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Hello /adv/.
I want to talk to some girls in my area, but the problem is that i don`t know anyone, my next door neighbour is 9/10 qt.
There are plenty of nice looking girls its just i have never really been good with them, i`d like to think of myself as a nice guy and i`m pretty chill around people, but i don`t know anyone whatsoever in this area, Any idea how i get a gf or atleast start talking to people?

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This 4-channer needs some advice. I am not the type of person who goes out to bars very often. I'm also not the one to be that out going. I'm a stay at home introvert type person. Well you may have guessed, this will be about relationships. I need some advice. I'm 36, and honestly I'm on the heavier side. And personally I don't think I'm that attractive. But I am kind of a little lonely and need advice on how to meet a girl. Like I said I don't like going to clubs and bars, but if I did I'm usually the wallflower type. So any advice would be great. I'm also currently living in Japan. Which make things harder.

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So there's a metric ass load of theses stupid ass shitbugs fucking around in my room. Whats a great way to kill them all with household shit.

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How does one deal with the loss of a soon to be dead relative?
My Grandad had a second heart attack over the course of two days from the first one he had. He hasn't got much time left. How do I cope?

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hey /adv/

I recently apply for a manager position job. I had an interview but didn't get the job.
I had all the right requirements for the position. I think the reason I didnt get it was because I didn't answer everything to the best of my ability. Someone who worked in the assistant manager position for 2 years also applied and got the job, so that maybe another reason.

Anyways, since the assistant manager person got the job, his old position is now available. I want to reapply to get his positions.

Should I be reapplying through the normal channel? or should I just email them directly to apply?
Should I apply through normal channel and email just to let them know? They also ask for a cover letter, should I apply through the normal channel, and let them know in the letter instead of an email?

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So i am with a qt for a few years now but as time passed she started to get really unstable, too clingy and selfish. She avoids serious conversations by pulling the drama card, if things don't go her way all she has to say is ment to attack me.
She is starting to drag me down mentally although i have always been the most optimistic person, she even stresses me out with completely unecessary arguments right before exams (student). She has been living with me and never made any friends, she acts like she has breathing problems but is just anxious of any physical activity.
At one point it took me so far that i hit her. She wants kids one day, i really don't see a future where she would be able to raise a child instead of a special snowflake.

I pitty her, i believe in her even though nothing changes, i can't end it but i feel like i should then again it will make me empty inside.

I believe she can't make a living herself, i have to financally support her too even though i am a student.

I need an opinion other than my own, i can't really understand my situation quite clearly anymore.

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So it takes me ages (30 min and more) to cum inside of women.

I can fap like 6 times a day and do a fap fasting a day before sex but this doesnt help.

any advice?

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Ok so ive been friends with a girl for a year now. But for the past few months I have noticed her behaviour has changed with me. She has a boyfriend, they have been dating for almost 2 yrs. she seems unhappy with her boyfriend. (He is a stoner and he is barely there for her) Anyway, she fb msgs me alot, we talk every day, she flirts with me a little bit, she says she "misses my face" and that we should "see each other soon!" She wants to visit me at my work, she invites me to parties and stuff. We graduated two months ago so we dont hangout over the summer which is normal cuz she is in a relationship. She used to not talk to me when she was with her bf and as soon as he left she would snapchat me, msg me etc. But now, she even snaps me cute snaps when she is hanging with her bf AND SHE NEVER SPEAKS ABOUT HIM TO ME. Not even a little. I sometimes play hard to get and not respond her messages but overall we mutually flirt and talk every day. I like this girl, and Im not sure if im overthinking her behaviour or she actually likes me. Is she interested in me or she just playing with me? Does she really want to hangout with me or is she just saying that? Wdu guys think?

