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help me out /adv/ i just got my co workers number and weve worked and talked together for about 3 months now but since i was leaving the site i decided to grow a pair and get her info which i did. so now i need to know what to talk about, how to keep her interested in the convo, and how to subtly convince her to hang out with me outside of work without being cringy and overdirect. shes 22 im 19 if the age difference matters much. im just really bad at talking to girls and really want to be a close friend with her.
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>>17909640
How did you got her info?
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>>17909648
i walked up to her and asked. she asked me how old i was again and then thought for a minute and said sure.
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>>17909665
That's perfect. Just talk to her like you did before. Find something she is interested in doing and ask her out.
Anyone else spending the New Year's Eve alone?
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unfortunately, yes.
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>>17909628
Yes. I'm still in school and live at home. Even my parents had somewhere to go.
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I'll go to sleep at 11:pm, then get up at 6 am tomorow and go for a jog. Like everyday. I just hope I don't meet too many drunks. Feels good.
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Friendless and trying to meet women 2016-12-31 09:30:51 Post No.17909615
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Up to this point (20 yrs) I have been a sperglord whose always liked spending time alone doing things I liked (programming, browsing, gaming, etc) and I never made any friends throughout high school, like zero, because I was always very introverted. I think that it wasn't the fact that I have major issues with communication but its that I have a major disconnect with popular culture, so I never had anything to say about what my peers liked. I have no social media and have no intent to create a profile.
At this point I think I am getting tired of my indoor routine and just want some change in my life and would like to start meeting new people (specifically women).. The problem is that as I mentioned, I don't have any friends that could invite me to their social gatherings and don't know of places where I could go and feel comfortable.. I can pass off as a likeable person, pretty women in the past have found me attractive, and I drive a nice car. So I don't think I would have major problems with having someone talk to me, its just that I don't know where I can find her. Any advice is appreciated.
Oh, and here are the things that are off the table.
-Dating apps (I want a one to one conversation)
-Clubs or any type of huge crowded space (as mentioned I am a sperglord and become really irritated with loud music or packed spaces).
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>>17909615
How about taking it slow? You don't take a guy that never runs an put him in a marathon.
If you are so used to being alone, sharing you time and attention with a person can be hard. That is, if you are looking for a GF. If you just want to fuck, you might have better luck.
I would still advice you to first move out of your comfort zone and develop a social network. Not an online social network, but a real network of real people to do stuff with. Meeting women till be easier then.
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>>17909615
Look into local bands. If you can find any you like, you have a reason to go out for a couple hours to see them play. You at least have a chance of meeting people then.
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>>17909623
I forgot to mention in my post, I am not looking to make some special connection with anyone, just whatever happens, happens. Whether its a one night thing or a friend I don't care, all I want is to talk to a girl who is my age.
I get what you're saying though. Problem is where do I start off? I don't go to college and I work from home.
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I have plans to hang out with a group of friends tonight for new years eve however a girl who's been bugging to hang out with me for a while wants to come to my place to watch a movie with me. Maybe I'll get lucky before the end of 2016?
What should i do, ditch my group of friends (who I hung out with last night as well, btw) and potentially get laid, or hang out with my group of friends?
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>>17909645
But I mean, I did hang out with them yesterday and a couple other times this week
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>>17909614
depends are u nervous? bc if u are u wont get laid since ur too scared. if ur not then go for it.
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>>17909652
Well, I'm not nervous at the moment but who knows what'll happen when she gets here. I think I'd be fine though, I'm usually nervous at first but after like 5 or 10 minutes in not anymore
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Sometimes I get this really weird Deja Vu type sensation, /adv/. I've had it my whole life. If I come into contact with certain stimuli, my mind, and to some extent, my body, has a response.
It's like my brain drops 300 feet at a rapid pace, and at the same time, I'm spinning and staring at funhouse mirrors, all contained into a split second. I feel extremely dizzy. It used to be enough to knock me down, back in my grade school days and earlier. Throughout middle school, HS, and uni, I've learned to control the physical aspect.
