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Is a blind date with a friend of someone you kinda barely know but recently got close with a good idea?
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>>17390218
How the fuck would we know?
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>>17390226
Let me make this simpler: I never dated someone before let alone blind dated someone, the personal trainer chick seems nice and genuine and we had a heart to heart and I explain basically who I was and some of my insecurities, and im 23
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Yes, you have nothing to lose.
>go on date
>if you like each other continue dating
>if not don't
zero problems here
I like to cut myself to see how much it bleeds. Not because I'm depressed or want to die or anything like that. I just like seeing the blood pour out and the pain and adrenaline is such a sudden rush for me? Is there something wrong with me? Should I seek help?
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No thats perfectly normal everyone does it. Its how every single human copes with the fact that they dont know why theyre here.
There isnt a single human who doesnt self mutilate for pain.
It would be weird if you didnt.
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>>17390212
Those are Eminem lyrics, from the song Stan. You can fuck off now.
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>>17390240
No
Source: myself
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>Be me
>Be 20
>Lost 150lbs/68kg
>Loose skin and stretch marks everywhere
>Stomach looks like nutsack
>Face 8/10
>7.5 inch dick
>Not a single friend
>Losing speech ability due to lack of interacting with people and use of it
>Cant think clearly
>Very bad memory loss
>Lost interest in everything I used to like
>Lost sexual interest
>Cant feel sympathy or much of anything anymore
>Have PTSD
>Wear long sleeve double layer everyday to try and hide skin
>Havent been to a resturant in almost 3 years
>Leave house maybe 10 times a year
>Accept I would be a burden on anyone
>Literal pain from loneliness
>Wish for death everyday
>Only still alive because family
>Living everday is torture
I feel these last few months have been the hardest time of my life, I get really depressed during the winter and honestly think I wont be able to take the pain this time or even make it that far. I often said and still say Suicide is a permanant solution to temporary problem. I believe this problem is permanant
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Hi OP.
I want to tell you things will get better. I want to tell you you will climb that mountain and make it out of the hole you crawl so deeply into.
I was in your position 7 years ago, when I was 18.
Since then I've gone to school, after dropping out multiple times, and I'm close to a degree in Biology with a Chem minor.
I wanted to kill myself at 18. 20. 21. 22. 24. I didn't.
Did things get better hell yeah they did. I actually found out I was an academic and taking an MCAT next January to apply for Med school.
I lost over 100 lbs and have transformed. Girls notice me, and I took a girl on a date that wasnt really a date but was my first time and good for practice in a sense.
OVERALL, I still think about killing myself. I still feel depressed. And Lonely, and Sad. And I randomly cry in my car. I even drive a nice sports car (due to insurance).
But I realize that life is not a set timeline and we can change and do anything we put our minds to. Try being more open minded. Try some drugs. I recommend weed and shrooms.
Go out and get belligerent and uber back home. You may find some liquid courage to engage with strangers.
IT will never get better no matter the situation. What I realized is you have to make the most of it, and keep kickin' until someone trys to kill you.
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How do you suck cock without choking or puking? Is there even that much pleasure for the boy if you're going deepthroat or most of the sensitivity is in the tip where there isn't any foreskin?
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I find just nibbling around the tip of mine way hotter and better than the whole thing in.
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i'm probably in the minority but for me deepthroat actually hurt, or maybe the girls were just incapable
anyways, important things:
1) eye-content and/or dirtytalk and/or just generally being naughty, like licking the tip while looking at me naughily
2) varying with how you suck / jerk
3) this jerking motion where you kind of twist the dick a bit is by FAR the best
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>>17390329
This, except fuck the first one. Just keep the dick in your mouth, stop talking so much.
Deepthroating definitely feels better.
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I’ve got an acquaintance that I knew from about 4 years ago and was pretty good friend with then. He’s Chinese and helped me a lot when I was in Beijing, not to mention that I was his friend while he was here in the States. We kind of dropped out of contact years ago and suddenly he’s contacting me online again as if we were never separated. I won’t go into why unless you guys want to know or feel it’s relevant, but I’m not really interested in continued correspondence with him.
Should I just ignore him? Block him? I don’t want to seem overtly rude and I’m instead hoping that contact between us just kind of withers away without it looking like it’s my fault. But do you think it’d be better to just tell him straight up that I’m not really interested in talking with him anymore, then cease all contact?
tl;dr burn out or fade away?
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I think its important to know why anon. That pretty much brings it all into context. Second id suggest fade away. Some people just want to check in. No malice.
