual in a monogamous, committed, life partnership?

don't fight the hunger. acknowledge it and them do something else

>>17913251

get food stamps

Find something else to distract you until you forget about it.

There are a surprising amount of things that can be found in most kitchens that can be made into food even with very limited resources, though. Like just flour and water can make hardtack.

>>17913203

Um I was in your spot.

People tell me all this BS about "ohhhh you gotta learn to love your field" or "anon you should pick something you love."

Honestly fuck that.

Nothing could motivate me so I got into my current field because I just wanted to be the best at it. No family motivation or guidance, no epiphany or life-changing focus, none of that shit.

Pick a field, look at the salary, is it good? Good. Now go do it.

seriously just do it.

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>Always wanted to run my parents' small nail shop
I like business and serving people
>they said I was too stupid
>I went to school for pharmacy tech certificate because everyone said the money was easy
>struggled to get good grades and my hobbies included getting /fit/ and reading psychology/marketing/business books for fun
>during my internship at a pharmacy, I had a great time but I knew pharmacy wasn't for me
>go to 3 colleges to talk about their business and psychology programs
>2 schools gave me shitty pamphlets about how great their school was
>3rd school, I found an advisor who sat and talked to me for 2 hours about business and personal development
>signed up for AAS in BA
I'm in my 3rd semester of this degree with my best GPA yet and persuaded myself into an office manager position at a law firm

My next degree will be a BABA and then a MBA.
I like people and I like business so it suits me.

>>17913203
i took some aptitude & career counseling tests in h.s.

both clarified i hated dealing with people & had some career choices

i went into computers based on that & this has worked failrly well

Describe the girl that has a crush on you.

>>17913148
Why settle? Don't go out with someone you don't want to go out with, you'll both just be miserable

Bumping because I'm in this situation as well, except not in high school

On google you can go into setting and block websites or just download an extension to block websites

>>17913143

If you want a fool-proof way, that's unfortunately one of the best ways... Sorry OP :/

>>17913145
Can't find an extension that doesn't "sync the blocket list to your google account".
>>17913157
That call is too awkward to make.

have you fucked your students? has anyone?

what kind of music are you into?

OP here
>>17913146
I haven't no. But I once worked at a school where it became known (among the staff, anyway) that one teacher had been having a sexual relationship with an ex-student for several years. He left halfway through the year, once he because aware that the other staff members knew.

>>17913149
Jazz mostly, but a bunch of other stuff too. Lately I've been listening to a lot of Hiromi Uehara.

>>17913082
I felt it creeping in around 21-22. 24 now, and doing my best to stay open.
It's hard, especially considering the degree and frequency people have fucked me over. But, I don't allow the bad to taint the good. I know that there are genuinely awesome people out there, and I don't want to let myself lose out on the potential of something great just because of my personal bullshit.

I still let my cynicism come out a bit in humor, but you know what? Even if the world is fucked, even if people are shit heads: I'm not going to let them break me. As far as I know, this is the only life that I've got, so I'm going to do my best to be happy and love my family and (few) friends that are in my life with all that I've got.

Good luck OP.

>>17913082
yes

otherwise you are some pollyanna dweeb

>>17913325
OP here. I see. That's a nice perspective. My main concern, though, isn't losing the love for living, but turning into a fucking selfish prick.

>i don't want to avoid him


Yeah you know what you gotta do. If you don't get some space between you two, he's gonna wonder why you're so down all the time, and why you're acting weird when you see him being happy with his gf. Then it will blow up in your face when he finds out you like him. Meanwhile he's straight and has a gf he's loyal to. So he's gotta cut you off because it's not fair to his gf to keep around a friend who has feelings for him.

So how do you think it's gonna end , if you stay with him?

Nice image.

>>17913095
>he's gonna wonder why you're so down all the time
I keep a mask on, and I'm actually usually genuinely happy when with him.
>and why you're acting weird when you see him being happy with his gf
That hit a bit too close home. Thankfully, she's medium-distance and only visits about once or twice a month.

I can't really avoid him since I'm in class with him for 5 more months - 6 hours a day, 5 days a week.

He's said himself that he's a bit bicurious but I think I'm clinging onto that a bit too much.

>>17913058
Get some therapy

Don't worry about it - most 'mental disorders' are not real. You probably got 'diagnosed' because parmaceutical companies just want you hooked on their product. It works because this generation thinks it's cool to be fucked up, which makes them feel special. Man up and don't be such a bitch over nothing.

>>17913058
I guess your therapist has better answers than 4chan...
>>17913068
...like this one for example.
Anyway, good luck on that. I hope you do ok.

btw i'm pretty sure she's single

>>17913035
Give it a week or 2 then go back, creepo

>>17913035
no

but realize you are the #321,654,532 guy to ask her out at that restuarant

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>>17912995
Hey, OP. Hope the start of your new year is happy and pleasant.

Losing people is hard. Breaking up is hard. Drifting a part is hard. Dating is hard. Recovering from a breakup is hard. Life is hard. Cocks can be hard.

Alright, sorry. ADHD.

After a breakup, I suggest to workout. I can't toot my own horn here because I just walked away from a 2 yr situationship that wasn't going anywhere and never benefitted me emotionally.

Lift heavy weights. Download apps. Hook up like a fucking alpha male. Who gives a shit anymore. Western women are shit anyway.

>>17913006
i think working out is dumb in both genders. u should love someone for their personality and if u feel any sparks when you talk to them. if you lovethem for muscles or other dumb shit youre just wasting youre own time bec that wont last..

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>>17913022
Be depressed asf then, weak piggu. Idgaf.

>>17912967
bump

>>17912967
bump again

So he could see twice the butt? Maybe there's a two for one sale on them.

Would you like to tell more of the story?

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You're just one of those Gen X/Y pussies who only thinks of themselves. Clinical depression isn't real - go out and get over it, you entitled shit.

>>17912991
Okay, do you have any specific feedback or advice? I already go outside.

>>17913008
Stop being a fucking pussy and suck it up. How about that? Life is shit sometimes; get over it.

She's thinking for herself

>>17912937
She's trying to demonstrate to you that you don't control her. It's basic teen rebellion.

>>17912937
She has no taste. Also, don't try to control how she dresses.