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Does anyone else's friends only hangout if you text them first? Why do they do?
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Some of mine do. It's because they're introverts and homebodies or too lazy to organise something.
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>>17445520
the problem is that them not texting you first is the thing that bothers you
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>>17445520

as a general rule i was only able to get a 1 on 1 with my friends if i initiated, and even then it was by no means a guarantee. towards the end it was virtually impossible.

they would reach out weekly to invite me to board game night, but at this point in our relationship i was nothing more than another opponent to fill up the roster. if i wasn't consistently in the top 3 players i doubt id get invited back.

when i came down with brain damage he didnt bother texting me for over a month. when he did, it wasnt even to ask how i was coping with it all. just 'wanna play board games?'

he reached out again a few months later on my birthday, asking how i was dealing that time and inviting me to board games again.

feels bad man, im not going back to game nights, but i miss him a lot more than id like to admit. i cant even understand why but i always thought of him as a really close friend. I think its cuz one of the first htings he did for me was a total bro move, a real solid. and it just felt like instant bro-hood.

im glad its over. but i still miss him.

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Here's the deal. I hate almost every aspect of my life. My best friend of going on 12 years, I can almost no longer stand. I have a lease on our current house with him and my brother. I hate my job, I hate where I live, and I'm thinking I need to move away because my parents are painfully dysfunctional. I'm 29 and I'm feeling the weight of time more by the day. Should I leave?
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yes, for sure
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>>17445477

Thanks, anon.
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I want to talk to you if you are on Telegram @mollymawk.

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I've been with my gf for just over two years and I love her a lot. However when it comes to getting under the covers, we've never had sex. I consider myself quite horny and I enjoy everything that comes before sex. My girlfriend has been very worried and hesitant about having sex (which I'm cool with) but whenever we've tried she's always said it hurts to much and we have to stop. She won't let herself finish either and she'll just tell me to stop when she wants. I get that and I'm happy to stop if she wants to. The problem is it's being going on for so long now that I'm starting to feel sexually deprived([?]Not sure if that's the right word to describe it). It's gotten so bad that I'm dreaming about sleeping with other women and when I wake up I wish to be back in the dream because at least then I'm getting some action. It just frustrating to hear about all my friends getting it on just fine and consistently reminding me that I've got little to no sex life. I don't know, maybe I thinking too hard with my dick. Thoughts?
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Please be a troll...
>this poorly written
>the little details
you're not a troll, are you?

Oh man, I don't even know what to say anon. I'm sorry for you
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How old are you?
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>>17445236
Break up and get a cum dumpster

I know this makes me a shit person but, recently my ex of two years who broke up with me came back into my life 6 months later. We talked for a week straight and then I told him that I'm dating my bestfriend. My ex wanted me back. Even though he left me without reason, and then told me why when he came back. I want to be mad at him but I'm not.
It sucks because I think about my ex alot. I already decided I'm not gonna leave my boyfriend for him but I miss talking to my ex. Infact I'm to scared to tell my ex hi or even ask what's up. Is it wrong? My ex is also aware I still care and have feelings.
I sadly just can't get my ex off my mind. We were really compatible.
Advice is it wrong to keep contact? I do not want to lead him on or hurt him. He lives a couple hours away. It would probably be best to be a respectful girlfriend.
I just can't help my feelings.
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It's one or the other. You try to manage both, and you're going to make a mistake eventually.

It's up to you to decide whether you actually want to be with your current boyfriend, or if you'd rather be with your ex again.
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>>17445176
Stop talking to him. You have a boyfriend. Either choose your ex and get back with him, or cut contact with your ex. Don't be a whore.
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True. Just wish I didn't care so much. Hopefully that'll blow over

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Can you guys give me some tips on how to fuck better? The girl im with atm told me she likes to be fingered and I have gotten pretty good at it I think, but she tells me she hardly cums through sex, and I take that as a challenge. Any advice or porn with good form would be GREATLY appreciated.
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build your core
abs, back, tris, shoulders, hips, thighs, obliques
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You wanna make your girl cum while you're inside her right? It's a balance between stimulation inside her walls and how you rub against her pussy at a certain angle. "G" spot lol you'll know when you're hitting it right, trust. Good luck anon
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>>17445158
My body is fine, good advice but more along the lines of how to angle yourself ect

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How do I stop lying and finding excuses and just be consequent and disciplined?
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>>17445126
>bump
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>>17445126
>>17445312
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>>17445337
Thanks

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How do I hide the smell of red wine?

