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Once did NoFap for 60 days, but I had to cut it to at least 1 fap per week because I was starting to get girls and I was beginning to get problems with premature ejaculation.

Normally at my baseline I'm not socially anxious, but whether it be the testosterone boost, the horniness, or just placebo, NoFap makes talking to/gaming girls 100% easier.

Are there any drugs I can take like testosterone supplements or drugs that make me horny and can replicate the same energy after not fapping for 7 days? This way I can game girls while solving my premature ejaculation problem.
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Alcohol I guess...
Maybe go the other way around, do nofap and search for some techniques and info on how to last longer, use numbing cream or something
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>>17388017
What if the sex is spontaneous? Do I just carry numbing cream with me or use extended release condoms?

Do kegals work?
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>>17388002

Take an anti-depressant. I can get rock hard, but never feel anything with enough pressure to cum.

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I have a colleague at university, with whom I have a common friend (guy) I hang out with often. He´s pretty much my only friend there but the guy I´m talking about is really popular and outgoing.

So the thing is, we can talk for hours on the internet, about anything really. Have a lively, fun conversation, even slightly kinky at times, crack jokes within reasonable limits and then the next day, when we meet face to face at a course, he doesn´t even look at me and barely mumbles a ´hello´. Mostly talks with our common friend and then ignores me the rest of the day. And then this shit repeats itself.

I´m not interested in this guy, but his behavior is confusing. Does he like me in the slightest but is shy (he´s NOT a shy guy, generally) or is indifferent and just wastes his time away with random conversations online but doesn´t bother afterwards???
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Considering the context of your conversations (I can relate with the kinky situation) this may seem awkward to him as you guys aren't established in any sort of relationship. Is he like this with anyone else?
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>>17388053
I really don't know what he talks about with others but he seems okay with them. Isn't it more awkward acting like this I mean I don't pretend to be super close and talk about the same shit, but not even looking me in the eye and barely addressing me a word is odd and it makes it awkward for me as well cause I feel out of place and stupid
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Why not ask him about it online where he seems more comfortable?

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I feel like shit for like 5-8 hours after waking up, dizzy, neck pain, not able to focus, hypotension, muscle pain, it's getting better in the evening and/or after high doses of caffeine.

pic related, supposedly fibromyalgia.
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Fibromyalgia takes a lot of tests to diagnose. I would go to a doctor who will refer you to a specialist. Sounds like fibro though, my girlfriend has it. Also get an HIV test, could be that (not a joke)

just go to the doc
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You seriously haven't seen a doctor about this? Not even an online doctor for advice? It could be serious like fibro, or a hormone imbalance, or maybe even sleep apnea. Or maybe something simple.
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>>17388134
Got a girlfriend with fibro too, takes a long time to diagnose fibro. Years, since it easily criss crosses with other problems. Likelyhood of women getting it is leagues higher then men.

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What is day to day life like in a UK prison?

Do you have to work? Can you just stay in your cell all day?

Thanks
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You'd be more likely to get an answer in /int/.

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Finally moving out and living the yuppie life.

I'm going to be subletting a room for the next 2-3 months, what kinds of things should I know about living with roommates?

I'll be finding an actual apartment for myself after 3 months.
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People say don't room with your friends but I prefer to live with someone I can trust. Since it's only three months I doubt much could go wrong so if you're living with strangers just be wary of anyone taking your shit or breaking house rules.
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>>17387952
I'll most likely be staying with a friend of a friend. I've been told she's pretty conservative, so I don't think I can bring anyone back. What's the etiquette on that anyway?
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>>17387961
>What's the etiquette on that anyway?
I live with two other guys and we're in our 20's so we don't really care as long as you do it in your room and don't make too much noise. If you think she'll look at you differently then it might be best to just not make her uncomfortable. It is only three months.

