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I have a boyfriend of six months who smokes weed and other not too hard drugs sometimes and smokes ciggies. I'm a small azn grill and he's always seen me in a very innocent light, in the way that he doesn't know I do any drugs/have any vices besides cute anime girls. How do I open up to him and tell him that I actually have always smoked weed? Does he have the right to tell me to stop?
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>>17389003
just tell him lol, if he smokes weed why the fuck would he tell you to stop?
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Tfw I took two photos at two different photographers, one sober and one high on the same day and both turned out not satisfying - in the first one I'm making a face like I was wishing the photographer a slow and painful death and the second has some shitty lens distortion.
It's not an issue with my looks as I take better selfies everyday. Should I pay for the third session? It's for my driving license so not very important, but I like looking good.
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>>17389001
>vanity issues
/soc/
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Woman A: (8/10)
>been seeing each other for 6ish months
>no labels, going steady
>she likes you, your friends like her, she likes your friends
>kindest most caring woman you'll ever meet
>don't quite connect on the same intellectual level
>sex is okay, but not the best
Woman B: (9.5/10)
>got with a nightclub a couple of years ago
>stayed in loose contact, started speaking recently
>she seems v into you, you're also into her
>she's not single, but it looks like that's gonna change soon
>she's looking to arrange a date
What do you do and why? Stick with the safety of woman A? or pursue dream woman B? or both at once?
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If I as younger in my early 20s or teens women B or both, but now I'd Stick to woman A for sure
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>>17388998
Both. You get the best possible outcome either way.
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Why do you use 4chan? 2016-07-25 00:15:44 Post No.17388986
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A lot of you ask each other for advice. You don't know if the other 4chaners are spitting out lies or complete bullshitting. The funny thing is that some of you use the advice that wasn't trying to be actual advice and it works. Do you guys respect each other on 4chan because of the way you guys think a like? With your usage of 4chan, have you been relativity happy or depressed with it's usage over time
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>>17388986
Because:
It's fun
People are more upfront
It's funny a lot of the times
It can be extremely useful
It has improved my life
It showed me how different people can be, yet still very similar
I learn things even when i never asked for it
That's all i can think right now
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>>17388986
in general its out of habit, but it depends board by board
/sp/ and /int/ are the main boards I go on, /sp/ is for sports discussion that is very enjoyable, /int/ is because its entertaining to me
I browse /pol/ because I find the retarded opinions funny and also they sometimes have good links to shit (for example I checked earlier today and they had good links to the leaked DNC emails)
I occasionally go on /his/ exclusively to Stirner shitpost.
I browse /k/ because I'm getting into guns.
I occasionally go on /adv/ because I enjoy attempting to help people.
My usage of 4chan has negatively affected my personality, before I was 100% normal with an introverted lean but now I am pretty introverted. I also for a period found pretty sick jokes like 9/11 and holocaust jokes to be funny. I still have an average social life and a girlfriend but I am noticeably more introverted.
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I think it's an addiction, I'm not sure.
This site has helped me out a few times but mostly I just waste time here.
I always go onto /adv/ before bed, because that's when I realize that another day has just passed by and that soon I'll be dead. I think I do it to see the struggle of strangers, so that for a moment I don't feel all alone. It's just a evil cycle really, a bad habit.
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I've been getting repeated phonecalls from the same number but when I call back they don't answer, should I be worried?
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>>17388935
just block them idiot, you didn't need to make a thread for this
they are obviously calling the wrong number and when you call it doesn't show up as a contact, so the person who probably is a skittish cunt doesn't answer it yet they are as dumb as you so they never call the right number
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Type the number in Google to see who's calling, dumbass.
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>>17388939
True true
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I think I might have fucked up my knee. I feel pressure on it 24/7 and every time I try to walk down the stairs, run or jump it feels like my knee is going to give out. Anyone got any experience in knee injuries?
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Get on some crutches. Every ounce of pressure that you're putting on your bad knee right now is going to inhibit the healing process. try to avoid taking the stairs whenever possible, and if you need to, move slowly. Additionally, having crutches Will take some of the pressure off of your good like to, which will inevitably start to strain and cramp after a while trying to pick up the slack for the other leg.
Other than that, stay off of it when possible, ice it, take some Tylenol or something if you have to.
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>>17388933
>1
Do you exercise regularly?
>2
How high are you and what is your weight?
>3
Have you done anything recently that is out of your normal routine?
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where exactly does it hurt?
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>>17388947
Thanks. I might need to see a doctor if I need to get crutches.
>>17388952
I exercise almost every day. I recently got back into jogging and that's how I hurt my knee. It's the inner side of the knee, the bone right next to the kneecap.
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I started working a desk job at a retail outlet about a year ago, and didn't make a ton of friends. I'm a pretty friendly and extroverted guy outside of work, but at work I usually tend to keep my head down and not make waves. I say hi to everyone, when people are mean or sarcastic at me I just kind of ignore it and tell them to have a nice day, when I first started working there this made me a lot of enemies but over time it's made me more friends than anything.
