dating your ex's ex best friend (they never speak to each other now), yay or nay?
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Yay! They aren't friends anymore anyway.
Just...do not discuss the ex. Ever.
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>>17386502
Also, if your gf brings up that ex change the conversation or something.
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>>17386492
is that her in the pic?
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in a rut help. i want to do things. but i dont know what to do
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>>17386489
Charity
Clean your house
Find stuff you don't need and sell/donate it
Meditation
Drawing
Writing
Walk on the park
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>>17386496
thank you. i think too long and never end up doing and it goes in circles.
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Why do I feel like suicide is the inevitable end of my life, and I can barely deny it?
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>>17386472
probably because youre a huge faggot
get over yourself
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>>17386472
Because depression is a crippling condition
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>>17386461
Good album
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I'm in a dead relationship. I asked out a girl last year in September she said yea and we went on a date. We only have gone on that one date. Everytime I ask if she wants to go do something she says that she can't because her family is anti-bf. I like her and she's shy, and I'm contemplating ending our dead relationship. I just really don't want to hurt her. What Do?
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She doesn't want to date you. Move on to someone else
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>>17386410
This is going to be harsh, but you need a reality check.
You are not in a relationship. You went on one date with a woman almost a year ago. That is all. Anything beyond that is entirely in your imagination.
Meanwhile, you've been annoying - possibly harassing - the girl ever since by not getting the message and continuing to ask her out.
Move on.
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I made a new standard for how people are supposed to treat me. It started with my family, which has certain members who would scream at me for hours, or wake me up while they were drunk and looking to start an argument. Then I had a friend who almost rages out at everyone he knows, and settles for being mean instead of violent. I also dumped my girlfriend, who was being generally shitty to me and then nearly friendzoned me when I put my foot down about it. My roommate even started mocking me about this girl, because I wouldn't play a song he liked, "Boo hoo I'm Anon and I'm sad because I broke up with my girlfriend who is a hooker." I told him to take a few steps back from me in general. Then I made this angry post on Facebook about narcissism that, instead of getting a message across, set off everyone who is insecure. Now half of my more nice, respectful friends are feeling suspicious and hurt.
What in the fuck is happening to my life, /adv/?
There has to be something wrong with me that is causing all of this, but I can't tell what it is. My therapist says that my personality is too permissive and that I'm not turned off enough by offensive and entitled people. He also said that I see the bad in people much stronger than the good. However, I can't help but feel that people are treating me poorly because I'm a useless fuck or something. Nobody calls me antagonizing or mean, quite the opposite, so I cant' tell what is causing all of this.
Should I just focus on having positive relationships going forward? I don't want to have drama anymore. I don't want more to turn out like this!
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There is indeed something wrong. Not just with your personality but with your whole environment.
You seem like a very angry and insecure guy, as well as hypercritical and self-centered.
Your personality is most likely the result of your environment, habits and position and role in society.
It shows us that you are not entirely happy with yourself - and that brings instability to your life.
I recommend seeing a psychologist. Fixing one's life is hard but it is always worth it.
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>>17386565
I'm working really hard on fixing my life. It started about a year ago and included a nervous breakdown, but I'm making progress.
I know I'm self-centered. There are all these fantasies I have about being a better friend once my life is together. Those nice friends I mentioned, I stay away from them because I'll bring them down with my instability.
Thanks for the clarification. I guess things will get better once my position in society improves, and I can afford a good therapist. It would make sense that, if I practically sucked up to these people and they were all still mean to me, that it's due to my position in society. My position in society is my responsibility, right. I need to contribute something to people's lives.
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Look at someone in the eyes. 2016-07-24 02:10:23 Post No.17386385
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Look at someone in the eyes.
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So i met this guy at my workplace sometimes once a week sometimes twice a week. We never talk. If by any chance that we see each other he always smiles and looks at me right into the eyes,holding his gaze until when I look away.
Recently I felt something for him and looking at him into the eyes too,and i was always the one who looked away when he still keeps his eyes on me,just because I was too shy. Sometimes he waves at me when he sees me far away,smiling and saying goodbye. I don't know if i had a crush on him just because I think he likes me,or he's interested in me and the way he acts out made me like him?
Help I really don't know what to do. I don't know if i am being delusional but the way he looks at me into the eyes and his smile when gazing at me really makes my heart skip a beat.
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Bumpppp
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>>17386385
You are overthinking it.
He gave you a genuine reaction. That is all you need. Give him an open, invite him to go to a bar with you after your shift. Let him know you like him.
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>>17386385
Hey Anon, I'm Anonette, I'd really like to talk to you and get to know you, here is my number. Let's chat some time.
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This thread isn't necessarily directed to 25+virgins, but the ones that lost it after 25.
What are the conditions that allowed you to lose your v-card at a later age.
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Surprised nobody responded.
Perhaps you all lost it in high school?