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Yes I know this is pretty much a self answering question but I still wonder is there something games can offer that might have any benefit from?If there is no point in them I will stop them but want to see if there is something to them that I might be missing.
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Entertainment? The point of video games isn't accomplishments, it's just for fun. Unless they're taking over a majority of your time I don't see what's wrong with gaming as a hobby.
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Nothing wrong with playing video games bud. But,if you want me to be honest I replaced video games with exercise and music and I feel better for it. I lost 100 lbs and can improvise for days on the guitar. That helps with women alot more. Personally I don't even touch video games anymore unless it's a big title like fallout 4.
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>>17387973
Ps. my love for rpgs as a teenager really helped me with working out. I got my fitness pal and looked at it like a personal stat menu. I viewed lifting like grinding and eating like item management.

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>tell girlfriend "I love you"
>25% of the time she doesn't say it back, usually just ignoring it

What game is she playing here?
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Sounds like she's playing the not giving a fuck game. Or maybe your over reacting, how about telling her about it go digging for some reason. Maybe you find out you're being silly or that she's just not that into you. Or of course your overthinking.
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>>17387914
>>25% of the time she doesn't say it back

How often are you saying it to her?
Maybe she thinks you're a Cling on.
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Maybe it's just not as serious as you think? It's hard to tell from what little you've told us.

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So there's this girl I work with who is pretty much for sure into me, and I like her as well, and I'm thinking about asking her out. Problem is, she's pretty shy, and I am even more so, so we haven't really talked much or gotten to know each other very well. I am worried that if we bullshit for too long she'll get asked out by someone else as she's like a solid 9 imo.

So, what I'm asking is: Should I go ahead and ask her out and get to know her outside of work, at the risk of her saying no, or should I try to get to know her a little first at the risk of her being asked out by someone else, or worse, being friendzoned?
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>>17387908

Friendzone is a bullshit myth. You are either attractive or not. 'We're just friends' is a nice way of rejecting someone.

Just remember that the 'what if' of social scenarios is extremely limited. Who gives a shit if she says no?
Literally nothing will happen to you if she says no, with the exception of your pride being bruised. Do you want to be a little bitch and risk not getting laid because youre worried about getting rejected? Who cares what she thinks of you? What matters is that one route is the route where there's a distinct possibility of something you long for happening and the other route there definitely isn't.

Also if she rejects you just move on, don't be friends with someone when you just desire her, be friends with girls you're not attracted to.

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Hey guys!

Some girl who broke up with me a while ago, went to shit in a spectacular manner to the point where her friends sometimes requested me to not go to certain venus so that she wouldn't see me (She was a very depressed and complicated girl).

She deleted me off snapchat, but I didn't, i.e. I still see her on my friends list but I know if I sent something it would stay on 'pending request' for example.

This is a girl who had at least a snap a day or every two days, and one day a week ago I saw her snap pop up in my story feed.

The same happens in a week and a half, I uploaded a snap story like two hours after I saw hers pop up but she didn't see it, and hasn't seen a single one since then.

Both times when her story has popped up I didn't have an active story.

Is this her trying to see mine, or is it just her turning it public and off public for some reason? The latter reason is unlikely - if she had it on public Id see hers far more often (as I said she snaps a lot) and what's the point in turning it on and on? They were two extremely mundane snapchat stories when they were turned on, her going shopping and a picture of a starbucks latte.

Any advice on what's going on is welcome!

Pic related - I miss the booty
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>>17387885
Bump, somebody with knowledge of how snapchat works do me a solid please.

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Looking for advice on how to handle someone I've started hooking up with out of state but I have no intention to date:

I'll try to keep it short and to the point. I travel a lot for work, and use tinder as a way to meet/talk to women whenever I'm in a new city. I do a ton of work out of Atlanta, and I'm there every month or two for at least a week.

