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Take good care of it. The more you invest in caring for your body the better you will feel and the better you will feel about it. Your body is the most important thing ever. Love and care for it.

If you're overweight/underweight then do something about it until you feel good about it.

>>17912685
I try to eat healthy, I don't smoke on a regular basis and I've quit drinking for a month. I take a shower every 24 hours and cut my nails regularly. What else am I supposed to do?

I'm not overweight but I'm planning to lose some weight (in the healthy range) anyway since it disgusts me to feel my thighs touch, and I'm intending to get signed up to a gym once I get my car back.

What else is there?

>>17912723

Only you know the answer. Ask yourself "Why don't I feel comfortable in my own body?".

Write it at the top of a piece of paper and just write out as many thoughts that answer that question that stream into your mind as you can. Many you can just write off but some of them will be useful actionable insight.

>>17912632
Wtf is BPD?

>>17912632
No? It means you should get proper treatment and therapy so you're no longer destroying the lives of everyone you interact with. Like, legit therapy to cope with anger and insecurities. Medications for depression, anxiety, and anti-psychotics especially.

>>17912651
borderline personality disorder.

>>17912632
You'll probably feel different in a little bit anyways

>>17912619
what

>>17912619
Yes, do some work in science or we'll take your MMR vaccine back.

I think it's selfish to not do what you're good at

The world needs artists as much as scientists

I want to be better than those who are around me doing the same tasks. I want to stand out from the crowd and outdo myself

>>17912603
I want to have fun. (fun for me means - playing vidya, watching anime, travelling, learning new stuff).
To be able to have fun I need money, so I need a job. To get a job that wasn't too demanding I had to study.

I played FF13 today and watched Azumanga Daioh. I would say I'm enjoying my life very much.

You don't need to have grand goal's in your life. If you are focused too much on stuff that is far away you don't see where you are taking steps right now. Once you get past the swamp and slippery stones you can stop for a while and see where do you want to continue.

Since I stopped watching porn and masturbating daily my ambition has skyrocketed and my life has improved dramatically.

I only cum once a week. The extra energy is like I'm constantly on an amphetamine high.

I prescribe more alcohol.

>17912555
Alcohol helps a lot but I'm not a big fan of drinking. I work an early shift and I huge stickler for a full nights sleep (another reason I prefer to stay in). Drinking seems to always extend a hangout to at least a couple hours later than I intended to stay then boom, late for work the next day because I slept through my alarm.

Your comment made me feel more normal though. I've heard all kinds of people talking about how they NEED alcohol to socialize and it never occurred to me that their experience relates to mine.

>>17912582

I can relate I hardly ever drink. Your right a lot of people do feel they need alcohol to socialise I know it helps me a lot socially because I am quite an inhibited person.

I think you just have to learn to accept the kind of person you are and realise that there is nothing wrong with being you.

There is no right or wrong answer, life is a trick question. What makes you happy?

Could be a feeling of inner need(boredom, loneliness, lovelessness...) which leads to food addiction. Could be a medical problem maybe

There's nothing wrong with feeling hungry. If you're satisfying your calorie requirements then don't worry about it and drink some water. If you're concerned its a medical issue then swing past your doctors and see what they say.

Does your asshole feel itchy? You could have worms

shameless self bump

what other things does she do?

have the two of you talked about the kiss itself or ignored it completely? does she even remember the kiss?

>>17912524

Fuck her. Cheating sex is the hottest thing ever and their relationship won't last anyway.

maybe you're sick or injured

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>>17912516
Because of TV and society portray them as special people.

because you are cx

be less vain
eat less
exercise more

>>17912522
I keep track of what I eat and I exercise most days, my family just thins very early and I want to postpone balding until I'm 30ish. I've also been taking colder showers and leaving my hair alone when it's wet. I wouldn't be looking at drugs to fix my problem if I hadn't tried other things first.

I've done my research when it was my turn to start realising that my hair had become thin as hell.

I'm almost 1 1/2 year in finasteride now. It has more severe, sexual, side effects, but they are rare and I have suffered none at all. Some on the itnernet have reported it, so it could possibly occure.

