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Where is a place I can learn how to street fight to defend myself, and not martial arts. I don't know if I just had a bad experience with martial arts, but it seems more like a sport than a practical tool.
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>>17388231
There might be Webites to teach you moves idk.
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>>17388235
But looking at pictures and videos vs. actually doing and practicing something is very different
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>>17388231
check out krav maga. your martial arts experience might be bad due to the martial arts you chose. you cant teach your self to street fight, you have to train with other people.
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How to meet Asian girls in college? 2016-07-24 18:31:32 Post No.17388131
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How to meet Asian girls in college?
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>Break up with long distance girlfriend
>Always had a thing for goths, redheads and Asians.
>Realize goths and redheads are kinda rare. Especially natural redheads.
>Asians are pretty cool, most seem to really like me for whatever reason.
>I've been asked out by at least 6 in the past 2 years just randomly.
>Be 22, attending college after some years of working/travel.
Give me tips Anons, how do I meet an Asian cutie like pic related? How do I go about getting numbers/being Da Man?
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>being Da Man
You sound pretty immature to have a relationship but I'll give you 2 cents: Be yourself and don't be cheesy. That said act confident in yourself but if you're gonna refer yourself as Da Man, I think you got a bit of work to do on yourself first.
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>>17388184
That was meant to be somewhat tongue-in-cheek but I can see how the sarcasm might not come across in text. But thanks for the advice regardless!
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>>17388308
No it did, that other anon is just a stick in the mud
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What does it mean when you like a girl more than as a friend, but don't have romantic feelings for her either?
Greentext story in next post
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>be friends with girl for two years
>liked each other when we first met, but I had a gf at the time
>two years later, we still hang out often and still talk good morning to good night
>she confesses she's in love with me but I don't reciprocate
>can't even say I like-like her, but still lead her on by being flirty with her and still hanging out a lot
>one drunken night I make out with her and from there we start dating
>all this time I still feel like I don't have romantic feelings for her but want it to happen
>she tells me she's leaving the country for a very long time
>I muster up the courage to tell her about the above, that I just don't feel the same way for her even though I want to
>she says that maybe we shouldn't talk anymore, and that she should just go to the airport without telling me because goodbye is too painful
>I say she can't do that, that would be too much for me
>she asks why, I spontaneously start crying while saying "you mean so much to me" over and over
>yet even today, if someone asked me if I liked her and I had to say yes or no, it'd be no
>yet, she is obviously more to me than just a best friend, or just some other girl
Help me please, /adv/
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>>17388065
It's called let her live her fucking life. If you're so sure that you don't like her in a romantic way, then you should cut contacts with her, otherwise she will never get out of this.
You spent years sending her mixed signals, then you got into a relationship with her, while still not really feeling that way. If you keep talking to her, she'll never lose the hope that someday you might reciprocate. She needs some time away from you, otherwise she'll be trapped in this shitty situation and it will just hurt her.
I'm sorry but you'll have to be without your bff, at least for some months.It's for her own good.
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friend started dating my crush 2016-07-24 16:45:28 Post No.17387897
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friend started dating my crush
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Hi /adv/. I'm having trouble dealing with something. I'll greentext as short as I can:
>meet girl in some group
>I think she's really cool but I don't get to see her often
>see her more often this year
>ask her out to some event she's interested in but she can't go (though at least acts upset about how she can't and has a legit excuse)
>still getting along pretty good with her, realize we have stuff in common
>start to really like her
>notice some other guy from the group who's kind of friends with me appears to flirt with her
>I don't worry about that because I don't see him having a chance with her
>ask her out for coffee, she says she's busy but that we should chat online later
>I assume she's not interested in me but I still like her, I wait til I get to see her again in person but I don't text her and she doesn't either of course
>She doesn't go to this group for the next week
>Yesterday this other guy I mentioned, suddenly tells me "Yah I went out with her yesterday, we had a good time, and we are gonna meet again".
This hit me really bad. I mean I don't think too highly of myself but I at least think I'm better than this guy. I mean he's a total autist and he's not all that likable imo. I would really prefer if the girl was dating someone else I don't know or at least someone who's more objectively better than me, but I can't believe she's dating this guy. And it sucks because I have to keep going to this group and that means I'll keep seeing him and maybe her too. My self esteem is at an all time low right now. My life has been kind of shitty lately for some other reasons so this news was too much.
Any advice on how to deal with this?
TL;DR: Some guy friend who's definitely lower tier than me, started dating a girl I have a crush on
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>definitely lower tier than me
Incorrect.
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explain pls
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More plausible TL;DR: arrogant anon receives dose of reality.
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How do I get better at drawing. 2016-07-24 14:34:18 Post No.17387662
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How do I get better at drawing.
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Hello, peeps.
I'm trying to get better at digital art and drawing as a whole, as my dream is to work in the games industry as either an artist or level designer. I've gotten better over the years I've been practising but I feel as if I'm falling short of my expectations. I'm sure there are some talented artists on this site. And I was wondering. what tips or techniques could you give me.
