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>>17908772
>So, what do I do now?
Cocaine. Do some cocaine.

>>17908772
The best revenge is living a good life.

Go to the gym.
Study hard.
Work hard.
Take care of your appearance and health.
Don't neglect friends and family.
Be kind.

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>>17908772
Mate... I suffer the same pain. 3 years of relation, I considered her the one. But I like to think it is very important lesson. We will find better women, the one that will love us no matter what! Living a good life and going on a improvement path is a good solution for now. Also, the fact that it happened now is better then after marriage.

She doesn't seem like she's in a very healthy state of mind either, or perhaps she's attention seeking. Either way, as your friend of seven years she could recognise when you're struggling to socialise with people and accept this.

Friendships go both ways, it's important to make sure you support others as much as you can. However, she's putting far too much pressure on you to support her, when you obviously have issues yourself.

I would probably leave things to calm down, then attempt to speak to them about how you were feeling. Apologise for going off the radar but explain why you did it. Also ask them how they're feeling and see if you can offer a bit of support.

>>17908755
>I feel like what I did didn't warrant that kind of response
Obviously it did, she fucking told you, retard. You should be able to tell when your friends are upset.

>im so depressed and sad
>i use that as justification for ignoring people and doing what i want and get pissy when people get fed up with it

Fuck you and people like you OP. Literally the worst.

Do you have frequent exposure to chemicals? If not thats a fungus, if so then its a minor chemical burn that is peeling.

>>17908733
No, I don't have exposure to any chemicals. Maybe it's because of the cold and winter? I usually have this particular hand out of my pockets sometimes because I have to switch songs on my smartphone when outside. Maybe it's frostbite?

>>17908701
>2017
>Year of the rooster
>Op posts a rising sun
Maybe things will be different.

If we get nuked I will personally buy all of you pizza or whatever greasy shit y'all like.

>>17908630
cut her completely out of your life, never respond to her messages again, or anything. avoid her at all costs and disappear from her life.

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>>17908641

I've always considered that but she's unfortunately a coworker and a part of the same social circle as me within the workplace. I could just grow a pair and do it anyway...

Just accept it
Accept your feelings of jealousy and it becomes less strongerere

>>17908623
You have no choice but to suffer the pain. You'll get numb eventually.

>>17908623
It will never end.
Even if you find someone new...
Someone even more wonderful than you can possibly imagine...
Your heart will be broken...
Over and over again.
This is the way of the world.
Those moments of joy will race by you.
You'll cling to them...
Learn to savor them...
Knowing they cannot last.
The years of heartache will dwarf the years of happiness...
Or at least they will seem to.
Some say it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.
I'm not so sure.

>>17908629
>>17908647
surely there are more optimistic views than these

It's not that hard to say "let's split the bill equally" or "let's just pay for what we got".

>I don't wanna put down anyone saying that I can't spend more than anyone.
Why not? They're your friends, if you can't say it to them, who CAN you say it to?

>>17908504
"Hey, guys. I'm a little bit short this week. Could we go eat someplace cheaper?"

Learn how to say "no".

One of my friends ended up driving 4 people to the airport because he didn't do what I did and tell them to fuck off. Don't fall for any pity shit either. Unless a life is in danger, it's not your obligation unless you're OK with it also. If they start hating you over it, they were never your friends, but they loved using you.

Longest I've had a hangover from weed was about 3 days. Good luck bro

>>17908450
By "hallucinations", do you mean literal hallucinations or in merely a feeling sense that everything around you is a hallucination? Any out-of-body physical sensation?

>>17908549
Literal hallucinations. I know what you are referring to with the latter, and I have been experiencing those feelings as well. But I do mean literal hallucinations, as in monitors flying across the room and televisions collapsing in on themselves.

>>17908436
But .. what about the rest of you stuff ? Regardless .. if you can afford a new one go with the charity - as you write it's a good thing to do

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>>17908466
Rest of my stuff is easy to carry. I hate the idea of owning anything over 40 pounds that can't be rolled or dismantled.

Semi related, are there any old-fashioned stuffed/layered mattresses that are any good?

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Fuck movers, rent a uHaul and grab a buddy. Return the uHaul same day and its $17 when they refund the initial $80. Buy your buddy some fuckin tacos and you just moved everything for $40. Plus you get tacos.

Are we talking international or what

>>17908412

Yeah it's called being a fucking bum.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uCB42DDDXPI

>>17908412
Where else do you want to go? It probably doesn't cost much to walk down the street.

If you want to read someone's life story when it comes to online dating, try anything but fucking Tinder.

>>17908411
That's what I did so far, but somehow all the girls on Tinder in my city are looking for significant relationships, but are not willing to divulge details before a match. This just forces one to either swap them all right or left, I can't fucking filter.

>>17908417
Do you actually think a sentence or two would make any difference?

You don't. Because what is the point of all this shit? I run this rat race just so I can stick my cold dead dick in a better vagina? That's all there is to this story? Are you fucking kidding me?! If I had the power to stop the earth rotating, I would fucking do it without a second thought.

>>17908392
I see, but I'm missing deadlines at work, and it's kind of making my life miserable (and has the potential to endanger the lives of other people whose health I'm in charge of)

>>17908397
Who cares. You are on a grain of sand floating through space. You can do whatever you feel like doing and none of it will matter.

Consciousness is suffering. You're only miserable because you decided that you should be.

Some people have unremarkable lives.

You're tearing yourself apart because you think you're boring? Easy, make friends. Don't do anything crazy that will harm you, but push your boundaries a bit. Party at a club or play a sport with other people. Play an instrument? Make music with other people. Don't play an instrument? Learn to play one. There's so many things out there to explore, it's up to you to decide what your interests are. Once you find them indulge in them and make them a real part of your life. Again, don't snort coke or drink yourself to sleep, just open your eyes a little more and there'll be something out there for you. You're 25 going on 26, you have more freedom to do what you want, take advantage of that opportunity.

Don't knock yourself over it OP, I felt the same way at one point.

>>17908348

OP here, what fucking kills me is my attitude. I want to go out and do stuff but something in my head just says "Just go back home and lay in bed. There is nothing with any purpose out here."

So I go home and just lay in bed after work. Its brutal. Anytime when I think of MAYBE doing something outside of my home.. that voice in my head just says "Forget about and just lay around. not worth the effort or time to just go somewhere to buy one thing and leave"

I am not sure what is wrong with me. I have few friends too.

>>17908309
Is there a common theme to your failed relationships?

>>17908341
Yes. I am trying to self-improve, but my mental health is still not tip-top. The women are usually on some silly shit as well. The combination is really bad for overcoming any interpersonal issue.

>>17908347
Sort out your mental health before you date

bump. no pun intended:(

Go to the doctors you fucking spastic.

>>17908300
stop putting things in your shithole.