I'm downing a bottle of gato negro and I'm sure the room fucking reeks.
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Hide it with the smell of weed
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napalm
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>>17445084
Have you tried farting?

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I live in the UK and was hoping to travel to Michigan in November.
Anyone here well traveled enough to give me tips on getting cheaper flights?
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flights.google.com
set in your destination and days you want to go. Click the start date. Click "flexible dates". Pick the cheapest
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Check out studentuniverse.com if you are a student/under 25. I got return flights from London to Detriot for £360.
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>travel to Michigan right when it's getting close to absolute zero
You bongs are pretty dumb desu.

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Three years ago I rawdogged a girl after one of my exes dumped me. A week after that, I noticed I got these weird white bumps all over my dick. I went to get tested. Everything came back negative.

I continued to fuck people very often. Over the curse of three years, I also noticed that there's a rough patch of skin that began to develop underneath the head of my penis (it's uncut). Visibly it's not noticeable but I can definitely feel it.

The dry rash area is also where my left thumb rubs against my dick when I jack off, which I've been doing dry for as long as I can get remember. I am guilty of death gripping the shit out of my dick and going on day long fap sessions if I'm bored.

Now there's like one really scabby part that keeps on scanning over everytime I pick it off.

I've been tested multiple times and have tested clean multiple times.
I have no other side effects.
Do I have HPV, or is this just some weird dry skin chafing due to dry death grip masturbring?
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>>17444838

Typo
>underneath the head of my penis (it's cut. I am actually circumcised)
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>>17444838

No. It's a common phenomena that people post about all the time. Coincidence that it popped up after boning.
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Bro, same shit happened to me. Like, exact. The way you described it and everything match.

And I as well tested negative across the board.

It's finally started to clear up after a year~, but I still do get a bit dry when dry masturbating. My GF hasn't had any symptoms at all, and mine seem to be fading completely finally.

It started out as dry flaky skin, then started to scab over, then the scab kept coming back for awhile, then it just went to flaky patches and red irritation a little bit at different spots along the shaft/head.

Now I just get the dryness where the main friction points of my masturbation happen which usually clears up after a shower, if not on it's own over night.

I'm finally comfortable getting random blowjobs without notice again, it feels good bro. But, I keep thinking it might be herp and I got tested wrong.. But, 2/3 docs said it was nothing, and the one that said it was something tested and came back negative.. So.. I'm just going to go with I don't have herpes, and it was just a bad skin irritation for however long.

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How to interpret this situation?

>a person tells you something that you find to be dubious
>you then start using the nose rub (pic related) gesture while listening
>the person becomes very angry and tells you to put your hands away from your mouth
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>the person becomes very angry and tells you to put your hands away from your mouth

At this point you become aware that you are talking to somebody manipulative, you sohuld be allowed to have whaever opinion you choose.
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>>17444834
Thanks for the advice.

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Well you already said it was dubious, so chances are that:

>person is manipulative and lacking empathy so s/he get's mad when sensing you are not beliving in her/is bullshit

or:

>She is sick of people not beliving her/him and is being very vulnerable

You need to decide what it is from context, other people oppinion and examing the facts. It's quite common that abused people are not given trust in making their claims and it leads to dramatic stuff but from my experience you meet much more bullshiters than misunderstood victims out there.