The funny thing is though, it's not like Deja Vu, because I didn't have to be there before. It almost always takes place when there's
A) nostalgic smells
B) nostalgic places
For example, in high school I visited my middle school drama teacher. I hadn't been there in years. It used to smell distinctly like vanilla perfume. As soon as I walked through the door, I was brought back to 7th grade. The Deja Vu thing happened, and along with it, an overload of memories.
That's another thing that sometimes happens, I get flooded with memories, sometimes pleasantly, other times... I wish I could forget. That's probably just normal sensory recollection though. The Deja Vu, head thing, is the weird part.
Is this normal? Similar experiences? Recommendations? Theories? All would be appreciated.
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well not so much with the intense memories, but the back to another time or place part is pretty common. you probably have an acutely sensitive mind, or a remarkable memory, or both. don't be surprised if reality leaves you spinning, your comprehension of it may be above the normal levels and you might not be able to connect with normies on that level
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>>17909650
Thanks for the feedback. Although I disagree with part of it, because I don't have a great memory, your reply has made me think of something I overlooked. One of my strongest characteristics, as I've been told, is empathy. I'm the type to cringe when I see people in pain, or be sad when others are. Perhaps this is an anomaly in which I am empathizing with my past self? Which would explain the emotion, but why the sensation?
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im certain the subconscious records 100% of input. degrees of how this can be recalled vary person to person, as well as the manner of recollection. the sensations are probably integrated with the memory?? empathy is a powerful thing, if you really need answers I would suggest reflection / meditation
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Shall i tell my ex bf that i love and miss him even if i know we can never go back now?
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>>17909579
Do whatever makes you happy
If you're going to put the both of yourselves in a situation though where you're sad, I advise against it
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>>17909586
It would be sad. I know its best to not. Just so hard.
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>>17909579
no
find somebody new !
hint - i'm available :)
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How do i start being masculine, an alpha?
i've already cut out video games/anime but i'm still somewhat effeminate and i hate it.
I'm already lifting, and suppressing my emotions bedsides anger. Emotions are effeminate and men arent supposed to feel them..
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>>17909567
I realize that last line might make it sound like bait, but its not.
Literally men are supposed to be tough. No emotion nothing. If we do were called pussies and for good reason. Emotional men cannot survive in the wild.
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>>17909567
Top bait. Great job.
And if you are serious, then good luck mate. You'll need it.
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>>17909577
its not bait, jesus fuck..
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How can I stop being an awkward, cringe-worthy person?
I go through so many embarrassing moments every week it's ridiculous. I feel like I can't step outside without humiliating myself in some manner.
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>>17909560
volunteer at homeless shelter
volunteer at other places
structured interaction should be easy just do what you're told
practice getting out & doing things
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>>17909560
and yet no one cares. whats that tell you? the humiliation doesn't matter. life goes on. your friends still talk to you, your family still loves you, sometimes the girl even still likes you (assuming she did to begin with).
go /b/ yourself.
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>>17909560
stop being gay
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How to buy average sized condoms for the first time? What's the best brand? Thanks.
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>>17909511
Ask for them. Just like that. Unless you are actually 12, then people won't think twice about you.
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>>17909511
"Hi, my dick needs a hat. What would you advise?"
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>>17909519
Do Americans have to ask permission to buy condoms or something?
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Hello. Sorry for bad English, but I need to spit it out.
I am falling to the abyss of depression.
Long story short, I searched for the ideal girl for years. I've dated some, who I thought were ok, but I never loved them, and felt like they are not the one I need. I had a feeling, like they are aliens to me, strangers.
And once upon a time, I understood, what girls I like, the ones who turns on chemical reactions in my body, the ones who attracted me so much, that I was losing my cold mind.
And, yeah. Unusually, it is not the one specific girl. Nope, it is about category of specific girls.
And I made a new goal in my life, I decided to find my personal ideal girl. I just needed that. I was pretty confident in the beginning, I had no problems with girls, but soon I understood, that there was a nuance.
You can't find it. There are just no such girls in my city, and some others I visited to check. I asked my friends, I searched on websites, I fucking tried everything.
And still nothing. All this money, efforts, time - led to nothing. I had a fire in my heart, I had a goal I wanted to reach, but after 5 years of nothing it's faded. That's just impossible. Or possible, but I can't wait any longer.
