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>>17448793
Imo you will find girls everywhere, but depending on the place you'll hang out you'll find different kind of girls.
Depending on your age you could go to universities, libraries, shopping centers, bars, parties.

And don't think you can't hit on girls because you are in a public place like a library, just don't make it awkward don't try to land on her pussy with some pickupline, go easy, joke, ask her/them what they're doing and sense the atmosphere around them, if they look bothered by your presence, just say that you need to go and that you've enjoyed meeting them. (sometimes it's even better not to ask for a number, when they are too tense) The first time will be hard you will suck, but do this a few times and you will no longer be afraid of consequences, try better approches and you will probably nail it. Look casually nice, don't be a creep, be gentle, smell good, smile and don't try to emulate the alpha male "wew ladi thats some boob wil you go out wit me tho" mode

>>17448793
I'd like to meet her with my meat, if you know what I'm saying.

>>17448830

See that's what I was saying >>17448833
alpha male mode on mah nigga

No logic.
It's over OP,
also breaking up with people and trying to get back together always fails.
avoid.

>>17448817
I get that it's over but I didn't want there to be any bad blood between us and I just don't understand what the problem is

>>17448817
This, literally never ever ends well. Never.

>>17448714
The only way to get over a girl is to fuck another girl.

You mentioned you "tried" to hook up with other girls. Did you succeed?

>>17448729
Yes I have hooked up like 3 girls in the last 2 months

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>>17448702
>Young single mom

Stay away. They will try hard to trap you and then use you to raise their previously spawned mistake

>>17449395
I doubt that. I know her fairly well.

are you a woman?

>>17448719
Nah, I'm a scrawny white boi tho.

>>17448697
are you going to VCU?

Also I feel like I talk too fast and feel like I sometimes slur my words together

How to fix?

Do I need like speech therapy or some shit?

>>17448682
you sound normal. calm down.

>>17448721
give me some shit to read to test out my voice

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I don't really consider myself a normie because I'm taking a low effort route out of life and continuing to be a shitty shut-in fatass weeb anon. I have two cars, a six-screen battlestation (to be upgraded to Skylake/Pascal) and an easy warehouse job, and I live cheaply as shit so I stack cash like fuck. I'm gonna use it to acquire income properties which will simply exponentiate themselves. At some point, I can stop working altogether and move out into the country, with my old jeep truck and a bunch of tools for my several hobbies into a nice ranch home and hopefully full of legal weed by then. I will live out my days in idle bliss, building firearms, 4x4s, robots and potato guns out in the glorious, beautiful Texas countryside.

Never went to college, never kissed, never held hands, never been on a date. 24. My only interaction with girls is at anime conventions. Many would still consider me a normie because I still have several close friends and live with three roommates.

Being a "normie" isn't just about getting laid, but also about having a good social circle, going out, having a steady career. Some do in fact get laid a lot, my buddy has basically a rotation of 6 or 7 chicks he fucks whenever and also has one night stands, while other buddies do just get a girlfriend and stay with them for a while. I think you're over-thinking it, basically if you have your shit semi together you're a normie

>>17448680
To me it's more of a mindset than it is "You must have x,y and z to be a normalfag".

Normies are people who have very typical and mainstream views, values, hobbies and goals in life. You don't even have to get laid at all to be a normie, you just have to see the world as the vast majority of people do.

She has also stated that she can beat the drug testing of heroin by saying that she was on pain medicine from a dentist appointment. Is there any truth to that or no? I highly doubt there is, but she is a CNA who has been around meds and other drugs for a long time.

>>17448666

Heroin degrades into morphine. she is not entirelt wrong there, She can't fucking hide fresh track marks however

>>17448685
How would I go about getting her tested asap then? or is that even something I can do? I am worried about my child, but I also do not feel like opening the paper and seeing ____________ died from Overdose.

I am no longer with her obviously, so I cant really know when she is and isnt doing drugs.