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>going to be starting university at 25 this september
>worried im not going to fit in because the majority of university freshers are 18
>will graduate at 29
>hoping to get a girlfriend to fix crushing loneliness
>not sure if girls will want to date somebody going to university this late
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>>17444562

When I was in uni I dated a guy who was 28 doing his second masters. So it's not unheard of and there are plenty of older folks. Just mingle with a suitable group or pick up hobbies where you meet similarly minded people and your age won't be an issue at all.
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>>17444562
>>worried im not going to fit in because the majority of university freshers are 18

Literally, and I mean, literally no one cares how old you are at uni.
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Nobody will be able to tell OP, even as a junior in college (21 years old) the kids 1 grade above me, seniors, being 22 years old, looked way older. To any freshman anyone who is older than 20 will seem like a super sexy beast. It's an advantage. Just don't go around opening with HURR IM 25. Don't even mention it. If a girl asks just say like 22 cause i took a year off or some shit. Girls like older guys anyway. Freshman love to get with older dudes anyway so it should help you. Just try to make friends.

Warning: it will be a little harder to be legit friends with BOYS around 18 years old because they are immature as fuck, and girls at 18 are definitley worse, vapid, don't know a fucking thing, stupid as shit. So when you're at a party or something just be prepared for like

1. fuckboys in boat shoes and salmon shorts trying to act cool
2. girls pretending to be drunk and being dum as fuck
3. you will be drinking so you will be tempted to talk shit but RESIST. just be cool mayne


nobody cares about ur age, loads of mid 20's fags in uni. shits fun man wtf else u gonna do in ur 20's these days? cant exactly buy a house and shit like they used to

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hello /adv/
I wanted to ask you guys for some advice regarding self study.

for the past 3 weeks, I've been studying for an IT cert. I've was planning on reading an entire 800pg book 1 chapter a day and writing notes down as I'm reading it.
The problem is that I still can't remember most of what I wrote down anyways, and its starting to feel useless.

How should I go with self studying? I was thinking of rereading a chapter twice a day and watching videos online to reinforce everything.
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Your writing seems to be indicative of your reading comprehension, since your enunciative skills are subpar.
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1 chapter a day is a lot, dogg
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>>17444463
Some youtube channels have good information about studying
check out collegeinfogeek or something

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/adv/ I asked a girl out, she said no, I'm cool with that but she's now awkward to the point of having her friends, like, run interference on me. I didn't realize it was that big a deal that she'd be so uncomfortable, it makes me feel awful, much worse than the no, which was whatever.

My question is, should I go out of my way to avoid her, which would be inconvenient but possible, or just go about my business as normal and wait for it to blow over? I just want to pretend the whole thing never happened and she's making it impossible.
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>>17444401
>just go about my business as normal and wait for it to blow over?

Correct.

This is a her problem, not a you problem.
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>>17444401
go about your business
its not your fault shes acting childish
when everyone else sees your indifference, they too will realize that shes acting childish
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It's her problem, not yours. Pull back a bit, if she chases you all good, you go what you wanted, but if she tries to put you back into a box (people don't like people who change), then drop her and move on.

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Hey /adv/
I went on a break with my girlfriend for a while a couple of months ago
when on a break I had sex with another girl twice
and before the break I had made out with a girl while blackout drunk, that I honestly didn't remember had happened until I went on the break and my friend told me.

Anyway, my sister said it was best not to tell my girlfriend about these things, as she has experience in this situation and says she would have preferred not to know

But my girlfriend asked me to my face recently did I have sex while on the break.
I lied and said no
so now I feel pretty guilty about it and am not sure whether I should tell her or not.

pic unrelated
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>>17444367
lie. Women never forgive nor forget and she'll grudge fuck some guy even if she fucked guys during your break. She did by the way
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>>17444380
Part of me is relieved to hear that from someone else
I honestly wouldn't care if she had sex on the break, and I know she hasn't, because I found her personal tumblr that she thinks no one knows, and tells literally everything to
(I wasn't snooping on her or anything, just saw it on her laptop one day when she forgot to close it).
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>>17444399
..........

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Is it actually possible to hack fb account?
I would even pay for this.
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There actually are several ways (beyond phising), but it's really not worth the effort and the price...
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you know for the first time just now I've wanted to this, holy shit I would love to poke around her fb
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>>17445182
This. phishing and social engineering is easier and probably more cost/time effective.

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