Ok so ive been friends with a girl for a year now. But for the past few months I have noticed her behaviour has changed with me. She has a boyfriend, they have been dating for almost 2 yrs. she seems unhappy with her boyfriend. (He is a stoner and he is barely there for her) Anyway, she fb msgs me alot, we talk every day, she flirts with me a little bit, she says she "misses my face" and that we should "see each other soon!" She wants to visit me at my work, she invites me to parties and stuff. We graduated two months ago so we dont hangout over the summer which is normal cuz she is in a relationship. She used to not talk to me when she was with her bf and as soon as he left she would snapchat me, msg me etc. But now, she even snaps me cute snaps when she is hanging with her bf AND SHE NEVER SPEAKS ABOUT HIM TO ME. Not even a little. I sometimes play hard to get and not respond her messages but overall we mutually flirt and talk every day. I like this girl, and Im not sure if im overthinking her behaviour or she actually likes me. Is she interested in me or she just playing with me? Does she really want to hangout with me or is she just saying that? Wdu guys think?
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I think you're pathetic for trying to get in with another mans women.
I hope he stops ssmoking weed the day he finds out you're cutting in on his lunch and fucks you up.
Or she has sti's and if you do fucking interfere you get laced with some fucked up shit for life.
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>>17390168
Just enjoy your time with her and see for yourself if she will make the first step and then you go ahead and do the same. If he would care for her as much as you do she wouldn't be with you so much.
And
Don't listen to that moralfaggot:
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Hey thank you man really appreciate your positive answer
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Hey /adv/,
I posted this on /biz/ too because I'm not sure where it should go.
I'm fresh out of high school with pretty solid grades so I have a wide array of options. I'm interested in computer related subjects and I've been told I'm good at writing. I'd like to get into a field where I can freelance work from home. As it stands I'm considering web development or some sort of coding but I haven't started anything. I'm aware that this will need a portfolio, but I'm wondering about schooling. I'm not in any rush as I have parents will support me as long as I'm doing something to work towards my future.
My questions are: What would be the best area to focus on? And how should I learn? University? College? Entirely self taught? What is best from a practical standpoint? Where do I start?
I don't care too much about making a ton of money, I'd just like to be able to support myself and not be living off of instant ramen.
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>>17390145
If your parents will support you by paying for college, then you need to go to college. Without a doubt. Take advantage of that hookup immediately.
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>>17390150
college? or university? they'll do either. And for what?
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>>17390145
Technical writing, writing the instruction books for computers or programs. Find a college English department that has a tech writing program and take it alongside computer and business classes.
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We were talking about sex, and she finally tells me one of her fantasies after a year and seven months of us dating. She wants to be DP'd. She didn't go into detail, but she says that was scared to tell me because she thought that I'd think she was a whore. I don't, but... A little nervous, y'know? I took her virginity, and she doesn't do much but masturbate. Our sex life is completely fine. I feel as if (by the type of girl she is) that she simply is interested in what it feels like to have two things in her holes. Not really stemming from wanting two guys.
Anyone ever gone through this? And yeah, I'm expecting the "DROP HER SHES A WHORE BRO /THREAD" but maybe I'll come to that conclusion when I see many different opinions on this.
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>>17390139
use a dildo/ dual wield a strapon
otherwise she just a whore that wants other dick
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https://christiannymphos.org/2008/05/22/double-penetration/
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>>17390162
I'm aware. She also spoke of a threesome being one of her fantasies, I should've added apparently.
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What inspires you, /adv/?
In my case, it was poetry, at least eight years ago. Now, nothing really.
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This is gonna sound kinda gay, but I think in my case, it's love
Not that I have anyone that currently loves me, but I think the idea of finding someone who wants to love me as much as I want to love them is something that propels me forward in life- I spent a good portion of my life doing bad stuff, seeing bad stuff, and having bad stuff happen to me that I just want to be kind to someone who will in turn, be kind to me
Either way, the idea of love has cause me to do things I never really had the courage to do, and opened me to ideas that I never thought about before. Yeah, I've been shot down and dumped and rejected, but each of those experiences was something that taught me a lesson, gave me a different outlook, gave me a new experience- shit like that. It's been the biggest factor for me when it came to scary decisions, and I'm grateful for the experiences -good and bad- that came of those decisions.
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>>17390132
no wave
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>>17390132
Sean Connery inspires me.