About two months ago I matched with a girl and ended up going out on a date the same night. She came back to my hotel and we ended up having sex. Since then I've been seeing her every time I go down there. We usually go out for dinner or some drinks and then go back to my hotel and fuck all night - she normally stays the night and leaves after I've leave to go into work. I don't know if these are considered dates or just us "going through the motions" before we have sex.

Anyway, while I'm not in Atlanta we still text every day. Nothing expressive of feelings, just casual banter and drunk sexting. Gets sexual a lot of times but just as often it's casual conversation.

I guess my question is neither of us have really established the awkward "what are we" deal. We've been seeing each other for a few months but neither of us have made any indication of wanting to take a next step. Frankly, I don't want to. She's good looking and good in bed but I have no desire to ever exclusively date her.

Should I eventually have a talk with her about expectations? I don't want to ruin what I have going by basically saying "we're never going to move past hooking up when I'm in town." But I also don't want to put myself in hot water when/if I call things off for whatever reason.

I feel like we're on the same page, but I wasn't sure if I should just keep my mouth shut and wait for her to say something about it (if she ever does) or if I should be upfront about it.

TL;DR should I tell a girl I'm sleeping with that I have no intentions of dating her or should I just continue to do what I'm doing until she brings it up?
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Am I the only one that's ever dealt with a situation like this? Pic related.
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>>17387869
You're golden. Sounds like you're on the same page. Just be honest with her if the topic does come up. It's the right thing to do. In the meantime, just have fun.
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I got burnt in a similar suituation earlier this year, however, my arrangement was more of a sleeping over almost every night type of situation. I saw her almost every day. Didn't end well, when she finally brought up exclusivity and I told her I couldn't promise her anything. It ended then and there, because she had fallen madly in love with me, and now she fucking hates me.

You should listen to your guts. It's what I neglected to do. I knew she had fallen in love, but I ignored the signs -because- she never initiated the conversation.

You may proceed, but be careful. She might get hurt, she might not.

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How does a person get started with a journalism career?

Do we have to submit sample pieces to newspaper/magazine/online institutions first?
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Hey. I'm an active/fit/, / ck/ ,/fa/ and /b/ user.
Just looking for advice on how to gain self control and to forget about the past.
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>>17387865
You don't
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Stop looking for an advice, you have to cook your own solution, nobody has the same past as you (probably, since you didn't share)
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>>17387865
All the boards you go to are cancer and 2 of them have very conflicting mindsets
Noice

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Where does one meet women besides the bar? My school is a bar school. Greek life is big, didn't have the funds to join. Tried joining clubs and all that other 'standard' advice. Any other cool places?
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>>17387835
catch pokemon

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What does one do when you have a series of friends you're romantically interested in but they don't reciprocate it?

I'm thinking of just cutting them out of my life completely. I've already been culling Facebook friends, deleting their numbers, not answering any of their texts or message, and even quit my job this week because of those friends works there.

Being stuck as just friends with someone you have feelings for is simply unacceptable.
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No, no. That's the proper way to handle these situations. You're still being an arse about it. But it's the proper way to go.

Those situations aren't fair to anyone involved. It's not fair to constantly to see your love interest and get nothing in return. But it's also not fair for them to be around a friend who expects more than they're willing to give.
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>>17387825
Well, that is one way to do it. But it seems like you just want to be validated for being a dick. I can't give you that, but I can at least give you your (You).

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So I'm in the market for a new phone. I'm looking at the Samsung S7 or will be holding off for the the iPhone 7. I've used Android in the past and really like it, but iOS seems to be stable longer and have better app support for most everything I'm interested in.

I have a Huawei Watch and I'm not sure how well Android Wear is operating on iOS any more. The media out there seems to be dated. The consensus is that Android Wear is limited, but this is also from old articles. Does anyone sport an Android Wear on iOS and could let me know if there are still missing functions? (i.e. inability to reply to text through watch, apps not having wear support through iOS (like Ingress)).

Thanks!
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The newest article I could find was May, which I don't think is very reliable data anymore.

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