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So I went to a Circle K by my house to get some gas and got a snack inside. Walk in and notice the cashier is a very cute girl around my age (19). Didn't think much of her until she complimented my Metal Gear Solid shirt, at which point I realized she might be pretty cool as well as cute. Wanted to strike up a conversation but there were like 4 people behind me in line I didn't want to hold up. We made eye contact and smiled at each other and all that stuff. I want to try to find her again so I can maybe get her number.
It was around 10 PM, so should I just show up every night until I see her again? Also, what's the best way to strike up a conversation with a clerk?

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Around six months ago I broke up with my weird shit gf. I moved into my own place with a great sigh of relief, and then got made redundant from work three months later. I've gotten to the point where I can't afford the rent for the place I'm in now so I need to downsize and raise cash.

As I said, my ex was fucking weird, turns out she is into hardcore BDSM and when we first got together, she was convinced she'd make the perfect 'sub' out of me, I just needed to be trained. Completely without any form of consent or even knowledge of it. On my side of the equation, I didn't realise that the pink fuzzy handcuffs were the beginning of a BDSM relationship I never signed on for. Eventually I got jack of it and left. Kinky's good on occasion, but I'm not into the lifestyle, and there was no way in hell I was signing a 'sub' contract that involved me handing over my entire wage (I made twice as much as she did) and being 'punished' when I didn't make the bed properly of a morning.

I grabbed all my shit, including some boxes stashed away that I thought were mine and didn't check. And that's why I've just discovered a pile of Bad Dragon slongs that I've never seen before. I was curious about how much they cost, and it turns out that I've around $600 in custom sex toys. I also discovered that there are a lot of people who buy these second hand.

Selling./buying second hand sex toys gives me the raging creeps. From hygiene, to some random stranger wanting something that another random stranger had in their body, to the issue of giving your name and address to the buyer. But on the other hand, I'm broke. Savings are gone, redundancy money is gone, I need to get some cash in hand.

So. Should I sell the dragon slongs and just hope that I don't end up with some deviant tracking me down? Or should I just dump the creepy things in the bin, never mind the money?

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There's a girl that always that I am kind of friends with. We sort of chat in classes and occasionally we talk through messages. She is seen as a girl who leads tones of guys on (don't know many guys that she hasn't tried to talk to). im wondering if she's into me because she is always trying to find a reason to talk to me about even stuff like "I'll be late to class tomorrow" (like I really need to know). Or is she trying to lure me in and lead me on? I'm not sure if I've given you enough information to help me out but that's all I could come up with

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Fuck you I am drink if I want

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Life's only turned up, I think, because I'm coming to the end of the tunnel. No so dark now, but it's probably because I've hit the wall.
I'm dying. Pulmonary hypertension, diagnosed too late, life expectancy about 3-4 years. Before that, I was suicidally depressed and had been for most of my life. But just about half a year ago, life started being beautiful again! I'd found the first person I'd ever loved unconditionally beside myself; somebody just like me in that sense, right down to the number of attempts on our own lives, and we anchored each other like none we'd ever met before. I went outside and could appreciate the seabreeze blowing inland, the light in the trees, and the allure of simple pleasures finally made itself clear.
And now it's all coming to an end too quickly. I had plans to bring my stories out into the world; I wanted to finish my books so my thoughts could live outside of my own head. But I can't do that anymore. I can't even ensure that the people I love are going to be okay without me; my life's produced very little good, and the suffering that'll result from it ending will outweigh that by far.
What can I do?

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teach me to roast 6 year olds that keep calling me lil boi

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I need some serious help.

I suffer BAD from insomnia and currently my sleep schedule is all kinds of fug.

I literally stay awake all night just lying in bed trying to fall asleep until 8 or 9 in the morning then usually wake up at one.

I don't want to be some lazy fuck who sleeps all day, but for the life of me I just cannot fall asleep at a decent our. I've even tried melatonin and it hasn't worked.

I've also tried staying awake all day and sticking it out, but I always end up passing out around 10 or 12 and waking up at 3.

I don't know what to do, I just want to have a normal sleep schedule and get a good 7-8 hours sleep. This sucks balls.