There's one woman I work with who has always treated me oddly, or at least not the way I'm used to being treated. She's fun and bubbly with pretty much everyone. When I first started working there, I'd say hi to her, she'd just stare for ten seconds and then burst out laughing. She'd come to my team's office, ask for help with something, and then see that I was the only one back there and say "nevermind, you're not cool enough" before giggling like a little kid. I knew it was a joke but then she'd make jokes like that every time I saw her. It was pretty clear to me that she wasn't being mean, it was supposed to be a lighthearted joke on all sides.
A few months ago I had to work with her on something and she said something along the lines of "So you know I'm just messing with you, right? You're a cool guy" and I had kind of figured that was the case. Since then every time I see her I say hello, and half the time she says it back and smiles a lot and half the time she says "ew it's Anon" or sticks out her tongue.
Today marks just over a year since I started working there. I smile and wave at everyone, I'm having a great day, everyone says hi to me, she just blankly stares, to the point where other people are visibly weirded out. After everyone leaves she comes over and says "I'm consistent, you have to give me that" and then starts laughing. She does not talk to other people we work with like this.
What is this? Does she want to be friends? Are we already sort of friends? I don't know how humans work.
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Sounds autistic af desu
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honestly it sounds like she has some problems. worked with a girl one time who covered her face with a book every time she saw me despite the fact that i never said 1 word to her. if she wants something let her come to you...do not pursue. seriously man
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>>17389109
Haha okay. She's not nuts, she's pretty social, I assumed I was the autism one here.
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My girlfriend has the worst anxiety of any human being I have ever encountered. Talking to me on the phone makes her cry, she cannot go outside for extended periods, and she skipped graduation because she had a panic attack so bad she stopped breathing. I am not asking for some kind of magical fix for her condition, I do not consider her some kind of puzzle to solve. I was just wondering if anyone who has had severe anxiety can help me understand what she's going through and what if anything I can do to help her feel happy? Her goal is to move in with me but that requires a plane trip.
How can I as her boyfriend, not a therapist, aid her in her quest? Yes, she is getting medication and therapy. In short if you had extreme anxiety, and I was dating you, what could I do to help? She has trouble expressing her needs and she's napping right now so I thought I would ask you guys.
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I would need my partner to be patient with me. I would need them to know that it wasn't them, but it was me, and to trust me when I say that. Lastly, even if I wasn't saying much at the time I would need for them to really listen when I talk.
Do you find that being around her causes her anxiety?
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>>17388932
>Do you find that being around her causes her anxiety?
Every time I called her she started crying out of feelings of inadequacy so probably.
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My only question is: why the fuck did you get together with this human wreck? Honestly, what's the point of a relationship if one side cannot take care of herself in terms of mental health? How is she supposed to support you, or take care of your hypotetical future children? She sounds like she's not fit to work either. Calling you stresses her so much and yet she got into a relationship with you before getting her head sorted out, and you followed the pussy and now you're sticking it in crazy - good luck with your future together.
Now some advice - if I were you (or her, really) I'd break up and wait till meds or theraphy starts working. It sounds like your gf has a lot on her plate right now and she's not ready for a relationship (even if she deludes herself into thinking she is). It looks like this relationship could even stunt her progress with anxiety, so yeah.
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any doctors or dentists here that can help? 2016-07-24 23:45:43 Post No.17388912
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any doctors or dentists here that can help?
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whenever i open my jaw past a certain point its left joint hurts and makes a popping sound. i tried fixing it by pushing my jaw more in both directions but i only made it worse and now my right joint clicks when i fully open my mouth. help pls, i'm scared. i don't want to fuck up my beautiful jaw
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>>17388912
Temporomandibular Joint
See a doctor. It may require surgery. For the most part, it may not. Sometimes it can be resolved by being concious of it and stop opening your wide wide, and chewing slowly.
In any case, seek a doctor for an x-ray because it's usually temporary, until it's not.
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>>17388921
so if i don't get this resolved soon it will be permanent?
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>>17388912
Buddy, your penchant for sucking big cocks is catching up to you.
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How to tell if you test positive for marijuana 2016-07-24 23:14:33 Post No.17388833
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How to tell if you test positive for marijuana
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I've begun the process of joining the Navy and I'm not sure if I'm positive for pot or not. I was in a tent with people who were smoking, I wasn't in it for long less than a minute but I was at a party and I might have been in a cicle with a couple of people who were passing around a pipe. I can't remember it very well, as I can barely remember anything from that night. Pic unrelated
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You probably won't, but you can pick up over the counter drug tests at pharmacies
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the 'quarter life crisis' 2016-07-24 23:13:33 Post No.17388830
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the 'quarter life crisis'
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Seems like the latest downer in my life is my age, turning 23 soon is filling me with dread. I have done absolutely nothing meaningful in my time and now age feels like it has caught up to me. I don't find myself interested in having a family, and I'm realistic enough to know my intelligence won't make an impact towards my profession or on society.
I wonder if anyone else finds they're in this sort of emotional situation too? Wanting to do something that's considered valid, but cannot figure out how to even reach those goals, and are not even sure what those goals are.
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>turning 23
>Oh no, my life is over!