Thanks
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I like the youtuber Istebrak, you can give her a submission and she might go over how you can improve techniques and keep sharp on the fundamentals
But good luck, I've heard this whole digital art thing is a giant shit test, with educated professionals competing with amateurs who will take ramen for payment.
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>>17387662
Im basically in the same boat as you man, Ive been an above average drawer my whole life but rarely did I practice until recently. My advice would be too start drawing from real life (Mainly the human form and drapery) this will make the drawings that come from your imagination look more realistic. Sounds simple but it really helps. George Bridgmans and Andrew Loomis figure drawing books are a good place to start. Try taking some life painting classes on the side if you can.
Above all practice, practice, practice.
Good luck man
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browse /ic/
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I get so nervous around boys. Literally any guy my age will get my heart racing.
For example was at book store
>decide to look at manga
>guy there browsing
>cargo shorts, socks and sandals, acne nerd
>try to act calm and read a book
>heart racing
>abort mission
>go to next isle wait for him to leave
>he goes to next isle too
> stands close to me
>close book i was "reading" and walk to other side of store
Pretty much every guy like this will send me into a panic. Is anyone else like this? What the fuck is wrong with me? I wasnt sexually assulted as a child and Im not spectacularly ugly. I dont understand. Are other girls like this?
>pic related
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>>17387193
Are you asian?
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>>17387217
Hate to say it, but he is asking the right question
I find people into anime are usually shy
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>>17387217
Im hispanic but ive been told I look asian regularly.
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I'm not sure if I should come out to my friends. I know I feel a certain way for sure and I want to get it out. Unfortunately, I feel their reactions will be a bit negative. What should I do?
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Come out if you are prepared to lose friends.
Don't come out if you want to pretend you're something you aren't.
That's all you get. Unfair, thus is life. Think about it and make a choice.
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I know this sounds cliche as fuck but if they can't accept who you are you're better off without them imo. Personally I'd rather be lonely than hang out with people i felt like i couldnt be honest with.
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Nothing wrong with being a pedophile, just come out to them
I don't know what to do.. I have a really good job, but I hate it.
Im 26, and work as a Groundsman for a big Energy company. The company is a solid employer, and treats us really well, pays great, and offers us outstanding benefits. But I just hate the actual job I do.. It's just not my thing. I'm not interested in it. I just don't know what to do, I'm very fortunate just to have this job. A friend refered me for this and got me a position when I needed a stable career. Which this company is a very stable place to work. So I'm trying to be grateful. But it's hard, because I don't want to do this same job for the next 30 years.. But I will never be able to get a job anywhere else that pays as good as this, and has benefits like mine.
I just need advice, because I just feel depressed. And I'm thinking about just shooting myself in a few years, because I don't want to have a job I dislike for 30 some years..
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shameful self-bump
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Work sucks no matter what you do. Just do what you enjoy doing in your free time and enjoy the high salary. Happiness won't be found at work, only money and you have that now.
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>>17385652
its just that, we spend the majority of our lives at work. I mean, I have nothing else. So work has always been my primary focus. its depressing for me spending majority of the time doing something im not passionate about. But i know there is no way i could get a job elsewhere that matches the quality of this company.
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I go to the strip clubs so often that I just go there for the social interaction anymore - seeing naked chicks doing their dance/tease gets kind of old after a while.
I'd go elsewhere but there aren't many places for a socially awkward 20 year old to go in the city in the middle of the night when he knows nobody
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I want to fuck my brother.
We're both in relationships, he has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend, but I just want to fuck my brother regardless of that.
I don't read incest smut. I don't watch or Jap stuff either which promotes that kind of thing.
I just plain want to have sex with my brother, I want to feel him finish inside me, I want to kiss him and have him hold me after sex.
I realize this will never happen. I realize I crossed boundaries dozens of times before when I stole his underwear and pleasured myself with it or when I held onto him for too long in front of his girlfriend. I've intentionally barged into his room when I knew or suspected he was masturbating just to see his cock.
I know part of this stems from the fact that he's literally the only one in our family to give a damn about me, to always support me through all kinds of shit in my life and help me right back up, and it's fucking awful of me that I have thought about him fucking me when I was having sex with my boyfriend and I even like to occasionally think of us both cheating on our partners with each other.
I honestly have no idea how to stop this.
Counseling hasn't helped for shit and I'm thinking it might be time for me to move far away where we don't see each other so often.
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Being with people makes me withdrawn, tired, and angry.
Being alone makes me bright, energetic, and at ease
Where do I go with this?
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>but there aren't many places for a socially awkward 20 year old to go in the city in the middle of the night when he knows nobody
I did not know that titty bars were for anything other than entertaining groups of businessmen, the "lads" and lonely losers.
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Brace yourselves college is coming 2016-07-22 20:21:29 Post No.17382599
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Brace yourselves college is coming
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Ok guys, I want you give the best advices about college, especially for the freshmen.
You can also tell us stories about college you wanna share.
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Going into my fourth year at uni.