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>>17386475
none of us lost it
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Lost mine at 26. If you find yourself in a position that you might be getting laid, if they ask, you aren't a virgin. I've had a lot of opportunities to lose my vcard when I was 22-25, but I always admitted to being a virgin when I was asked. When I finally lost mine she also asked me about being a virgin and I finally lied about it to see if the result would be different and sure enough.
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My ex-BF of 7 months who dumped me last year liked my instagram picture of me and my current BF of 8 months. First picture of me he's liked since basically right around me and my current lover began dating. Before that he liked every picture.
Does this mean anything? He was a very jealous guy and always hated when I even talked to another. Is he trying to get my attention?
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>taking social media this seriously
for all you know he clicked it by accident lmao, it probably doesnt mean anything, ignore it either way
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>>17386356
I doubt it was on accident. He hates me and it was a nasty relationship too so I don't get it.
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>>17386342
He already got your attention. Best thing to do is to ignore it but you won't. By making this thread I know you'll end up sucking his dick and fucking him within the year.
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Should I try for exchange during my masters degree?
About to begin my postgrad masters at the university of Melbourne and wondering if it's a good idea to try and go on exchange in Sweden for a semester because I missed out on exchange during undergrad.
Thinking about it, postgrad's probably going to be really difficult, but exchange really seems like a great opportunity which I might not get again.
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It's a bit late to change your mind, don't you think?
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>>17386343
I think there's still time.
Only planning to do exchange for a semester and masters runs for 4 (2 years)
Hopefully be able to do it in my 3rd semester.
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>>17386350
What's your master's programme like? Is it by thesis or coursework?
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Been talking to a girl for a long time now. Said she doesn't know what she wants yesterday but also said she really likes me a lot. Also said she was stressed out with some stuff. Haven't messaged her since yesterday night. Need somebody's else's opinion on this situation. Would really appreciate another persons thoughts.
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ask her what shes stressed out about
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Said she was stressed out about school coming up and I quote "I have so much going on." she didn't really go into much detail from there
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5k on the roulette table, nothing fancy, just picking red or black -- straight 50 percent chance.
No, back and forth winning and losing, just one gamble, going in there at peace if you just lose it all at once.
Is this scenario so bad if you want to one day just risk a small stash at a casino?
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If you don't need the money for food and shelter, go for it. If it's for meals, yes, it is bad.
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Ah.. the money i've wasted just to accomplish a "moment" i've been wishing for... go for it
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>>17386236
remember, anon
money goes on black
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Me: I think I might have seen you?
Her: yeah sure I saw you and I've seen That you saw me
You could've greeted me :)
Me: I wasn't sure!
I didn't had my glasses on
Her: yeah in fact I thought you didn't recognize me
Me: them not now I do
We should meet
I'm happy to see an old friend
Her: how long have you been here?
Me: a week
Her: oh and how long will you stay?
Me: a month
Her: are you happy? :)
Me: yes not bad
Her: good good come on
Me: I can believe it, I just followed you days ago
Such a causality
Her: yeah right! So strange
Me: I'm going to bed
I repeat, we should see each other
It'd be cool to see an old friend when so much time has passed
Good night Marta
She hasn't replied, did I do something wrong? Was I confident? What do you think about what I said or what I should have said?
Btw she is my girlfriend from when we were like 10 or 11 years old, then I changed country and now we have 19 so a lot of time has passed
She's pretty hot tho
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>>17386213
Go to sleep. You made your intentions known, all you can do is wait.
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Vehicle lawyers / insurance people 2016-07-24 00:51:06 Post No.17386170
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Vehicle lawyers / insurance people
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Hey /adv/, today I was derp-late on the break and I bumper-to-bumper'd a car that was hooked onto a tow truck. We were going slow, no more than 7-8 km/h, (just moving in a traffic buildup). Theres a hardly visible paint scratch on my bumper, and the car that was being towed had a slightly larger scratch.
After rapid fire apologizing to the guy, the tow-truck driver told me that the car was being taken to salvage, and called his boss; he was told to just take a picture of my license, which I consented, and he said that this probably wont come up. (I mean the front end of the car he was towing was already ripped to shreds).
We didn't exchange any insurance, and no one stopped for witnesses, etc. As an anxious person by nature, is there some sort of unknown shitstorm that could happen because of this?
I live in Canada btw.
pic unrelated.
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No, you're fine OP the guy wont care its being scraped.
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I am tired of being alone. Where can I talk to people online? outside of world of warcraft 2016-07-24 00:19:12 Post No.17386092
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I am tired of being alone. Where can I talk to people online? outside of world of warcraft
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Basically how can i interact with people online without being on an mmo?? outside of /b/, forums and etc. Basically I am looking for chat rooms or blogs.
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Omegle used to be good, had some great convos there. Now it's pretty much cancer.
Since you really wanna interact, there's a bunch of forums on Facebook. Just pick anything you're interested in.