Rogaine creates more hairs, finasteride mostly thickens existing hairs. Using rogaine only, has only temporary effects, because the shedding process is still running. Finasteride blocks the enzyme responsible for shedding.

It started working after 4 months and honestly, my hair improved a lot. My hair is still sparse, but the existing hairs are back to their original thickness and my hair feels much more natural.

Fin is just one pill one or every other day. I'd definitely give that a try over rogaine.

Godspeed anon, I feel very fortunate that it all worked out for me, but I still remember feeling terrible..

>>17912483
Man cannot recreate himself without suffering, for he is both the sculptor and the marble.

Or some gay shit like that

Change can be difficult. The initial climb over a obstacle.

It gets easier then more momentum you gain.

>>17912483
I think it's because of the fear of the unknown. Even if your current situation isn't all that great, the fear of making things worse is always there.

>>17912456
I didn't really ask a question for advice it seems, but mainly I wanna know how to fill the void she left in my life. We were texting each other everyday and its hard that it just stopped outta nowhere. I don't blame her though hell if I had a girlfriend then i'd talk to them mainly also but I am not near that point yet to be ready for one, and she was honestly the closest girl i've ever cared and connected with in my life that I thought about having a relationship with, but sadly she is my best friends ex so no matter what I have no chance with her.

>>17912456
One more thing, like to be 100% honest I don't know if the guy she said anything to was a boyfriend or someone she is interested in and talking with or whatever so I have no idea if I should just ask her if she has a boyfriend to get this off my mind. My other thought was to just cut contact with her and give up chasing a dead end dream

>>17912456
>we have so much in common
Your relationship would be boring as fuck.

>>17912455
>I was lazy since I was a kid, but this is too much.

Get a job and it'll solve a lot of your problems in one fell swoop because you're forced to change your bad habits. If you can't do that then you're beyond help.

>Whenever I start doing something productive, I give up after 2-3 days for some reason.

Willpower is limited. The reason you gave up because you're not doing productive things out of habit. You can only be productive if you have a working habit.

>>17912480
>get a job
>do this hard thing which you can't do because you are lazy and that's the problem to begin with

Umm...

in my experience it's not all that hard to get a job, you just have to apply a hundred or more times to get lucky. none of the steps are at all difficult. I use the word lucky deliberately, most of the time it has little to do with you and your abilities.

Get uncomfortable in your life. Like upend everything in a way that either you do what you need to or you go without any satisfaction.

>>17912408
Could you be more specific?

>>17912411

Well your attitude is easy to have when all of your needs are met. Do you eat well? Sleep well? Live in a nice warm house? Is it your house? Your food? Your heating? If it's not then you should feel a little discomfort in knowing you aren't ultimately in control of your comfort.

If it is all yours and you earned it then you can justify your attitude. If not then take those comforts away. Move somewhere new and unfamiliar and scare yourself.

>>17912368
I'm at 15 days and already want to cave and text her. How do people last months of this emptiness?

Quit being a pussy. She just tells your friends that to elicit sympathy because she's just a cunt in this situation. She got the itch in the groin to fuck other guys.

In the mean time, self-improve. It keeps you distracted and it's what will attract another partner.

>>17912368
Believe me, it's tough to move on, but you need to do it.

Don't be friends with her, that will just make it worse. If she truly understands you, she'll know that you need to leave her life. Delete texts, delete pictures, just do it.

It's one of the hardest things to do, but you just gotta do it. I'm not going to tell you you feel better, but you feel less like shit. Not thinking about it is the best thing to do.

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>>17912355
Boy or girlie OP?

>>17912355

nope. you'd be surprised how often this happens. i was surprised hwen it happened to me, i had two issues in a row.

sometimes your brain is confused. in my case i had a dream i was on the toilet, and started to piss.

you will adjust pretty fast if not instantly. it happened to me twice in a month a few years ago, then never again.

You're not also experiencing strange desires to start fires and harm animals are you? If not I wouldn't lose my shit over it.