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I am confused by my boyfriend's behavior. It may be my doing, but I've noticed it as a pattern, and it's got me confused.
Bf hangs out with coworkers like once a month or so. I've met most of them and will hang out with them every few times too.
Sometimes, bf goes out with other group of coworker friends and chance has it, he never really invites me or it's times where I wouldn't be able to make it.
Whenever he does this, a female coworker that I am not entirely fond of and I am pretty sure she has a thing for my bf goes with them.
Feels like its such a coincidence that every time I do not go, she is there. Also, bf will tell me every single person who goes, except her name. But then later on snap chat, I see her in the snaps.
So tonight,
>bf had dinner with coworkers, then was going to go hang out with his good friends for a guys night
>this plan with coworkers had been set in motion for weeks
>his bros planned the hangout this week
>bf tells me it's just him and a few guys from work
>look on snapchat, that girl is also there
What annoys me is that it seems suspicious that he will never mention she's there.
At the same time, my bf already knows I don't like her. And now I am wondering if my bf never wants to say she's going so I don't freak out. However, if that's his thought process on this, him lying about it, then me seeing her in the snaps just makes me more mad because it feels like he's hiding something.
Also, I have hung out with all of them including that girl. We already met on bad terms. When we first met, she ran up to my bf from behind and grabbed his shoulder and said his name all cutesy. Then my bf got really weirded out, and introduced me. She literally shrugged me off. Then every time I've seen her after that, she never says a word to me. But will talk to my bf whenever we are separated for a moment. I act cordial with her, never express my disdain for her.
Is bf behavior because of me or is something weird
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>>17907858
He probably doesn't want to pick a fight.
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>>17907858
youve been cuck'd.
sorry about your luck, anon.
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>>17907858
My woman is a needy, childish, griping piece of shit who cries about things like this all the time. I haven't told her that the only reason we're still together is that we're in a lease together after dating for the last several years because I can't stand the idea of hearing MORE of it until this one is up in a while. I have several similar situations to yours simply because she won't do anything but play passive aggressive fun-killer all night any time another female is present because she's a jealous cunt. She also openly bitches about it FOREVER any time there's anyone female with me and a group of friends and she's not there, even if it's someone's fucking wife or girlfriend or something. The worst part is, it's not even some ploy on my part where I'm lining up the next partner, I just want to spend a couple years single after I dump her because I can't take this kind of shit anymore and I want to relax by myself and live in a quiet, clean, sane house.
This might not be your situation, he may actually be trying to get things going, but he might also just not want to hear shit from you. Really put some thought into it, and if you don't trust him then maybe consider the relationship because it's just going to make everyone miserable in the long run, I'm speaking from experience.
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Friend wants to invite person I dislike 2016-12-31 04:01:52 Post No.17907841
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I'm going out with a friend for new years and he asked me if he could invite a former friend of mine who I don't like at all. My friend isn't aware of my dislike of this person. Is there any polite way I can reply to him saying 'nah don't invite'? I feel like my hands are tied and I can't say no. I honestly contemplate not even going if this person comes
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Just tell him the truth.
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>>17907846
Could I just ignore his question and change the topic?
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>>17907841
Fuck being polite. He's your friend isn't he?
Just say "Yo, this guy's a cunt, can we not invite him?"
How do I deal with someone who cannot be dealt with?
>Living with my brother and mother
>I'm a relitively clean and organized person
>he's messier than sin; rotting food under his bed, farting uncontrollably, stinking up the house
I can't afford to move out and my mom loves him too much to kick him out.
The problem is, he's VERY aggressive and will lash out verbally against ANYONE who even mentions cleaning to him.
I wouldn't care normally, as long as my room was clean. But my mother's going through a lot right now. I want to undo all the wrongs that have happened to her (moved to US with my dad, dad treats her like shit, etc) by being the best son I can be for as long as she's here.
My brother is the complete opposite:
>Yells at her
>swears at her
>hijacks her room when she's out of the house, stinking it up which makes her depressed because all she wants is a nice house
>thinks violence solves everything
The only reason I haven't beaten him in his sleep is because my mom made me promise to:
>Always treasure family
>never fight family
>always find the peaceful solution
violence would only hurt her.
>refuses to obey her because he pays rent
How do I reason with the unreasonable? How do I make him see that he's hurting our mother, emotionally and psychologically? I've already explained to him the damage he's doing, but he replies with "I don't care bro"
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>refuses to obey her because he pays rent
I meant to put that in a different spot, but yeah.
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>>17907822
Sounds like an annoying leech that should get his ass beaten for being a filthy scumbag.
You can't change people like him. Sounds to me like your mother prefers your messy shit stain of a brother because he's acting like a little kid. And little kids always need a mom around. Which kicks your mom's maternal instinct into gear.