>Live at the dorms your first year
>Go to house meetings, keep your door open during the time you are there, go to any event (99% of them are free)
>If you have a lot of reading, start early and just do small chunks everyday, pad that shit out
>Don't feel bad if you no longer like your major and want to change. The vast majority of people don't know what their field is actually like and also have no idea what they really want to do
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>make friends in the first couple weeks
It is significantly harder to make friends after the first couple weeks of college.
I remember showing up to the first meeting of a club I signed up for and everyone was already in groups of friends.
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>>17382667
This.
I haven't made a single new friend in four years, don't be like me.
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I've known this girl for a few years. We hit it off almost instantly. We dated briefly but 2 years ago, I ended up moving back to my home country so we broke up. Despite the distance, we remained close, grew closer. We had our ups and downs but our feelings for each other still grew. We admitted our feelings to each other, we're head over heels.
However, a few months ago I met a girl and we hit it off and started dating very casually. I didn't want a serious relationship because I still had very strong feelings for my ex. My ex wasn't happy with the fact that I was seeing another girl, but she said she didn't want to stop me, and she was okay with me seeing other girls so long as I kept her informed. I said the same to her. As far as I know, she has kissed a couple guys and taken some guy's number and briefly talked to him regularly.
Me and the new girl split, and I decided that I didn't want to date any other girls because my feelings for my ex kept getting stronger. I told my ex this, she said it would be fine if I changed my mind and she wouldn't mind if I were to have quick hookups in a club or something. We decided that we wanted to be relatively open for like a year until we could visit each other and be physically intimate with each other.
Last night, I made out with some girl at a club. I told my ex right away. She lost it. She's said she's lost feelings for me, she's called me a whore, she's told me to fuck off and that we're over. I tried to apologise, I tried to explain myself. I'm totally fine with not getting with any girl in any form until I see her. She's not budging.
I told her that we should wait a few days to cool down and then have a real conversation about it without her insulting me and me being all emotional. She's yet to respond. I don't know if she will.
I love this girl. I just want her back and I don't know what to do. I need opinions and advice.
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Don't put any girl on a pedestal. There isn't a girl in the world who is a "dream girl".
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>>17375800
Whatever you want to call it then. I have really strong feelings for her.
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>>17375800
This.
How do I stop an addiction to rough sex? I literally can't get off unless I'm choking / pinning down / spanking / otherwise physically abusing a woman these days. It's not a porn thing, because I don't watch porn. It's just years of unhealthy relationships have warped me I guess. Luckily my two fwbs at the moment are both heaps into rough stuff, but I was screwing a girl after a date last week and I actually lost my boner because it was getting really affectionate and not rough. Now I feel like a cuck because I can't stop thinking about this girl and how sweet she was and how I couldn't keep a boner for her. Classic madonna/whore complex desu.
What do?
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Swallow that redpill nigguh
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On felony probation and just got a dwi.
How fuck am I??
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>Felony
Pre'y fucked for the next few years, I think.
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you're probably going back to jail, sorry anon make better decisions next time
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Weird possible scenario here, tell me what you guys think.
My gf and my friend's gf are good friends and they both want to have a double-date.
Recently (and when i say recently i mean this month) my friend asked out the girl who is now my girlfriend. It didnt end very well. She said yeah, she gave him her number, but she never replied to his texts or answered his calls. He confronted her about it and ever since then they dont even look at each other in the eye. My friend can be pushy but deep down he's a good hearted guy.
Fastforward, her and i are now a couple. (Admittedly we flirted around much longer before he asked her out, he barely knew her honestly and thats probably what the issue is) He immediately got himself a girlfriend and now we're here. I cant be the only one who could see this going badly?? What does /adv/ think? For me its way too awkward to imagine.
Pic related is me thinking of all the ways this could go badly
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If they both agree to go on the double-date, that seems like burying the hatchet, doesn't it?
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I can't stop thinking about the possibility of my dick or balls being cut off.
As a guy I have this incredible vulnerability and the fact that I can do nothing about it fills me with so much insecurity and anger. I hide it among my social peers well, but i'm constantly thinking about how vulnerable I am to being completely, painfully humiliated permanently.
Whenever I see a guy get hit in the balls in a movie or tv I am reminded of it and instead of laughing as it is often intended, I am simply reminded that it could be me, instead of the person on-screen.
When my girlfriend and I learned about that guy who's wife cut off his dick and threw it in the garbage disposal, she laughed - and it made me feel less than human. It made me wish I was a girl simply because they can't ever experience that kind of pain and humiliation. I think I'd rather be beaten and raped as a girl than have my dick or testicles cut off as a man.
I can't stop thinking about it and it fills me with so much anger that I can't do anything about it. I know I can't change reality and it makes me feel so shitty.
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I think you've got a good shot at thread of the week. I mean, damn dude. I can't think of anything that tops this. Paranoia about fertile fatal ball loss is maybe the funniest thing I've read all day.
Thanks OP.
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>tfw you could one day sit wrong and twist your balls and have to deal with it until you get to the hospital