Little background:
>work with this dark skinned qt3.14
>be very well-respected and well liked at work, she's only been there a couple months
>95% sure she liked me right off the bat
>talk to her a little, flirt eventually, she's into it but I'm very shy and so is she
>the time came to ask her out a couple weeks ago, can't bring myself to do it, even though I feel extremely confident about it
>never actually asked a girl out in person, been rejected every other time
>98% sure I've lived with undiagnosed Avoidant Personality Disorder all my life
How can I go about denying every urge in my body and just ask her the fuck out? I'm sure I'll always regret it if she ends up with someone else.
>>17440010
First off that shit is mental, it's only true if you believe it and limit yourself.
Second off you're literally fetishistic about her skin color, chances are you're a scrawny white guy which isn't wrong but keep in mind.
a) women are very judgemental, if she's got bitches as friends (not real women, bitches) they gonna pick on her for having a scrawny white guy as a bf, which in short will end up in her feeling bad for being with you, which ends up in cheating or a break up.
Third, go for it and stop being a bitch ass pussy limp dick 3 inch hero shy lanky skeleton nigga, even if you fail you will learn from your mistakes after sometime.
Best of luck my nigga
Just dont treat it like its a big deal. Relax dude, you know she likes you so whats stoping you? Dont waste your time dude. If you dont ask her out someone else is gonna do it and you will end up feeling like shit.
>>17440010
Literally just ask. Don't beat around the bush - something along the lines of "I think we could be more than friends" works fine.
what do i do about a mom that doesn't like me
my girlfriends mom is overbearing, over controlling and is interferring with out relationship. what do i do. I do SO MUCH for her daughter but i do ONE thing that she does not like with her and she raises hell and overreacts..
>>17439895
fuck her mom into submission
>>17439895
The mother is scared you're going to turn her little girl into something nasty. Prove to her that you won't. Best way to do this? Love your gf to the moon and back. Unconditionally. And most of all? Be happy and be responsible.
>>17440089
>love your girlfriend
>be happy and responsible
whatta fag
Ok so there is this girl that used to hang out with me and my friends. Then after her bf broke up with her she started treating me difrently, like she started flirting a lot with me saying things like: "Anon you are so cute!" and " Its so cold here, Anon can you warm me up?",etc. So one of my friends told me to make a move on her at a party bc she was going to be at that party. All this was happening 2 weeks before this party. Fastfoward one week and she starts treating me difrently and saying some weird stuff to her friends like:" Me and anon are frinds but I cant imagine us making out" Even though she didnt said that to me directly she said it loud enoigh for me to hear it. Later I see her flirting and hugging another guy. Whatever fuck that bitch. I was so pissed I didnt even go to that party. I stoped talking to her. A week after all of that happend she started talking to me again. I ignored her. Fastfoward 2 months and I decided to start talking to her again. A werk after that she starts flirting with me again. What should I do? She is hot, but I feel like if I give her attention she will friendzone me again.
>>17439884
you should tell her
"If you're not sucking my dick, I'm going home to play FIFA"
make a move, if she isn't receptive then cut it off. You need to do that so you know she isnt just using you for attention
>>17439884
hahahah dagnit man
What should I go to school for to make around or atleast 35-40k a year after taxes that is an easy job that doesnt really require you to be really smart or creative and that has reasonable job security? Is this a thing? Cuz im struggling right now, preferably with only an associates
>>17439812
Government. Check your state website (or whatever).
>>17440911
Alright, ill take a look
What happens if i fall in love with the prostitute?
>>17439648
Realistically, you wind up sad and disappointed. Or she falls in love with you too and you live happily ever after.
>Except only the first one is even remotely possible.
>>17439648
You become this mexican guy
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bNnRSU-HM20
>>17439648
you lose
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>>17439617
https://www.speakpipe.com/voice-recorder/msg/gka1zlvis6ayuwxv
>>17439617
What kind of help, exactly?
what the fuck desu senpai
How do I get my parents financially independent? For the past 8 years I've started financially supporting my family because dad got laid off. My dad never got a new job and started staying at home all the time, occasionally making the meals and doing menial chores. Now my mom has quit her job making me sole breadmaker.
I turn 27 this year and they're in their late 50s, isn't it a bit too early for them to consider retiring without any money in the bank? I don't want to abandon my parents but right now they have no goal to move out of this financial mess. Do I just keep supporting them like this forever?
>>17439580
>How do I get my parents financially independent?
You don't.
>I turn 27 this year and they're in their late 50s, isn't it a bit too early for them to consider retiring without any money in the bank?
Yes. This goes without saying.
>Do I just keep supporting them like this forever?
Should you? No. Will you? Kind of sounds like it.
I'm 30, and my family members are terrible with money. However, I learned that after a certain point you have to take care of yourself. Your family sure as hell isn't looking out for your best interests.