So, I burned out. I just don't want anything.
The girls I was talking about are really rare to find, and they are considered to be ill, though I don't.
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>>17909497
don't give up looking. how important is marriage to you if you just give up?
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>>17909547
It is important, but I failed, and there is just no other way to handle this. I don't see any. I already left my job, so I guess I'll live until my savings won't finish and then kill myself.
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>>17909497
>The girls I was talking about are really rare to find, and they are considered to be ill, though I don't.
>and they are considered to be ill, though I don't.
>considered to be ill
> ill
what?
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Female friend mad at me? 2016-12-31 08:24:51 Post No.17909486
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I have a friend of 20 years that is a girl. There's nothing between us at all, but she's someone I used to see at least 2-3 times a week, and talk to almost every day.
Recently, she both lost her job, and got dumped shortly after. After getting dumped, she completely cut contact with me. No answer to texts, calls, Facebook messages, anything. For a while, this was everyone - her parents, friends, ex... We all thought she was in serious trouble.
It eventually emerged that she was spending all of her time at this dive bar with some shady people, but at least we knew she was alright.
Anyways, she's gradually reestablished contact with everyone, including her ex, besides me. I'm not sure what I've done, but I would very much like my friend back.
She liked two of my Facebook pictures the other day, but still no reply.
Any idea what I can do? Honestly, the more days that go by without her being willing to talk, even if it's just to tell me what I did wrong, the more I get mad at her for ghosting me.
Lastly - I've maintained a casual friendship with her ex. Is this out of bounds? Nothing more than "hey, have you heard from her," and maybe grabbing a beer to see what we can do to help her out, but nothing more.
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She doesn't want to be your friend anymore.
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>>17909989
After 20 years, with no explanation?
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>>17909997
She never really liked you.
I've had old middle school friends I hung out with until my early 20s just out of obligation.
It's not that I hated their guts or anything, but I just grew out of them, and even when I stopped initiating completely, they'd still call until I finally got the balls to stop answering.
She wants a fresh start and you need to move on.
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Am I gay? I am so depressed 2016-12-31 08:14:31 Post No.17909446
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Am I gay? I am so depressed
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When I was a boy, I was so curious about sex, and women like every boys. Everything happened normally until 18. I got my first love - a woman. After breaking up with her, I am not in love in any woman. I thought I crushed in some boys but I denied that facts. In that time, I still watch porn but interest in both genders.
Now I am so depressed because I have to leave my crush - a straight guy. We had a good time like friends.
Am I gay?
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>>17909446
Proly bi and curious. Don't feel too bad though, nature is actually pretty queer.
One roman emperor in a line of emperors was considered pretty weird cause he only preferred women, which tells alot about how societal norms are all just illusions
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>>17909462
I thought maybe I am bi, but for recent years, I am only interested in men. I feel love, and imagine of every happy scene with men.
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>>17909462
I thought maybe I am bi, but for recent years, I am only interested in men. I feel love, and imagine of every happy scene with men.
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and a happy new year...
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>>17909428
I hear u bri
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2 hours 50 min hype boysss..... oh wait i sit in the sofa with my mom... feelsbadman.jpg this sucks
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>>17909428
I'm going to spend the new years eve alone for the first time in my life. Have a good one, OP. Next year can get better if we try.
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where to get quality stuffed animals? 2016-12-31 07:58:53 Post No.17909395
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where to get quality stuffed animals?
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so i bought a fox on a website called stuffed safari and it looks nothing like the photos. now the fox i wanted was the picture ive posted, what i got is down below. Ive used them for other animals and gotten the same problems as far as not looking like whats advertised. http://www.stuffedsafari.com/Red-Fox-Stuffed-Animal-by-SOS-p/ss-79527.htm
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this is what i got.
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>>17909398
Looks pretty close to me.
But if you really want top quality, I recommend Steiff.
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Have you tried yiffing in hell, furfag?
want to cover up this swastika tattoo on my left delt, not sure how to go about it
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turn it into the Windows logo
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>>17909392
just use facepaint to turn it into the windows logo
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You can simply remove it. There's tattoo removing creams, laser, etc.