My opinion? Talk to your mother, let her know how much of a scumbag he is, even take pictures of all the bile that's underneath his bed. All the shit he does. Then show it to her. If she still refuses to do something about it, then that's it for the moment. Save money to move out, and get your life in place. If you get a decent enough place, offer your mother free sanctuary there. Is the least you could do after everything she's done for you. As for the older brother, if he can't get his shit together, the world will chew him up, hopefully he'll realize he needs his act together before the it's too late.
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take pics and then threaten to expose his bitch ass. or beat the shit out of him.....
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TL;DR, does suicide hurt? 2016-12-31 03:27:34 Post No.17907777
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TL;DR, does suicide hurt?
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I hope asking for suicide advice isn't against the rules, but if it is please do ban me.
Does suicide hurt?
Specifically I plan to jump off a bridge onto some tarmac sometime tomorrow.
Just to be clear, *it's not an overpass*
I'm not jumping onto a moving highway or anything, I'm not that much of a fucking asshole. It's a very quiet carpark that's mostly unused.
The drop is maybe 25 feet. Not awfully high, but I do plan to lean my body forward and pivet so that I guarantee a head first landing, thus causing massive brain damage.
I'm betting on being knocked out instantly, and the resulting brain damage being too much to ever recover or wake from. So essentially no pain.
But I could be mistaken? Hence why I ask this question.
Is my plan stupid? Will it hurt? Will I survive?
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Your plan is dumb. You would not die instantly or possibly even at all from that fall. Also your family would miss you every single day until they die and would never get over it.
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>>17907782
I appreciate your concern, I do, but my mother and father would not miss me.
I come from an abusive family, and they flat out dispised me.
I have thought of all the fall out in that regard. Though you are right to bring it up.
I'm just concerned about the mechanics f such an act.
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No matter how you choose to kill yourself there will be varying degrees of pain involved. I've tried killing myself before.
>Be NEET
>Go to a rare social gathering
>Someone asks "What do you do?"
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>>17907769
Your mom told me she left some tendies out for you when you get home.
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>>17907769
Own it.
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>>17907771
What can I say that isn't an outright lie but wont cause too much awkwardness?
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what's the best chance of getting a gf when you're a boring ass nerd with no talent, no hobbies and no money? like how do other fucking people even do it. how are girls attracted to certain guys who aren't really smart or funny or interesting or all that good looking. I simply don't know why someone would be attracted to me but that doesn't mean i don't want to be loved.
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>>17907752
>Find what you are good at
>Get Hobby
>Get Job
>Get Pussy
>Profit.
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Confidence and being comfortable with your interests.
Your goal is not to make everyone like you. You like anime and video games and computers? Be passionate about that shit and don't be apologetic for it. Passion and liking yourself is far more attractive to girls than anything in the world. Trust me.
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If you think getting a girlfriend is difficult, you're going to have fun trying to keep her.
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I'm considering an appointment to a sexologist for the first time. I'm still worried and upset everybody believes i'm gay for beng single too long even if i'm full straight and attracted to women. Is it expensive to attend a sexologist?
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>Is it expensive to attend a sexologist?
I don't know. Maybe you could call them, and ask about their rates.
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>>17907681
He or she's a professional who's services are all but guaranteed to not be covered by insurance, it won't be cheap. But yeah, like the other guy said, I'd ask them.
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I thought a sexologist was for couples. It might be a bit weird if you showed up with just your hand.
I suggest trying a regular counsellor if it's not too expensive.
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So when I talk to people I always try and be the funny goofy idiot that makes them laugh, I love making people laugh at jokes and shit but it's starting to affect my image and how I look at myself. It's to the point that no one takes me seriously anymore and it's just a weird feeling if I act serious about something. Like it even feels weird to me at the point also and I'm getting concerned. How can I slowly climb up the ladder again and have a more serious, respectable aura going on.
For example at work if I come in and don't say a joke or something for like 15 minutes people ask if I'm depressed and ok. My boss actually thought one time I was depressed and asked if I wanted to go home and get my mind off of it. I was perfectly fine tho, just a little sleepy and didn't want to talk right away.
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>>17907652
sounds like Bill Murray-itus. I kind of feel the same way, and am curious to know a solution to this.
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>>17907659
What's that lol
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>>17907666
checked.
Bill Murray has gone through something similar for his entire life. He only recently discussed it publicly. That's why he always seems to play his silly, sarcastic self in every movie he's in.
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>people say to get out more
Why do people say this?
Get out and do what?
Am I supposed to meet people at Wal-Mart or something?
I already have Internet and books and a forest I can hike in, what does going out have to offer other than costing gas money to go be alone in a different settings for a bit?
The only times I ever get out is if I need to go shopping or the extremely rare occasion I've been invited to do something by my friends. I can't even think of whatever else could be accomplished by "getting out more"
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>>17907644
you've missed the point entirely.
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>>17907650
Not OP but no he hasn't. The point of "going out" is to go have "fun" with OTHER PEOPLE. But when there's basically no other people in your life and their idea of fun is not your idea of fun, "going out" becomes this sort of meme everyone keeps repeating to you incessantly.
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Not OP but I have the same question.