They had you for a reason it seems
Find a way to tell them you are going to cut some money from them since you want to do some shit by yourself (a project or whatever you have in mind).
It's like You will support them but not in a 100% way like before. Maybe half, and they have to figure out how to earn the other 50% of their budget.
What are some of the best things to remember when you're having a hard time finding a relationship or letting the girl know how much you desire her?
>>17439464
Someone else probably came inside her and on her face
Cheers love
>>17439464
If youre looking for a keeper. Be nice and genuine. Not an ahole.
>>17439464
>What are some of the best things to remember
Pining hurts way worse than rejection does.
So my family was paying for my school but some financial problems came up and I'm on my own for the last semester (math major, 2.5 gpa, no extra skills aside from tutoring experience).
I have one semester of college left and I want to pay it out of pocket.
I'm pretty smart and hard working, and worst case scenario I'll wait tables for the next 6 months to do it. But I'd really rather do something more technical and less shitty.
What jobs can I do / look for?
halp
You're a student with admittedly no skills. Shitty, non technical jobs are your bread and butter
If you have no skills or experience, you'll be lucky to be able to get a job waiting tables.
Hi /fit/, JuiceFag checking in. I'm on day 14 of no solid food and I'm down 15 pounds. Slower progress than expected, but I've been drinking a lot of beer I admit. Ask me anything.
>>17439255
Why don't you juice yourself you fucking faggot
You're not supposed to lose weight at that rate, dipshit, you're not consuming any of the fat from your body.
Sorry /adv/, I meant to post this on /fit/.
I am having to take a grey hound from Wilmington (southeastern) NC to Nacogdoches, Texas. The final destination is San Augustine, and this is looking like hell.I have no choice but to bring important documents and my wallet. Problem is I willl be stopping in Atlanta at midnight (among other stops). Advice? An hero?
It's just a bus ride.
Get a few books and sleep the other half of the way there.
Americans always act like busrides are lethal
Greyhound? And in Atlanta at midnight?
Just keep your shit close.
But get stuff for entertainment. Torrent movies to your laptop or whatever the fuck, you need to keep your mind occupied. Get those mini power bricks.
Greyhound employee here. Stop being a pussy :^)
One of my friends birthday is coming up and I don't know shit about skating.
I want to know that the best board, bearings, nuts, bolts, bearings, trucks and everything so I can make her a perfect board
Anyone know how to make it?
ignore the fact that I said bearings twice
>>17438856
Go ahead and buy a nice blank deck, grab some paint and draw her the bottom part.
>>17438856
>>17438858
>>>/asp/ might know. If she is a noob, I really wouldn't bother going custom.
Heres the situation.
>Match with girl on tinder
>Talk for like 2 weeks
>Decide to meet up
>Grab a cup of coffee and just talk
>Was a good date
>She says she would like to meet again
>She always writes enthusiastically
>She starts having to work alot and is stressed out
>She barely responds anymore
>I get bored and stop messaging her
>Haven't messaged her for 2 months soon
Is it okay to write a message to her now asking how she is etc? I don't want to appear as a desperate sperg. How should I phrase it, just a casual message like: Hey, how you doing nowadays? :) I have no idea if she liked me or not, or was just trying to be nice when she said she would like to meet again. Anyone have similar experiences?
>2 months
>desperate
Holy shit, just do it. Ask playfully if she remembers you, say how you had a good time with her and wonder how she's doing these days, would she like to meet up for coffee again.
ask her if she wants to hang out tell her you won the lottery and you want to take her for a ride in your lambo that way it doesnt sound desperate just sounds funny
>>17438829
>She starts having to work alot and is stressed out
>She barely responds anymore
Your answer lies here.
She went out for coffee with you, found out you weren't what she was looking for.
She let you down easy. "Let's meet up again" is the polite thing to say. Just keep trying with other people man. Coffee is an okay first date, but so is going to the park, doing happy hour...Recommend a hangout with friends for date 2.
About to be a senior in college, how can I maximize this year and get laid as much as possible? I can be pretty introverted when it comes to finding new people that I really click with.
>>17438789
I'm freshman, I wanna know too ;)
>>17438789
sex is disgusting and women are evil
>>17438789
Look for freshmen and generally people younger than you.
Since your a senior, you'll look like you know better and more wise, so they'll assume you get all the bitches and they want to get in on that.
after about a month of self experimentation I have discovered that the longer I go without fapping, the more depressive episodes I get. why is this? why do I need to masturbate to keep my mood in check?
Serotonin. Your brain releases it when you masturbate.
and dopamine the feel good hormone
>>17438708
Masturbation helps you to relax, it's also healthy for your prostate. It helps get rid of sexual tension and I don't have to talk to girls