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>>17443160
Wow nice abuse cunt. You should apologise to her as well as stop drinking if you are an angry drunk.

It doesn't matter what you say to her. The only real way to apologize is to stop being such a shitty, abusive human being.

Being drunk isn't an excuse. Millions of people drink all the time, yet only a fraction of them become violent when drunk. It isn't the alcohol, it's you.

>slapped her with a closed fist

You mean you hit her? You fuck

Go sit down and tell her exactly what you posted here, be genuine.

What state?

>>17443108
Don't make it public till she's 16 and statutory charges go away otherwise your life is ruined for some 14y old sloot
Also 14 is a bit young she's still prolly really immature mentally so you've got a lot of bullshit ahead of you

>>17443116
California
>>17443121
Thanks

No feeders around?

>>17443094

I don't speak your language.

>>17443094
Well, normally the ones that keep other rodents out and strictly allows the bords to have some. I have a good reccomendation here: https://www.google.com/aclk?sa=l&ai=DChcSEwjbw4nR27POAhVDWYYKHawuDsEYABAL&sig=AOD64_0nGZSSjh4bJZB0xn6-9jThnFJHww&ctype=5&q=&ved=0ahUKEwibsIfR27POAhWPMx4KHZSUAOUQwg8Iag&adurl=
This specific feeder works pretty well and allows more to use it at the same time.

>>17443092
Just Vaguebook and post shitty dramatic tumblr memes to your social media about how someone hurt you but you're strong yet you won't forget. All that gay shit.

Alternatively, learn how to communicate like a goddamn adult and say what you mean.

>>17443092
>>17443100

or stop caring about feels.
They're not real, just chemicals

>>17443092
You've already had this thread. Fuck off.

in my country at least there are 10 day courses where you drive and study 8hrs a day

Implying you already signed up for the driving test, yeah. I learned to parallel park, back in all that shit driving around with my dad 4 time with for 30 minutes in my school parking lot. Gonna hit the rode soon think I'll be fine.

Yes. I managed to do it, and I never thought I'd ever get a license. I did it in a week and a half.

I'd go back to the doctor. Blue Fever (which I think is the same thing) is supposed to clear up by about 7-10 days. If you're approaching week 2 and still in pain/not improving, you'll want to see a doctor.

Not to scare you, but it is the most lethal tick-spread disease in the country... but that's because people often let it go untreated. Do yourself a favor and get re-examined.

>>17443332
I've had this for ten years actually before it got diagnosed. How, I don't know; I guess I got a less lethal strain or something, but it gradually got worse until I had a full tick-borne disease panel done. When they told me what I had I laughed because... well, lethality. It just seemed ridiculous.

>>17443332
They kept telling me it was depression for 10 years when I went in to get checked before I demanded the tick-borne panel, so there ya go. Doctors are fucked up in the US.

>>17443017

What the fuck?

Did you take your 'major' classes before your core like a fucking retard?

I have a 3.76 GPA and I haven't even started my 'major' classes which I'm already great at.

You went ass backwards, comrade.

And now you're going to pay for it.

You better have at least 3-4 letters of recommendation and/or a GOOD fucking excuse why your GPA is so low.

Or you could retake your entry exams and Ace them all.

Or be rich.

>>17443034
By core I meant major prep classes, i.e. physics, calculus

>>17443037

Like I said before with a 2.9 you better suck some cock or know someone in the system.

Or retake some of those classes for at least a 3.2 GPA.

>>17442952

Tell her you're not looking for anything at the moment but you enjoy talking to her, and after you smash you can fall back on the fact you werent looking for anything serious, and sex isnt that serious to you. But dont just cut all contact after, at least give her a reply here and there so you dont come across as a complete asshole.

>>17442952
Nah you're good. Truth is, it's buyer beware. If she gives it up to you that easily, she's asking to be dumped. A quality woman isn't going to put out for you immediately. If you're able to talk her into bed, she's a slut anyway. Smash and leave.

>>17442952

plenty of girls are fine with no-LTR sex. Be totally upfront about your intentions and your situation. make sure she knows you're about to deploy, you don't want an LTR, but you do want some female companionship.

Girls get lonely too.

That said, some girls who say they are fine with just hooking up turn out not to be; they become very needy and will try to keep you.

fwiw, God doesn't approve of this kind of behavior. And it can be bad for you. Someday when you're nailing your wife, you'll think about the easy chick you had just before you shipped out, and you'll kind of miss that time/experience, and then you'll remember that you love your wife, and then you'll feel like shit.


t. married man who had a couple of sex-only "relationships".

are you tall?