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Why exactly are K-pop and J-pop idols appealing or popular? I always knew my boyfriend liked Korean music, but I've recently discovered he's really really into it. He has favorite K-pop idols and talks about them online and writes angry messages if someone says something rude about his favorite idol. His favorite is a girl named Tayeon or something.
I'm only familiar with Psy's Gangum Style and the girl in the video, Hyuna. I think I would like to be more like an idol, whatever that is, if he likes them. But I've been watching their music videos, and they don't seem much different than a typical pop singer with autotune and genetic songs.
TLDR: how do I be a real life version of Korean idol?
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>>17907631
your boyfriend might be a closet homo.
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Ask /mu/.
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>>17907660
Nothing says homosexual like liking sexy young girls.
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ITT: only hairy men allowed (men, not boys)
What have you learned with experience? What do you do to maintain yourself? Which parts are a "must-shave"? which are "must-keep-trimmed"?
I have very hairy legs and ass, medium hairy arms, entire torso front is very hairy as well, and on my back and shoulders medium/low amount of hair
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>>17907620
> Shave
Armpits
Pubes
> Trim
Chest
Belly
Balls
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>>17907628
leave back and ass? would women find it weird that I have an almost furry ass?
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>>17907620
>What do you do to maintain yourself? Which parts are a "must-shave"? which are "must-keep-trimmed"?
Shower daily
Neck and armpits is a must-shave thb, the rest is just trimming maybe
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Is there anyway to actually perminately straighten out curly hair (as in no longer needing hair products or devices to keep it straight anymore)?
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All you can do is chemical relaxers
But you'll have to do this every few months and it can be damaging.
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>perminately
why? left pic is cuter
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the one on the left is more attractive
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Im in love with my friends girlfriend, wut do? 2016-12-31 01:30:52 Post No.17907529
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Im in love with my friends girlfriend, wut do?
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So I really like my friends girlfriend. She is pretty, cute, nice body, loves wearing tight clothing and it seems like she teases a little when Im around her, with her boobs pushed up, bending over more, can see her panties and bra under her clothing and it makes me feel like Im in love with her, to the point that I am.
To be honest I have jerked off to her more than I can count, and I have jerked off in her used panties from the dirty laundry and cummed in them before trying to get most of it out and putting them back. Done this sometimes while I have been over.
It doesnt seem their relationship is in that good shape anymore, and I really dont know what do to about my feelings for her. Should I apporach this? tell her not to tell my friend? I really really want her.
Anyone that been in a similar situation? How did you handle it?
Thanks!
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>>17907529
Don't do it OP, bros before hoes
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Girls love getting attention from their boyfriend's friends. Just keep fapping to her, maybe one day they'll break up and you can fuck her. Just don't make her your gf unless you wanna get yourself cucked too.
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It bothers me that you haven't even mentioned anything about her as a person in your post but rather just how hot she is. Are you sure you can't find a hot girl in your area besides your friend's gf?
You could potentially lose your friendship , though if you don't care then go for it
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How do I get over having an extremely cringy past on the internet?
1. I used to be a brony
2. I've had cybersex
3. I've masturbated to incest and furry porn
I can't get over this
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>>17907518
Not tell everyone?
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>>17907518
At least your'e not on reddit
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>>17907518
Do you still masterbate to furry porn? I hope you do. It's good shit.
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So Ive decided to start working out but I have no idea how to properly do it. Ive never felt the need to workout before because I've always been healthy but now that I'm getting older I want to stay in shape. I want my arms to get bigger and to get stronger. I have a pic related thing ij my basement that Ive bought but never used along with a dumbell and some weights. Is this enough to start working out with until I can get a membership to the gym? Do I just go downstairs and lay on my back and start lifting the thing or is there preparations or something. I legit have 0 idea what Im doing, I tried looking up how to workout but all the articles that show up are just how to motivate yourself not how to do it, also how long until i experience results?
I tried posting this on /fit/ but didnt get replies.
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its all about essential exercises at first,
squat
deadlift
bench
if u dont have a squat rack it'll be nearly imposible to it (safely), bench and deadlift alone is very good but squat is extremely important to pick up on ASAP.
look how to do bench and deadlift, if you want big arms look up curls u can do with your dumbells.
eat a FUCKton to what you normally do if are skinny. im skinny and never been a fan of eating, even if i like the food I find eating a chore so packing down 3000-4k calories a day was a pain in the ass.
if u hate eating like i do you can take advantage of 'dirty bulking' where you eat anything to achieve macros (fat, carbs, protein)) with no regard to exceeding one another, (ex. eating 3 big macs to get an easy 2000 calories, and 100g of protein but you got to much fat and carb).
taking advantage of dirty bulking is cheap and easy, and if you hate eating you can just 'fast' it all off when you start to 'bloat'.
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I lived at a college dorm at the time my first bulking and lifting, I gained 15 pounds in a month and my friends and roommates noticed improvement in my size, without even asking them
"yo I can see your chest and arms coming out man."
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YouTube is a beautiful thing to help you start out.