Come back in 7 years or so, kiddo. Then we'll talk about wanted potential.
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>>17388854
And by wanted I meant wasted
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>>17388830
What are you currently doing in your life, anon? Are you in school? Did you take up a trade and are working now? Traveled the world? Something else?
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I have a Skype interview for a job this afternoon. Would it be inappropriate to mention that I'd prefer they contacted a different reference than one I had listed in my application?
It's nothing dodgy, all that happened was that when I applied, there was a new person in the coordinator's role at my volunteer job, so I asked the former coordinator if I could list her as a reference because the new one didn't know me well enough to vouch for me. Now, I feel like the new coordinator could vouch for me just fine
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>>17388827
If you're a woman (which I'm assuming because you've posted a picture of a girl's dress) then you shouldn't be working. You should find a nice man, get married, find a house or flat so you can start a family, and then be a good housewife while your husband is a good husband by going out and providing for you.
You're welcome.
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>>17388842
get the fuck of our board retard
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lol references on a job application outside of minimum wage labor is pretty useless.
so im with this person and they ignore my messages a lot
normally i wouldn't give a fuck but they come online and see the message and just dont reply, it annoyed me a bit but not too much.
then yesterday they messaged me saying how sorry she was for being such a bad partner for ignoring my messages and just being rude for not replying like its no biggie but she must of known it annoyed me,
she then was saying how she'd talk more on message blah blah blah fast forward to today and she has ignored me all day and all my messages and has only responded tonight being blunt.
i know its retarded that this is all over messaging but what do
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With them? Long distance? Is it serious?
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>>17388834
Yeah im with them, its not long distance but she lives in a town and i live on the outskirts if that makes sense and its pretty serious but its been about a year and a few months, they weren't like this at the start of the relationship its been happening for the last 4/5 months but i just got use to it
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>>17388853
Best advice anyone can give you, is to tell her how it makes you feel, if she cares about you it's not a big thing to change behavior about it.
Of course I would only apply that advice if you really are trying to foster a long term relationship (1 Year isn't that long) and now would be the best time to find that out.
If she's just someone your passing the time with and you still get whatever you need out of her, ignore it.
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How can I achieve inner peace?
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A lot of acceptance and patience I suppose.
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Meditation
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>>17388822
buy my mixtape
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I have a girlfriend for some years now. We got to know each other in high school, got together, years passed. We changed more or less ofc. Had lot of fights about, she seems to "handle" it or more like to feel hurt, but accept it.
Recently (past 6-8 months) we have a lot of fights. From small to big things. We -almost- broke up a lot of times with shouting, crying, clothes in the bag. But in the end we didn't. I thought about breaking up a lot, just coming home one day and telling it to her, but after some time, I'm not sure...
I happened to meet a girl some months ago. I had a girlfriend, she had a boyfriend, things went normal. After some 1-2 months she seemed to like me more than friends and honestly... I liked her more too.Basically I felt like she's my other half. And as soon as I realised this, i realized the gaps in my current relationship.
We fell in love with each other and we didn't want to cheat and didn't know how to handle the situation. We just knew and felt it.
Time passed, she broke up with her psychopath boyfriend. Had hard times, she's alone now for some months and avoids my company, because of the situation and she doesnt want to hurt herself but she always comes back to me after a couple of days of she not talking with me.
Maybe I should just break up, but I feel like I cannot build up the strenght for it. Honestly I'm afraid of being alone in the end...
But I feel like anything or even everything could be so much better if we'd try with the other girl.
> Currently a semi-okay, semi-shitty, "not with and not without you" relationship lasting for years.
> Met a nice girl, who is basically a girl of my dreams.
> I love my girlfriend, but we quarrel a lot, sometimes it feels like we just shouldnt be together.
> Break up and try with the girl OR try to fix my relationship?
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If you're looking elsewhere your relationship is over. You would be doing a favor for both of you if you ended it. Maybe you'll get with the other girl maybe you won't, maybe you'll end up alone for a while
What's so bad about that?
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>>17388803
Listen up, here's some intoxicated, raw and honest advice. I've been through a lot myself (one of the reasons i'm drunk)
Leaving your current "gf" isn't even up for debate, if this is how you feel about her you should let her off the hook and dump her. You're only wasting her time (and life). Once that is done you can try to get close to the second girl again and see how that turns out. (that you see her as a soulmate doesn't mean she sees you as one) Staying with someone because you are "afraid to be alone" is imminent damnation for your relationship. You don't live 10 lives anon. Stop being a pussy and do what you want to do. Regret is a feeling only felt by those who are reluctant to live their live. Wasted anon out.
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>>17388803
Also let me give you another piece of advice. "Fixing" a reltion ship doesn't exist. You know that gay as fuck stupid meme with the little girl asking her grandfather : "Why is it that you and grandma are still together after X years?". "Well in our time, when something was broken we didn't just throw it away, we fixed it." Correction and the truth : "I knocked your grandmother up and because of retarded religious standards we were from then on chained up to each other like each others own pet tumour growth.". Every older couple in my family is bitter and hates each other because they were forced to marry each other; You live in a new era, don't make their mistakes.