>>17442970
yes 6'8" 201cm

>>17442976
then you shouldn't have a problem

>>17442891
It's acceptable for you to e-mail the other jobs asking for an update. Let them know that you have to make a decision soon, and you would appreciate a quick response as you'd prefer working for them.

I stalled my current job offer a few weeks but I took it because I decided it would be a great opportunity, even if it is a shit load of hard work. I didn't get a positive answer from other pending interviews.

>>17442891
>>17443299

Yeah man don't feel bad about following up with a nagging email or two. If anything it strengthens your position to let them know you have options and need to decide soon.

The first job sounds like ass. Idk if it's audio that you're doing or what, but I love music and I have worked in both audio engineering and music professionally and having a bad work/life balance almost made me quit everything and poke my eardrums out. Food for thought.

>>17443299
>>17443310
thanks, that's a good idea... i just wonder if it's too pushy since it's been less than a week. they literally came up the day i went in for my "in-studio interview" for the first job on friday. one studio job responded on that friday evening. the other responded on monday and job 1 decided they wanted me on monday. it's tuesday now.

i asked job 1 about if i can start working in september (i'll be moving and the commute is more feasible at least from there) but it's also to stall them a little.

i draw, but i get your point... even during the in-studio interview i felt like killing myself or just straight up walking out. my arm and shoulder was killing me, and my only sustenance was to consume candy, soda and a couple slices of pizza in 10 minutes while they yammered on about what else they needed me to do and expected of me. it was meant to simulate a normal work day and i can't say the fact they said it gets harder made me want to stay. it was truly hellish, i can only hope they were just trying to haze me or something.

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>>17442837
> be woman
> fugg up
> go to government
> get free money and good feels

None of this is your fault because you're a super special princess and big daddy government will take care of you.
Why are you even tripping?

>>17443794
Hi, it looks like youve wandered out of /r9k/. That's OK, everyone gets confused and lost every now and then. Just change the bit that says /adv/ in your browser to /r9k/ and you'll be back where you belong. Mummies going to bring you some tendies very shortly as well, you've been such a good boy lately!

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>>17443799
Says the dramaqueen writing on a mongolian bread baking forum that they'll commit suicide.
Haha If I belong in r9k, you sure as hell do as well.

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Shameless self bump. I had to ask because I had honestly never heard of this job until researching the career certificates offered at my local cc.

Really guys?

>>17442796
Did some IT contract work for a large medical group. Remember the coding department was literally all old ladies and women. Typical office environment, can't really say much more than that.

Stop focusing on how pointless it all is and maybe start chasing sex and money? If it's all meaningless anyway, why not just become a hedonist and use the time you have for simple pleasures? If nothing else it'll stop you from ruminating on existence in your room all day long

>what is there to live for?

You get ~100 years (at best) to explore and experience as much as you can in the physical universe. Then you die and we don't know what happens to you, in terms of your consciousness, after that. It very well might be nothing, you're just gone.

The purpose of life is to explore the sandbox to your heart's content before your time is up.

Might as well go full sperg and read Beyond Good and Evil by Nietzsche. You won't understand shit, but then again, at least you'll find that searching for meaning is just a coping mechanism for failing at life.

Don't bother. She probably just forgot about you. The only reason she's even messaging you is probably because she's bored.

>>17442746
Yeah that may be the case. I might just tell her I didn't really want to in the first place so I'm not a complete ass.

don't listen to >>17442746 he's just rationalizing social anxiety

just talk to her about literature or whatever and don't expect it to lead anywhere (you're in college ffs)

just use it as an opportunity to get closure and don't be afraid to be upfront if you wanna know why she rejected you and then came back and what she wants now

like you said you'll never see her again so stop being a pussy

>>17442631
1. Go to doctor
2. "Hi doctor, I would like to have STD tests done".
3. Do test
4. Get results
5. Find out you have aids and an hero

>>17442631
everything done through your doctor is private unless you've signed the document that allows them to release the information to someone you specifically named. and even then that person would have to request information on it.

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You can buy a 10 panel online, or use insurance to cover it.
Best to wait 3-4 months before getting one after the last time youve had sexual contact so you don't go "but what if I got the test too soon and results didn't show?" If any when you start feeling or imagining symptoms.

Stress will almost always produce symptoms if you are worried about that by the way.

Literally developed a chest rash from thinking I got HIV.

Only be terribly concerned if you have HIV or hepititus a b or c. Those are the ones thatll kill you before you start feeling uber bad.