>>17448653

it can be. if it evokes no emotional resposne, purely physical, than thats a little weird. but its actually common for crying girls to eb considered attractive.

if you explore your sexuality many men find weird things. like hearing the phrase 'can you help me, im lost' gives a guy a small rush to his genitals.

>>17448669
It's definitely not just a physical response.
Would love to hear it from more anons

>>17448669
I always get a huge boner when I cry with my girlfriend, and I'm definitely not turned on at all. I don't get them when I cry with anyone else, just her

>>17448645
Nope. I once tried but stopped when I didn't see the point of getting horny to the point where I would accept a girl I would normally not be interested in if I weren't horny.

Being horny does make you get out there and try to meet women but it also makes you interested in any piece of ass that looks even halfway attractive.

>>17448645

i quit it for awhile, and it certainly made me more outgoing but also a bit slutty like this anon discussed:
>>17448658


whats most important is that you still fap twice a week and you SCHEDULE times to go out for if you dont meet potential bed buddies in normal life.

you should also have some sort of new hobby to devote your time to.

>>17448645
Nah its fine, just don't use it and fap to ridiculous levels. Get some self control.

Can you look at nude content without fapping? If not try to, that will help you get over a reliance more than abstinence.

I mean I get it, it's a therapist. But I just felt really misunderstood and it felt like she was talking down to me the whole time. Did I read this the right way?

Explain the blacking out. Is it medical or mental issues?

99/100 therapists are useless. You ever been to college? You ever talked to a psych major? That's who your therapist is.

>>17448572
Losing weight too fast is meaningless, as it comes back right up once you stop dieting.

The best way to lose weight is slowly and over time your body will have more chance to get used to the changes.

Don't be an impatient fatass, or an hero you walking lardbag.

Keep on truckin. Losing weight takes time but you're on the right path

>>17448578
>or an hero
i'm getting there anon.
i just need more encouragement :)

>>17448553
What are you looking for?
anime in general?
NEET themed anime?
downbeat anime?

>>17448558
NEET themed. Some comedy would be nice too. developed characters, slice of life (realistic)

I think you'd like The Tatami Galaxy.

>>17448512
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>another circumcised thread

>>17448593
Circumcised people can absolutely cum from sex tho

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I had long hair from age 15 to 25. I could tuck it under my belt at the end. It was healthy enough that it looked good, and I got shit for it, of course.

In the end, your hair shouldn't be part of your identity. Your identity should be based on internal issues- things that people discover as they get to know you. While I completely understand that it's nice to have an obvious thing to differentiate you from everyone around you, in the end it's just window-dressing, and as you mature and age, you'll see that it becomes a distraction- if you need or want to influence or get to know someone, or become known to them, having long hair is a pretty damn superficial criterion to be first on anyone's list as to their impression of you as a human being. Might as well be a dick tattooed on your forehead for all it that it will be a hindrance more than an asset towards your interactions with other people.

Ultimately, it's up to you. It can mean nothing or something, and, my own opinion here, having long hair should be a vanity issue for you, little more. That's what it's best for, anyhow. Just being how you prefer to wear your hair, nothing else. Where it becomes an important part of how you present yourself and define yourself, it becomes a net negative.
I cut my hair because I got a prestigious job, and wanted to present myself based on what I could do, not how I looked. My hair became more unimportant. A nice traditional cut was much better suited to the man I was becoming.

Do YOU like having long hair? This is the only question that matters. Any hairstyle/look will have its fans and critics, so fuck 'em

>>17448477
OP here.
Thanks for the reply. It means to me.
I actually don't like the fact that my hair is my main asset and the numero uno people notice in an instant when they see me. It's just like they never saw a man that actually doesn't have hair that is shorter than an inch, which one of my stupid classmates told me once.

I feel like cutting it shall be a victory for people that i don't really like and a regret for me, and only the first thing of these two is absolute. I, sometimes, think of it as a passageway to a life that is less stagnant, but i'm not so sure about that.

Sorry, i am desperately trying not to sound like an emo.