He was a real man, not a faggot like today's """"""""""""""""men"""""""""""""
Alright, wtf is going on here. My friend met this girl a couple days ago after ditching me at the beach, and she's been doing some weird shit. We've all been hanging out in a group with some other people the whole weekend and she's been acting like she's into him. But on the down low she's been flirting with me very subtly since day one. So yesterday, she decided to just fuck with our heads hardcore. Our whole group had to pack into one car, and she was going to have to sit in someones lap, instead of sitting in my friends empty lap, she came and sat in mine. Wtf? So she ignored me half the day besides for a few little flirty words, then she jumps into my lap? She wasn't just sitting there either, she made herself comfortable, lol. My friend was noticeably butthurt, but he's been an asshole lately, so I kinda thought it was funny. I'm not sure if I'm down to fuck this slut or not. I've never been in a situation like this before. Am I gonna get burnt trying to get anywhere with her? Should I just try and give my friend a heads up? This is the first girl he's dated in a LONG time, and I already had to tell him to chill with the clingy shit.
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>>17390109
Id watch out. Thats some weird shit
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>>17390109
I almost want to say go for it, sounds like your friend is gonna get hurt whether you fuck her or not.
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>>17390109
Fucking thirsty whore.
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Yo, uh, what do normal people do all fucking day?
What's the difference between weirdo neet hobbies and normal people, is there a big difference? I only ask because I'm trying to be more normal so I can get a girlfriend. I'm 21, on a break from university, probably getting a part time job soon.
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>>17390106
If they're not working, they're spending time at the gym or other outdoor activity, or spending time with friends, or sitting on their phones/computers on Twitter and Tumblr and Tinder and Instagram and all other forms of social media. Normies don't "do" as much as you think they do. It just looks like they do because they post on social media about the times they're out partying or hanging out with friends. Most of the time they're also just loafing around.
But definitely get active. Whether it's gym or swimming or hiking or biking or something. Exercise is good for your health, mentally and physically.
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>go outside
>go to work/school
>go to some hangout they frequent
>after hour stuff
Just stayed indoors to break the monotony of that lifestyle.
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I want to talk dirty to a woman online...like tell them how hot they are, how I want to fuck them etc. But obviously that's not wanted by most people and I don't want to harass anybody. Yet somehow it's not exciting, in fact feels stupid and pathetic, if it's like a gonewild girl or something, joining that enormous chorus. I just want to...I don't know, express myself as a sexual being, anonymously online, without feeling like I'm part of a crowd. How to do?
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>>17390075
Go to omegle?
I'm a girl and that's ALL anyone ever does on omegle. I'm not personally into it but I'm sure more than enough people are.
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>>17390077
I might be wrong, but wouldn't that mean clicking through 1000 dudes jerking off on camera before getting to a girl who clicks away in half a second?
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>>17390075
Meet women in person, you beta.
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Can I ask my sister if her 5 yr old Can sleep with me in a non weird way?
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Probably not.
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No you can't
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>>17390055
I think you understand, im probably her favorite sibling. She doesn't think im weird at all so why would she question this request?
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I am 19 living at home. I'm in college and working part time. I would like to move out and finish my degree, but it doesn't seem financially viable. I feel like a kid living at home. Does anybody have any advice? Also, I am having trouble funding my tuition. What are some good ways to make decent money in college?
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You're 19, so you actually are still a kid basically.
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>>17390045
You can get the move-out idea out of your head really quick, if you're having trouble affording tuition. You're not going to be able to afford living on your own AND tuition, even if you were working full time and going to school part time.
Time to count your blessings and realize the gift you have by being allowed to live at home. Millions would kill for that option. Instead they slave away at minimum wage jobs and rack up mounds of debt trying to afford school on top of it.
You should get a job. But don't move out. Get a part time fast food job, or job on campus to make some extra money to pay for tuition/books/whatever else you need.
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>>17390045
>I feel like a kid
>is a kid
>posts /pol/ memes
At least you posted a funny one, but yoy sure as hell ain't helping their rep.
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So I'm giving therapy another shot. Made an appointment but it's not until August 8th.
Not too far but I'm anxious to just get to it. I don't really have anyone I feel comfortable talking to and really want to see a therapist if not for the sole reason to just talk to someone.
How can I calm down and be patient or calm anticipation? August 8th just feels like a long ass time.
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try battery acid
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>>17390043
Organize your thoughts concerning what you want to tell your therapist in a journal. At least getting your ducks in a row should give you some comfort.
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>>17390062
thats retarded advice the battery acid is good tho